Mynd44:
*sighs* someone else falls to societal pressure.

Before you turn on me, societal pressure happens if pressure fromthe society makes you take actions/decision solely based on the overwhelming influence of your society.

A man who has slept with a lot of people (male or female) is not a stud, he is merely a man with a colorful sex life.

A woman who has had (or has) a lot of people(male or female) she sleeps with is not a slut, she is simply living out her sexuality.

If you allow society corner you into taking a myopic decision, you are not doing me or society, you are doing yourself

If you find a man that you like and likes you but has a "colorful" past, it is not a big deal as long as he is willing to be faithful and understand that he is with you now.

The same way if a man finds a woman with an active sexual past(or present sef) she is not a slut.

As ling as you are happy, stay happy with the person you find happiness with. Dont allow the bullcrap society says get to you.


*goes back to sipping Lipton*

with due respect to u I hope u don't get permanently entangled with a pro!

then manufacture him and own him for u to b sure.

Stupedinluv:


You make me shake my head in pity!

If the article was talking about a man refusing a slut you would aplaud him but here you are saying a stud is a stud. Speaking lightly of something evil. No no and no

I would not encourage philandering, every man should respect himself.

I refuse to be used! Thank u!

Sadly it is part of life! U either make up ur mind to deal with it or u stay away from getting married to a cute guy!

Hi stupedinluv?

Hello? Are you there? Okay. Fine. Just one question. You said several. So please, how many is several?

Stupedinluv:
At 20, i have come to realise the joy and fulfilment in living life to the fullest. Coming from a noble home, i was not raised to be a man's stooge not to talk of an animal's. My worth was defined from the day i stepped into earth and has been shapened overtime. I was taught the right and the wrong. And that moral laws condone no breaker. If a woman must be condemned and despised for a crime, a man must by all means face the same. I believed this and i knew before God and men it was the truth. I didnt just believe, it became real to me and has influenced my judgement.

However, the society has flung half of this truth and has held on to a part because of how drunk in power it has become and the advantage this fist had fetched it.

We are aware now of this evil conditioning that a woman who sleeps around is a slut and should be desired less but a man who does same a stud and should be the craving of every woman. Many men have quietly nodded in agreement and a few mouthy ones have not failed to vocalise their agreement. And women? So many to the shame of dignity and womanhood have sang along with the men. And you wonder which would sacrifice her pride to make a stud!?

Because to make more studs we need more sluts. Can any of you women come out and offer yourself to a man who would dump you for another. If you cannot hold your peace and stupidity!

A stud is a man who is sexually attractive to so many women. So they say! but i see a stud as an animal who is unable to control its sexual desires, hates monogamous relationships and (therefore) deserves to be judged and condemned.


Women who say they are attracted to studs and hate inexperienced men need not only their heads examined but their consciences and should not take offence when they are called sluts. Cos only a slut or zombie would reason this way.


A stud has nothing tangible to offer except to toy with my emotion, cause me heart breaks and render me unproductive.

For every stud out there there are ten whores rendering my gender useless and subjecting me to prove myself as a woman of pride and esteem all the time. Nothanks.

If this is truly you then I say thumbs up. I honestly didn't read any other post other than yours before posting. We are on the same page. This is what I've been advocating for years. This will make strong ladies. Keep it up.


Let me quickly add. Most people responding, are doing so from the point of their weakness. You wonder why they seem to have popular opinion, Many have been captured in the negative order of the last age. Only the different will make it through. Hold on, be different.

Doyou mind .....

Stupedinluv:


Are you a christian?

I Dont think so,i dont know the God he is talking about,but certainly not yours.

Stupedinluv:
At 20, i have come to realise the joy and fulfilment in living life to the fullest. Coming from a noble home, i was not raised to be a man's stooge not to talk of an animal's. My worth was defined from the day i stepped into earth and has been shapened overtime. I was taught the right and the wrong. And that moral laws condone no breaker. If a woman must be condemned and despised for a crime, a man must by all means face the same. I believed this and i knew before God and men it was the truth. I didnt just believe, it became real to me and has influenced my judgement.

However, the society has flung half of this truth and has held on to a part because of how drunk in power it has become and the advantage this fist had fetched it.

