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Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by Creamish(f): 12:33pm On Apr 13, 2016
cassieblake:
Women are literally their own enemy.
The two women would have team up and deal with the man and not the other way round.
The man and his wandering dick shld be made to pay for his crime.

Only God can save us from useless married men.
Mecheww

D'u feel this justifies the cutting of hubbys' d1cks by scorned wives?

mimzy:
Sweetie, i am in no support of the cheats but there are so many ways to deal with a situation like this instead of being brutal like this. hian. What if the lady had died in the process?

Yes there are better ways.. they went way tooo far..

If the lady died, then she will be on her jolly good way to tell God why she decided to ruin someone else's marriage. grin
Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by Nobody: 12:34pm On Apr 13, 2016
Creamish:


D'u feel this justifies the cutting of hubbys' d1cks by scorned wives?
Yes there are better ways.. they went way tooo far..
If the lady died, then she will be on her jolly good way to tell God why she decided to ruin someone else's marriage. grin

wicked!!! grin grin grin
Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by misspicy2(f): 12:34pm On Apr 13, 2016
ClassCaptain:


no way Has the right to take the life of another person no matter how grave the offence is.. It will only amount to homicide...

Did you even consider whether the young girl knew if the man was married or not ? Perphaps he lied to her that he was a widower, divorcee or even an old bachelor ?

Secondly, if she can treat the lady this way, why not treat the husband the same way. WTF ?

And lastly, even if you will fight a husband snatcher, should it go to the extent of cutting her hair, tearing her clothes and dragging her around unclad..

Who knows, some of the friends that followed her to fight the girl might even be banging her husband secretly too.

Cheers

You typed my mind @ the bolded.

The times have changed,some married men now disguise as single to deceive innocent young ladies in the name of relationship,many examples abound and it is saddening that some wives are so 70s they will always resort to fighting for the husbands love by assaulting his mistress.

That is absolute BS and it needs to stop.

Funny thing is that,the assault the wife melted on the mistress will only push the husband to further cheat on her with several other mistress,I wonder how many she can molest. grin


Its high time married men are held responsible for their randy ways rather than blame and assault the Mistress

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Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by Lezzlie(m): 12:35pm On Apr 13, 2016
daretodiffer:
She has every right to kill her. She became her business the moment she knowingly slept with another man's husband.

Islamically and Biblically, both have sinned. Morally, they have acted unconsciously. The concubine and the husband have acted together to break the husband's vows and trust to his wife undecided

The way some people think sef? undecided
Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by ZeeAfrica(f): 12:36pm On Apr 13, 2016
I also find it stupid for the lady to beat the other lady over a man. Infact both the ladies should gang up and beat the man, or just walk away without stressing your self, surely if he cheats on u, one day he wil give u hiv and it wil be too late for yu to try to go. Look I have nothing against the deases, but it is there and it's greedy guys most, who spread it. If u catch him once and he apologises it's fine, but for the second time, no baby girl, don't be fighting sisters out there, just move on with yo life, and surely someone man enough will come yo way, or if u blv in what our mothers used to blv in, which is staying in that bleeped up marriage regardless of what pain u face, well do it,, it's your choice, just remember that life is too short too spend miserable or leaving a lie. How nice it is when u both love and trust each other! being faithful to one another. look girls, that man is not all u can have in life, u deserve better sister girl

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Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by misspicy2(f): 12:37pm On Apr 13, 2016
Creamish:


D'u feel this justifies the cutting of hubbys' d1cks by scorned wives?



Yes there are better ways.. they went way tooo far..

If the lady died, then she will be on her jolly good way to tell God why she decided to ruin someone else's marriage grin

Assaulting her does not even solve half the problem

it only escalates it,now tell me,how many mistresses will she have to kill to curb her husbands roaming third leg?

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Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by Nobody: 12:37pm On Apr 13, 2016
Word!!!
You are absolutely right.

darkenedrebel:
Yup, it's 50 shades of fücked up. I don't think the gentry in the society do such - it's those possessive and ill-mannered Viragos that go about assaulting those they suspect to be screwing their hubbies.

