HaneefahRN:



U! Weldone. How're u doin

akike:

Alhamdulilahi
You?

HaneefahRN:


Alhamdulilah. How is studies and all?

Missed u, hope u weren't banned?

Toks2008:

Without sounding vindicated..you just described who i am...A DIE HARD REALIST.

Toks2008:


LOL!

I asked myself..at my age now, what can i do on nairaland asides read comments and i said "ok let me share some hard truthful facts not minding how they react and here i am"

Check all my threads and you will see that i am not into writing what people love to see but facts back to back and even when they refused to see the truth,posterity will open their eyes.

Look at Tiwa salvage,funke akindele,Mercy johnson,mercy aigbe and on and on and look at their husbands and you will be amazed that these were and some are even husbands of another woman.

The 3 categories of ladies i mentioned in my write up will rush into the hands of maried men for succor as most single guys will not even look their way yet single ladies or those who are still fortunate in marriage will shout GOD forbid until they find themselves in those categories and they will now understand the reson why GOD never allowed marrital relationships to extend to heaven.

Toks2008:


i QUOTED this as a proof that most of our ladies are only good in one thing...curse,slander but will hardly make just one intelligent contribution...please dont bother quoting me cos i wont respond..i just quoted you to show the world the obvious.

Sunnypar:

He is not..... He hot the nail on the head. He is a confirm realist which ladies don't like. Tok2008, write about something that would favour he ladies and see them rush to the thread like fly wey they follow shii. My brother men would always cheat, only few would not. My compound alone, we have about two single mothers. Landlord get two wives with one daughter of eve ready to fall his ministry.

Saladin25:

Thank you for that not all polygamy are bad as people think. My Mum is from a polygamous family but you will never no their differences.

SweetOlive:

EggovinMma:

I don't know why Nairalanders dey vex for Toks, he is divorced!His approach to relationships is crazy!

missKiffy:

Seriously he is divorced? No wonder

LordReed:


And I detest the attitude that seeks protection for publicly declared opinions. You cannot disclose your opinion in public and ask for it to be unchallenged. If you want it so then remain in your house and share it with no one at least nobody will come into your home to counter your opinions. As for comparison you can thank the OP for that, he wants to be in dollarland. Yet the hypocrite conveniently forgets that bigamy is a crime in developed countries so who will bother to debate with you on that score?

enieme:

Ur still doing the same thing, calling names.
Creating assumptions about the op

misspicy:
He came out in his true colour..

EggovinMma:

I don't know why Nairalanders dey vex for Toks, he is divorced!His approach to relationships is crazy!

missKiffy:

I don't need your response, in fact there's nothing I want to do with it but am glad you already prove me right by how childish you are by attaching a useless chat history that has no bearing whatever, you can take urself somewhere else cos I don't have time having "intelligent" conversations with your type, the Mr know all, who believes only his opinion holds water, if not you won't be quoting every contrary opinions to urs and arguing with them all the time, who have ur time in the first place.

esosa993:






One of the reasons why that guys irritates me his ITK is just too much, other people's opinion is sensless but his own is meaningful, I saw one of the comments where someone told him to add value to the community by touching other areas like business and so on but what was his reply he said the guy don "smoke oshogbo weed" and this same annoying fellow claims he's a born again

I only feel for him that's all I can say cos people with this his mindset get as e be, whatever he posts is not even my problem but the fact he calls other people immature when theyy don't agree with him. If he doesn't want people to oppose to his write up then let him stop writing. He calims he's an adult but doesn't think or act like one.



NOW WHO IS THE CHILD?

Toks2008:


The omly regret i have is that you could pass for an inconsequential faceless poster.

How i wish you are a blogger..i for use you as scape goat.

You are free to curse me but spreading false info about my personal life is pure defarmation punishable under the penial code.


Please stop this madness.

