Lukmann1:
Most women is gold diggers. its better to stayed alone and look for a fateful girl to lived with.

NevetsIbot:
Lady.. I want it known that I didnt deem it fit to give the lady anything. We've been friends for over 4 yrs. She knows I'm a student just like her. She know the daily struggle and all. She's the ''gold digging'' type. don't just nod your head defiantly at the ''gold digging''.... I can back it up. She's dating her current boyfriend cos he's a rich student... She ridicules guys who aren't financially okay and she recently told me she couldnt date a guy that cnt spend lavishly on her. She could suck your money out of your pocket easily. Did I mention that she's well to do? Her parents are average nigerians. She has alotta food stacked in her home. And she just left that place to my place. She asks to be given everything she lays her hands upon even if it will kill you... She's never given me anything since we've been friends. Condemn me all you want but I won't spend my money to anyone like her. I earn the cash on me, didn't pluck it on trees

olureignforever:


Lukmann1 are you for real, or is this a joke? Correct ur English quickly

Benita27:
she's not my mate, did she say women shld give you guys heaven and earth?.

Smileprince:


Never planned to comment but I felt you deserve a reply from me.
What you don't understand is very simple, when you're in a relationship with a guy and you don't ask him for anything he doesn't have right to ask you for sex. Immediately you ask him for anything, he then have reasons to ask you or touch you.
But much respected lady who doesn't ask a guy for anything don't see any reason to give her partner anything except when she feels like. Though it's not nice to give a lady something and expect her to sleep with you in return. It's not nice. But girls are greedy and guys took advantage of that fact. They know you have needs and they know the only way they can insist you give them is by providing you girls something. But if you can reject any offer your partner, at most the early stages of the relationship. Then he'll know you're not after his money and you also must have dignity by not accepting everything.

gretblue:

Will you date me so I can convince you that all men are not equal?

ehix89:
you that have zero tolerance in giving to your spouse

Lukmann1:
yes boss, its the better way.

muller101:
U won't see ladies on this thread. If they read. Man bought range rover sport for girlfriend they will flood the thread like birds going on migration

merahki:

DevGuru:
I'm happy this has come from a lady... Some ladies also leave their hair undone deliberately to meet guys and demand for money.

merahki:



Dear you, please where is your humanity? She said she was hungry and not that she wanted to suck your soul....Gawd!
I have been reading plenty posts from guys (who most probably have female relatives) filled with vitriol and all about not giving to females...with tips and catcalls for dealing with babes, and suggesting one is pussyfooted if he gave out things to females. This is wrong o.
Very wrong. If we want a world where men rule, fine...but can we not complain when the ruled over species demand to be cared for?
But your post is not nice oooo, feed the hungry biko. Is she not your friend? Do not let Nairaland make you a stingy, bad person. Giving is pure joy...I bet you your daddy would not be proud of what you wrote. Up for the wager? Ask him...or your mom, or your conscience

@ post?
I ask the men in my life to buy me food, and I certainly dodge when it is time to cook, I hate cooking and would rather scrub third mainline bridge
But all of them can attest to (swear on it) the value I add to their lives....I get cooked for too... lucky, valued, appreciated me
This is not a boast at all
I hate cooking....and I ask for food and more to be bought for me, AND I am a good person
True story

Richiy:
What she said is the realest truth

But most men are so dumb that they will keep falling for flashy shiny girls interested in their money while avoiding the real ladies and taking them for granted. . They say one thing online and do the opposite offline

But, that is none of my business

Symphony1:
Most Nigerian ladies are liabilities, very greedy and wicked. They don't deserve pity or care. Its a pity that they really don't want to taste Love because of their materialistic nature which all are vanity. Who cares if u gals are decent or not; we use and dump ur ass, and wen made n want to settle, we pick a very young one and remote em wit our money, fools...

spiralwedge:


A little sense.. Guy, that's all the sense. The biggest punishment is a bad wife. You will just be going in cycle.

Ishilove:
She has made perfect sense. I just hope men will listen

Lukmann1:
Most women is gold diggers. its better to stayed alone and look for a fateful girl to lived with.

singlessubway:
Hmmmm Hope you have a sister?

karryn:
what. Proposal

PencilBox:

: =) victim spotted!