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The Child has no hand in this.... he is faultless! he should not be punished for a crime he has no-hand in committing!
That Child is as good as any of the biological children of the man (except he chooses otherwise) and should inherit him....as long as his real father does not show face or he attempts to relate with him as "Father & Son" in which case, he loses the fatherhood of the one that raised him.

It is the Woman that committed the sin and should be severely punished, by both the man and the child.
She should be gassed ASAP.




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I get your point but you see, if I'm adopting a child, I'd know I'm adopting the child. But to train another man's child and now be told after 32 years he ain't my child? Naah. The pain and agony won't make me will my estate to him. One thing you must understand, a man would always look for his biological father...

What a pity

nigeriafarmer:
didn't you see the woman just kill person

She did not kill anybody, wat she did was morally wrong. She will need deliverance.

People should learn to walk away wen the heat is on and u cannot think straight to save urself.

Take as much time away from them until u are in a healthy mental place then u return. Dont act foolishly.

Toks2008:


N100k for DNA is freaking expensive for many people.

If you have 3 children that will be 300k

You dont have to do all three at the same time..... just do one every two years or as the money comes in but DO IT YOU MUST.
Its worth the trouble..... unless you want to cry blood at old age!



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Oluwaremythe:

[sub] dats wat yu would av done if it were yu huhhof course,it's obvious from ur comment d type of woman yu are...we kall ur type pamiiku in yoruba...
Alert men....bitch spotted here
Hurt me with d truth bt don't comfort me with a lie...

Am married already and can't stoop so low to give my husband another man's child to father.God forbid

See wickedness!

Stupedinluv:
You are right.

People say you can't change someone who doesn't want to change. But that's nothing. What's something is trying to change someone who sees no fault in him.

Xactly. Down here it's pretty hard for our gender to b detached frm a single crime. Realli downgrading.

Many women re use to it or something

chronique:



I get your point but you see, if I'm adopting a child, I'd know I'm adopting the child. But to train another man's child and now be told after 32 years he ain't my child? Naah. The pain and agony won't make me will my estate to him. One thing you must understand, a man would always look for his biological father...

On the flip-side of the coin:
Think about your relationship, the father-son bond you had with your supposed son (now not your son).
Do you love him in the past?
Does he love you in the past?
Does not having your DNA in him, now make you hate him or override that love you had for him?
Did he do ANYTHING to change that love?
Would you punish a child/boy and now man, that you love for something he did not do?
What is the "value/premium" you placed on the BOND between the two of you?

As long as that child does not do anything to worsen the situation (even if curiosity makes him want to know the man whose DNA he carries) .... you should still love him as before.

You may be angry with the situation ...but do not sin!

Sin, is punishing 'the innocent'.



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if na me i go kill d bitch

Finest4luv1:
my father once told me that u can only trust a woman only when shes with u but once shes out my dear u are OYO..lesson never trust a woman..they can lie even with tears in their eyes

Men must recognize and learn to accept women, for who they are!...Just WOMEN!

Even God regretted trusting women....... reason he uttered that curse of child-birth on them.

Women will always be women, it takes nothing away from who they are.



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cstr100:
The man is at fault here too for allowing himself to be deceived.
There are behaviours my child must never exhibit. Physical Features that would immediately put a doubt into his paternity.
Nigerian women have been adjudged the most unfaithful in the world. Any sensible Nigerian husband should covertly run all his children through DNA analysis. It doesn't have to happen all at once.
Love should not erode common-sense.

Exactly! All my father's children have certain traits that we all picked from him and from all 15,no one is an exception. Just that some of us have either all, or some of these traits. From allergies, to way of talking, to looks, etc. We all have a particular kind of allergy that is hereditary and all react to it the same way. That is just one. At times when one of us does something, others would laugh and say "na once dem go know say na ur papa born you".

Stupedinluv:
You made a lot of sense. Many people are just plain stup1d. I would feel stup1d quoting them for correction cos their stupidity is becoming alarmingly infectious.

BTW, what do you need their tribe for.

See question Oooo! Wat is ur own tribe?

The thunder that will fire some women ehn..

Women why?

chronique:




Exactly! All my father's children have certain traits that we all picked from him and from all 15,no one is an exception. Just that some of us have either all, or some of these traits. From allergies, to way of talking, to looks, etc. We all have a particular kind of allergy that is hereditary and all react to it the same way. That is just one. At times when one of us does something, others would laugh and say "na once dem go know say na ur papa born you".