LordReed:


You are the fucking hypocrite.

esosa993:






One of the reasons why that guys irritates me his ITK is just too much, other people's opinion is sensless but his own is meaningful, I saw one of the comments where someone told him to add value to the community by touching other areas like business and so on but what was his reply he said the guy don "smoke oshogbo weed" and this same annoying fellow claims he's a born again

I only feel for him that's all I can say cos people with this his mindset get as e be, whatever he posts is not even my problem but the fact he calls other people immature when theyy don't agree with him. If he doesn't want people to oppose to his write up then let him stop writing. He calims he's an adult but doesn't think or act like one.



NOW WHO IS THE CHILD?

missKiffy:

No mind the fool, it's an intelligent comment if it agrees with his opinion, if it's a contrary opinion the person is un intelligent, I never see person wey foolish like this before

LordReed:

You can say that again.
And thanks for the compliment.

KingRex1:
I'm gonna have one wife, love nd respect her.. So OP i know not what u talkin bou. Smh
How would u feel if ur dad had this point of view? Whrs ur sanity?

Toks2008:


Here we go again..

Dude seriously did you read before commenting?

Please read paragrapgh 2 and try digesting the writeup to have a better understanding...

SMH for real.

KingRex1:
My friend you only did that to get a soft landing.. Ur whole point ws staight nd so so not cool!!

People like you dent the image of a 'real man' nd make em look like dogs...
Why u tryna justify as well as promote waywardness?

Maybe i'm no saint, bt i know wats right nd wrong unlike you who have intentionally blinded ursef

Toks2008:


See what i mean?

Please check the length and breadth of the pages of this thread and try quoting just one intelligent counter opinion of this lady.

I pray sense into your life.

Toks2008:


Im glad you accepted that you are not a saint and i want you to read that write up again with that basic mindset.

Stop asking me to preach chastity..that is not a criterion that chastity will be a norm..i have friends,and i see how it goes.

The most painful thing about my romance threads is that too many young people who do not know jack about the marital institution comment like kingkong and how i wished every lady or guy who comment are married maybe there will be more frankness in discussion.

I have lost count of how many ladies that have called me regarding this one issue..infidelity and when unmarried ladies still dream and rant,i just wish i could ignore them cos they are still what they are...dreamers and until they are married for at least 5years,they may never understand.

So my guy i dont know if you are singfe or married but your comment will be justified at least if you have nver cheated on your girlfriend or have nver had two ladies in your life at the same time.

Some facts can be difficult to accept.

Toks2008:


Its unfortunate that you keep confirming how myopic and vague you are in simple logic and reasoning.

If you are smart enough you will read where that person mentioned the fact that we are offline buddies meaning we relate offline regularly suffice to say she was only making a buddy comment which made me respond as i did and its also apparent from the way she responded.

Let me be frank with you...i weep inside when i read some comments on nairaland expecially from ladies because it has become so obvious that the assertion about many ladies is so true...

I watch movies and the way men talk about the way ladies reason and express themselves is so pathethic and you hear talks like...dont tel me you take a lady word serious...ordinary woman...senseless women...even the yoruba genre will say obinrin lasan lasan ateyin to..meaning an inconsequential woman who pees from the back...how gross...BUT MOST LADIES JUSTIFY THIS EVEN ON NLAND.

It blows my mind that what you call counter opinion are words like..he is mad..he is foolish...so dumb...dont mind him,he thinks he knows too much...bla bla bla...you call that opinion?sorry i call that MADNESS.

the way things arte going im afraid that the few intelligent ladies we have will no longer be relevant no thanks to most unintelligent and brain dead mAjority who have nothing to offer but their body little wonder why most of the things you see and read abour ladies are...cleavage flaunting...sexy figure...unclad pics...and so on gracing the frontpage of blogs...how unfortunate.

have a great sunday.

akike:


We thank Allah

I was banned

esosa993:





With all this epistle now what point have u made really, with the things you keep saying it proves you hate women, I feel its kinda absurd why you would hate another gender created by God , smh don't worry I don't know u one on one but I'll include you in my prayers. Hope u change tho and futhermore like someone suggested add value to the community and start touching other aspects other than topics on women.