But then again, it's more rampant among females cos they tend to act based on emotions rather than reason.
Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by Nobody: 12:37pm On Apr 13, 2016
kramfonos:
Madam, we know you love to argue pointless when you're actually pseudo-intelligent. You bluntly opined that a woman should be killed 'cause she slept with a married man but the man shouldn't be reprimanded. THAT'S REMINISCENT OF SHARIA LAW - "STONE A WOMAN WHO COMMITS ADULTERY BUT THE MAN GOES FREE".

You're a fanatic. Everyone has been condemning your statement thus far on this thread. Don't derail this thread in your antics. Keep your evil thoughts to yourself.



grin grin grin grin grin grin

You are a very big liar! A very big bad liar!

“The woman and the man guilty of unlawful sex (adultery or fornication), flog each of them with a hundred stripes; let not compassion move you in their case in a matter prescribed by Allah if ye believe in Allah and the Last day; and let a party of the believers witness their punishment”. (24:2)

http://islamicvoice.com/april.99/dialogue.htm


Everyone is stvpid except CC, casieblake and DR grin grin grin

Do not quote me again with pointless and unreasonable arguments. I won't reply them. undecided

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Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by ClassCaptain(m): 12:37pm On Apr 13, 2016
cassieblake:
Women are literally their own enemy.
The two women would have team up and deal with the man and not the other way round.
The man and his wandering dick shld be made to pay for his crime.

Only God can save us from useless married men.
Mecheww

there is this movie nicki minaj and cameron diaz featured in, where three mistress rallied round to punish a cheating husband..

Cant rember title
Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by Nobody: 12:39pm On Apr 13, 2016
Creamish:


D'u feel this justifies the cutting of hubbys' d1cks by scorned wives?



Yes there are better ways.. they went way tooo far..

If the lady died, then she will be on her jolly good way to tell God why she decided to ruin someone else's marriage. grin
Yes grin or she can cut part of his dick.
Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by Nobody: 12:40pm On Apr 13, 2016
Lols. Rubbish talk op rubbish talk.

Actually, everybody was wrong in this story yo reeling out, The randy husband, the miserable mistress, and the Mayweather wife. All dem heads no correct altogether. That's basic.

Now, I will still wanta say of them all the man still better pass. I mean , he didn't bring the stranger home, he was enjoying his poor life discreetly. Who knows what her wife with that kinda insanely hot temperament dey make am face for him to succumb to better options outside? I no too blame u op sha, u can't ever be able to imagine what economically stable men dey face in terms of temptations from hungry wantons in the form of sweet looking ladies for yonder. If u have the slightest idea , u no go too they blame men...
Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by Nobody: 12:41pm On Apr 13, 2016
ClassCaptain:


there is this movie nicki minaj and cameron diaz featured in, where three mistress rallied round to punish a cheating husband..

Cant rember title
Gbam!
This is the best punishment
Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by ClassCaptain(m): 12:43pm On Apr 13, 2016
misspicy2:


Assaulting her does not even solve half the problem

it only escalates it,now tell me,how many mistresses will she have to kill to curb her husbands roaming third leg?


Or make he be say the husband they patronize ashi house ..that kind one wey dey coca cola,

make the man con get one favourite customer and soon the mata waka reach everywhere ..

Shey the wife go carry her yeye body go beat the ashi for their base.?


Kikikikikiki grin
Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by misspicy2(f): 12:45pm On Apr 13, 2016
olrotimi:

Did he approach her with a gun to her head? What happened to her moral decency to turn him down, knowing fully well that he was married. Na yam wey another woman don suffer to cook na im she balance chop well.
I can bet the life of me that she would have turned down many single guys before the man approached her, perhaps she broke off from her bf just to date this man. Those of us arguing that she didn't do wrong should Pls consider and put urselves in the position of this man's wife.Do you know how painful and heart wrenching it is for your husband to be taken away from you by another woman, perhaps after laboring together, setting the home, polishing and grooming the man and perhaps making him what he is today. Do you also consider her children? How would they feel?
Violence is wrong, very wrong but hey ladies, prevention is always better than cure. When a married man approaches you, run! Cos whatever comes after that, na ur headache
Mr the wife will only have herself to blame,beating up the mistress will in no way stop her husband from getting dozens of mistress

Tell me,how many mistresses will she have to deal with if we are to go by this your analysis?


its high time we hold men responsible for any irresponsible acts in marriage

**jeeeeeez**

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Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by HaneefahRN(f): 12:47pm On Apr 13, 2016
So what happens to the wandering di.ck? Their lives, their business.
Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by Nobody: 12:50pm On Apr 13, 2016
kramfonos:



You're a bloody liar and a fanatic!


