Only God I trust.

DrGroove:


WHAT IS THIS ONE EVEN RANTING?

Not that serious, just a response.

hell no.you don't even know the meaning of love. Love is choice

Lol...this guy sha

MadCow1:



I am responsible and faithful (except for those rare occasions when I sin and fall short of the glory of God.)

There is no "Good" reason to cheat. True.

But the day I see a fine chick that I don't lust after, I am most probably blind or about to be killed.

Take it easy Hommie.

eph12:
I honestly believe it's possible. Having sex with someone does not mean you love the person. Sex just brings this temporary amazing feeling and after the gymnastics and all the feeling is gone. Love remains whether there is sex or not.
We don't cheat on our partners not because cheating means we don't love anymore but because of the respect we have for them.
I would get hurt if my spouse cheats on but not because i think she don't love me but because i thinks she don't respect me.

The real MVP here

ilobasama:
Brother you dont love your lady. If you do you wont cheat on her.

And NO, not all men cheat. Only weak and irresponsible men do that.

Once again, you dont love her, you can never love someone and cheat on them

its a biiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiig lie and I disagree

Honestly it is but one needs to seek help for such compulsive behaviour. its a sickness, u love somebody so much but u just cant stop f**(king other girls. u have to accept u have a problem and then seek help from a support group in a church or anywhere. also come clean with her about this problem and let her help you. hear me out bro if i knew all this some months ago id still have my Malaika.

obiak4:
Once u love and respect someone you would never cheat on dat person
love alone is not enough respect for thew feelings of the person too is important
my 2cent

i can love and respect one lady but my di.ck as feelings tooo......
the bastard does not discriminate!!!!!!!

hmmmmmm

see this one?

U now want to blame the stereotypes for cheating on ur wife abi?

"Oh am a man. Its in my genes to cheat"

Gerrout from dere joor!!!!

U need ur head checked 50 Billion times.

But wait oh.......

how come ur wife no say nothing?

i smell something strange 1) she is cheating on u too as well 2) she is waiting for that moment were she catches u again and she has something special for u up her sleeve 3) Oh boi u need to watch ur back

and some people wonder why women dnt take men seriously (yh yh i know women cheat too)

Me i just pray God give me a man who is caring, understanding, honest, hardworking and trustworthy because me if i catch him doing this rubbish ehhhn.....

Not only will i cut off his thing but i will put a permemenent mark (worse than the tribal marks) on his face and that of the women he cheated on me with.

Me i no get time to waste, I am one of those quiet ones oooo when i strike ehhhn u wnt know so maybe ur wife na the quiet one.

As I said before...

Watch ur back OP!!!!

chuna1985:





Who be dis one whey de force himself make him no get sense. Go n read ur bible osiso.

A kind is only ready for war wen he has spent several decades for battle, He must have trained with his army for dem to obey wen he commands den. Do u think that those days was 2015 wen presidents sit in a majestic mansion n den order soldiers to fight. In those days, Kings lead his people to war.

Bible explained that Solomon was a mummys boy, He never trained with anyone to be ready.

Go n read ur bible.

I don't want to get into an arguement with u cos uve got no foundation,u should be d 1 reading ur Bible

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northvietnam:

its a biiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiig lie and I disagree

pet4ril:
And op said the woman won't walk away when she catch him cheating. ..(1), never predict what a woman can do to a cheating husband. (2)if you see her cheating, will you like it (3) what do you think is so special in all those tiny legs ladies you are cheating with You are just pulling the trigger with the nuzzle facing you n u will soon release the bomb. ..people go just dey use hand dey invite trouble for their selves

We can as well say he has put himself in between a bullet and a target...

GogobiriLalas:
Thanks bro, but I beg to dissent; we both agree (pardon my presupposition) that cheating hurts the cheated party? If so, is it not proper that you should do all you can to avoid hurting them? Cheating is a tactical avoidance of artificial encumberances placed on man's natural impulse to multiply himself. I consider it an art form as each man brave enough to so express his nature may do so by his own unique artifice...so long as no one gets hurt...

I am a woman, hence (f). I don't condone cheating, and I generally believe in love and faithfulness in an ideal relationship, but practicality and the application of logic force me to doubt the health of a completely and utterly monogamous lifelong relationship for either partner, really. As for your post, after the dubious "cheating hurts" prologue, I've no idea what you're trying to say. By "unique artifice" and "so long as no one gets hurt", I assume you mean lies and basically playing the artful dodger, no?

if u really love ur girl....I mean real love......u will never ever cheat on her. .......I don't cheat on my girl. ....
irresponsible person will do DAT.

Sex for men is more physical than emotional in converse to women who see it emotionally than physical. Most men may cheat because frankly speaking men are polygamous but control with fear of God and respect for their spouses. In blunt saying among some IGBO folks, ofu otu na-egbu amu- literalyonly one punny dey kill pnis though might not be true. why the high rate of divorce in the west and poligammy in Africa which is man's natural instinct and disposition

ilobasama:
Brother you dont love your lady. If you do you wont cheat on her.

And NO, not all men cheat. Only weak and irresponsible men do that.

Once again, you dont love her, you can never love someone and cheat on them

pls sir how are you so sure he doesn't love his girl?? and are you in his mind ? pls elaborate on how most guys who cheat are weak and irresponsible! I wanna know sir

EnlightenedSoul:


I am a woman, hence (f). I don't condone cheating, and I generally believe in love and faithfulness in an ideal relationship, but practicality and the application of logic force me to doubt the health of a completely and utterly monogamous lifelong relationship for either partner, really. As for your post, after the dubious "cheating hurts" prologue, I've no idea what you're trying to say. By "unique artifice" and "so long as no one gets hurt", I assume you mean lies and basically playing the artful dodger, no?

