See all the photos from their wedding in earlier thread https://www.nairaland.com/3221350/nigerian-constance-onyeka-weds-wheelchair

Theirs is a tale of true love that loves against all odds. They got married on July 9, 2016 and their wedding pictures went viral online. Isaac and Constance Obasogie shared their love story in this exclusive interview with Kemiashefonlovehaven

Where did you meet each other?

Constance: In 2009 at the Delta State University, Abraka, where we were undergraduates. Isaac came to check on my roommate.

Isaac: I went to see a lady called Nancy because she had a message for me from my dad. As I entered the room, I observed that a particular bed was high and I asked who was using the bed. Nancy explained that her roommate is on a wheelchair. Though Constance was not around that day, as I was about leaving the room, the spirit of God told me, “Tell her that she can walk.” I told Nancy and she said, it’s true because Constance knew that she will still walk. I visited Nancy again and luckily, I met Constance.

Constance: I had gone on a trip to Lagos and when I returned; Nancy told me what he said. In 2010, he came to check on Nancy again, who wasn’t around and I saw him for the first time. He left. He came another weekend and we started talking about me and how I coped with my challenge. He asked how I was making it to class. I explained to him that a friend helped to take me for lectures which wasn’t regular. In the first semester of my 100 level, I missed a lot of classes due to this. So, Isaac volunteered to be taking me to and fro classes and church. He now assured me that as long as he was in school, he would come to take me to class and church. I didn’t believe him initially but he came. He was studying Physics Electronics and I studied Mass Communications. We worked around our time-tables and he would have shuttle between campus, my hostel and his.

Isaac, when you graduated, who was taking her?

Isaac: I had to stay back in school after graduation so as to help her with her movement. If I left, there would be nobody to help her to class, church etc. I was exempted from national youth service and I was offered a job in school. I stayed back for two years and did other menial jobs to survive. After she graduated, we came to Lagos.


Did you tell anyone in your family?

Isaac: No, I didn’t tell anybody.

What was the attraction to you when there were other girls who were not challenged?

Isaac: I can’t explain. First I saw a woman who is respectful. Every man wants a woman who is respectful. Character, to me, is beauty not the physical looks. Also, she won me over with the food she cooked. I asked her if she would be the mother of my children and she told me that she knew the first day I knocked on the door that I would be her husband.

Did your family members know her as your fiancée?

Isaac: No, none knew. They knew that I had a friend who is on a wheelchair, a gospel artiste, who we went out to minister together. They never knew we were courting.

Constance, what made you think he would not deceive you?

Constance: I always pray on any issue. I knew I needed someone that would be caring for a husband. So, before I got admission to school, I prayed and told God that the man that would be my husband would come to my house and knock on my door. I also said he would not be fair, or too dark or too hairy. I gave all these conditions so that when he comes, I would know. I told God that I don’t want someone that would see my condition but someone that would see my strength. Naturally, Isaac understands me. He does not see the weakness. He knows how to operate the wheelchair.

At what stage of the friendship did he ask you out?

Constance: Almost a year after he met me.

How did you cope in school especially with snide remarks?

Constance: We were students and we didn’t come from rich homes because they would have said we started dating because he had money or because I had money. In my hostel, girls liked him and called him ‘Bobo’. There was a particular girl who told me that he would not marry you because all men are the same. I told her that all men are not the same and if it’s God’s will, we will get married. I took a bet with her because I was too sure.

How did he propose?

Constance: After my graduation, we came to Lagos and a year after, he got a job. I got mine two days later. But he lost his job after six months in 2015. I am still working though.

I was going to work one morning when a man on motorcycle snatched my bag! It contained my phone and other valuables. During break at work, Isaac came and we went to MTN office to retrieve my line. It was then he decided to propose.

Why did you propose on the day her bag was snatched?
Isaac: I wanted to make her happy and I knew a proposal would do just that.

When you told your parents that you were getting married, what was the reaction?

Isaac: They said never! I told them that this is what God really wants for me. They said that I am the first son of seven children and that it’s a shame to the family. My father didn’t agree and said I should go and marry but he would not come.

Did they come for the wedding?

Isaac: No.

But they must have heard and seen on social media?
Isaac: Yes, they saw it and my eldest sister called to congratulate me. Others—my parents and younger siblings didn’t. I have not called my father but I intend to apologise for disobeying him. However, if I had married a woman not challenged our wedding would not have been celebrated like it was. I pray that nothing will separate us and I know she is going to walk.

How did you feel when you didn’t see your in-laws at the wedding?

Constance: I felt sad but I know in this part of the world, it’s not easy accepting a condition like mine. I believe it a lack of understanding and that with time they will understand. I put myself and my parents in their shoes and tried thinking of the reactions. I just believe that parents should allow children take some decisions of life without hindrance. In life, one should expect good and bad experiences and mine is no exception. With faith, we will conquer.

