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Re: I Can Forgive A Man That Cheats On Me But Never A Man That Gives Me Disease by nnamdibig(m): 3:42pm On Oct 12, 2016
2dugged:
Abeg, e don do, nor let me vex for you o,what is 80 - 90%? we are talking about Nigerian men here,that same ones who always say they are polygamous in nature and that cheating is their inborn trait and they can't help it,so where did 80- 90% come from?, definitely not the Nigerian men in this country
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How many guys are you having their numbers now? As either admirer or boyfriend or back up plans or just friends?

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Re: I Can Forgive A Man That Cheats On Me But Never A Man That Gives Me Disease by misspicy(f): 3:46pm On Oct 12, 2016
danbrowndmf:
simple question i asked o. Smh.
undecided
Re: I Can Forgive A Man That Cheats On Me But Never A Man That Gives Me Disease by Richy4(m): 3:59pm On Oct 12, 2016
OP just calm down... I am happy you made mention of the 2% that doesn't cheat on their spouse... You might be lucky to get one of them in future... How ever, if you are going into a relationship, forget about the Nigerian factor you mentioned and go with an open mind... until you have the reason not to..... if u start from the beginning to suspect your man, that relationship will not work...Before you start dating a man, there are certain characters ladies chose to ignore and when they were fully committed, they start complaining....If the guy is a cheat, and u date him for 6 months, you must know except you choose to ignore it and think you can change him.....

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Re: I Can Forgive A Man That Cheats On Me But Never A Man That Gives Me Disease by Nobody: 4:17pm On Oct 12, 2016
2dugged:
do you also know that in some tribes, women are not allowed to return back to their fathers house after marriage?, do you also know that society tends to shame a woman who leaves her husband for what ever reason?,it's not about being independent, down here, most women are the bread winners of their family, but end up putting up with nasty husbands because cult/religion has made it seem like husband is the crown of a woman, another reason why you see people quick to shame unmarried ladies as if it's a medal, and when one decides to speak against it,she is tagged a feminist

I know it's unfair but the only people who can do away with such cultural practices are women themselves.
Re: I Can Forgive A Man That Cheats On Me But Never A Man That Gives Me Disease by Nobody: 4:49pm On Oct 12, 2016
Mindfulness:


I know it's unfair but the only people who can do away with such cultural practices are women themselves.
how,enlighten us
Re: I Can Forgive A Man That Cheats On Me But Never A Man That Gives Me Disease by Nobody: 4:53pm On Oct 12, 2016
nnamdibig:

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How many guys are you having their numbers now? As either admirer or boyfriend or back up plans or just friends?








I should actually direct that question to you, there is a saying that a guy saying he just wants to be friends with a lady is like saying you have a chicken you don't intend to eat, this is about married men,and besides how many guys can swear that they have never cheated on their girlfriend at least once?

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Re: I Can Forgive A Man That Cheats On Me But Never A Man That Gives Me Disease by Nobody: 5:32pm On Oct 12, 2016
2dugged:
how,enlighten us

Do your thing and ignore what 'society' says and by doing your thing, you will meet people like you. All is well.

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Re: I Can Forgive A Man That Cheats On Me But Never A Man That Gives Me Disease by Nobody: 5:35pm On Oct 12, 2016
Mindfulness:


Do your thing and ignore what 'society' says and by doing your thing, you will meet people like you. All is well.
ignore society?, how is that even possible?, any I hear you
Re: I Can Forgive A Man That Cheats On Me But Never A Man That Gives Me Disease by Nobody: 5:38pm On Oct 12, 2016
2dugged:
ignore society?, how is that even possible?, any I hear you

Many people have managed to do it. Some people even make huge money by breaking societal norms and expectations. I have the feeling that you don't want to leave the vicitm zone and prefer to play the blame game. It's your choice.

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Re: I Can Forgive A Man That Cheats On Me But Never A Man That Gives Me Disease by Nobody: 5:46pm On Oct 12, 2016
Another attention seeking nairalander on the loose. Check well, one may find out this one hasn't passed SSCE yet or's still struggling with JAMB.

