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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by realdentist(f): 9:40am On Feb 25, 2017
Iyomomoreloaded:

Our only dentist in the house, this ur BS sweet finish, sharp sharp sexy borning (save for d tear embarassed)
Don't worry God is not a God of half & half, he himself has the original spare to our bodies, he shall factory reset and perfect all that concerns your body in Jesus name! You shall heal speedily and even begin to wonder sef, d stitches shall hold perfectly and you shall have no reason to resuture, for by His stripes ,we're healed! Amen!
Abeg greet Omomo for me
amen! U sabi pray sha!

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by nicoleswizzi: 9:41am On Feb 25, 2017
Yesitsme:
bs will come soon, stomach ache no gree me plus Nzubechukwu isn't finding it easy latching and no milk running. Had to give her water and glucose. Bear with us.
Gm we dey wait oo..don't worry it will flow...
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by nicoleswizzi: 9:48am On Feb 25, 2017
Sansa143:
Now am jealous cos am about to go cut mine!Lo don pack my hair finish,wish it was manageable but is not cry cry cry cry cry
My sister no be only u ooo...my own is terrible, dey always laugh at me at d saloon weneva I want to mk my hair...I hrd to cut D hair low, but my baby girl gat no chill grin she wants more hair, d hair still dey chop...but me I Wii still be plaiting it like DAT oo...

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Nobody: 9:52am On Feb 25, 2017
BlossomedCherry:
Hello beautiful maamas, trust everyone, los and our dhs are doing great?
I came with a question that have been bothering me since my discussion last night with dh. He said all his daughters must be circumcised to avoid them being promiscous, plz mamas, does circumcision of women still exist?
does it play a role in a woman being a slut?
I wasnt circumcised and I dont see any reason why my daughters should.
Plz I need input on this and as an over all final sayer that he is, is their even a good hospital that can do neat circumcision for me without hurting my girls?
When I went to register for ANC,the nurse asked if any of us has bin circumcised?Reason being that women who have undergone circumcision usually find it hard when it comes to delivery,that part that is bin removed plays a vital role when it comes to delivery!

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Nobody: 9:55am On Feb 25, 2017
nicoleswizzi:

My sister no be only u ooo...my own is terrible, dey always laugh at me at d saloon weneva I want to mk my hair...I hrd to cut D hair low, but my baby girl gat no chill grin she wants more hair, d hair still dey chop...but me I Wii still be plaiting it like DAT oo...
Your own na girl is understandable but mine is a boy!If na so him like hair,why him no come as girl,wetin him wan carry hair do!

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by nicoleswizzi: 9:56am On Feb 25, 2017
BlossomedCherry:
Hello beautiful maamas, trust everyone, los and our dhs are doing great?
I came with a question that have been bothering me since my discussion last night with dh. He said all his daughters must be circumcised to avoid them being promiscous, plz mamas, does circumcision of women still exist?
does it play a role in a woman being a slut?
I wasnt circumcised and I dont see any reason why my daughters should.
Plz I need input on this and as an over all final sayer that he is, is their even a good hospital that can do neat circumcision for me without hurting my girls?

Guess he dosnt knw but its against d law now, if dem catch whoeva dey do that kind thing na jail things o, hospitals don't do it again... And DAT been promiscuous gist na lie oo...do u knw DAT it has lots of disadvantages, ur baby can get infection in d site if not taken care of properly, sometimes while cutting sumfins go wrong, like d gal wouldn't be having urges again, she would find it hard to be sensitive down dre when making love to her husband.... Den also circumcision dosnt stop a gal from being promiscuous...sum gals are circumcised and are still sleeping around....I av been asking all my friends DAT gave birth to baby gals and dey said dey don't do it again and dey didn't do for dre babies....