We are aware now of this evil conditioning that a woman who sleeps around is a slut and should be desired less but a man who does same a stud and should be the craving of every woman. Many men have quietly nodded in agreement and a few mouthy ones have not failed to vocalise their agreement. And women? So many to the shame of dignity and womanhood have sang along with the men. And you wonder which would sacrifice her pride to make a stud!?

Because to make more studs we need more sluts. Can any of you women come out and offer yourself to a man who would dump you for another. If you cannot hold your peace and stupidity!

A stud is a man who is sexually attractive to so many women. So they say! but i see a stud as an animal who is unable to control its sexual desires, hates monogamous relationships and (therefore) deserves to be judged and condemned.


Women who say they are attracted to studs and hate inexperienced men need not only their heads examined but their consciences and should not take offence when they are called sluts. Cos only a slut or zombie would reason this way.


A stud has nothing tangible to offer except to toy with my emotion, cause me heart breaks and render me unproductive.

For every stud out there there are ten whores rendering my gender useless and subjecting me to prove myself as a woman of pride and esteem all the time. Nothanks.

you are a 20 year old that's why you speak this way.

PunterTim:
She shallow but the puccy deep! - J.Cole

what's the track name again "no role modelz" right?

firstEVA:
Op you want to be the one to teach him how to do?


To me studs are are just studs, they should be allowed to serve their purpose then move onto the next.

They are just date or boyfriend material, definitely not husband material, marry him at your own peril.

You date the stud, then marry the good guy, simple.

Baddosneh

I'm scared for this bae.may God help you in your quest. Cos I'm not sure how you can achieve that.

Stupedinluv:
At 20, i have come to realise the joy and fulfilment in living life to the fullest. Coming from a noble home, i was not raised to be a man's stooge not to talk of an animal's. My worth was defined from the day i stepped into earth and has been shapened overtime. I was taught the right and the wrong. And that moral laws condone no breaker. If a woman must be condemned and despised for a crime, a man must by all means face the same. I believed this and i knew before God and men it was the truth. I didnt just believe, it became real to me and has influenced my judgement.

However, the society has flung half of this truth and has held on to a part because of how drunk in power it has become and the advantage this fist had fetched it.

We are aware now of this evil conditioning that a woman who sleeps around is a slut and should be desired less but a man who does same a stud and should be the craving of every woman. Many men have quietly nodded in agreement and a few mouthy ones have not failed to vocalise their agreement. And women? So many to the shame of dignity and womanhood have sang along with the men. And you wonder which would sacrifice her pride to make a stud!?

Because to make more studs we need more sluts. Can any of you women come out and offer yourself to a man who would dump you for another. If you cannot hold your peace and stupidity!

A stud is a man who is sexually attractive to so many women. So they say! but i see a stud as an animal who is unable to control its sexual desires, hates monogamous relationships and (therefore) deserves to be judged and condemned.


Women who say they are attracted to studs and hate inexperienced men need not only their heads examined but their consciences and should not take offence when they are called sluts. Cos only a slut or zombie would reason this way.


A stud has nothing tangible to offer except to toy with my emotion, cause me heart breaks and render me unproductive.

For every stud out there there are ten whores rendering my gender useless and subjecting me to prove myself as a woman of pride and esteem all the time. Nothanks.

U are right girl. I love your write up!

Stupedinluv:
Well you are redefining what they society has made everyone believe. People dont just do things because it makes them "happy" there are so many factors they consider too.

Ntwithstanding, thanks for contributing still doesnt stop me from staying away from them cos my life is bigger than "personal happiness"

this is the voice of someone who has
1. Received countless hrtbrks

best answer to your write up is......

seek God's direction.


a player today could be a pastor tomorrow...

u no wan marry man wey don quash many women Abi? , I dey watch ur case in 15D. u go settle for anyone when the time comes

menix:


Don't worry, soon FG will recognize Lesbianism..

Enjoy..

Abeg swerve wit ur shallow mind. Wat has Lesbianism got to do wit my post??

DBossNG:


U are right girl. I love your write up!

Thank u

my girlfriend, na the good ones like you do vex me for this thing called love. Last last na one bushmo wey no send you go dey rattle your thing......and na so you go dey form cheerful giver too!!!!

