CSTR2:
One thing leads to another, boy sleeps with girl, pregnancy sets in, and an easy future becomes very very difficult.
I see a lot of small girls in Nigeria struggling to take care of their abandoned babies and i wonder if the thrill was worth it.
I am sure many of them did not plan to have sex let alone get pregnant.
Focus on your studies, and leave boys alone.
My advise is a little stale but is as real and relevant as air.
Human beings use less than 10% of the brain, you as a young girl can't afford to start wasting some of it on a boy when there is so much you should be diverting brainpower to.

there is a little insult in this but thanks for the advice part shaaa

Diamondqueen:

thanks for your advice

[email] go to bed, child. [/email]

Omotolu:
...you no understand the spoilt brat- she wants a guy who will destroy her life before she gets to 25 years.

well, it's my life not yours. Go get a life and stop trying to start a drama in mine.

Tobiee:
[email] go to bed, child. [/email]

i'm not feeling sleepy. I slept a lot in the afternoon

mrzizman:
yes you can have at lest 17 or 20 of them ok is ok for your growth

Nooo. I'm not like that your aunty o.

hob:
You have said it all.
Go on and may God guide you
its never a yes or no thing when it comes to a relationship
Im sure you know the consequences,so when it happens...u ve to deal with it
No small pikin again

yea. Thanks.

mart2k:
Dnt mind her, I trust guys, they wl soon finish her

i'm not like your sister.

Oyind17:

You seems to know a lot , my dear go ahead. Let me tell you some alliens you may meet on this journey.

1) unwanted pregnancy: that guy u feel loves you so much may not be bold to own up. You'll be left to deal with whatever comes with it.

2) STDS: You know what I mean , they are not written on the face of anyone that is infected.

3) You maybe out of control, for a kids your age to claim you know too much, I don't think you'll listen to advice even when you need one.

I'll advice you to wait a little reason "I was once a teen! I took some decisions that affected my life negatively.

thanks. You made some wrong decisions that you thought were right. When you got the result of your wrong deeds, it taught you a lesson and you learnt from it. Thanks again.

sparklesJ:
I advice u don't start what u can't finish @ an early stage...to avoid regrets later....there are many guys on earth.. patience s better my dear

thank you

3rdlegxxx:


i like this your comment right here but let me ask you this, the girls she that have experienced this, u really think at the beginning they knew it would go bad, truth is, you never know these things just try and thread with caution, be friends for now, atttraction, emotions, romance would eventually creep in, you might want to do anything for him and him likewise for you, just make sure you have a 3rd party kinda friend that u know understands issues of sex, dating and all that and wouldn't be biased with his opinions and advice to you. have fun, be good but stay and play safe, enjoy

thank you

otunsman:
Have you had sex before?

Ask the gods.

Bollinger:


OP. Don't mind all these hypocrites. I bet you they did worse. The common sense response will be to wait till you are at least 17 but you will not take that advice. So, just be careful and smart about it if you do decide to have one. Make sure the guy is within your age range and say no to sex until you are at least 18. Your focus for now should be college and good grades. Good luck.

thanks

Glomoni:


Miss know all, u wants to offer your self for experiment abi?. If u did not see what u want u switch to another guy, and u think the next guy will be looking at u like the previous one?. Beta face ur studies till ur 23, at ur age u can hardly handle emotional trauma. A word is enough.........

gosh. My dad will send me out of the house if I don't get married at 22. How is that possible?

Op seek a man to marry not boyfriend

Omotolu:
On a more strict note,you don't sound serious. If you are good academically,don't rock the boat. By having a bf,you may rock it big time. While kids of 9 years old are doing a Bsc degree in UK and USA, you are busy thinking of being hopelessly in love. If you think you're wiser than Solomon,why do you seek for people's advise? Your problem is purely over-soji.

go and get your own degree na. shuu. Shey 9 years old are getting degrees. What are you doin on nairaland?

efemty001:
guy u badt o... she just wanna taste it.. free d lil bae i beg..

we have noticed you. So can you leave now?

Firefire:



Ajepako ore mi, she is not from the north, I guess.

Honestly, she needs to face her studies and nothing more.

Any other advise at this age is evil.

OP, you can't face your studies enough until have you reach the peak of your goal.

I leave you in peace with this scripture...

"I beseech you therefore, (Diamondqueen), by the mercies of God, that ye present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable unto God, which is your reasonable service.

And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God". Romans 12:1-2

Shalom!

thanks pastor

moses425:
Look fvck is free if e sweet u chop am small small bcuz awof dey run belle. NT: the tin nor get shoulder be warn... I don talk my mind

that one na talk?

Marvellouzkk:
To me i disagree, first of all you are not of age no matter how intelligent you claim you are, secondly there are some issues you need to handle maturely thirdly the guy you claim you love, can he handle your financial bills? and probably you become pregnant can he sand the pressure and claim responsibility? To me my dearest patience they said does it, please keep cool not now or you find yourself in an unplanned destination. thank you

noted

sats:
when you carry belle or the guy knack you,leave you
come back to this your post and read it again
i am 100% perfectly completely sure
you will have an answer

Uhmmm....is this an advice? No thanks

femi4:
Can you just stop being aggressive. If you are not OK with some of the comments, you can just ignore them.


You ve already made up your mind. Go suit yourself!

i hate insults. If those boys are trying to be mean to me, i'll also be mean to them.

op u should be aware that while common now. bf/ gf is fornication.

u r young enough. find a husband. Why is it okay to have a bf at ur age but not a husband? You want sex? Get married!

majamajic:
Normally 18 is the ripe age.

But u are almost 17, u can date but with restrictions.



meanwhile I dedicate this FTC to all the girls on this thread that kept it till 17 and all the saints here.

u are sick for saying that

yes of course my friend but don't rush into it love is a beautiful feeling and it is totally natural don't force yourself to be in love just because you are 16 now doesn't mean you need to have a bf take your time choose the right guy to maintain the balance of love tc and if you wish to know about love you can visit my website www.lovefindsitsway.com i am sure you ll find useful information on love

Diamondqueen:


thanks. You made some wrong decisions that you thought were right. When you got the result of your wrong deeds, it taught you a lesson and you learnt from it. Thanks again.

Are you sure you're 16? Go on

Do you need our approval before you do what you like and want?

Diamondqueen:



no, i don't accept that. How would i know what i want in a relationship?

what do u want in a relationship?

Diamondqueen:


you are a living proof that idiots still exist.

beech dnt tell me coz yu got a niqqa in ur miserable life.. . U feeling fly. U such an embedded homo sapien in stupidity,

Diamondqueen:


go and get your own degree na. shuu. Shey 9 years old are getting degrees. What are you doin on nairaland?

...ok,ma'am.

Diamondqueen:


well, it's my life not yours. Go get a life and stop trying to start a drama in mine.

...ok,ma'am...

Just keep ur head straight,play ur game tight nd do ur tins right.entering into a relationship's like entering lagos nd d inscription u'll c is ''welcome,this is lagos.bkiaful!! Wsh u all d best.

Diamondqueen:


lol. If you restrain your children so much from something, they's like to test and see what that thing is. We teenagers can do a lot of things without our parents knowing.

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