nobilis:


Thank you, my brother.
That was exactly what I wanted to ask him.

Before you asked her out, u didn't pray to ask God for advice to know if she was meant for you or not.
It is now that you have dated her (and wasted 2 years of her life) that you decided to ask God if she was meant for you?
The way you people use God to tell lies eh, what God will judge on that last day is enormous.

Your love for her was already declining.
And u started having dreams?
What did u expect to see in your dreams?
I've said it countless times here that the mind is a very powerful entity.
U have already convinced your mind that u guys are not meant to be, so do you expect ur mind to show u any other thing during your dreams??

You're a big joker.
If u want to break up with her, look for a very tangible reason, not this rubbish you're talking about here.

But if I were u, I would sit down and think.
The problem is not with her or with God. The problem is with you and u just want to push the problem onto God so that u won't have to bear any guilt. That's pathetic and cowardly.

Ask yourself: why is your love for her declining?
When you have gotten to the root of the reason why your love for may be declining, then you can come back, open another thread, cc and bcc all of us here and we will tell you the next thing to do.

Stop foisting ur cowardice and cruelty on God.
The poor girl did nothing to you.

And moreover, love dwindles and fluctuates at times.
That is not an excuse to leave whoever u might be dating.
It falters and grows strong especially in the early months and years.

nobilis:


Thank you, my brother.
That was exactly what I wanted to ask him.

Before you asked her out, u didn't pray to ask God for advice to know if she was meant for you or not.
It is now that you have dated her (and wasted 2 years of her life) that you decided to ask God if she was meant for you?
The way you people use God to tell lies eh, what God will judge on that last day is enormous.

Your love for her was already declining.
And u started having dreams?
What did u expect to see in your dreams?
I've said it countless times here that the mind is a very powerful entity.
U have already convinced your mind that u guys are not meant to be, so do you expect ur mind to show u any other thing during your dreams??

You're a big joker.
If u want to break up with her, look for a very tangible reason, not this rubbish you're talking about here.

But if I were u, I would sit down and think.
The problem is not with her or with God. The problem is with you and u just want to push the problem onto God so that u won't have to bear any guilt. That's pathetic and cowardly.

Ask yourself: why is your love for her declining?
When you have gotten to the root of the reason why your love for may be declining, then you can come back, open another thread, cc and bcc all of us here and we will tell you the next thing to do.

Stop foisting ur cowardice and cruelty on God.
The poor girl did nothing to you.

And moreover, love dwindles and fluctuates at times.
That is not an excuse to leave whoever u might be dating.
It falters and grows strong especially in the early months and years.

silvermania:
i dont know why it start declining really i dont have any side chick or whatever, about the pastor stuff my pastor must not even no am dating am an active chorister of a strict church.

Can u imagine..
Are u aware that the devil also reveal things to people buh before he does that, he must have given u a reason to believe his revelation to u.



Now, u actually do not know why u stopped loving ur gf and cases that i've seen, one tend to start regretting after breaking up with the girl/boy.
So give yourself some time and have a rethink bout ur gf cos she's done nothing wrong.

About ur pastor, there are other churches with great pastors God is using so if u feel ur dreams must prevail then go outside ur church for counselling and interpretation.
Remember, don't go to a pastor that will ask u for money for help.

I hope this helps..

silvermania:
thanks

silvermania:
i dont know why it start declining really i dont have any side chick or whatever, about the pastor stuff my pastor must not even no am dating am an active chorister of a strict church.

you are a fool, your poastor is a fool, and that idiiot you call your girlfriend too is a fool

So you just woke up one morning and now realize you don't like her anymore.

*your blind "vision see(er)" aka pastor can't see that you have been in a relationship when he prayed abi what?

*so she has been/is a virgin till now. You think that is the only thing that attaches lovers abi


You don't seem like someone smart to me...only God knows how you make decisions in real life sef. Well its non of my furcking business, let's just keep reading the lies and silly encouragements other guys are posting

vizkiz:


you are a fool, your poastor is a fool, and that idiiot you call your girlfriend too is a fool

So you just woke up one morning and now realize you don't like her anymore.

*your blind "vision see(er)" aka pastor can't see that you have been in a relationship when he prayed abi what?

*so she has been/is a virgin

nobilis:


Don't thank me, abeg
You people should stop using religion to hurt people.

