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Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Permission To Hang Out With Another Man by Menzy86(m): 7:47pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
LeView1:God knows I dont even hav d strength to play such stupid games wit ladies anymore. See d way u simplified d matter? If I were ur guy and u try dis wit me, I wont say a word. Will simply wait a month or two later and seek d same permission from u to hang out wit a lady OBVIOUSLY hotter than u. How insensitive! 5 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Permission To Hang Out With Another Man by Nobody: 7:49pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
Cutehector: Looool. I no too like lies When did flirting become a crime? Me sef dey flirt and Yeahhh, I have an understanding bf that trusts me. We both know flirt is flirt, nothing more. All of una go just carry insecurity scatter your relationships |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Permission To Hang Out With Another Man by torqque7(m): 7:49pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
igwegeorgiano: Dude tell her NO..it is the exact situation that caused me my relationship..she asked me to let her hangout with friends at a club and begged me nothing would happen,and cos I didn't want to seem overly jealous and insecure, I let her go (BIG MISTAKE)that's how she met one guy o and he started calling her..12am o,just imagine. Omoh I no get power to drag any woman way no know waiting she want so I dumped her ass even tho I was making serious plans to wife her. Bro these hoes ain't loyal..small chance you give, they will fuc.kup. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Permission To Hang Out With Another Man by Nobody: 7:50pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
Menzy86: It is that simple and insecure control freaks make it complicated by using their imagination to imagine the worse. Lol! I'm allergic to childish and insecure men so chances are I wouldn't date you. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Permission To Hang Out With Another Man by Cutehector(m): 7:52pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
Aderola15:and he has sex with her |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Permission To Hang Out With Another Man by Nobody: 7:54pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Permission To Hang Out With Another Man by Cutehector(m): 7:55pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
Aderola15:Smh.. I think say u no get insecurities.. 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Permission To Hang Out With Another Man by Nobody: 7:58pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
Cutehector: Don't let your head fall off ooh... Where's the insecurity in my post?
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Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Permission To Hang Out With Another Man by Cutehector(m): 8:00pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
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Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Permission To Hang Out With Another Man by sirusX(m): 8:00pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
LeView1:They are wise to only be cautious You don't wait till it happens and say "had I known" I know not all girls are the same, and this might truly be a platonic catching up with an old friend scenario...but she rily needs to put his mind at ease, as you can see he's not comfortable about it |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Permission To Hang Out With Another Man by Nobody: 8:04pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
Cutehector: Ehnnnnn what? I said my bf won't have sex with someone he says he's hanging out with not because of insecurity but because I trust him not to do something that foolish. |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Permission To Hang Out With Another Man by Nobody: 8:05pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
Bumbae1:Wife material, 200 yards 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Permission To Hang Out With Another Man by torqque7(m): 8:08pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
LeView1: You are a funny lady..but this same thing ruined my relationship so don't be too sure of what you are arguing about..insecure or not..there will always be something that will come out of that meeting.. Look there is no such thing as normal friends of opposite sex hanging out..NO guy will waste his money on any girl that he doesn't av plans to fuc.k except she is his relation or family friend..and that is a BIG except 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Permission To Hang Out With Another Man by Nobody: 8:14pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
More like, my girlfriend is asking for my permission to cheat on me... That's the koko 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Permission To Hang Out With Another Man by Nobody: 8:16pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
All this yeye talk of respect If the lady actually respected her guy ... she would not have already chosen date how is that respect She was going to go whether or not .. this one she doing is just for back up plan incase somebody see her with the guy etc ... yh my man knows about it .. If its harmless why not invite ur man .. make una laugh together if its just friendship shioor ... dont be deceived we are very smart .. ask her if u can spend sunday with me n see her face Tomorrow she ask u if she can spend the night hotel already booked ..that's so respectful Kimbra wey u at ... some and see something . 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Permission To Hang Out With Another Man by Nobody: 8:17pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
torqque7: What ruined your relationship is that she IS A CHEATER who CHEATED on you not because she went out. She could never leave her house and still cheat. There are people who have no sexual chemistry and are genuinely interested in the other person's life and where abouts. Let's stay in the context of the op... This is a friend from her uni days and they have no sexual history. She told op where and with who she was going with. If she had an intention to cheat she would never tell him where she went and with who and he'd never find out. In this case, not from your experience with a cheat, OP is insecure and should trust his woman. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Permission To Hang Out With Another Man by Nobody: 8:18pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