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Re: I Can Forgive A Man That Cheats On Me But Never A Man That Gives Me Disease by Ugoeze2016: 5:46pm On Oct 12, 2016
Are you going to wait for him to give you disease?

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Re: I Can Forgive A Man That Cheats On Me But Never A Man That Gives Me Disease by Ranchhoddas: 5:49pm On Oct 12, 2016
charix:
Another attention seeking nairalander on the loose. Check well, one may find out this one hasn't passed SSCE yet or's still struggling with JAMB.
I am inclined to agree.

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Re: I Can Forgive A Man That Cheats On Me But Never A Man That Gives Me Disease by Nobody: 5:50pm On Oct 12, 2016
fp,yay!
Re: I Can Forgive A Man That Cheats On Me But Never A Man That Gives Me Disease by Naff24(f): 5:50pm On Oct 12, 2016
Newbeginnings:
Most men cheat... because the women allow it.... simple... If a man loves a woman dearly and she does not allow him to cheat, he will never ever ever cheat
Marry someone you both love one another dearly.

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Re: I Can Forgive A Man That Cheats On Me But Never A Man That Gives Me Disease by 3rdlegxxx(m): 5:52pm On Oct 12, 2016
2dugged:
and Mr man did I tell you I don't have an education?, even PhD holders still get cheated on, it's a Nigerian factor that has got nothing to do with education, after all one can imagine that with all the education in this country, in some regions child bride is still common while in some regions the girl child doesnt have an inheritance, so what education are you talking about?, stick to the topic and stop delving into what you know little about

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Re: I Can Forgive A Man That Cheats On Me But Never A Man That Gives Me Disease by freeman95(m): 5:52pm On Oct 12, 2016
2dugged:
we all die anyway

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Re: I Can Forgive A Man That Cheats On Me But Never A Man That Gives Me Disease by TheRealestGuy(m): 5:53pm On Oct 12, 2016
Cheating is not limited to the male gender alone so OP stop the stupid one sided thinking.

I know many married women that sleep around too so WTF?

You have no point here honestly so shut up!

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Re: I Can Forgive A Man That Cheats On Me But Never A Man That Gives Me Disease by Nobody: 5:54pm On Oct 12, 2016
charix:
Another attention seeking nairalander on the loose. Check well, one may find out this one hasn't passed SSCE yet or's still struggling with JAMB.
assumptions are for fools, just because an individual's opinion is not palatable to you, gives you no right to insult their person,if only you didn't have a blurred perception, you would have alreast do a little digging before casting your aspersions about me

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Re: I Can Forgive A Man That Cheats On Me But Never A Man That Gives Me Disease by OfficialArinze(m): 5:54pm On Oct 12, 2016
What if the man isn't aware he has the disease??
Ndi mmadu self
Re: I Can Forgive A Man That Cheats On Me But Never A Man That Gives Me Disease by PunterTim(m): 5:55pm On Oct 12, 2016
These feminists don't give up!

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Re: I Can Forgive A Man That Cheats On Me But Never A Man That Gives Me Disease by Nobody: 5:56pm On Oct 12, 2016
freeman95:


we all die anyway
so since we will all die, it's justifiable to infect one's wife with disease abi?
Re: I Can Forgive A Man That Cheats On Me But Never A Man That Gives Me Disease by logicab: 5:57pm On Oct 12, 2016
2dugged:
I have tried so hard to convince myself that maybe it's just my environment, maybe there are faithful married men in other parts of the country. 95 % of married Nigerian men cheat on their wives atleast once, while from the 5%, 3% have not cheated because the opportunity has not presented itself yet, and only 2% are actually faithful to their wives.
Where did you get the stats from?