U asked for advice.
Find out what I asked you to find out.
Don't say you don't know.
Everything has a reason.
Find out the reason for ur love declining.
Do not do any other thing until you have found out why.

Then when u tell us why, we will tell you the next step.


Maybe you have even told her u will marry her all these while.
If u like go and do something that will make the poor girl curse you. This is how many men get themselves cursed.

silvermania:
i don't believe I c. Can be cursed bro , have heard you

nobilis:


Lol.
You don't believe
You can try and see.
Just do something to make someone to place a curse on you, and then we will see whether your belief will save you or not.

Nonsense.

nobilis:


Thank you, my brother.
That was exactly what I wanted to ask him.

Before you asked her out, u didn't pray to ask God for advice to know if she was meant for you or not.
It is now that you have dated her (and wasted 2 years of her life) that you decided to ask God if she was meant for you?
The way you people use God to tell lies eh, what God will judge on that last day is enormous.

Your love for her was already declining.
And u started having dreams?
What did u expect to see in your dreams?
I've said it countless times here that the mind is a very powerful entity.
U have already convinced your mind that u guys are not meant to be, so do you expect ur mind to show u any other thing during your dreams??

You're a big joker.
If u want to break up with her, look for a very tangible reason, not this rubbish you're talking about here.

But if I were u, I would sit down and think.
The problem is not with her or with God. The problem is with you and u just want to push the problem onto God so that u won't have to bear any guilt. That's pathetic and cowardly.

Ask yourself: why is your love for her declining?
When you have gotten to the root of the reason why your love for may be declining, then you can come back, open another thread, cc and bcc all of us here and we will tell you the next thing to do.

Stop foisting ur cowardice and cruelty on God.
The poor girl did nothing to you.

And moreover, love dwindles and fluctuates at times.
That is not an excuse to leave whoever u might be dating.
It falters and grows strong especially in the early months and years.

silvermania:
we started dating, all the vows we made i didn't brake any, this thing am doing might even be for her gain in the long run, she's just 20 started dating when she was 18

silvermania:
i came seeking for advice

get the hell off my mentions joor...
Someone like you needs be get a big stone tired around his neck and thrown into the ocean

When you are ready to tell the real motives behind your dumping her, then you'll get an advice. Listen guy, breakups happen all the time but the reason(s) for any breakup is very important to the person you wanna breakup with.

I am a guy too, so don't give me that crap about "I just started having that feeling of decreasin love" we all have that feelings sometimes in relationships and that is not even close to a reason to quit any relationship yet. no be mumu like the other fellas up there you dey quote.

I Know you'v gat some other "non-virgin" church chick up your sleves so just cut the crap please

nobilis:


You are not making any sense.
U know what is good for her better than she does

If I were you, this time I'm using to type these things is the time I will use for proper introspection.

agarawu23:
no sir!

vizkiz:


get the hell off my mentions joor...
Someone like you needs be get a big stone tired around his neck and thrown into the ocean

When you are ready to tell the real motives behind your dumping her, then you'll get an advice. Listen guy, breakups happen all the time but the reason(s) for any breakup is very important to the person you wanna breakup with.

I am a guy too, so don't give me that crap about "I just started having that feeling of decreasin love" we all have that feelings sometimes in relationships and that is not even close to a reason to quit any relationship yet. no be mumu like the other fellas up there you dey quote.

I Know you'v gat some other "non-virgin" church chick up your sleves so just cut the crap please

silvermania:
we started dating, all the vows we made i didn't brake any, this thing am doing might even be for her gain in the long run, she's just 20 started dating when she was 18

Harbosede02:
Man of God......iffa slap u ehn,would u understand if she walks up to you and tell u all this trash u are thinking of telling her??mtchewwwwwuuuuuu.

silvermania:
Have been with this beautiful wonderful girl for the past two years now and recently my love for her started declining and I was worried Although we are in our 20`s. I prayed about it and to my utmost surprise i started having dreams we weren't meant to be lovers in the ist place . So after many thoughts for me not to hurt her feelings when it too late, I told her i love her but it better we go our seperate ways Maybe God has a different plan for us. To let you understand how faithful i was, she was a Virgin when we meet and she's still a Virgin now i didn't broke any vow I promised her. But she s finding it difficult to understand. Please what else can I do to make her understand. Due to some music training stuff i might delay in quoting your questions but I will thanks, please peeps should stop insulting me as if I failed to attend wedding ceremony we just young people trying to love , I love her as much as she does but I dont really know whats happening.