Oyind18:Exactly only matured minds can read between the lines She just seeing how far she can cheat.. so when he dropped her home what happened she no finish story . |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Permission To Hang Out With Another Man by Nobody: 8:21pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
Bumbae1:Na so, we know every 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Permission To Hang Out With Another Man by Nobody: 8:24pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
sirusX: If someone is going to cheat on you they will there's nothing you can do to stop them caution or not. I understand he needs his mind put to rest and the only he could do that is to share his feelings with his girl and then she would put his mind at rest. But if he's acting all macho and if he doesn't trust her then the relationship is DOA. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Permission To Hang Out With Another Man by biz2get(m): 8:25pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
onegig: My brother, it is called Manipulation... Don't over think it |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Permission To Hang Out With Another Man by Nobody: 8:27pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
LeView1: Dude has always been her friend, she chose him over the guy and he still thinks she's gonna cheat on him with the guy... Bia God, you know I'll understand and condone some shii in a relationship but definitely not a man that can't trust me... So pls don't even direct such guys to my doorstep. 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Permission To Hang Out With Another Man by sirusX(m): 8:31pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
LeView1:True...trust is one thing that kips a relationship strong thru moments like this...cz you know your partner and their commitment when it comes to you. But taking a look on the wild side...it only takes a first impression to create that attraction It might be about the intentions of the old friend (whether shez told him about her man or not)...that's if shez swayed with words, physique or material things 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Permission To Hang Out With Another Man by ipain: 8:33pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
Pchikaodili:I was looking out for something like this... good advice. OP, follow pronto. I endorse. |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Permission To Hang Out With Another Man by Nobody: 8:37pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
igwegeorgiano:.
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Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Permission To Hang Out With Another Man by Nobody: 8:39pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
ghost3040:brother nothin to advice.im case dey complex |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Permission To Hang Out With Another Man by kullozone(m): 8:46pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
Davidgrey: Boss, please don't lick that girl's asss. Face reality.... No good can come out of a date like that, whether she took permission or not. That's the world we live in. |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Permission To Hang Out With Another Man by babyfaceafrica: 8:51pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
Tell her you are not comfortable,but you won't stop her .then after a month after ,ask her that you want to carry her gal to easter treat,that she is your childhood friend..her reaction will tell you what is up |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Permission To Hang Out With Another Man by Nelgenius4me(m): 8:54pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
My guy you have just lost your babe, it's only a matter of time the hand writing will be everywhere. I suggest you request your girl to allow you to pursue other babes. If she agrees then you can excuse her to go out with the intruder. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Permission To Hang Out With Another Man by torqque7(m): 8:58pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
LeView1: Hmm my dear most times people dnt plan to cheat but situations happen and they endup cheating,so for the fact she told him doesn't change anything o,my ex also told me and even told me about the guy who took her number..but that didn't stop anything. Yeah I know there are people who can just be friends without any sexual chemistry but very VERY few so prevention is better than cure o..there is a saying 'Na from clap them de enter dance' |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Permission To Hang Out With Another Man by JERRY1925(m): 8:59pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
igwegeorgiano: please take my advice seriously.. let her go..its painful ....but let her go..try to keep calm. but. when she's gone..emm if u stay together.. make sure she do not meet u at home when she's back..but if u not together.. let her call to tell u she's tru..u have to find a way to make the equation balance...u can even tell her to come over to ur place when she's tru..but never let her meet u at home...make her understand how u felt when she went visiting a guy..if u don't ..she won't value u... but let her go joy fully ..b happy..because she's just ur girlfriend.. u not married.. and might not even marry her...u don't own her for now.. pls don't stop her. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Permission To Hang Out With Another Man by Kimberlylouis(f): 9:00pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
honestly d guy wnts 2 sweep ur babe!!! neva agree 2 dat! 2 u babe its jst a frndly gesture! but as a grl b4 u kno it she will stat fallin... do not agree 2 dat! tell her wat eva u can... |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Permission To Hang Out With Another Man by Nobody: 9:00pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
lefulefu:Elder lefulefu! Say something nah |
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