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by nicoleswizzi: 9:58am On Feb 25, 2017
Sansa143:
Your own na girl is understandable but mine is a boy!If na so him like hair,why him no come as girl,wetin him wan carry hair do!
Lol...he wan dey carry Afro na... grin

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Nobody: 10:00am On Feb 25, 2017
nicoleswizzi:

Lol...he wan dey carry Afro na... grin
I go so cut am,skin cut sef grin grin

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by queensnow: 10:06am On Feb 25, 2017
Circumcision for a female is a sin even a reputable Doc will not advice u to do it, it was ignorance that made our fore fathers do it back then Circumcision for female have future disadvantages like my mil will always say none of her son will marry a girl that's circumcised have forgotten what she told me abt it will ask her again moreover if u are a Christian Circumcision for female is a single.. ur dh is funny sef does it stop male frm sleeping with various women?
BlossomedCherry:
Hello beautiful maamas, trust everyone, los and our dhs are doing great?
I came with a question that have been bothering me since my discussion last night with dh. He said all his daughters must be circumcised to avoid them being promiscous, plz mamas, does circumcision of women still exist?
does it play a role in a woman being a slut?
I wasnt circumcised and I dont see any reason why my daughters should.
Plz I need input on this and as an over all final sayer that he is, is their even a good hospital that can do neat circumcision for me without hurting my girls?

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by katchycouture(f): 10:06am On Feb 25, 2017
BlossomedCherry:
Hello beautiful maamas, trust everyone, los and our dhs are doing great?
I came with a question that have been bothering me since my discussion last night with dh. He said all his daughters must be circumcised to avoid them being promiscous, plz mamas, does circumcision of women still exist?
does it play a role in a woman being a slut?
I wasnt circumcised and I dont see any reason why my daughters should.
Plz I need input on this and as an over all final sayer that he is, is their even a good hospital that can do neat circumcision for me without hurting my girls?

Please my sister dont subject ur girls to that... I've seen a lot of marriages fail because this thing called circumcision. ....your female child will not be sensitive down there and won't know the real pleasure in love making... try and convince him otherwise and train ur girl child very well....circumcision in this age?? You must know another way to ur husbands heart... try and convince him not to do it..

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Iyomomoreloaded: 10:07am On Feb 25, 2017
Blossomedcherry, this ur matter strong o, you would have asked your dh if he's implying that you're promiscuous ? Promiscuity has nothing to do with being circumcised or not. A woman that would be promiscuous will be not withstanding, depending on her motivation or circumstances.
Are u close with MIL or any SIL dat u can discuss the issue with or have u heard them speaking in support of it? Do u know if his sisters were circumcised?
Please try and convince ur hubby not punish his daughters because of an ancient myth. He doesn't want dem to enjoy their husbands?
From what I've heard it is very difficult for women dat were circumcised to get sexual fulfilment , which could be very frustrating for a man who's keen on satisfying his womans needs, not d jump ontop move up and down self pleasing men.
I have an old school friend who was among the 1st of my friends in secondary school (ss2) to have a bf(i don't know if dey had sex den) we later went to the same university, she had gone through 2-3 bfs, and one day she complained that she doesn't enjoy sex,because of her circumcision, no matter what her guy does to please her, even MouthAction, she just pities for him cos he really tries. Despite that, I know she has been through a handful of r/ships.
What matters most is the upbringing & exposure a child gets,
Also how involved parents get with their children by being friends with them.
In the rotten world we are today, circumcision would not hold back a girl child not to be promiscuous , I can bet u.

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Iyomomoreloaded: 10:16am On Feb 25, 2017
realdentist:
amen! U sabi pray sha!
Hehehehhee, Na God o, I am so surprised myself cuz this angel am carrying has drawn me closer to God. To think that I had a Christian upbringing, to pray used to be big work for me.
I don't know if you've heard this parable in bini "who dey pursue person, naim dey show person road"!