Here's evidence of a woman being stoned to death by Islamic fanatics like you:

www.mirror.co.uk/news/world-news/woman-stoned-death-adultery-saudi-6912835

Fanatic, you want more links? cheesy

Again, shame on you for supporting violence against a woman who hasn't committed a crime.







You are really not very smart

Sharia law states that '2+1=3'
Judge decided that '2+1=31/2'
Bearing in mind that the Judge has some reservation about '2'.

Who is to be blamed for the 31/2 outcome?

This is my last reply to you. grin

By the way, I MA A FANATIC AND A LIAR. HOWEVER I POINT OUT MY LIES.

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Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by Nobody: 12:50pm On Apr 13, 2016
Ehm can't rem the title oo buh Nicki was the secretary yh and on the day the ladies decided to confront the dude, Nicki locked em all up in the conference room. I love the way the ladies dealt with that guy, they made him return everything he stole, that part where he hit his face on the glass grin grin cheesy cheesy cheesy hilarious


ClassCaptain:


there is this movie nicki minaj and cameron diaz featured in, where three mistress rallied round to punish a cheating husband..

Cant rember title
Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by misspicy2(f): 12:50pm On Apr 13, 2016
ClassCaptain:



Or make he be say the husband they patronize ashi house ..that kind one wey dey coca cola,

make the man con get one favourite customer and soon the mata waka reach everywhere ..

Shey the wife go carry her yeye body go beat the ashi for their base.?


Kikikikikiki grin
Buhahahahaha


coca cola Ashi? shocked

make the wife just kuku dig her grave before going grin
Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by Nobody: 12:52pm On Apr 13, 2016
The husband was in a business meeting at the time of the report . He was unscathed.


Creamish:


You cant be too sure about the bolded. We were only informed about the way the mistress was treated. We are yet to be informed about what went on at home with the husband.
Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by Nobody: 12:53pm On Apr 13, 2016
kramfonos:



You're a bloody liar and a fanatic!


Here's evidence of a woman being stoned to death by Islamic fanatics like you:

www.mirror.co.uk/news/world-news/woman-stoned-death-adultery-saudi-6912835

Fanatic, you want more links? cheesy

Again, shame on you for supporting violence against a woman who hasn't committed a crime.







cheesy This one's head is not correct oh, I mean, u dey think say na d same rule of law wey US dey use na hin dem dey use for Saudi? Abi what exactly are u trying to say when you said adultery no be crime ? Oh, go to Saudi and commit that atrocity and see if dem na go throw u boulders till you take your last breath. Ogbeni, the stoning to death thing isn't a gender biased thing , don't dare paint it to be so. You don see your zombie for here?

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Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by Nobody: 12:54pm On Apr 13, 2016
kramfonos:



You're a bloody liar and a fanatic!


Here's evidence of a woman being stoned to death by Islamic fanatics like you:

www.mirror.co.uk/news/world-news/woman-stoned-death-adultery-saudi-6912835

Fanatic, you want more links? cheesy

Again, shame on you for supporting violence against a woman who hasn't committed a crime.







I forgot to add this:

I was not in support of the ruling for two primary reasons. It is highly likely that the woman was raped and the sentencing was unfair. grin

from...the Islamic fanatic cool.



Ermmmm....when are you going to add terrorist?

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Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by Nobody: 12:59pm On Apr 13, 2016
Exactly, the actions of the wife might just further enrage the hubby , build more love n compassion for the mistress cos he would feel responsible for the ills that befell her.

She has only succeeded in pushing the man away. One cannot fight fire with fire.

Women out there need to watch this movie 'WAR WOOM' there is a lot to be learnt from it


misspicy2:


You typed my mind @ the bolded.

The times have changed,some married men now disguise as single to deceive innocent young ladies in the name of relationship,many examples abound and it is saddening that some wives are so 70s they will always resort to fighting for the husbands love by assaulting his mistress.