IamLEGEND1:
There is no need For her to understand....if she doesn't know that a couple can just drift apart sometimes then she is still a learner.....

Xup bae,listen up,i don't think this relationship is gonna work out for any of us alright?

I'm sowi about this but the attraction is just not there anymore.....

if you think you can reason with her then you're just an idiot too,she is never gonna see sense in anything you say.

Oliviaarims:

U luv 4 her strtid declining..on what grounds?..A number ov factors have 2 b responsible 4 it..And u're contradicting urself u know. U stated in ur conclusion that u luv her as much as she loves u...does that mean she has a "declined" love 4 u?....U're having dreams,u say?...How reliable are ur dreams and y dyu expect her 2 understand u on such an unverifiable ground?
Methinks u're simply tired of d relationship nd ur psyche's playing games with u,providing u with baseless justifications 2 call it quits with a girl that's done u no wrong...I stand to be corrected.






#Philosopher Quëën#

nobilis:


Thank you, my brother.
That was exactly what I wanted to ask him.

Before you asked her out, u didn't pray to ask God for advice to know if she was meant for you or not.
It is now that you have dated her (and wasted 2 years of her life) that you decided to ask God if she was meant for you?
The way you people use God to tell lies eh, what God will judge on that last day is enormous.

Your love for her was already declining.
And u started having dreams?
What did u expect to see in your dreams?
I've said it countless times here that the mind is a very powerful entity.
U have already convinced your mind that u guys are not meant to be, so do you expect ur mind to show u any other thing during your dreams??

You're a big joker.
If u want to break up with her, look for a very tangible reason, not this rubbish you're talking about here.

But if I were u, I would sit down and think.
The problem is not with her or with God. The problem is with you and u just want to push the problem onto God so that u won't have to bear any guilt. That's pathetic and cowardly.

Ask yourself: why is your love for her declining?
When you have gotten to the root of the reason why your love for may be declining, then you can come back, open another thread, cc and bcc all of us here and we will tell you the next thing to do.

Stop foisting ur cowardice and cruelty on God.
The poor girl did nothing to you.

And moreover, love dwindles and fluctuates at times.
That is not an excuse to leave whoever u might be dating.
It falters and grows strong especially in the early months and years.

silvermania:
i dont know why it start declining really i dont have any side chick or whatever, about the pastor stuff my pastor must not even no am dating am an active chorister of a strict church.

silvermania:
thanks the problem might really be from me, i started dating very early at 12 and since people have been saying Maybe am not the relationship type, something will come up and I will walk away, it hurts it happening again, so i decide to stay alone and see and a iam still a Virgin

Oliviaarims:

But the thing is,if really d attraction was there in d 1st place,sth most definitely must have killed it,maybe she caused it consciously or unconsciously... Don't u fink it's only fitting that she knows?.. If not 4 anyfin else,then so she doesn't repeat d sane thing in a new relationship....And then again,he might have no valid reason...nd that would hurt her real bad.

Oliviaarims:

Why can't yhu tell ur pastor about ur relationship if really it's a platonic one as u claim?..I fink u're beginning 2 throw some light on d actual reason u wntu call it quits...Guilt is one ov them.. U've prolly been doing d hide n seek relationship.

agarawu23:
he is a joker, no be lie

Oliviaarims:

Lmao..twelve??..12?..douze?...Xii?..Pls,bro,wat's ur definition ov "dating?"

nobilis:


Don't thank me, abeg
You people should stop using religion to hurt people.

U asked for advice.
Find out what I asked you to find out.
Don't say you don't know.
Everything has a reason.
Find out the reason for ur love declining.
Do not do any other thing until you have found out why.

Then when u tell us why, we will tell you the next step.


Maybe you have even told her u will marry her all these while.
If u like go and do something that will make the poor girl curse you. This is how many men get themselves cursed.

tosynmich:
Let her know your reason for taking that step. If she really loves you I think she would understand. And beside if you are not the hit and run type y don't you pray before going into the relationship.
Lust without prayers=......?