samhay:



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>: . The story is real. I know both the guy nd the lady

POWEROFPEACE:
My fiancée took money from me one day only to wire it into another guys account. God so kind, she forgot the teller inside her bag and I saw it. I took the name and brows it on Facebook. I was very honest with the guy during our chats so that he told me the whole truth. I wish to quit the relationship even though she is begging but I don't know if that is the right decision because I will be 35 years in just few days from now. Your quality advice might just give way to meaning, Please.

God gave you Revelation, and you're still seeking another advice, the girl took money from her mugu (you), and gave to her lover. Well, if you marry her, make sure you use condom always, and if she gets pregnant, make sure you do DNA test when the baby is born.

I think you should use your head,and thank GOD if not she just be going behind you and be receiving service from the guy.

woman they are the worst

POWEROFPEACE:
My fiancée took money from me one day only to wire it into another guys account. God so kind, she forgot the teller inside her bag and I saw it. I took the name and brows it on Facebook. I was very honest with the guy during our chats so that he told me the whole truth. I wish to quit the relationship even though she is begging but I don't know if that is the right decision because I will be 35 years in just few days from now. Your quality advice might just give way to meaning, Please.

Being close to 35 years doesn't mean you should get hooked with a woman without dignity and conscience. Please stay far from her as she would make you go mad in the near future. Don't be surprised when all your properties and belongings will be transfered to another man if you mistakenly end up with her.

Needless sitting and wasting your time talking it over with her. Move on and pretend she never existed to avoid heartache

Hillzy:
Dude sit her down n talk to her to find out wat are problem really is, before u take any decision. But look op u did'nt say wat d order guy said to u( wich I do understand), d guy was plain wit u n d money part wich d bae send to him, which clearly we both know there is sometin going on between both of dem, so op since u have listen d part of d guy in question u should also sit ur financee down n talk to her cos dat nigga might just fabricating some lies just to get even wit ur woman( or maybe he is blackmailing her) or if possible invite d order guy over n let three of u have a round table discussion to know where u stand before taking any decision, u too check am na all wat u guyz have might pass tru be4 even coming to d point of marriage, would just go down d drain like dat ehmm bros

Idiot he should stand her up not sit her down

Jadeite:


Oga ,if I were to be a man, I'd dump her like hot potato..Don't allow your age force you into something that you may regret..Btw "two-timing " is the word, not "double dating"...

I've been waiting for someone to make the correction. There u are, first to do do. I actually like ur sincerity. The lady in question deserves no second chance.

buksaylor001:
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Then your own goes to say good bye to some other person,and you will be happy-just listen to yourself,it's guys like you that encourage fellow guys to marry oloshos so that you can go ahead and be fagging them.Then you come to nairaland and brag that you slept with a married woman.

It is clear that you are one of those who tell the man to quit. I don't think you know much about the psychology of women.
I related this experience to buttress my point.
The lady denied herself the money and she may have good reasons for doing so.

The issue here requires careful thought, not hasty conclusions.

Sending the guy money could be a way of compensating him for their separation. Most ladies (many of them) have farewell sexual intercourse on their wedding night. Your lady wants to settle with money. Please forgive her knowing in your heart of hearts that you'll also settle your side chic in cash or in kind before the wedding.

This is serious........ To be candid with you, it's either that guy was an ex and was very of help to her which she's trying to reciprocate now or she's planning a future with that guy and just want to use your money to fulfill their plans. Just watch her closely and follow your heart

firstEVA:
It would hurt no doubt, but I can't leave a man if I consider him fit for me in every aspect of life because he cheated at a point in time, once he is genuinely apologetic, I will forgive and go on with wedding plans.




Btw it shouldn't be news that women forgive easily, it's men that don't.

I went to check you on your dp but like me, you were not there.

But Op, you only saw a teller o, not like you found out they are dating, a friend in need I a friend indeed, maybe they're childhood friends or past colleagues! What did u and d other guy discussed sef?

Sorry dude but I think you need to bounce. Cheating is the only thing I can't tolerate in a relationship cos once it happens,I'd always have it at the back of my mind,that it's bound to happen again. No amount of begging would be enough. It takes a lot to get married. If you can't discipline yourself and be faithful to one partner,you've got no need to be in a serious relationship. This applies to both male and female. I cannot spend all my time working hard for us to have a better and comfortable life,and still have to create time to check if you're cheating on me or not. That's just not fair.

make she waka jooooooo

carlcar2012:

Idiot he should stand her up not sit her down

Lolz! E do reach insult level? My dear

plaetton:

Young man, marriage is something that NO ONE should ever enter into with nagging doubts.

It's unimaginable that anyone should make a lifetime commitment to a mate who keeps secrets or is deceitful.

Bro I concur

[quote author=IamSpeakdaTruth post=46178832]tnk u how do we start?[/quote
I have no idea as to how Nairaland works

This one of the major mystery of a woman I still don't understand. Why will a woman chest on a man who is God fearing, support her financially, gives her attention, very romantic, hot and good sex, listens to her physical and emotional needs, cares for her and she knows he puts her needs first before hers. Why why why? Please I really need a respond from a matured woman. Why do women still go ahead and cheat on what other women will define as "Dream Man". This Mata don happen to me twice now and I am tired.