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by queensnow: 10:24am On Feb 25, 2017
Disadvantages of female circumcision

Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by sunbestie(f): 10:30am On Feb 25, 2017
Sansa143:
Now am jealous cos am about to go cut mine!Lo don pack my hair finish,wish it was manageable but is not cry cry cry cry cry
Lolz... Abeg don't be oo. My hair is really growing and shinning.
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by jazzyjazz: 10:46am On Feb 25, 2017
Please ma tell your husband to read about female genital mutilation. It's bad for the girl child. If you circumcise your girls and they get older, they will not enjoy their sex life when they eventually get to have one.

Circumcision does not determine if a girl child will be promiscuous or not. Promiscuity totally depends on the upbringing you give you4 girls and who they hang out with.

Please talk to your husband to reconsider.

May God give you both the grace to make the right decision
BlossomedCherry:
Hello beautiful maamas, trust everyone, los and our dhs are doing great?
I came with a question that have been bothering me since my discussion last night with dh. He said all his daughters must be circumcised to avoid them being promiscous, plz mamas, does circumcision of women still exist?
does it play a role in a woman being a slut?
I wasnt circumcised and I dont see any reason why my daughters should.
Plz I need input on this and as an over all final sayer that he is, is their even a good hospital that can do neat circumcision for me without hurting my girls?

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Giddyperson: 10:50am On Feb 25, 2017
BlossomedCherry:
Hello beautiful maamas, trust everyone, los and our dhs are doing great?
I came with a question that have been bothering me since my discussion last night with dh. He said all his daughters must be circumcised to avoid them being promiscous, plz mamas, does circumcision of women still exist?
does it play a role in a woman being a slut?
I wasnt circumcised and I dont see any reason why my daughters should.
Plz I need input on this and as an over all final sayer that he is, is their even a good hospital that can do neat circumcision for me without hurting my girls?
Ok this is one of the questions I so cannot stand yet cannot ignore. If you let your husband circumcise your children then you have failed woefully as a mother to them, start now to tell him it's not happening. This is not even a would I could I should I issue. There is nothing neat about it, no real doctor would do it. Biko google female genital mutilation and print out as many articles as you can for your husband to read. This is like saying you want to sacrifice one of your twins to the gods because twins are a taboo, that's how archaic this circumcision talk sounds in my ear. It's an ancient tradition that we should count ourselves lucky to have escaped.

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Nobody: 11:20am On Feb 25, 2017
Don't even bother looking for hospital that can do it. Them no dey do am again. Being circumcised does not stop one from being promiscuous. It has to do with morals, social and environmental factors. Tell your hubby it's painful, barbaric, archaic and you won't subject your girl child to such pain. She won't know the pleasure of sex with her hubby and to get orgasm will be hardwork for the man. I testify cos my hubby tries alot but it's difficult for me to have orgasm sometimes. Girl circumcision is a No! No! in this era. Won't even do it for my baby. Experience they say, its the best teacher.
BlossomedCherry:
Hello beautiful maamas, trust everyone, los and our dhs are doing great?
I came with a question that have been bothering me since my discussion last night with dh. He said all his daughters must be circumcised to avoid them being promiscous, plz mamas, does circumcision of women still exist?
does it play a role in a woman being a slut?
I wasnt circumcised and I dont see any reason why my daughters should.
Plz I need input on this and as an over all final sayer that he is, is their even a good hospital that can do neat circumcision for me without hurting my girls?

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by BlossomedCherry: 11:24am On Feb 25, 2017
Naomi14:
Don't even bother looking for hospital that can do it. Them no dey do am again. Being circumcised does not stop one from being promiscuous. It has to do with morals, social and environmental factors. Tell your hubby it's painful, barbaric, archaic and you won't subject your girl child to such pain. She won't know the pleasure of sex with her hubby and to get orgasm will be hardwork for the man. I testify cos my hubby tries alot but it's difficult for me to have orgasm sometimes. Girl circumcision is a No! No! in this era. Won't even do it for my baby. Experience they say, its the best teacher.
Itz d sex urge he wants to kill. He said his girls are useless to him if they are not being circumcised. He is scared they might bring unwanted pregnancies to him so he said sexual orgy by nature will take its place but not everytime the woman body go dey sweet am. He said if I refuse then any oda female I will have must be aborted cuz he cant have an uncircumcised daughter.Even me wey dem no circumcise, d manchi dey always look me like say I will cheat on him. too badt.
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by BlossomedCherry: 11:28am On Feb 25, 2017
Giddyperson:

Ok this is one of the questions I so cannot stand yet cannot ignore. If you let your husband circumcise your children then you have failed woefully as a mother to them, start now to tell him it's not happening. This is not even a would I could I should I issue. There is nothing neat about it, no real doctor would do it. Biko google female genital mutilation and print out as many articles as you can for your husband to read. This is like saying you want to sacrifice one of your twins to the gods because twins are a taboo, that's how archaic this circumcision talk sounds in my ear. It's an ancient tradition that we should count ourselves lucky to have escaped.
He is educated and know alot about female mutilation. I dont just know his issue with circumcision. Like he would father them and still marry them.
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by BlossomedCherry: 11:34am On Feb 25, 2017
jazzyjazz:
Please ma tell your husband to read about female genital mutilation. It's bad for the girl child. If you circumcise your girls and they get older, they will not enjoy their sex life when they eventually get to have one.

Circumcision does not determine if a girl child will be promiscuous or not. Promiscuity totally depends on the upbringing you give you4 girls and who they hang out with.

Please talk to your husband to reconsider.

May God give you both the grace to make the right decision
He said with or without sex education, in the absence of circumcision, their body will always want sex.
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by BlossomedCherry: 11:37am On Feb 25, 2017
Iyomomoreloaded:
Blossomedcherry, this ur matter strong o, you would have asked your dh if he's implying that you're promiscuous ? Promiscuity has nothing to do with being circumcised or not. A woman that would be promiscuous will be not withstanding, depending on her motivation or circumstances.
Are u close with MIL or any SIL dat u can discuss the issue with or have u heard them speaking in support of it? Do u know if his sisters were circumcised?
Please try and convince ur hubby not punish his daughters because of an ancient myth. He doesn't want dem to enjoy their husbands?
From what I've heard it is very difficult for women dat were circumcised to get sexual fulfilment , which could be very frustrating for a man who's keen on satisfying his womans needs, not d jump ontop move up and down self pleasing men.
I have an old school friend who was among the 1st of my friends in secondary school (ss2) to have a bf(i don't know if dey had sex den) we later went to the same university, she had gone through 2-3 bfs, and one day she complained that she doesn't enjoy sex,because of her circumcision, no matter what her guy does to please her, even MouthAction, she just pities for him cos he really tries. Despite that, I know she has been through a handful of r/ships.
What matters most is the upbringing & exposure a child gets,
Also how involved parents get with their children by being friends with them.
In the rotten world we are today, circumcision would not hold back a girl child not to be promiscuous , I can bet u.
He said he havent checked but all his sisters are supposed to be circumcised.Am d only female he know that isnt circumcised from when he was still single o.
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Nobody: 11:37am On Feb 25, 2017
BlossomedCherry:
Itz d sex urge he wants to kill. He said his girls are useless to him if they are not being circumcised. He is scared they might bring unwanted pregnancies to him so he said sexual orgy by nature will take its place but not everytime the woman body go dey sweet am. He said if I refuse then any oda female I will have must be aborted cuz he cant have an uncircumcised daughter.Even me wey dem no circumcise, d manchi dey always look me like say I will cheat on him. too badt.
Ha, shocked shocked shocked shocked,dis matter has pass be careful oh!Haba,wetin d girls do am wey him wan ruin dem!Lord take control!Am speechless!

