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Re: Why Do Guys Wait For Their Girlfriends To Get Pregnant 1st Before Marrying Them? by OurVoice: 11:32pm On Mar 05, 2017
Bad practice! God never asked us to approach marriage like that!!

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Re: Why Do Guys Wait For Their Girlfriends To Get Pregnant 1st Before Marrying Them? by nkemdi89(f): 11:32pm On Mar 05, 2017
Jacksparr0w127:
Well, that's for those who believe in pregnancy before marriage. I'm not in that box
Neither do I, instead I believe in waiting till wedding.
Re: Why Do Guys Wait For Their Girlfriends To Get Pregnant 1st Before Marrying Them? by Nobody: 11:35pm On Mar 05, 2017
nkemdi89:

Neither do I, instead I believe in waiting till wedding.
Not believing in pregnancy before marriage doesn't mean abstentions from sex either grin
Re: Why Do Guys Wait For Their Girlfriends To Get Pregnant 1st Before Marrying Them? by TOPMAN4LIFE: 11:36pm On Mar 05, 2017
sekundosekundo:


I met my wife February 6, told her my mind after 2 weeks, we did our trad. July and church wedding September of the same year. I didn't touch her till our wedding night. You know what?, I found out that she was a virgin at 30 and a graduate. I love her so much.
This was great, l receive it for my own wedding in Jesus name. There is no need for a long courtship if u r sure it is God that brings you together

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Re: Why Do Guys Wait For Their Girlfriends To Get Pregnant 1st Before Marrying Them? by kolado(m): 11:37pm On Mar 05, 2017
Most of these ladies are wombless, sincerely. They've done many abortions and you marry an empty barrel at your own peril. Be wise!
Re: Why Do Guys Wait For Their Girlfriends To Get Pregnant 1st Before Marrying Them? by raphroye: 11:39pm On Mar 05, 2017
dovelike:
Yes, this thing has puzzled me for a while but why do guys wait for their girlfriends to get pregnant before getting married to them? This is the trend we see now. Celebrity examples are Tonto Dike, Laura Ikeji, PSquare just to mention a few. Not to talk of most people I know personally. This removes the sacredness of a pure union.

Is it that the pregnancy removes a cloak from their eyes and they realize that they want to get married to their girlfriends (something that didn't know before?) or they just want to do right by the lady, thereby, entering into a marriage they are not ready for.

This doesn't guarantee lasting and fruitful marriage for both of them because they both were kind of forced into it and not from their own genuine will, as it's meant to be.
We have two reasons for doing that. One is to confirm if she never tamper with her womb and secondly, is to confirm if those village people have really failed

Re: Why Do Guys Wait For Their Girlfriends To Get Pregnant 1st Before Marrying Them? by NEROSKY(m): 11:41pm On Mar 05, 2017
kimbra:
Is it just the guys?, most girls would desperately tie a pregnancy on the guy just so they're called "Mrs" at the end of the day. It has it's repercussions.

If any guy loves you enough, you don't have to get pregnant before he does what's required of him. My opinion!.
u lied, just to be sure u can get pregnant, finish!
Re: Why Do Guys Wait For Their Girlfriends To Get Pregnant 1st Before Marrying Them? by Kazrem(m): 11:43pm On Mar 05, 2017
dovelike:
Yes, this thing has puzzled me for a while but why do guys wait for their girlfriends to get pregnant before getting married to them? This is the trend we see now. Celebrity examples are Tonto Dike, Laura Ikeji, PSquare just to mention a few. Not to talk of most people I know personally. This removes the sacredness of a pure union.

Is it that the pregnancy removes a cloak from their eyes and they realize that they want to get married to their girlfriends (something that didn't know before?) or they just want to do right by the lady, thereby, entering into a marriage they are not ready for.

This doesn't guarantee lasting and fruitful marriage for both of them because they both were kind of forced into it and not from their own genuine will, as it's meant to be.

See the way you generalize, "why do guys". Better say why do some guys.
Re: Why Do Guys Wait For Their Girlfriends To Get Pregnant 1st Before Marrying Them? by goingape1: 11:44pm On Mar 05, 2017
nkemdi89:

Neither do I, instead I believe in waiting till wedding.
are you a virgin?

you are not a virgin and still waiting till wedding night!

stop deceiving yourself woman! once someone preek has gone into your yansh (be it with condom or contraceptives) that's when marriage started and the planing of bringing out offsprings.

you are just fooling yourself woman except you are a virgin

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Re: Why Do Guys Wait For Their Girlfriends To Get Pregnant 1st Before Marrying Them? by buffalowings: 11:46pm On Mar 05, 2017
sekundosekundo:


I met my wife February 6, told her my mind after 2 weeks, we did our trad. July and church wedding September of the same year. I didn't touch her till our wedding night. You know what?, I found out that she was a virgin at 30 and a graduate. I love her so much.

