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Re: How Do I Deal With This Type Of Girl? by Nobody: 5:49am On Jan 14, 2016
She no even like you sef!!!!!

And you forgot to mention what attracted you to her in the first place. BTW if she really likes you and is just plain naive you can help her.

Once upon a time I was naive and boring,now even though I'm not the "going out" type I can talk! Thanks to my first boyfriend wink
Re: How Do I Deal With This Type Of Girl? by fulfillbill(m): 5:51am On Jan 14, 2016
Person say e no bliv in love you come dey wait for ship for train station are you a captain of love?

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Re: How Do I Deal With This Type Of Girl? by kaziblake(f): 5:57am On Jan 14, 2016
sickstars:


M desperately searching for happiness cry cry cry cry
Happiness will surely find you.
Keep smiling.
Re: How Do I Deal With This Type Of Girl? by Nobody: 8:01am On Jan 14, 2016
I've said it before and I'll say it again:

The only way a relationship can ever work is when the girl nurtures it more than the guy. Females are naturally nurturing.
Anything apart from that, she's not into you. Dump her and focus on YOU and getting YOURS. The proper women will be attracted to your solar-system like planets to a sun.

Suns don't go chasing planets. They simply get hot wink

Good night.

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Re: How Do I Deal With This Type Of Girl? by guente02(m): 12:11pm On Jan 14, 2016
Ebiz12:
No no even like you sef!!!!!

And you forgot to mention what attracted you to her in the first place. BTW if she really likes you and is just plain naive you can help her.

Once upon a time I was naive and boring,now even though I'm not the "going out" type I can talk! Thanks to my first boyfriend wink

Truth be told she's the quite type and reserved plus she has got this great set of fun bags i cant imagine not properly having fun with. Thats just what is still keeping hanging which is not even worth the wait.

Thanks for your input. Highly appreciated.

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Re: How Do I Deal With This Type Of Girl? by guente02(m): 12:12pm On Jan 14, 2016
ebonflex:
I've said it before and I'll say it again:

The only way a relationship can ever work is when the girl nurtures it more than the guy. Females are naturally nurturing.
Anything apart from that, she's not into you. Dump her and focus on YOU and getting YOURS. The proper women will be attracted to your solar-system like planets to a sun.

Suns don't go chasing planets. They simply get hot wink

Good night.

My brother this your analogy just broke the camel's back. So true.

Thanks bro.

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Re: How Do I Deal With This Type Of Girl? by guente02(m): 12:16pm On Jan 14, 2016
fulfillbill:
Person say e no bliv in love you come dey wait for ship for train station are you a captain of love?

She even told me I'm teaching her for her husband, so I'll be like Moses that hustled from Egypt not to see the promise land and she even worsens it by laughing in d process making me feel like fufu wrappings.

Gotta Go Abeg....Just bcoz of bobby i com dey take crap untop wetin kwanu.

Thanks bro

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Re: How Do I Deal With This Type Of Girl? by Jewelnutch: 12:20pm On Jan 14, 2016
Guy, she might be boring because she's not much of a conversationalist. You better endure, you don't know if her punnani is exciting. The patient dog gets the biggest bone, I'm not tagging you a dog; still chill for the babe.

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Re: How Do I Deal With This Type Of Girl? by prettymina(f): 12:21pm On Jan 14, 2016
U are even lucky u both stay in d same city....suit urself nd be happy
Re: How Do I Deal With This Type Of Girl? by guente02(m): 12:25pm On Jan 14, 2016
prettymina:
U are even lucky u both stay in d same city....suit urself nd be happy
I was thinking if you can at least tell me how you would've suited yourself if you was in my shoes.
Re: How Do I Deal With This Type Of Girl? by guente02(m): 12:29pm On Jan 14, 2016
Jewelnutch:
Guy, she might be boring because she's not much of a conversationalist. You better endure, you don't know if her punnani is exciting. The patient dog gets the biggest bone, I'm not tagging you a dog; still chill for the babe.
This is the only thing keeping me....
She promises to come see me properly when we resume school around March since thats d only time she can leave the house with lots of excuses, i even gist her how I'd work on her body that J. Berger would look like a rookie and shiii.
Maybe I'll just grab another chekez by d side to pass time pending when she comes around.

Thanks

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Re: How Do I Deal With This Type Of Girl? by ShadowM(m): 12:29pm On Jan 14, 2016
THERES A SOLUTION

girls mostly respect people who are in control and independent so...
1. if you call her alot ..reduce the tempo (if you call her five times a week call her only once)
2. Be nice not affectionate
3.Once youve said all the good things in your head end the call (dont prolong the call so you dont end up saying stupid things)
4. Stop telling her you want to meet her often makes her feel you want her badly...
5. STop being predictable and BORING

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Re: How Do I Deal With This Type Of Girl? by Jewelnutch: 12:34pm On Jan 14, 2016
guente02:

This is the only thing keeping me....
She promises to come see me properly when we resume school around March since thats d only time she can leave the house with lots of excuses, i even gist her how I'd work on her body that J. Berger would look like a rookie and shiii.
Maybe I'll just grab another chekez by d side to pass time pending when she comes around.

