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Re: Why A Guy Should Not Marry A Girl His Age by Nobody: 8:10pm On May 23, 2016
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Re: Why A Guy Should Not Marry A Girl His Age by sunnyeinstein(m): 8:11pm On May 23, 2016
Op thunder fire you. We all cant hv d same marriage preference. I lov to date pple my age and the love of my life is one. We been dating for 7yrs nw and we go marriage dis year. So op, wat is poison for you can be food for me! If u are marryin a lady because u wanto be seeing waistline n bobby in ur grave den u r on ur own oo, so Gerrarrahiameen @op

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Re: Why A Guy Should Not Marry A Girl His Age by sweetcocoa(f): 8:11pm On May 23, 2016
What a mentality, smh.
Re: Why A Guy Should Not Marry A Girl His Age by Nobody: 8:11pm On May 23, 2016
grin
joey150:
so after all you have seen in this world, you still think maturity comes with age?
Re: Why A Guy Should Not Marry A Girl His Age by GloriaNinja(f): 8:11pm On May 23, 2016
halfricanadian:
Its how well u take care of your body

A yonger person can look older

And an older person can look younger
you are damn right, age doesn't matter and I despise seeing old men seeking for underaged girls to marry, age doesn't make a marriage last.
Re: Why A Guy Should Not Marry A Girl His Age by Rhea(f): 8:12pm On May 23, 2016
marvelck:
Since women naturally age faster than men, its not advisable for a guy to marry a girl his age or within his age range. Guys need to marry girls they are far older than with at least 10 years, so that when she's aging everything will still be balanced. You can still be enjoying her breast, and also admiring her full waist line for a long time to come. Compare to when you marry a girl that's only 3 or 5 years younger than you. Before you know it, she'll start looking older than you apart from adding weight anyhow after giving kids. So, let there a space of like 10 years between you and the girl you want to marry, just like fathers used to do it in the past.

[size=14pt]So what if your wife looks older than you? Are you married to her looks or married to her? Some people are still living in a very carnal world. Na so una dey take marry mamiwater, she go enter house carry you put inside fanta bottle, put am over kerosene fire, begin dey stoke the fire any how any how[/size]

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Re: Why A Guy Should Not Marry A Girl His Age by abbey621(m): 8:12pm On May 23, 2016
It's a shame this came out of a normal human being, perhaps the OP is not normal? Who knows! Beauty fades regardless of age, if you marry someone because of nice boobs or a six pack then it speaks volume on your own shallowness. Imagine 27 year old guy marrying a 17 year old girl or a 25 year old guy marrying a 15 year old, in a sane society the OP would be labeled as a Pedophile but in Nigeria he's just ignorant!

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Re: Why A Guy Should Not Marry A Girl His Age by jagorinho: 8:12pm On May 23, 2016
BiafraBushBoy:


I think we have something in common... lol

Am in d same line too, i find younger girls sacred,no matter how beautiful they look.i just have affinity for older ladies.Anytime i see a guy (adult) dating a very young innocent girl,it irritates me to the extent of like pleading with the guy to free the girl.

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Re: Why A Guy Should Not Marry A Girl His Age by Nobody: 8:12pm On May 23, 2016
10 yrs is too much o.
4-5 yrs younger is preferable by me, and I don't mind dating my mate or a lady who is a few years older.

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Re: Why A Guy Should Not Marry A Girl His Age by AVRecruit: 8:13pm On May 23, 2016
sportskid:
You are sooooo wrong, and it is clear you know nothing about marriage, women naturally age faster than men regardless of age differences.Many factors in women are responsible for that.Secondly marrying a woman has nothing to do with her boobs size or weight every woman's boobs must relax after child birth and most women gain weight after child birth, don't be fooled friend, marry a woman that will respect you that's all you need in marriage.Don't marry because of sex, trust me sex go tire you after six months, what will keep you and your baby mama is RESPECT.

it does. You will note that in Christianity its admiration of physical features that is a sin. All these hypocrites deceiving themselves are the same ones that will marry a 30 something lady and go cheat on her with with a teen if possible or early twenties girl.

Again if wealth brought suitors a popular blogger in Nigeria may have been married by now. It is youth and fertility that attracts the boys.

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Re: Why A Guy Should Not Marry A Girl His Age by Nobody: 8:13pm On May 23, 2016
Would you appreciate it if someone referred to your wife as over-used?

lastpage:




They are beautiful but "over-used" already, if you know what l mean. grin grin

Its not every man that likes to "walk the same path every Lagbaja has passed through". undecided undecided




Lastpage!

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Re: Why A Guy Should Not Marry A Girl His Age by Nobody: 8:13pm On May 23, 2016
OP, wetin make Peter of PSquare do?
Re: Why A Guy Should Not Marry A Girl His Age by Nobody: 8:14pm On May 23, 2016
GloryIsaac:
5 yrs difference should be perfect... 10 yrs is too much!!...
It depends. I look very much younger than my age. Some girls think I am 9 years younger than my actual age. In this case what it means is that girls who are 5yrs younger than me will look down on me thinking I am their junior, and when I come them they look too old for me. In this case I will have to end up marrying a girl 15 years younger than me to balance my young appearance.
Re: Why A Guy Should Not Marry A Girl His Age by GloriaNinja(f): 8:14pm On May 23, 2016
your thread is actually not a fact, age doesn't matter and what matters in a marriage is maturity, not about age. age doesn't prolong marriage, you might get along with a woman you are a little bit older. than rather than a girl you are ten years older than. also taking care of the body is what makes women younger.
Re: Why A Guy Should Not Marry A Girl His Age by elbaraj001(m): 8:14pm On May 23, 2016
EVILFOREST:
It is baseless for one to marry AGE MATE.
I pity such MEN, who have this mentalilty of " it Doesn't matter".