Is this challenge from birth?

Constance: No, according to my mum, it started when I was two years old and before then I was walking. I fell ill, was taken to the hospital in Benin. It was leg pain and I could not stand on the leg. The doctor said he was going somewhere. That was around 1986-87. They took me home, next day she went to another hospital and I was paralysed and could not walk or talk again. No hospital admitted me and I was taken to a Chinese hospital, where it was diagnosed that all my nerves had collapsed. I always thank God because now I can talk, I’m a songwriter, a poet, I sing and I do all sorts. I went to school, graduated, have a job and now married. I know very soon we will have our children.

Do you quarrel?

Constance: Not really even when there is a small argument, we settle it. It must not pass that minute.

How have you handled the issue of finance in marriage?

Constance: We don’t have big money but the little we have, we are sincere and open to each other. We plan, and we both know that our money is ours. Couple should be open to each other.

How many children do you plan to have?

Isaac: We pray for a set of twin boys and then a girl.

How do you cope with a physically challenged partner?

Well, since she is the one employed now and goes to work, she cooks everything in the morning. We have structured our apartment in a way she can move around freely with her wheelchair. She washes clothes and we do chores together. When I was working I would take her to the office and then go to my office.

Constance: Whenever he is not around, a tricycle operator helps transport me to the office. I’m coping very well.

Do other women try to discourage you?

Isaac: No. My mind is made up that this is who I want and who I will spend the rest of my life with.

Aside your job, what else do you do?

Constance: I’m a gospel artiste; write songs, and a motivational singer. I have over 300 songs that I have written. I also make beads. All the accessories I used for my wedding were designed by me.

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Eeyaah!
true love knows no bound

God Bless your marriage

Ok, wishing them both a blissful and HML.

The respect I have for this guy is deep, he is a better man than most men including me when it comes to a great heart. He is my Hero for an hour.

Its only a MAN that can do this..

God bless your Union.

Wonderful couple


This is a true story of Love.


Love calls from the soul and melts away imperfections.


Kudos to them.

Dressed like dat, why won't they.

wow wow wow wow wow wow nice one

Love is indeed blind only to the parties involved obviously....Well just keep been blind to other peoples view including family...Cheers to true love

Billyonaire:
The respect I have for this guy is deep, he is a better man than most men including me when it comes to a great heart. He is my Hero for an hour.

Seriously He is better at heart than me.


Love Rules

prettythicksme:
wow wow wow wow wow wow nice one

May we Never See another Ambulance on this thread again

CorGier:
Dressed like dat, why won't they.

What is wrong with their dressing?



All these Agege designers

Selfless Love

lovat:
May we Never See another Ambulance on this thread again

Bro Amen

lovat:
What is wrong with their dressing?

His dressing, dummy.

prettythicksme:
Bro Amen

Can you marry a guy on wheelchair

OK...hw z she gonna take good care of ur baby

lovat:
Can you marry a guy on wheelchair

I can't bros

CorGier:


His dressing, dummy.

Clown. Were you expecting him to wear a Prada

He said they are not rich so he got what can afford.


The only ish with that suit is just the shoulder pad is not properly fixed but that doesn't negate the beauty of the guy soul.



Stop being a fool in something you are not good at.


I've designed countless piece and i can tell you that d Love radiating from that guy heart has diminished the slight defect on the tailoring of his piece

prettythicksme:
I can't bros

Thanks for being truthful

prettythicksme:
I can't bros

why?

when his tools are working

this really got me sober, God will bless and keep their home...

robosky02:


why?

when his tools are working

Hehehehehehehe he no go bad as i want oo.

lovat:
Clown. Were you expecting him to wear a Prada

He said they are not rich so he got what can afford.


The only ish with that suit is just the shoulder pad is not properly fixed but that doesn't negate the beauty of the guy soul.


Amala brain.

But I wasn't talking about his "soul" now, was I?
It seems u like to run your mouth, lovat go whine somewhere else.

robosky02:


why?

when his tools are working

Hehehehehehehe he no go bad as i want oo. There wont be enough fun in such marriage to me ooo.

lovat:
Thanks for being truthful

Welcome my brother

CorGier:


But I wasn't talking about his "soul" now, was I?
It seems u like to run your mouth, lovat go whine somewhere else.

Anumanu. What business does his clothing have to do with the storyline.


You came with Hate from 2016 to spoil a beautiful thread. I won't give you that chance

prettythicksme:
Welcome my brother

Let's talk about our parents so that we can know if mistakes happened somewhere

prettythicksme:
Hehehehehehehe he no go bad as i want oo. There wont be enough fun in such marriage to me ooo.

na there fun finish lol


whe him get money like nick

robosky02:



na there fun finish lol


whe him get money like nick

Lol fuvk money!!