my case is different.... I like the way I keep quiet always.... don't like making boring noise anyway.......

Of all d introverts we have here, none is worse dan me

I'm very altruistic it Scares me, like that's the only way I express my warmth.
I find it very difficult to express myselF so bad everyone complains...sometimes I get a really exciting news about something very important and everyone expects to scream or do something that shows my level o' excitement but all that comes forth is a smile.
I'm shy and a perfectionist at the same time hence I usually appear authoritative when I say important things in order to prevent flaws during my speech.
I'm always with my phone, it's about the only place I find solace especially when people around me chatter away.
I could stay indoors for months without being seen, like it'll appear like I'm not in town except Sundays and it feels normal to me.
Worst is the fact that I don't really keep in touch with my friendS, sometimes I even ignore calls jez because I'm not in the mood to start giggling or jez talking aimlessly...it makes me appear proud...like really proud. They are too many to mention and when I get confronted about my personality its makes me feel depreSsed.




But in all I love me,have very good pals in my inner CirCle where I'm the most "extroverted" human existent and they be like "damn who are you?"...that's life

I hate the fact that am so quiet and shy and this has made me lose so many opportunities,honestly I envy extroverts and pray that in my next life God makes me one,recently I failed a job interview not because I didn't have the skills or wasn't qualified,instead my introvert characteristics overwhelmed me such that I was so nervous and lacked what to say,its really hard being an introvert in this world.........

PunkyVeer:
Turning down party invitations where I could be having so much fun, just to go sit in front the tv bored out of my mind (when the programming sucks on the day)

Tot it was just me....but how come I have'nt seen u since we in dsame boat

1. The fact that I like being alone.

2. The fact that I don't have so many friends, just the friends in school.

3. The fact that I'm more confident when I'm alone bt when I see crowd, the confidence will diminish.


4. The fact that I'm not loquacious. Communication skill is the ish, I must tell u. We are in the world of keep the conversation going.

Introversion is not bad.introverts are genius prone I.e creative the only thing we need to do is to work on our confidence n don't care much about what people think n say about us.

youmuboy007:
Introversion is not bad.introverts are genius prone I.e creative the only thing we need to do is to work on our confidence n don't care much about what people think n say about us.

true talk.... Everything said is just about me... Sumtyms i hate it

Lalasticlala, ishilove, farano, fynestboi.

Snowangel4:
I am an introvert,but people say I am too proud and arrogant . It is so depressing

This is also why I want to move out of my present lodge. I keep to myself but people say I am too proud and arrogant.

What I hate about introvert is that she aims for FTC for no just reason...dts btw.

What I hate about being an introvert is that people with low IQ tends to bore me.................

Also I really don't fancy relationships because it seems boring to me..

Lastly I enjoy being alone as it saves me from profitless convo but people se me as being proud.....
Being an introvert saves energy

Girls tagging me gay cos I don't toast or chase after them, even with their numerous ' green lighting'.

Hate d fact that l love being alone, shy n very reserved,prefer the comfort of the home to woteva is happening out there in d world[cud stay indoors for weeks, months,without being seen n feel no qualms abt it ) dnt lyk to mingle,always turning dwn invitations like parties,dates..people misunderstanding u to be so full of urself cos u wanna just be. cares less about having fun, hv my fone n novels as my besties...cud get out of my comfort zone sumtyms but d oda tyms l just love being me
And this thing with mood swings is sumtin
Sounds more like a boring life but sometimes ur just You

Being an introvert is very complicated, you will always want to be like the extroverts, they always drag you to events that u will end up not going and even if u did went, u will just be occupying space and that's y I haven't had a girl friend at 26 , I haven't being at a wedding ceremony, I just don't feel comfortable at gatherings I feel so weird, my mum is planning to get a wife for me,some people think am gay sef,gals don show me green light taya,all I do is keep a straight face

As an extrovert, I so much like an introvert.

Their quietness, gentility and non-social attitude is what i like most.




But the fact is that introverts are always free with their lovers, they tend to become an extrovert when they are indoor.



As for me, she is either an introvert or no marriage.








The only thing I hate is trying to force conversation when they will always have a say.

passionate88:
Girls tagging me gay cos I don't toast or chase after them, even with their numerous ' green lighting'.

same here bro

1.Always indoor to the extend dat people are now tagging Me "Obinrin"
2.Scared 2 talk in public
3.Scare to woo a girl except if it's on a social media, though I benefit from dis once coz a girl woo Me...
4.People always say m too secretive and I always frown ma face
e.t.c

Mine is my voice, I hardly say a word in public to avoid insult. My voice no fit intimidate person so sad

Nothing really.

except that I hate the fact that I cant just jump into a crowd of strangers and join in the fun. If we're not friends forget it Im just a cold emotionless droid polite unsociable dude. many people think I'm arrogant or think that i think that others are beneath me, I'm arrogant but not as arrogant as they think.
And because my thought patterns are not like other people's they always assume they know what I want to say or whats on my mind. They are always wrong.

I love introverts, their complex nature and working minds gives me something to keep wondering on... I love guessing things when my ex is usually quiet... He would put an interesting movie and sit me down to watch.. We stay for long without talking but its awesome and even when I talk(i talk a lot) he tries his best to listen and even contribute... Most times he says "hmn"...the topic no interest am...

Sadly i exhibit both traits... Its hard for me to keep lasting frnds cos they claim am not easy to
understand.. I have fun when the extrovert side is out and the introvert side is out all my friends disappear...

See derailing pls dont crucify me...