I'm not understanding..was it on wedding night , you found her to be a graduate.

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Re: Why Do Guys Wait For Their Girlfriends To Get Pregnant 1st Before Marrying Them? by Drtee(m): 11:52pm On Mar 05, 2017
Thatz now the new thread....


Itz a win-win situation nah
So... Ko bad

If u see person wey don fall victim of damaged womb before... U go pity the brothers in the Lord
Re: Why Do Guys Wait For Their Girlfriends To Get Pregnant 1st Before Marrying Them? by CuteEmma(f): 11:54pm On Mar 05, 2017
goingape1:
after you most have aborted a whole village clan! you now want us to take that piece of a shiit body without testing it undecided
hell no!

primary sch, you women will be fvcking someone in secondary school.

secondary school, you women will upgrade in fvcking someone in college or university.

when you enter university, you women will be fvcking lecturers,businessmen, security men, okada rider,politicians etc. and when ya women are serving (doing NYSC) ya will be fvcking marriage men undecided

so tell me on the list above, there is some interval where ya foolish women will to do abortion. and you want us not to test drive that yansh to see if it is still operational undecided
holatimmy:
They are test running..

They don't want to buy fake
kolado:
Most of these ladies are wombless, sincerely. They've done many abortions and you marry an empty barrel at your own peril. Be wise!
mazizitonene:
Because women have spoilt the world.....
buffalowings:


I'm not understanding..was it on wedding night , you found her to be a graduate.
mazizitonene:
Because women have spoilt the world.....
. Somme people sha.... smh
Re: Why Do Guys Wait For Their Girlfriends To Get Pregnant 1st Before Marrying Them? by Maj196(m): 11:55pm On Mar 05, 2017
Safety precautions
Re: Why Do Guys Wait For Their Girlfriends To Get Pregnant 1st Before Marrying Them? by MRSANITY(m): 11:58pm On Mar 05, 2017
If you arnt wedding a virgin, it's ok to get her pregnant first. You are starting a home, so it's like kick starting the home sharply.

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Re: Why Do Guys Wait For Their Girlfriends To Get Pregnant 1st Before Marrying Them? by Chimaritoponcho: 11:59pm On Mar 05, 2017
sekundosekundo:


I met my wife February 6, told her my mind after 2 weeks, we did our trad. July and church wedding September of the same year. I didn't touch her till our wedding night. You know what?, I found out that she was a virgin at 30 and a graduate. I love her so much.
Pictures of ur wife being a virgin at 30 or adonbilivit

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Re: Why Do Guys Wait For Their Girlfriends To Get Pregnant 1st Before Marrying Them? by Nobody: 12:00am On Mar 06, 2017
grin grin
buffalowings:


I'm not understanding..was it on wedding night , you found her to be a graduate.
grin
buffalowings:


I'm not understanding..was it on wedding night , you found her to be a graduate.

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Re: Why Do Guys Wait For Their Girlfriends To Get Pregnant 1st Before Marrying Them? by pennytrate: 12:02am On Mar 06, 2017
♣ • → why are u generalising?

You should know fûckboys always run to the hills when shît like this happen
°°
Re: Why Do Guys Wait For Their Girlfriends To Get Pregnant 1st Before Marrying Them? by kpukpuyenke: 12:02am On Mar 06, 2017
If you choose to have S.ex before marriage I dont see why getting Pregnant should be a problem

Testing is allowed to avoid stories that touch!
Re: Why Do Guys Wait For Their Girlfriends To Get Pregnant 1st Before Marrying Them? by greggng: 12:02am On Mar 06, 2017
Cos 80percent of ladies don't ve womb anymore due to abortion. I am a relationship expert. Talking from experience
Re: Why Do Guys Wait For Their Girlfriends To Get Pregnant 1st Before Marrying Them? by NEROSKY(m): 12:03am On Mar 06, 2017
goingape1:
after you most have aborted a whole village clan! you now want us to take that piece of a shiit body without testing it undecided
hell no!

primary sch, you women will be fvcking someone in secondary school.

secondary school, you women will upgrade in fvcking someone in college or university.

when you enter university, you women will be fvcking lecturers,businessmen, security men, okada rider,politicians etc. and when ya women are serving (doing NYSC) ya will be fvcking marriage men undecided

so tell me on the list above, there is some interval where ya foolish women will to do abortion. and you want us not to test drive that yansh to see if it is still operational undecided
You're on point like cat fish!