That is absolute BS and it needs to stop.

Funny thing is that,the assault the wife melted on the mistress will only push the husband to further cheat on her with several other mistress,I wonder how many she can molest. grin


Its high time married men are held responsible for their randy ways rather than blame and assault the Mistress


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Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by ClassCaptain(m): 12:59pm On Apr 13, 2016
mimzy:
Ehm can't rem the title oo buh Nicki was the secretary yh and on the day the ladies decided to confront the dude, Nicki locked em all up in the conference room. I love the way the ladies dealt with that guy, they made him return everything he stole, that part where he hit his face on the glass grin grin cheesy cheesy cheesy hilarious



took his car and errything..

I loved the youngest of those ladies the most...and of course, nicki minaj.
Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by Nobody: 1:00pm On Apr 13, 2016
daretodiffer:


I forgot to add this:

I was not in support of the ruling for two primary reasons. It is highly likely that the woman was raped and the sentencing was unfair. grin

from...the Islamic fanatic cool.



Ermmmm....when are you going to add terrorist?

Haha! I gbadun your sense of humor , Wifey? kiss kiss ... BTW, u never tell me 'the conditions' nah wink
Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by Creamish(f): 1:02pm On Apr 13, 2016
misspicy2:


Assaulting her does not even solve half the problem

it only escalates it,now tell me,how many mistresses will she have to kill to curb her husbands roaming third leg?

If you visit the female section of a prison, ul be amazed at the number of women who decided to kill their hubbyz for issues like this. Don't underestimate any woman. They can go to the extent of eliminating all threats to their marriage. The fact that you see it as inhuman does not mean the next woman thinks like you do.

Watch the Crime & investigation channel sometimes..u might learn a thing or two about Women who kill.

Always best to keep off other people's property.

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Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by Nobody: 1:02pm On Apr 13, 2016
[quote author=Lezzlie post=44663363][/quote]What? You miss me?
Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by Creamish(f): 1:03pm On Apr 13, 2016
mimzy:
The husband was in a business meeting at the time of the report . He was unscathed.



He was unscathed cos he was in a business meeting. Did the reporter bother to tell us what happened upon his return home?
Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by Creamish(f): 1:05pm On Apr 13, 2016
cassieblake:
Yes grin or she can cut part of his dick.

Some men dont bother studying or really getting to know the woman they are about marrying. They think cos they are men, they are allowed to wander upandan. hahahaha... I juss dey pity dem. grin cheesy
Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by Nobody: 1:10pm On Apr 13, 2016
daretodiffer:

I am talking about responsibilities o/blame o

No you weren't. You said they should wax his side-chick. Stop trying to be clever by half...and besides, the blame/responsibility rest solely on that wanton of a husband...

daretodiffer:
She has every right to kill her. She became her business the moment she knowingly slept with another man's husband.

daretodiffer:

That woman and her friends can go to jail for GBH. They could have handled it some other way without laying a finger on her.

How exactly could she have handled it barring trying to bring her hubby back to his senses through a tête-á-tête?

You can't jail me because I fücked your impressionable wife - you also can't put a woman behind bars for screwing a married man who willingly shambled down her path.

So how? by issuing out threats? that's still tangent with felony.

joseph1832:
Oh you have the strength to argue with that girl who is the personification of D.U.M.B.

D.U.M.B = Diligent unfücwitable Mandelsonian Bronco.

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Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by misspicy2(f): 1:13pm On Apr 13, 2016
Creamish:


If you visit the female section of a prison, ul be amazed at the number of women who decided to kill their hubbyz for issues like this. Don't underestimate any woman. They can go to the extent of eliminating all threats to their marriage. The fact that you see it as inhuman does not mean the next woman thinks like you do.

Watch the Crime & investigation channel sometimes..u might learn a thing or two about Women who kill.

Always best to keep off other people's property.

My dear , going psychotic because of a randy husband has never been know to solve anything.

my point is the wife,will obviously end up escalating the problem,probably to the point you described above or even killing herself too,now what happens to the children when she goes to jail or dies?

because some do it,does not make it acceptable.

and I still emphasize that,before any married woman go ballistic on the mistress,she should at least carry out some investigations,most mistresses are not even aware that their man is married

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