Creamish:


Abeg swerve wit ur shallow mind. Wat has Lesbianism got to do wit my post??

Can See u re still shy about who u re..

Well, if u say make I swerve, oya open up..

duality:



If this is truly you then I say thumbs up. I honestly didn't read any other post other than yours before posting. We are on the same page. This is what I've been advocating for years. This will make strong ladies. Keep it up.


Let me quickly add. Most people responding, are doing so from the point of their weakness. You wonder why they seem to have popular opinion, Many have been captured in the negative order of the last age. Only the different will make it through. Hold on, be different.

Doyou mind .....

I feel encouraged. Thnk you!

Yes i mind! lol

Stupedinluv:


You make me shake my head in pity!

If the article was talking about a man refusing a slut you would aplaud him but here you are saying a stud is a stud. Speaking lightly of something evil. No no and no

I would not encourage philandering, every man should respect himself.

I refuse to be used! Thank u!

Baby,there is nothing evil about being the "alpha male".

A woman is naturally inferior to a man,not society but nature.The earlier you concede to this fact,the better for you.

Stupedinluv:


You make me shake my head in pity!

If the article was talking about a man refusing a slut you would aplaud him but here you are saying a stud is a stud. Speaking lightly of something evil. No no and no

I would not encourage philandering, every man should respect himself.

I refuse to be used! Thank u!

if at all uve nad bin used be4
nobdy knws a philanderer
its onli de society dt uproars it
and d craving tots of some stupid nigerians.
u mite end up nad marrying cos of yur article abv.
u will neva knw a man who has slpt alot in d past
be wise..choose yur man n mk him beta

Stupedinluv:



I am striving for greatness to be really happy in future and one of my watchdogs is to avoid emotional setbacks.

I see you bound in emotional fear, you appeared decent and hopes to settle down with a decent guy. I salute your quality, but would be fulfilled if you embrace Christ Jesus, only in Him will you find joy and happiness. Bible principle is one man one wife till death do you part.

sukkot:
for a 20 year old you write very good. very hard hitting, dramatic and thought provoking and the way you combine words to make hard hitting punches is exquisite . you got talent baby

Thanks!

Well, if OP is nt a virgin, then I c no reason y she'd giv complaints abt studs........Even if I would eventually get married 2 a non-virgin, I would make sure dat her bride price is reduced by 30% at least.






No abusive comments, pls!

Timbuktou:
Stupedinluv, your stand is extremely refreshing in these times. I would ask you to ignore those people making jest of your ideals. Let them wallow in their ignorance.

Thank you. I pray this reawaken some. Its long overdue!

amiskurie:

you were a student of edidot school at badore,ajah?

No not at all.

Napoleone:
I love you! God bless you

And u too

firstEVA:
it's all balanced, you can't have two good people in a relationship, very difficult or two bad people.

Then you are simply telling th Op that its gonna be very difficult for her get a good person.

She might thought she has until she starts hearing the guy story. The holiest person might hide under the cover of darkness or anonymity to go and do the deed

quote author=firstEVA post=44287971] it's all balanced, you can't have two good people in a relationship, very difficult or two bad people. [/quote]

Then you are simply telling th Op that its gonna be very difficult for her get a good person.

She might thought she has until she starts hearing the guy story. The holiest person might hide under the cover of darkness or anonymity to go and do the deed

Another virgin with free MB. Mtsheww

Arsenate:
you can say that again. Most mainlanders will just come all out for one's head once you say you stand for anything moral. They then start stringing some fancy English words to confuse you and have you believe morality is backward and immorality is the way to go. LIE
@Stupedinluv, I totally understand your point of view and don't let anyone here sway your mind.

No one will sway my mind. God is with me

Thankyou so much

egedem:
what's the track name again "no role modelz" right?

Yea dude.

A man who has slept with a lot of people (male or female) is not a stud, he is merely a man with a colorful sex life.

A woman who has had (or has) a lot of people(male or female) she sleeps with is not a slut, she is simply living out her sexuality.
I can't believe a normal being wrote these lines. well my dear may you continue to have a colorful sex life and live out your sexuality till the day Christ will come,then your eyes will open in the other side. look at how you painted a stud and a slut into healthy moral people not minding the fact that they are all heading to everlasting suffering in HELL FIRE. REPENT o