Ifakiland:
as for me...u can take ur pvssy and give anoda guy, not my problem it's urs...but u take my money and give anoda guy I'll bath u acid. Yea am crazy like dat.

you will bath a lady acid just because of money...
you need jesus in your life
yuck.

Julianyao:


Will be frank with you, there's no point in marriage. Just get someone to have kids for you on contract. I bet you you're not gonna have a lot to worry about.

oga boss permit me to buy ur view billion of dollars. U hv just reminded me my view about marriage but i will like to know its merits. Jah bless thee

So you still want to marry a girl paying another guy to fxck her?




That will be fxcking your driver and gatemen including all the small boys in your area



If u go ahead with the marriage your head is not correct

POWEROFPEACE:
My fiancée took money from me one day only to wire it into another guys account. God so kind, she forgot the teller inside her bag and I saw it. I took the name and brows it on Facebook. I was very honest with the guy during our chats so that he told me the whole truth. I wish to quit the relationship even though she is begging but I don't know if that is the right decision because I will be 35 years in just few days from now. Your quality advice might just give way to meaning, Please.

Oga, imagine this scenario:

you go ahead and marry her because you are 35yrs and you feel old. two years later you catch her in a hotel room dishing out various styles to another dude, maybe even your gate keeper or her driver. you feel devastated and divorce her.

you are not only single again at 37 but also a divorcee.

if you like yourself do away with her otherwise you will be forced to raise the children of other men unknowingly.

once a cheat, always a cheat.

she has shown you whom she loves more. she is draining you to give to someone else.

if you get married to her, probably one day she will plot to kill you for her concubine to have your wealth.

a word is enough for the wise.

mr op bringing this matter to the public will only cause serious havoc. ... act maturely... any relationship that is brought into the limelight of the media is a waste.

POWEROFPEACE:
My fiancée took money from me one day only to wire it into another guys account. God so kind, she forgot the teller inside her bag and I saw it. I took the name and brows it on Facebook. I was very honest with the guy during our chats so that he told me the whole truth. I wish to quit the relationship even though she is begging but I don't know if that is the right decision because I will be 35 years in just few days from now. Your quality advice might just give way to meaning, Please.

guy, I take God beg you, free am. Don't ever marry her

op, move on with your life.. You are only worried because of your age and what people will say..
The truth is there's no need going into a relationship not alone marriage with someone you don't trust anymore..
You only be hurting yourself more by thinking anytime you guys aren't together, she's with another guy and I doubt if you can genuinely love her again..

Mariojane:
>: . The story is real. I know both the guy nd the lady

really?!! please tell us more jareh.

Sorry about that but just hope for the best and never allow a bad lady's action,make you treat a good lady bad. That's my philosophy about it. Do your bit and be the good man you want to be,not for anybody else,but for yourself. It would do your conscience a lot of good.

Stelvin101:
This one of the major mystery of a woman I still don't understand. Why will a woman chest on a man who is God fearing, support her financially, gives her attention, very romantic, hot and good sex, listens to her physical and emotional needs, cares for her and she knows he puts her needs first before hers. Why why why? Please I really need a respond from a matured woman. Why do women still go ahead and cheat on what other women will define as "Dream Man". This Mata don happen to me twice now and I am tired.

POWEROFPEACE:
My fiancée took money from me one day only to wire it into another guys account. God so kind, she forgot the teller inside her bag and I saw it. I took the name and brows it on Facebook. I was very honest with the guy during our chats so that he told me the whole truth. I wish to quit the relationship even though she is begging but I don't know if that is the right decision because I will be 35 years in just few days from now. Your quality advice might just give way to meaning, Please.

you be MUMU? She'll still cheat on u when u guys get married

alobright17:
Op wetin concern age with kicking the cheating lady off your life?
We all pray for God to reveal hidden things to us and when he does,that silly feelings we call love will not allow us think straight and do the right thing.The lady dey beg for the disgrace she will face not for the deeds,marry her and she will still keep on with the guy with a different method and they will be mocking you.

I'm talking from experience gained from my ex who is married.

This is very correct.. I wonder why people are saying sit her down or talking love.
Love isn't enough but if the op can tolerate Her, good for him
As for me, even if i forgive Her, I can't trust her anymore and that the feelings I have for her will gradually start diminishing.
it's best they go seperate ways..

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Ifakiland:
as for me...u can take ur pvssy and give anoda guy, not my problem it's urs...but u take my money and give anoda guy I'll bath u acid. Yea am crazy like dat.

Gawd! U killed me

OP u better use your head. As I type, if not for the commandment "thou shall not commit adultery" and the law of karma, I would have emptied one bag of semen inside this beautiful married ex of mine that is lying beside me on this my cozy bed.

yummyricka:
You won't be able to trust her again..and trust is important in every marraige.a woman that can't stay faithful few months to her wedding might not stay faithful after getting married.
And remember a broken engagement is always better ..way way better than a broken marriage✌

I'm inclined to agree with you