I hate nothing about being an introvert..... I love my personality and wouldn't trade it for the world....

If you hate something, it means you want it to change....

I love being an introvert.... it's Fun in its own way

*inserts earpiece, pulls up hoodie and strolls out*

When i first toast a girl as an introvert, i'm still very young back then, my heart feels like its gonna explode looking at the babe in front of me. Then i started stammering, i feel like disappearing at dat moment, lolz. Whenever i remember that day i always feel like beating myself, even till now lolz. Being an introvert is kinda fraustrating at times.

I also hate being an introvert.. I don't know how to make friends, but i rather enjoy people making friends with me especially girls..
I'm not usually shy on socia media, but introvert in my social life..
Had few friends mostly females..
My mum do call me Eleha, cos i don't go out except i wanted to buy something.
Always afraid to give speech, testimonies and preach.. I didn't even go to my valenditory service, because of the head boy speech am to give..
Am tagged the most gentle prefect in school then..
Sometimes i don't even know how to start conversation with a girl
Damn i hate being an introvert

Zero social life and few friends.

Aside these, I love being an introvert.

faith551:
Boredom, lack of friends, makes me afraid of commitment, because I'll always want my space.

Same here, bless Jah I corrected it less than a month ago.

[quote author=Pelmet post=37744829] I'm very altruistic it Scares me, like that's the only way I express my warmth.
I find it very difficult to express myselF so bad everyone complains...sometimes I get a really exciting news about something very important and everyone expects to scream or do something that shows my level o' excitement but all that comes forth is a smile.
I'm shy and a perfectionist at the same time hence I usually appear authoritative when I say important things in order to prevent flaws during my speech.
I'm always with my phone, it's about the only place I find solace especially when people around me chatter away.
I could stay indoors for months without being seen, like it'll appear like I'm not in town except Sundays and it feels normal to me.
Worst is the fact that I don't really keep in touch with my friendS, sometimes I even ignore calls jez because I'm not in the mood to start giggling or jez talking aimlessly...it makes me appear proud...like really proud. They are too m

rinora:
I hate the fact that am so quiet and shy and this has made me lose so many opportunities,honestly I envy extroverts and pray that in my next life God makes me one,recently I failed a job interview not because I didn't have the skills or wasn't qualified,instead my introvert characteristics overwhelmed me such that I was so nervous and lacked what to say,its really hard being an introvert in this world.........

hayurmidey:
I also hate being an introvert.. I don't know how to make friends, but i rather enjoy people making friends with me especially girls..
I'm not usually shy on socia media, but introvert in my social life..
Had few friends mostly females..
My mum do call me Eleha, cos i don't go out except i wanted to buy something.
Always afraid to give speech, testimonies and preach.. I didn't even go to my valenditory service, because of the head boy speech am to give..
Am tagged the most gentle prefect in school then..
Sometimes i don't even know how to start conversation with a girl
Damn i hate being an introvert

Peachess:
Keeping to myself and my wack social life

justmi1:
Being an introvert is very complicated, you will always want to be like the extroverts, they always drag you to events that u will end up not going and even if u did went, u will just be occupying space and that's y I haven't had a girl friend at 26 , I haven't being at a wedding ceremony, I just don't feel comfortable at gatherings I feel so weird, my mum is planning to get a wife for me,some people think am gay sef,gals don show me green light taya,all I do is keep a straight face

All you introverts suckling here like babies need one thing: psychiatric help. Buzz a doc or visit a clinic.

If you having troubles being an introvert, expressing yourself, then you are no different from the extrovert who continually ends up in problems with his/her loquaciousness. Come on, guys!

Introversion is only one side to you. You can be introverted and still have a girlfriend you spend or don't spend hours on end on the phone with. You can be an introvert and still go to or not go to parties. It's as you like it.
You can be an introvert and still stay indoor all day long musing to yourself and engaging your thoughts. And this without feeling left out. And oh yes, you can be an introvert and keep quiet all day not talking to anyone. Ready, though, when needed, to express your opinions and make your stand clear.

Separate being an introvert from being timid and lacking will. Separate them. You guys need to work on yourselves.

I have no regrets

extroverts have more problem than we do.they always wana please people,afraid of being alone,bored easily,extravagant lifestyle,restless daily life n many more

i dont give a fùck about what they say about me,people around me defend me to the core whenever they are bad mouthing

no mata how introverted we are, we have 1 or 2 close friends who understand our plights n preach goodnews about us

Am still a teenager ... I hate d fact DAT I don't have any where to go to ...( no friends) whenever my parents gets me angry...

Am still a teenager ... I hate d fact DAT I don't have any where to go to ...( no friends) whenever my parents gets me angry...

Sumtyms I hate d fact DAT am an introvert.

I'm an introvert and I love myself.



Although, there are a few things I would love to do that extroverts find easy. But weighing both sides, I prefer to remain an introvert.

Over the years, I've learned that I think and speak more intelligently than most of my peers. The extroverts don't process their words before they speak them...

As an introvert, I've learnt a lot about myself; I've learned that I don't enjoy the petty talks most guys my age get involved with -those gists about girls, endless arguments about which football club is better, or talks about other people (celebrities ). I'd rather talk about my dreams, aspirations and engage in talks that will lead to something (e.g. sharing a business idea with a young folk like me) unfortunately, I don't have people "like me" around me.

People can say Im not friendly, or too "firm" or whatever. I prefer it. At least, I won't be involved the in drama that people with too many people in their lives have


There are only two changes I'd love: stage fright and the ability to talk smoothly with the female folk.