I beg your pardon me lady, it is rare nowadays to make the acquaintance of a logical female as yourself, hence my mistake; and yes by "unique artifice" I indeed mean "artful dodger" as you so succinctly put it. The art of cheating means you employ every stratagem of deceit in sparing your partner's feelings. I myself am not a regular Picasso in this regard, but once in a while, I amaze myself lol

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GogobiriLalas:
I beg your pardon me lady, it is rare nowadays to make the acquaintance of a logical female as yourself, hence my mistake; and yes by "unique artifice" I indeed mean "artful dodger" as you so succinctly put it. The art of cheating means you employ every stratagem of deceit in sparing your partner's feelings. I myself am not a regular Picasso in this regard, but once in a while, I amaze myself lol

Well, I completely disagree with you there. You're being disrespectful. I believe the partner should be in the general know (as opposed to specifics), and in agreement with whats going on. Is your partner also a "Picasso"?

ITbomb:
Very possible

Men are biologically polygamous. Back in our days, when you see a pretty girl, you add her to your harem, no questions asked.

Most important thing is to love, respect your wife and never ever neglect her for some fast food

Erm please which days are you talking about?

eroticboy:

i can love and respect one lady but my di.ck as feelings tooo......
the bastard does not discriminate!!!!!!!

controlling ur john thomas would make you a better man and husband bro if u don't take care of john thomas who will

Faithfulness and love should not be conflated. Although tradition demands that you should be loyal to the person you professed to love, especially when your partner is faithful to you but if we look at it logically and for what it is, its definitely possible to cheat on the person you love. Faithfulness and love has been conflated historically hence, many has been conditioned to believe that they are not mutually exclusive.

Humans are complex beings, we should not categorize or compartmentalized sexual attractions of the billions of humans into a single basket. For some, they deter from cheating due to the fear of God, self respect, respect to their partner, being monogamous in nature etc. Loving your partner doesnt necessarily mean you've lost all sense of attractions to others, doesnt also mean you are only sexually attracted to the person you love.

What about people in polygamous or polyamorous or an open relationship? does it mean they do not love each of their partners? why on earth do we assume that human can only profess monolithic love and sexually attracted to the beloved? I can endorse this to be true for men at least, possibly women, but I am a greenhorn since I am a man

Vock:
Guy,it's possible...I'm doing it and trying to extricate my self from the side chick cuz if my girlfriend catches me, I'm in deep soup,just pray for me brethren

Hw sure are you that your girlfriend is not also cheating on you? What goes around comes around

[/quote][quote author=Filashade post=38064322]hmmmmmm

see this one?

U now want to blame the stereotypes for cheating on ur wife abi?

"Oh am a man. Its in my genes to cheat"

Gerrout from dere joor!!!!

U need ur head checked 50 Billion times.

But wait oh.......

how come ur wife no say nothing?

i smell something strange 1) she is cheating on u too as well 2) she is waiting for that moment were she catches u again and she has something special for u up her sleeve 3) Oh boi u need to watch ur back

and some people wonder why women dnt take men seriously (yh yh i know women cheat too)

Me i just pray God give me a man who is caring, understanding, honest, hardworking and trustworthy because me if i catch him doing this rubbish ehhhn.....

Not only will i cut off his thing but i will put a permemenent mark (worse than the tribal marks) on his face and that of the women he cheated on me with.

Me i no get time to waste, I am one of those quiet ones oooo when i strike ehhhn u wnt know so maybe ur wife na the quiet one.

As I said before...

Watch ur back OP!!!!

Hmmm. I had this inclination too once. But I can't risk going to jail after cutting off this members or causing bodily harm to the dog he is sleeping with...That means they won!

No, won't give them that satisfaction.

Lasgidy1:
I'm deeply in love with my orente. She means so much to me and I hold her in high esteem. I can't do without hearing from her at least 3 times daily despite my schedule at work on all days but I've come to realize that despite my unfailing love for her, I still cheat on her. Though, once she caught me cheating on her but she won't walk away. I believe she's forced to assume now that cheating is in the DNA of most men.

To the guys here, is it really possible to love your wife or babe so dearly and cheat on her? When you cheat on her, is it still fair to boast of your love for her? Also, why do most men cheat? Is it really true that cheating is in the DNA of men? Should we conclude its as a result of rampant moral decadence? Is there a way to stop it?
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yes its possible and she even had the guts to beg for second chance and guess what she cheated again

EnlightenedSoul:

See, I'd perhaps agree with you completely, but you make the crucial (yet common) mistake of confusing RESPECT and LOVE.

same thing sista... you cant possibly LOVE someone and not respect them.... IMPOSSIBLE!!!! so, if RESPECT is not present then there is no way that LOVE can remotely be present!

ZaraBrains:


Commitment ke! When its time reach, I'll think about it sha.

by that time, wife go done finish

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No need to explain.

Keep cheating. We are all free to air our opinions, which is what I did......SIR!!

mobiy007:

pls sir how are you so sure he doesn't love his girl?? and are you in his mind ? pls elaborate on how most guys who cheat are weak and irresponsible! I wanna know sir

whizqueen:
by that time, wife go done finish

Hahahahahahahahaha e no fit finish na, fish no de finish for sea na. ocean and river still de sef . what op said is possible but the females won't understand but self control needs to come into play.