When it matters, You will RUSH DOWN to nairaland crying.
A man of 30 should marry a lady of b/w 18 and 22
But above all Age and Character matters.

There are Young, beautiful, virgin damsels out there waiting for U...
Go for such ladies.

Please, name one thing an ELDERLY LADY would do that a young lady can't do...?
Is it JOB.. ...? there are still young ladies..with good jobs.
Rubbish...

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Re: Why A Guy Should Not Marry A Girl His Age by Noblepeace: 8:15pm On May 23, 2016
Out of experience, if u marry ur age mate in no distance time u can't take decisions in d house... she must force her own decisions on you. if u doubt it try it time will teach u

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Re: Why A Guy Should Not Marry A Girl His Age by halfricanadian(f): 8:16pm On May 23, 2016
Tedassie:

How about genetics¿

grin grin grin grin dunno na
Re: Why A Guy Should Not Marry A Girl His Age by Nobody: 8:16pm On May 23, 2016
Hmmm thank God I'm 8 years older than my gurl... wink cheesy

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Re: Why A Guy Should Not Marry A Girl His Age by yinkeys(m): 8:17pm On May 23, 2016
Kachisbarbie:
I agree with you OP.
My hubby is 18yrs older... smiley
cheesy That's a Sugar something

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Re: Why A Guy Should Not Marry A Girl His Age by teemy(m): 8:18pm On May 23, 2016
PureWays:
Nice. I guess we have something in common.

I prefer older ladies, they are very mature, besides I think they are more sexy.
your head dey there bro. by coincidence ladies i fancied were always older.
Re: Why A Guy Should Not Marry A Girl His Age by Olushow144: 8:18pm On May 23, 2016
So your reasonable excuse is sex, for sex's sake alone we should marry people that we are 10yrs older than, Have you heard about inferiority complex, and what about childish behaviours. OP, there's more to marriage than sex, get your thinking right

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Re: Why A Guy Should Not Marry A Girl His Age by franzis(m): 8:19pm On May 23, 2016
Op ..take it or leave it ..am marrying my age mate ..1 year or 6 months is enough....

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Re: Why A Guy Should Not Marry A Girl His Age by yinkeys(m): 8:19pm On May 23, 2016
I'm 6 years older
Re: Why A Guy Should Not Marry A Girl His Age by eyinjuege: 8:19pm On May 23, 2016
I wonder why a lot of people like posting threads telling others how to live their lives.
Its not even well researched, very myopic submission.

You can do better OP, and not tell us because of the waistline you want to be viewing.

There are more reasonable challenges people who are married to older partners face, and how these can be overcome.

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Re: Why A Guy Should Not Marry A Girl His Age by Nobody: 8:19pm On May 23, 2016
Ontarget:

It depends. I look very much younger than my age. Some girls think I am 9 years younger than my actual age. In this case what it means is that girls who are 5yrs younger than me will look down on me thinking I am their junior, and when I come them they look too old for me. In this case I will have to end up marrying a girl 15 years younger than me to balance my young appearance.

Exactly the same thing with me bro. Most people don't believe me when I tell them my actual age. I look about 10 years younger than my age and I love it that way tho.
Re: Why A Guy Should Not Marry A Girl His Age by Nobody: 8:21pm On May 23, 2016
demydea:

.How abt 8yrs? I am 8yrs older than my bae

O boy cheesy , ur issue dey spiritual oo grin grin grin ....

Well, on a serious note, i personally feel 8 yrs is much but its your choice.. whatever floats your boat, it all boils down to how strong the love between you both is (for better, for worse) smiley smiley .....

My 2 cents though wink ...
Re: Why A Guy Should Not Marry A Girl His Age by PureWays(m): 8:23pm On May 23, 2016
teemy:
your head dey there bro. by coincidence ladies i fancied were always older.
cool
Re: Why A Guy Should Not Marry A Girl His Age by Princecharmin(m): 8:23pm On May 23, 2016
BiafraBushBoy:


I think we have something in common... lol
something u'll later live to regret....!!
Re: Why A Guy Should Not Marry A Girl His Age by Mayflowa(m): 8:23pm On May 23, 2016
AngelAhnie:
Really shocked

I don't see anything wrong with it
Re: Why A Guy Should Not Marry A Girl His Age by NZEDELAW: 8:24pm On May 23, 2016
This is a story.
If you love your wife you age with her,a lady you are ten years older than will remain your kid sister emotionally and it may lead to infidelity easily. Just let it be

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Re: Why A Guy Should Not Marry A Girl His Age by demydea: 8:25pm On May 23, 2016
GloryIsaac:


O boy cheesy , ur issue dey spiritual oo grin grin grin ....

Well, on a serious note, i personally feel 8 yrs is much but its your choice.. whatever floats your boat, it all boils down to how strong the love between you both is (for better, for worse) smiley smiley .....

My 2 cents though wink ...


My brother, if u see this babe I can assure u that u will not think twice about wanting to wife her

My 3 cent
Re: Why A Guy Should Not Marry A Girl His Age by jegz25(m): 8:25pm On May 23, 2016
sapiosexual1:
Op leave mata for matthias. I don't date ladies who are more than 3yrs below my age. Trust me, I cope better with the older ladies, dating those with a wide age gap would be like teaching a kid how to talk.
guy exactly wat m experiencing now. In fact m starting 2 regret everytin

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