Like father like son/daughter must be evident in all my children, if not, na wahala o.
You can't expect me to have a child that struggles in school and tell me it's my child.
For what na? When their father excelled in school.
Or a child with a strange allergy or mannerism unknown in the family. .

GossipHeart:

Women are heartless and evil

And what about men?

Berlynn:
nmu nwayi na real wa oooi

Hbd..nd i Luv d lyrics on ur profile..hope u composed dat urself...nd i hope u v a gud voice to match it up...

LuvU2:
Xactly. Down here it's pretty hard for our gender to b detached frm a single crime. Realli downgrading.

Many women re use to it or something

That's what irks me the most. I don't think any woman with a healthy self esteem will tolerate any form of downgrading of her person.

This is a crime committed by a single human who happens to be a woman. And then one way or the other every woman gets roped into it. That's not even bad yet, Now that's how the average guy around thinks. Something like 4 out of 5 going by this thread

It even gets worse, when one realises they follow same pattern of reasoning in all spheres of their lives.

Africa is doomed baby

This is what I used to tell men who are used to say to their woman what can you do If you dares woman and be showing muscle if woman want to destroy you it's just very simple for them.

If a woman tells a man he will make trust me that man will make it in life and if a woman tells a man failure is yours oh that man has finished.

Woman!!! May God not let you fall to their trap oh oh you will regret your life I swear.

espn:
Hbd

thanks hun

Xcelinteriors:
That woman is very wicked. There are some secret that are not meant to reveal no matter what happen. She should have taken that secret to grave instead of hurting the man because she knew the man is not the real father .

id prefer to know than die not knowing! Only problem is timing !!

Xcelinteriors:

Am married already and can't stoop so low to give my husband another man's child to father.God forbid

Then take bck dat evil statement of urs here kos yu're unknowingly misleading d innocent youths here
Check it,yu had over 30likes already,they've been misled by ur statement...take it bck
Dis is no big secret,it's a suicidal act(giving ones lover a bastard as ones)it doesn't deserve to be kept a secret kos its not one.....confession and damming d consequences is d only solution,perhaps d culprit knows dat too,and dats y she let dis out

Xcelinteriors:
That woman is very wicked. There are some secret that are not meant to reveal no matter what happen. She should have taken that secret to grave instead of hurting the man because she knew the man is not the real father .

See them!

Stupedinluv:
That's what irks me the most. I don't think any woman with a healthy self esteem will tolerate any form of downgrading of her person.

This is a crime committed by a single human who happens to be a woman. And then one way or the other every woman gets roped into it. That's not even bad yet, Now that's how the average guy around thinks. Something like 4 out of 5 going by this thread

It even gets worse, when one realises they follow same pattern of reasoning in all spheres of their lives.

Africa is doomed baby

naaaah Africa isn't doomd yet. We Jast need few people to make it work.
Shallow thinkin is rampant in all societies.

I can't fit shout cos....

Like i always say,.... the devil is a LEARNER when compared to some humans!

This is not good but people should take it easy on the generalization.......

Stupedinluv:
That's what irks me the most. I don't think any woman with a healthy self esteem will tolerate any form of downgrading of her person.

This is a crime committed by a single human who happens to be a woman. And then one way or the other every woman gets roped into it. That's not even bad yet, Now that's how the average guy around thinks. Something like 4 out of 5 going by this thread

It even gets worse, when one realises they follow same pattern of reasoning in all spheres of their lives.

Africa is doomed baby

You know u used to be guilty of this too.
When u were always talking down african men and grouping all of them together.

Ha, women, so many unfortunate innocent children in the wrong homes. Can'nt this be tamed?

waternogetenemy:
All of u shouting women this, women dat.

Na women commit crime abi Mrs Oscar.

Nigerians need to start reasoning properly, women have nothing to do with this and i find the blaming of women for wat an individual did offensive and sexist.


Correct ya self or go back to school.


meanwhile, any info on their tribe, abeg share.

You see how dumb you are; after making small sense , you are waiting for their tribe so that you can choke on hate abi?

And you're too young to use your brain if at all you have any; and know the reason why I needed an acid. Did I mention why I needed acid? This is why people get shot for free by not minding their business!

waternogetenemy:


Ur too old for this kind talk now? Haba! acid ke?

U want to finish ur life in prison or mobbed.

Nothing here warrant acid, nothing on earth belong to any man, all is for God and he knows best.

Never take matters into ur hand, vengence is for God.

Besides it is no crime to love ur neighbor as urself, God himself commanded that, he did a good job raising the boy, only to spoil it with acid as u suggest.