Easy4reel:
Hi everyone, this is undoubtedly d best forum I've followed here on NL....Thumbs up Harddon and other bosses.

I've got this issue and I'll appreciate if the boss can put me through. There's this girl I like so much, we got really really close fter she broke up with her boyfriend(that's about 6months ago), although she's like a younger sister to me(even calls me bro) so she took me like her brother. But I want more....

Maybe I made a mistake by asking her out recently which she turned down outrightly but after much talks she said she will think about it and I should give her till may next yr, yes may 2017(that's about 6months) . I[b] used to think she feels d way I feel [/b] cos we talk and play a lot ( online though ), she do tell me about her ex(cos he wants her back) and other guys that propose her even sending me d pictures of those guys and the screenshots of their chats, telling me she misses me every single day. There was a day she said she couldn't concentrate on wat she was reading cos she was thinking about me. All these things made me think she also has d same feeling but it seems I'm wrong cos she turns me down instantly although in a respectful way.

Got it. Well, it's happened already. What do you advice?

goddysweb:
Harddon Baba, you're the man!!!

Mehnnn, there's one babe o lol. I went for a major musical concert in a church. OK to start with, I play keys. After the concert, one WELL-ENDOWED pretty lady walked up to me and was like; "Hey, I was looking for you. Where have you been?", I told her I needed to quickly step out and make a call. She said "well, finally I got to meet you today. I've been tracking you (lol)" and in my mind I was like, Tracking ME? She said "YES". That anytime she sees me, a picture of her male friend from high school pops-up in her head, and that I look like him. That she follows me on Social Media (Instagram, Facebook) and most seminars I attend. I felt that was weird.

Well, she said when she saw me at that program, she told herself she was gonna push herself to come talk to me, and that she's fulfilled. She had to request for my number. I didn't want to give her at first. After pleading, I had to grab her phone and type my number. Long story short, on my way home, I got a text from her.

"Hey Hey, Thanks for being nice about meeting a strange lady who has been more or less tracking (not stalking you) Hahahahahaha
Do have a blessed day. Hope to see you again... and if not do have a beautiful Christmas. Chinma"

My reply: "Oh! You even have plans to see me again? I gotta stay away from you, ma'am. You probably might just kidnap me the next time we see. Goodnight stalker (smiley).

HER: "Lolololololol please don't stay away. You're safe. Sleep well!" I quote her verbatim.

I kinda like this babe, she's my spec (got the brains, speaks well, good sense of humor, and all that good stuff) hehe. I don't wanna blow things up man , what should I do? What tricks should I deploy?

@Harddon

liljboy:
read from page 1

hottest111:

Bro, you're totally right. There's a way n manner of doings things.. Thanks gee

My sincere Apology to HARDDON n everyone.

WackyJ1:


That's better. I am happy you have taken the conciliatory route. We're all brothers in arms here.

Baba HARDDON, what do you have to say? Apology Accepted?

Reminez:

Sunday evening. .It's still there at the moment .

okwypascal:

1; start ignoring her, cut all calls and visits. jus start being busy 2, make her know u av a life of ur own, stop acting needy. don't show it that u re pained, jus be taking deep breaths and reply like a boss that av millions of gals at his beck and call
2; start growing some ballz and start catching new fishes especially in her hostel, jus go there not to see her(jealousy mode would be activated). make her see u spend time with the gals(hope u already know how to meet gals if u read from the first page).
3;And if she starts coming around, don't fall immediately. make her hustle for ur attention she never valued.
piss out
harddon still learning from u o

HARDDON:


Sleek!

i think with guys like u, wacky, lordZero and a host of others around, my work just got easier!

now i can focus on the main thingy while you guys handle questions. Perfect Blend

okwypascal:

1; start ignoring her, cut all calls and visits. jus start being busy 2, make her know u av a life of ur own, stop acting needy. don't show it that u re pained, jus be taking deep breaths and reply like a boss that av millions of gals at his beck and call
2; start growing some ballz and start catching new fishes especially in her hostel, jus go there not to see her(jealousy mode would be activated). make her see u spend time with the gals(hope u already know how to meet gals if u read from the first page).
3;And if she starts coming around, don't fall immediately. make her hustle for ur attention she never valued.
piss out
harddon still learning from u o

if a man did all u say,believe id replace him
While he is forming hot commodity
I'll actually have the numbers and wont hesitate 2 pick his successor from them

ILuvGummyBearz:
if a man did all u say,believe id replace him
While he is forming hot commodity
I'll actually have the numbers and wont hesitate 2 pick his successor from them

AngelSweetLips:


See how far you travel you even disturb them here #Girl power whoosh

Nubian,thats u on the 1st page of this thread so what u talkin'?

ILuvGummyBearz:
Nubian,thats u on the 1st page of this thread so what u talkin'?

AngelSweetLips:


Noooòo. My name is angel you witch

babe

ILuvGummyBearz:
babe

AngelSweetLips:


I had to check just in case and it's yoooou and all your loony puffpuff you disturb this boy

I'm out before he drops his poetry on me about how I want him and I can't have him blah blah lol dude is a sandwich short of a picnic. Bye

bye

ILuvGummyBearz:
bye

Presh900:
You been derailing this thread right from Page 1

Yes sir,that's what i specialize in

ILuvGummyBearz:
Yes sir,that's what i specialize in

Presh900:
wow!! What a nice Talent!! What brilliance!

dont get too excited, u might wet yerself!!!

ILuvGummyBearz:
dont get too excited, u might wet yerself!!!

Presh900:
well... Yester-night , i was asking you about one night stands

hmmm. No Presh, I will not have a night stand with u, u aint sexy enough

ILuvGummyBearz:
hmmm. No Presh, I will not have a night stand with u, u aint sexy enough

."not sexy enough" .. This is enough to make a man cry!! You seen my pix b4

Presh900:
."not sexy enough" .. This is enough to make a man cry!! You seen my pix b4

No?but i know

ILuvGummyBearz:
No?but i know

Presh900:
....how??

too many question,I've gotten confused

ILuvGummyBearz:
too many question,I've gotten confused

Presh900:
...evading questions as usual

So you prefer one Night Stands with John Cenna??

u saw me tell tso.m that.
○○○
U are adamant about this night stand,why are u askin' me this?

ILuvGummyBearz:
u saw me tell tso.m that.
○○○
U are adamant about this night stand,why are u askin' me this?

HARDDON:


you did very well! classic case of thinking on your feet!
but hey, you have to be smart: make your findings about her b4 things get outa hand, cos as it stands now, you are @ a disadvantage. she knows u, u dont know her,,,,,nor her intentions..... u have to subtly find out.... start with fb user name..... " hey, wor is your fb username
? i wano send you somtin very funny"

my lil worry though is why a guy wud have a lady totally drooling for him and he goes sounding needy..... @ bolded

it is she who should be worried of not blowing it with you not the other way round! just do your tingy and let her worry about how to impress u!

Presh900:
Yea, I did

Just messing with ya Mind..don't feel flattered buh i won't mind a taste of you tho'

LordZero:


You accused someone of derailing and you are helping her. ... Not dope bro.

Presh900:
Sorry bro

i've been following this thread and am a big fan of urs too