Thanks
Yeah, you shouldn't be that bad to get a new chic in your own area till she moves over, then you can discuss whatever you want to discuss over her punnani. I promise you she can't be boring that way.

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Re: How Do I Deal With This Type Of Girl? by Jewelnutch: 12:36pm On Jan 14, 2016
Ebiz12:
No no even like you sef!!!!!

And you forgot to mention what attracted you to her in the first place. BTW if she really likes you and is just plain naive you can help her.

Once upon a time I was naive and boring,now even though I'm not the "going out" type I can talk! Thanks to my first boyfriend wink
Thanks to your boyfriend, he gave you the conversationalist's portal through punnanity, right?

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Re: How Do I Deal With This Type Of Girl? by guente02(m): 12:41pm On Jan 14, 2016
ShadowM:
THERES A SOLUTION

girls mostly respect people who are in control and independent so...
1. if you call her alot ..reduce the tempo (if you call her five times a week call her only once)
2. Be nice not affectionate
3.Once youve said all the good things in your head end the call (dont prolong the call so you dont end up saying stupid things)
4. Stop telling her you want to meet her often makes her feel you want her badly...
5. STop being predictable and BORING



1. She wasn't calling so I call back after she calls me and thats like once every 6 weeks.

2. Problem is that i can't differentiate the two words.

3. I fault here which makes me fit into number 5 and 4.

Noted for this chick and others subsequently.

Thanks
Re: How Do I Deal With This Type Of Girl? by mentorandfriend(m): 12:43pm On Jan 14, 2016
guente02:
So i have this girl I've been dating (I want to believe) since the wee days of October last year. But that's not the problem.
Thing is this girl is boring. You might want to ask why I came to such conclusion but believe me when i say she's boring, this girl is super boring.

We live in the same city (about 1247m according to gmaps) apart and I've not been able to see her because she tells me how the peeps she stays with which she refers to as close relatives always questions her movement and shiiii and since we're only dating its not enough for her to take excuses from them to see me.

Okay, I get it you can't see me, this chick doesn't chat with me like shez dating me, she once told me that she doesn't believe in love mayb bcoz of her experience with her ex (my assumption) and shii. She's not contributing when we're making calls, when i ask her she'll say I've said it all. I keep wondering if all I say is correct or shez not just attached to me enough to have a decent conversation with me or its d naija girls factor and how bad they are in holding conversation or shez just plain naive about everything.

Not seeing her is making me mad at her that most times we end up quarreling on whatsapp to d extent that I've discontinued the use of whatsapp as a mode of conversation.

Please advise me.

Dumping her dey hungry me but i just need a little reasoning from romanceland.

Forgive my typo if any.
You love her? Then be patient and build trust. Don't underestimate the power of trust.

You ain't feeling here anymore? Take a walk and stop complaining.
Re: How Do I Deal With This Type Of Girl? by KINGOZEK(m): 12:48pm On Jan 14, 2016
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Re: How Do I Deal With This Type Of Girl? by guente02(m): 12:49pm On Jan 14, 2016
mentorandfriend:
You love her? Then be patient and build trust. Don't underestimate the power of trust.

You ain't feeling here anymore? Take a walk and stop complaining.

Emotional attachment is donr and dusted bro.

Im just trying to be nice so that what im looking for would not pass me by.

If i vex go now, na me loose. I've got huge prospects for that puss.y like I've got to drown from its water fountain.

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Re: How Do I Deal With This Type Of Girl? by mentorandfriend(m): 1:01pm On Jan 14, 2016
guente02:


Emotional attachment is donr and dusted bro.

Im just trying to be nice so that what im looking for would not pass me by.

If i vex go now, na me loose. I've got huge prospects for that puss.y like I've got to drown from its water fountain.
Oh. I see.
Re: How Do I Deal With This Type Of Girl? by Nobody: 8:08pm On Jan 14, 2016
Jewelnutch:

Thanks to your boyfriend, he gave you the conversationalist's portal through punnanity, right?


Sorry to burst your bubbles but our relationship was pure in every sense of the word tongue

Who says there must be punanity in a relationship?

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Re: How Do I Deal With This Type Of Girl? by Nobody: 8:12pm On Jan 14, 2016
guente02:


Truth be told she's the quite type and reserved plus she has got this great set of fun bags i cant imagine not properly having fun with. Thats just what is still keeping hanging which is not even worth the wait.

Thanks for your input. Highly appreciated.


That's alright but you can work things out if she's willing,and take your eyes off the "bags" for now cheesy
Re: How Do I Deal With This Type Of Girl? by Jewelnutch: 8:14pm On Jan 14, 2016
Ebiz12:



Sorry to burst your bubbles but our relationship was pure in every sense of the word tongue

Who says there must be punanity in a relationship?
My bubbles are intact like a virgin's breast.