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by BlossomedCherry: 11:44am On Feb 25, 2017
Sansa143:
Ha, shocked shocked shocked shocked,dis matter has pass be careful oh!Haba,wetin d girls do am wey him wan ruin dem!Lord take control!Am speechless!
To him its protection against unwanted pregnancies and unnecessary sexual orgy.
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by MercyMercy(f): 11:55am On Feb 25, 2017
BlossomedCherry:
He said he havent checked but all his sisters are supposed to be circumcised.Am d only female he know that isnt circumcised from when he was still single o.
Pls you just have to keep trying to convince him not to do it.
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Nobody: 12:01pm On Feb 25, 2017
Hahahaha! Your hubby is very funny o! cheesy you that is not circumcised do you have unnecessary sexual urge? Abeg I can't laff biko! Since he is adamant about the issue tell him that you not doing it for this one maybe the next girl (escape plan). Then pray to God to give you the rest as boys grin
BlossomedCherry:
To him its protection against unwanted pregnancies and unnecessary sexual orgy.

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Iyomomoreloaded: 12:18pm On Feb 25, 2017
BlossomedCherry:
He said he havent checked but all his sisters are supposed to be circumcised.Am d only female he know that isnt circumcised from when he was still single o.
I'm so hurt,angry and confused, I no sabi advice people for marriage matter o,
because the step I'll take might put a serious strain on the marriage. but if Na me ehn! Once I born, I'll ask the hospital not to discharge me and my baby .
Abort ke? He'll sign an undertaking in court, that he'll not impregnate me with a female child, since Na him sperm go determine.
Well I pray you both resolve it the best way ,taking the childs welfare into cognisance.

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Kloness(f): 12:18pm On Feb 25, 2017
The last scan I did was when I was 31weeks. am presently 38 weeks but I have not done another, I hope it is okay?
Note my consultant did not ask me to do any just curious.[/quote]

Hi dear, yes you can go ahead and do one. Its the last likely before baby arrives. It will help to finally ascertain babies position, presentation and any other useful info.

Cheers!
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Iyomomoreloaded: 12:19pm On Feb 25, 2017
BlossomedCherry:
To him its protection against unwanted pregnancies and unnecessary sexual orgy.
@Naomi14 she's having triplets o!
Have u checked the sex of ur babies? I hope they are all boys? undecided
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by jazzyjazz: 12:20pm On Feb 25, 2017
He should be more concerned about raising them properly than being concerned about circumcision! We are humans, our body will always want sex! And they are way too young and innocent for him to be thinking of then in this manner please

Were you circumcised? Are you promiscuous? Does he not enjoy making love to you? Why does he want to deny his beautiful daughters this feeling when they eventually meet their husbands?

BlossomedCherry:
He said with or without sex education, in the absence of circumcision, their body will always want sex.

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Iyomomoreloaded: 12:22pm On Feb 25, 2017
jazzyjazz:
He should be more concerned about raising them properly than being concerned about circumcision! We are humans, our body will always want sex! And they are way too young and innocent for him to be thinking of then in this manner please

Were you circumcised? Are you promiscuous? Does he not enjoy making love to you? Why does he want to deny his beautiful daughters this feeling when they eventually meet their husbands?

Exactly!!!
It's like saying you want to cut off a persons tongue so he doesn't lie, my dear, dumb person dey lie o.
A few weeks ago I saw one news like that, a young man's hand was chopped off ,from d wrist sometime ago for stealing. Guess what? He was caught stealing again! So how dem go do d boy matter now?

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Chrisdada16(f): 12:27pm On Feb 25, 2017
splendy90:
My king made his appearance at 8:55pm 24/02 weighing 2.9kg..May Allah be praised!!! Alhamdullilah Mother and baby are fine father rejoicing bs later team march but we couldn't wait we had to port...
congrats my team mate he will definitely b a blessing to u
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Graciouscharis: 12:48pm On Feb 25, 2017
BlossomedCherry:
To him its protection against unwanted pregnancies and unnecessary sexual orgy.

My dear, my sil was circumcised but her son is 2yrs now and she's not married. She has slept with all manner of men, has seen different sizes of Dicks. Started having sex at age 11, goes out with both married and unmarried men.
Please don't do this to your daughters.

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