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Re: Why Do Guys Wait For Their Girlfriends To Get Pregnant 1st Before Marrying Them? by nkemdi89(f): 12:04am On Mar 06, 2017
goingape1:
are you a virgin?

you are not a virgin and still waiting till wedding night!

stop deceiving yourself woman! once someone preek has gone into your yansh (be it with condom or contraceptives) that's when marriage started and the planing of bringing out offsprings.

you are just fooling yourself woman except you are a virgin
I don't know why some of you find it difficult to comprehend, the word "believe" please look for the meaning. N.B I don't to belong to the category of people who creates storm in a tea cup, there is nothing at stake that will warrant me having unnecessary argument or being on the defensive side. Its my opinion and its not necessary it should count for everyone.
Re: Why Do Guys Wait For Their Girlfriends To Get Pregnant 1st Before Marrying Them? by goingape1: 12:04am On Mar 06, 2017
sekundosekundo:


I met my wife February 6, told her my mind after 2 weeks, we did our trad. July and church wedding September of the same year. I didn't touch her till our wedding night. You know what?, I found out that she was a virgin at 30 and a graduate. I love her so much.
so you don't know she was a graduate when dating her undecided

never knew people like you still exist!

Re: Why Do Guys Wait For Their Girlfriends To Get Pregnant 1st Before Marrying Them? by nkemdi89(f): 12:05am On Mar 06, 2017
Jacksparr0w127:
Not believing in pregnancy before marriage doesn't mean abstentions from sex either grin
Both, in order to be on a safe side
Re: Why Do Guys Wait For Their Girlfriends To Get Pregnant 1st Before Marrying Them? by buffalowings: 12:07am On Mar 06, 2017
CuteEmma:
. Somme people sha.... smh

madam, his sentences were kinda muddled up

so I wanted some clarifications. grin
Re: Why Do Guys Wait For Their Girlfriends To Get Pregnant 1st Before Marrying Them? by Nobody: 12:08am On Mar 06, 2017
nkemdi89:

Both, in order to be on a safe side
If anything goes wrong, it will only hasten the marriage process hahaha #Joking

But tbh, I can't practice no sex until marriage with my fiancé
Re: Why Do Guys Wait For Their Girlfriends To Get Pregnant 1st Before Marrying Them? by Nobody: 12:10am On Mar 06, 2017
First step for lack of trust. I love her and don't need her to be pregnant before I take her to the alter

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Re: Why Do Guys Wait For Their Girlfriends To Get Pregnant 1st Before Marrying Them? by nkemdi89(f): 12:10am On Mar 06, 2017
goingape1:
so you don't know she was a graduate when dating her undecided

never knew people like you still exist!
You have comprehension problem, what it implies is that despite her exposure in the university or academic environment she was not influence by the diminishing moral standard, she was able to keep her head above water and survive the storm. Learn to assimilate properly before replying people. Good day.

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Re: Why Do Guys Wait For Their Girlfriends To Get Pregnant 1st Before Marrying Them? by nkemdi89(f): 12:13am On Mar 06, 2017
Jacksparr0w127:
If anything goes wrong, it will only hasten the marriage process hahaha #Joking

But tbh, I can't practice no sex until marriage with my fiancé
Lol Sparrow jack go sleep if you reside in Nigeria, I know say you go wriggle your way out.
Re: Why Do Guys Wait For Their Girlfriends To Get Pregnant 1st Before Marrying Them? by Nobody: 12:14am On Mar 06, 2017
OXCUBA:
WHY DO GIRLS WAIT FOR GUYS TO MAKE MONEY BEFORE THEY MARRY THEM.

Bros I really wish I could give yu 50 likes..

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Re: Why Do Guys Wait For Their Girlfriends To Get Pregnant 1st Before Marrying Them? by goingape1: 12:15am On Mar 06, 2017
nkemdi89:

You have comprehension problem, what it implies is that despite her exposure in the university or academic environment she was not influence by the diminishing moral standard, she was able to keep her head above water and survive the storm. Learn to assimilate properly before replying people. Good day.
are you a virgin?
Re: Why Do Guys Wait For Their Girlfriends To Get Pregnant 1st Before Marrying Them? by Nobody: 12:17am On Mar 06, 2017
nkemdi89:

Lol Sparrow jack go sleep if you reside in Nigeria, I know say you go wriggle your way out.
Nkem, me just dey speak my mind o. I no dey deceive myself na cheesy cheesy

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Re: Why Do Guys Wait For Their Girlfriends To Get Pregnant 1st Before Marrying Them? by 1metre: 12:21am On Mar 06, 2017
dovelike:

No but I wouldn't want to before I get married sad
lolz,,u must try get pregnant for your guy, no man want to marry his fellow man these days, even those who dey claim righteous dey fear too..

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