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Re: I Can Forgive A Man That Cheats On Me But Never A Man That Gives Me Disease by 3rdlegxxx(m): 5:57pm On Oct 12, 2016
2dugged:
show me a Nigerian married man that has never cheated on his wife first

babe it's silly (no offence) to answer a question with a question tho, your figures are fake and misleading, babe always state your source if you must drop facts like this if not you would be misleading a lot of people, now back to your topic, you are so correct and on point about this, it's really bad and we the guys know it but the disease thing is something else tho, if a girl or lady accepts her man cheating and apologies and keep letting him have sex with her without protection, she is only asking for whatever is out there to come to her and considering that a whole lot of girls and guys don't use cd's, it's crazy to imagine the amount of people walking about with infections and looking fine

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Re: I Can Forgive A Man That Cheats On Me But Never A Man That Gives Me Disease by Kenshinmunac(m): 5:58pm On Oct 12, 2016
2dugged:
do you also know that in some tribes, women are not allowed to return back to their fathers house after marriage?, do you also know that society tends to shame a woman who leaves her husband for what ever reason?,it's not about being independent, down here, most women are the bread winners of their family, but end up putting up with nasty husbands because cult/religion has made it seem like husband is the crown of a woman, another reason why you see people quick to shame unmarried ladies as if it's a medal, and when one decides to speak against it,she is tagged a feminist


I am someone who has never cheated on his partner and will never cheat, I'm even very cute yet well behaved just like father, who taught me self discipline, but my problem is I have not seen a girl to love me. cry

Why all the bad people have all the good things...
Re: I Can Forgive A Man That Cheats On Me But Never A Man That Gives Me Disease by Nobody: 5:58pm On Oct 12, 2016
PunterTim:
These feminists don't give up!
do you even understand what feminism means?, a woman says she can bear being cheated on but can't bear being infected by her careless husband, and you say it's feminism, Abeg go back a get enlightened, stop being chauvinistic

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Re: I Can Forgive A Man That Cheats On Me But Never A Man That Gives Me Disease by namuguibe(m): 5:58pm On Oct 12, 2016
I hope the OP has included her father among the 95% of Nigerian men that she claims are cheaters grin

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Re: I Can Forgive A Man That Cheats On Me But Never A Man That Gives Me Disease by PunterTim(m): 6:00pm On Oct 12, 2016
2dugged:
I should actually direct that question to you, there is a saying that a guy saying he just wants to be friends with a lady is like saying you have a chicken you don't intend to eat, this is about married men,and besides how many guys can swear that they have never cheated on their girlfriend at least once?
Trust me,a lot!

How many girls can swear that they have never cheated on their boyfriends?

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Re: I Can Forgive A Man That Cheats On Me But Never A Man That Gives Me Disease by Nobody: 6:01pm On Oct 12, 2016
Kenshinmunac:



I am someone who has never cheated on his partner and will never cheat, I'm even very cute yet well behaved just like father, who taught me self discipline, but my problem is I have not seen a girl to love me. cry

Why all the bad people have all the good things...
then count your self among the 2%
Re: I Can Forgive A Man That Cheats On Me But Never A Man That Gives Me Disease by jmoore(m): 6:01pm On Oct 12, 2016
Chai Chai Chai!!!

Men cheat with robots? undecided



Sorry!!!!!!!!!

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Re: I Can Forgive A Man That Cheats On Me But Never A Man That Gives Me Disease by DevGuru: 6:01pm On Oct 12, 2016
Cheating on your wife is corruption... and NOT IN MY COUNTRY!!!

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Re: I Can Forgive A Man That Cheats On Me But Never A Man That Gives Me Disease by Nobody: 6:01pm On Oct 12, 2016
PunterTim:
Trust me,a lot!

How many girls can swear that they have never cheated on their boyfriends?
there are alot but let's reverse the question, how many guys can swear?
Re: I Can Forgive A Man That Cheats On Me But Never A Man That Gives Me Disease by Kenshinmunac(m): 6:02pm On Oct 12, 2016
2dugged:
then count your self among the 2%


Who 2% help...

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