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| Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by lexajen(f): 9:12am On Oct 25, 2016 |
Maaamaaa I think your sins are already before you and there is no need beating you with it all over. But just incase no one has told you, it was wrong of you to have continued when you found out he was dating. I do not know your tenets/values when it comes to marriage but do you really want this marriage, especially now that you know the reasons why he is marrying you? Are you really sure you can go through with it? Mama, if you want to continue with the marriage for the sake of your child and the love you have for him which for the time being is unrequited and MIGHT likely remain so for a veery long time, then you have to brace up with the virtues of kindness and patience. You have to be ready to endure by getting a life. Do not allow your world to revolve around him as he will keep causing you more frustration and emotional pain as a result of what he thinks you put him through. Patience and loving kindness is the keyword, but you must also detach yourself emotionally and be strong. That's if you choose to go through with the marriage. All the best. 17 Likes |
| Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Twogreatnations: 9:14am On Oct 25, 2016 |
@ princessKF, congratulations dear, so happy for you, we thank God for safe delivery. ##teamnovember# ##teammassiveporting## |
| Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by lexajen(f): 9:16am On Oct 25, 2016 |
I was so taken with Zoe's arrival that I failed to congratulate other moms among us who have given birth. Congratulations Mamas  PrincessKF, Missade and everyone whose moniker I can't remember now. Congrats!  Happy Birthday to the fresh baby on this thread. Zaynie's Atinuke. Her eyes got me  4 Likes |
| Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by jazzyjazz: 9:18am On Oct 25, 2016 |
@maaamaaa I will try as much as I can not to be harsh. If at any point you feel I'm harsh, then I apologize in advance You know like they always say, a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage. You're not married yet (though pregnant) and you're seeing his true colors. What makes you think he will change? The ex he claimed to have broken up with, he's still dating and you're still having hope that he'll change? He says you forced him to marry you and you're still hoping for change! He's says he's marrying you to save you embarrassment in the office and you still hope he will change When you told him you were pregnant he said you should abort the pregnancy and you're still hoping for change!!! All the signs are there! I may be wrong anyways! But the way I see it, if you keep pushing it, you may be walking into something that you might regret in the future! Being a single mum is not a crime! It does not mean your child will receive less love! And it does not mean that you will not marry again! My mum has been a single mum for 29years!!! And looking at my father's kids and me, she did a damn good job! A better job than my father has done with his other kids!!! The mistake you made was to date him knowing he had a girlfriend. But that's in the past now I can't tell you to leave him or stay with him, only you can decide that for yourself. All I can say is, don't walk in to something you will regret in the future. I am sorry if any part of my response comes off as offensive. May God guide you to make the right decision for the sake of your happiness and the life of your child. 31 Likes |
| Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Maaamaaa: 9:22am On Oct 25, 2016 |
Thank you lexajen and jazzy jazz... GOD bless you so much for your words. |
| Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by simababe(f): 9:22am On Oct 25, 2016 |
Pandorabox: Mehn it depends on you. You know how sound academically u are. I had my first a month to my 3rd year first semester exams and had to resume school 2weeks after delivery by c-section, though I was home for like 32weeks cos of strike but I still did well but not as before while I got pregy again during final year first semester exams n gave birth few month after grad. Thank God I was able 2 grad with the remaining 20 out of 64. In all its not goin to be a smooth ride but you can alwayz pull through. |
| Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by princessKF(f): 9:25am On Oct 25, 2016 |
Princesskiki: Amen thanks ma |
| Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by princessKF(f): 9:26am On Oct 25, 2016 |
SisiNini:Thanks ma |
| Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by princessKF(f): 9:27am On Oct 25, 2016 |
Besea: Thanks ma |
| Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by princessKF(f): 9:28am On Oct 25, 2016 |
enque:Thanks ma..... porting is allowed |
| Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Coldfeet(f): 9:28am On Oct 25, 2016 |
Happy birthday to your princess Zaynie! May she always make you proud. Many years she will celebrate in good health, kisses to her she's so adorable Congrats princesskf kisses to baby Fame. 2 Likes |
| Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by princessKF(f): 9:28am On Oct 25, 2016 |
Blessedmum: Amen....Thanks ma.... kisses to baby Jay 1 Like |
| Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by LadyMessi(f): 9:28am On Oct 25, 2016 |
enque: Alright teamie! I won't rush baby again. |
| Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by princessKF(f): 9:29am On Oct 25, 2016 |
Akorkor:Thanks ma. |
| Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by princessKF(f): 9:30am On Oct 25, 2016 |
lexajen:Thanks ma 1 Like |
| Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by princessKF(f): 9:31am On Oct 25, 2016 |
Coldfeet: Thanks ma 2 Likes |
| Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by tiwatopebam(f): 9:32am On Oct 25, 2016 |
My mama Zanyie, thanks, vex ke, Ok, let the registration start, am so sure so many mamas from ttc wil still join us. Oya drink the wine that I brought oo with my ten bags of rice. Team June 2017 for supernatural delivery Welcome Tiwatopebam. Have a healthy and fruitful pregnancy. Oya no vex again..... chop kiss You can keep an eye on more incoming June mamas and even take up it's Captainship  [/quote]1 Like |
| Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Sixx: 9:49am On Oct 25, 2016 |
Wow, so many goodnews ds morning. Maam Zaynie, Atinuke is bae, happy birthday swthrt, keep giving ur parents constant joy. Dat her baby pic, so adorable...makes me wanna born now! Congrats Iomoge2 and PrincessKF, may baby Zoe and baby Fame bring u constant peace n joy. Hmm Rukkinton my paddy, happy wedding anniversary. Luking gud girl. Cute bump Enque, e don dey reach o, may God mke it easy 4 u. @Maaamaaa, honestly I feel 4 u. Bt honey, I think u shud walk away now b4 its too late, u know wat they say... Beta a failed engagement than a failed marriage... Its true. Marriage is not for one day, its a soul tie, till death. You see this person everyday, he will annoy u everytime, u hv 2 4giv n 4get everytime, u expect him 2 support u n comfort u everyday, u expect him 2 return home 2 u everyday, sleep wit only u all his life, my dear, its a lot of demands in marriage and he has made it clear that he doesn't luv u and can't giv u all that except for God's intervention. Do not ignore the warning signals dear, many did and are paying dearly 2day. Since u say u wud kip ur child marriage or not, pls walk, 4get what office or people will say, they wuldnt be there when u are suffering, infact dey wud say, didn't she know before she married him. Don't bring dat luvly baby into an unhappy home, it hurts, and the effects can be long term. 12 Likes |
| Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Zheemub(f): 9:49am On Oct 25, 2016 |
Maamaa, take a step back and think things through. If he has a friend or religious cleric u can talk to so as to know how he is feeling and his stance on the marriage. Honestly, the decision is yours. How do you see yourself in the next 2-5 years? Give him his space. If you can afford it get a place to stay till the marriage is done. So that you won't be frustrated. Above all pray to God. He is all knowing. May He direct your affairs and make all things easy for you. Hugs 3 Likes |
| Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by tiwatopebam(f): 9:50am On Oct 25, 2016 |
Am also team June, you are experienced, Team June 2017 for supernatural delivery tikosdear: 1 Like |
| Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by LadyMessi(f): 9:52am On Oct 25, 2016 |
Yepaaaaaaa! Team November dropping it like haute. Congrats my pretty PrincessKF on the arrival of your lo. May he be a source of joy to your family 1 Like |
| Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by SisiNini(f): 10:05am On Oct 25, 2016 |
@Maaamaaa The truth is that you brought dis whole issue upon yourself. One, the guy told you the gospel truth frm the onset that he was in a relationship (distant), but still went ahead to date him (forced urself on him)... Two, you told him to choose btw the 2 of you (forced urself on him)... Three, when you discovered he was still with d first lady, why didn't u leave them in peace? (forced urself on him)... Four, why in the world will you move in with a man that you've not done any marital rite or introduction? (forced urself on him again)... My sister, am not claiming holier than thou but we deserve little dignity abeg... Don't let him marry you out of pity... What happens after some months / years in marriage when the love and romance fade away...? The only thing that will keep you guys going is friendship... Now, u want to build a family where there is no love and friendship... Hmnnnn... It can't be easy o... Save that innocent baby the pain of growing up in a hostile environment... Just put the wedding preparations on hold and don't force him to love or care for you... Devote more time to making urself happy... It is better to be called 'single' than tagged 'once married' or living a frustrated family life... Let him make his choice without any manipulation or influence... Men are chasers, they get pissed off when u chase them... They are wired like that... Peace be unto you... #hugs 13 Likes |
| Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Nobody: 10:11am On Oct 25, 2016 |
simababe:Thankyou. 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by rofemiguwa(f): 10:17am On Oct 25, 2016 |
Zoey welcome.congrats iomoge2. Atinuke baby happy happy happy birthday.may u continue to grow in health and body and sound mind. U shall be a blessing to ur generation. Abeg mummie zaynie invite us for d party.i like owambe biko. All dropping mama.congrats to u. All waddling mama jisike nu 3 Likes |
| Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by airforcewife(f): 10:18am On Oct 25, 2016 |
Onyinyechikao08 your BS got me laffin out Loud! Esp at where Dh was holding your legs while you screamed thank God for the arrival of your LO! Maama Ozycy! Ma we are at your service! Just signal whenever you are ready Ma! You get double round trips coz of baby Sophie! Permission to carry on Ma! Congrats Iomoge! Welcome baby Zoey! May she become a source of constant joy to you! Amin! Happy birthday to Zaynie's munchkin Atinuke! Wishing her many more happy returns! Congrats Princesskf, the hottt Maama! May your LO become a source of joy to u all! Pandorabox it is very do-able! During our grad, the overall best student was a Maama that put to bed just 2 days earlier! However, pregnancies differ and one might not have it like a walk in the park like some! 2 Likes |
| Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Iyomomoreloaded: 10:21am On Oct 25, 2016 |
Zaynie so our small chikini pwerrie hairy yummilicious posing baby Atinuke of that year is one already ,na wa oh, God is indeed Awesome! Wish her God's blessings, grace and protection. May she continually be a source of greet joy to ur home! Imoge2, princessKF and all other mama's that have just put to bed. May ur children be a sourc3 of everlasting smile in ur homes. Thanks to all that welcomed me that I didn't mention, it wasn't intentional. God bless you all. Amen! 2 Likes |
| Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by airforcewife(f): 10:24am On Oct 25, 2016 |
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| Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Iyomomoreloaded: 10:39am On Oct 25, 2016 |
@ maaamaaa I understand, it's not an easy time you're passing throu , but truthfully it will seem your guy was pressured into the relationship and he also wanted to eat his cake and have it, that was why he succumbed to the ultimatum of choosing. 9/10% of d time, when such circumstances arise, the man most certainly always continues with both r/ships. When u found out he was 2 timing, dat was a cue for u to back off. But it's not late now, it might be a tough decision, but you'll be better off on the long run, please call of the wedding! How much hate and resentment can you handle? It might lead to violence in future, don't keep devaluing you self. Brace up, stand up , for yours and your child's sake. If you decide to go ahead, you'll need a cardiologist, neurologist and maybe a psychiatrist, Co's the guy will be bent on causing you heartbreak and frustration. This is not a matter for prayer and fasting, but of putting 1 & 2 together. I pray God gives you the wisdom to make the right decision and the strength to pull through. 7 Likes |
| Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Nobody: 10:42am On Oct 25, 2016 |
airforcewife:Thanks. 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by 4realwoman: 10:47am On Oct 25, 2016 |
Big congrats mamas to Godmother, deyoola, Missade, iomoge2 and princessKF may your LOs bring you joy and happiness always @Rukkington, HWA @Prettmum, Happy birthday @Mama Zaynie, Happy birthday to Adaeze Atinuke may she always be a blessing to your family and the nation at large. 2 Likes |
| Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Teegali(f): 10:47am On Oct 25, 2016 |
Congratulations princessKF ,and all other mamas that have just delivered ,God bless and preserve all your LOs. |
| Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Teegali(f): 10:49am On Oct 25, 2016 |
Happy birthday to Atinuke darling,with more of Allah's rahma.,@zaynie,I love the jerry coil hair. 1 Like |
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