It's not necessary "punnanity" is involved, on Godly terms, yeah.

But if you're both groping each other and smooching and you're coming here to tell me there's no "punnanity" involved; just know there's a God that judges Hypocrisy.

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Re: How Do I Deal With This Type Of Girl? by Nobody: 8:30pm On Jan 14, 2016
Jewelnutch:

My bubbles are intact like a virgin's breast.

It's not necessary "punnanity" is involved, on Godly terms, yeah.

But if you're both groping each other and smooching and you're coming here to tell me there's no "punnanity" involved; just know there's a God that judges Hypocrisy.

Anyway you have the right to say whatever you want,you are making assumptions obviously based on the things you did or maybe doing. But what's my business sef
Re: How Do I Deal With This Type Of Girl? by Nobody: 8:31pm On Jan 14, 2016
Jewelnutch:

My bubbles are intact like a virgin's breast.

It's not necessary "punnanity" is involved, on Godly terms, yeah.

But if you're both groping each other and smooching and you're coming here to tell me there's no "punnanity" involved; just know there's a God that judges Hypocrisy.

Anyway you have the right to say whatever you want,you are making assumptions obviously based on the things you did or maybe doing. But what's my business sef

As na you follow me live my life
Re: How Do I Deal With This Type Of Girl? by Jewelnutch: 8:37pm On Jan 14, 2016
Ebiz12:


Anyway you have the right to say whatever you want,you are making assumptions obviously based on the things you did or maybe doing. But what's my business sef

As na you follow me live my life
Hello Lady, it's not that deep.
My assumptions are not blurry, they're lucid and factual, I don't just talk or donate my knowledge into things without having my own handful of knowledge.

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Re: How Do I Deal With This Type Of Girl? by Nobody: 8:46pm On Jan 14, 2016
Jewelnutch:

Hello Lady, it's not that deep.
My assumptions are not blurry, they're lucid and factual, I don't just talk or donate my knowledge into things without having my own handful of knowledge.



Oh really!!!
Unfortunately your opinions or lucid factual whatever don't count[sup][/sup] undecided
Re: How Do I Deal With This Type Of Girl? by gbengadavis(m): 9:34pm On Jan 14, 2016
I guess she aint feelin u enof, find out topics she likes talkn abt nd dscus abt dem often, try mkin ha laff, nd if aftr doin all ds for a while, she dosnt chng, 4gt ha!
Re: How Do I Deal With This Type Of Girl? by Jewelnutch: 11:15pm On Jan 14, 2016
Ebiz12:



Oh really!!!
Unfortunately your opinions or lucid factual whatever don't count[sup][/sup] undecided
Hope this is not going the wrong way; hope it's not getting personal?

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Re: How Do I Deal With This Type Of Girl? by Nobody: 2:40am On Jan 15, 2016
guente02:


Truth be told she's the quite type and reserved plus she has got this great set of fun bags i cant imagine not properly having fun with. Thats just what is still keeping hanging which is not even worth the wait.

Thanks for your input. Highly appreciated.

Breast is just bags of fat.
After you play with enough you will realize it's all one and the same.

And after you play with her own one day you will wake up and be like "So is this what I've been suffering for all this while?".
If you can't think of any other value a particular woman brings to your life but her body parts, then that woman is dead weight...and she'd KNOW it too hence why some of them act the way they do.

#ShakaraIsAllIHave

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Re: How Do I Deal With This Type Of Girl? by NemzySeries(m): 4:56am On Jan 15, 2016
D relationship seems like pastor & congregation.....u guys are jst observing ursefs

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Re: How Do I Deal With This Type Of Girl? by Nobody: 5:43am On Jan 15, 2016
Asapcymg:
I once saw a beutiful lady living off campus,she is still studying Law 200L althought am graduate waiting to be mobilised A16, her charming smile made me to fall in love with her, I met her on her way from school so I drove her home by the way am able to got her contact and she showed me her place, she happy felt when ever she saw me we gist a lot, but as soon as I left when I call on phone she will not pick untill I went back to her room to remained her she will keep on saying her phone is charging. I'm the shy type I cant tell that I love her directly also time is not by my side, she is perfect curve,moderately tall,white. Please help me because I want to marry her very soon.
wooooo hold your horses pimpin', you already thinking marriage? Thats one of the things that is messing with you. Why would you want to marry a girl just bc shes beautiful, got charmimg smile and more? Common taste the waters first, relax and learn that you are the real deal, the prize in that "game", the one she needs but don't be an azz. Be yourself, create great moments with her, appreciate her n more make your intentions known but don't let beauty cloud your game thats how you turn a sissy or a mugu or mostly a car washer to a girl

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Re: How Do I Deal With This Type Of Girl? by Nobody: 7:31am On Jan 15, 2016
Jewelnutch:

Hope this is not going the wrong way; hope it's not getting personal?


Oh not all darling

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