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Re: Why Do Things Change After Marriage? by Nobody: 8:28pm On Mar 26, 2017 |
Lilyqueeny:loves who?. |
Re: Why Do Things Change After Marriage? by Paentera(m): 8:36pm On Mar 26, 2017 |
Simply because the partners refuse (out of ignorance) to check their zodiac compatibility. If you check the Zodiac compatibility of your partner to be, you'll know if your union will remain strong or fall by the wayside in shambles |
Re: Why Do Things Change After Marriage? by gabicon: 8:37pm On Mar 26, 2017 |
Tajbol4splend: A lot of people don't realize that marriage is a lot of hard work and it take more than love to make things work, commitment, resilience, forgiveness, patience etc are all important ingredients that have to be cooked with love to make marriage work. The problem is too many kids are getting married today, anyone that can give up their right for the happiness of their spouse is not ready for marriage. |
Re: Why Do Things Change After Marriage? by Nobody: 8:37pm On Mar 26, 2017 |
Sincere4u: why do you want to know? |
Re: Why Do Things Change After Marriage? by tosyne2much(m): 8:38pm On Mar 26, 2017 |
Tajbol4splend:Eeeehyah!! Thank you very much bros |
Re: Why Do Things Change After Marriage? by tosyne2much(m): 8:39pm On Mar 26, 2017 |
Jammiiee:I hail you brother.. Happy Sunday |
Re: Why Do Things Change After Marriage? by dhardline(m): 8:40pm On Mar 26, 2017 |
Missonas: Thank you ọ jare. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Things Change After Marriage? by tosyne2much(m): 8:40pm On Mar 26, 2017 |
Mediapace:My biggest boss of life |
Re: Why Do Things Change After Marriage? by Nobody: 8:44pm On Mar 26, 2017 |
Lilyqueeny:cos i care |
Re: Why Do Things Change After Marriage? by zanga420: 8:48pm On Mar 26, 2017 |
ReneeNuttall:lol, don't you think it'll help solve the problem at hand? |
Re: Why Do Things Change After Marriage? by 2bam: 8:55pm On Mar 26, 2017 |
u are d best_,u are not married but d way u buttress this topic I think you have said it all.. |
Re: Why Do Things Change After Marriage? by shadeyinka(m): 8:58pm On Mar 26, 2017 |
Earth2Metahuman: I guess you are far from getting married. Your ideas are in based and unfounded. When your time comes, pray and choose wisely. The scenario above is about a thrice divorced lady. The probability of her divorcing you is more than 80%. What you need is an all-round matured lady (I assume you are an all round matured man) for a successful marriage. Interestingly, ability to perform extremely well sexual wise isn't important for a good marriage (ask some of our popular celebrities). Marriages crash when one or both parties in a marriage relationship are immature. Maturity isn't a function of Age! |
Re: Why Do Things Change After Marriage? by SNOWCREAM(m): 9:06pm On Mar 26, 2017 |
sheeda995:Not at all ma, only when it's consistent does it become an habit, like he claims to be tired Everytime, even if he's always tired sincerely, a considerate guy won't be selfish, he'll help you sometimes. |
Re: Why Do Things Change After Marriage? by Tajbol4splend(m): 9:06pm On Mar 26, 2017 |
gabicon: Can or can't? |
Re: Why Do Things Change After Marriage? by ReneeNuttall(f): 9:20pm On Mar 26, 2017 |
zanga420: I wouldn't know that for sure,because I haven't done It before. |
Re: Why Do Things Change After Marriage? by dabrightt: 9:26pm On Mar 26, 2017 |
tosyne2much:bro I feel like crediting ur acc you u make sense God will nt tak wisdom away frm u |
Re: Why Do Things Change After Marriage? by Seun360(m): 9:29pm On Mar 26, 2017 |
I love this thread. |
Re: Why Do Things Change After Marriage? by dabrightt: 9:29pm On Mar 26, 2017 |
Kentura:are u talkin frm experience |
Re: Why Do Things Change After Marriage? by yusufu16: 9:29pm On Mar 26, 2017 |
Marriage is about understand and sacrifice. No human being on earth is flawless. tosyne2much: 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Things Change After Marriage? by Shygirl1989(f): 9:35pm On Mar 26, 2017 |
UNREALISTIC EXPECTATIONS of MARRIAGE is the reason why people change. |
Re: Why Do Things Change After Marriage? by sampsun(m): 9:37pm On Mar 26, 2017 |
YourImaginaryBF: You got the entire gist right dear. I listened to a man of God sometime ago saying he has spent 59 years with his wife but still finds it difficult to describe her behaviors/personalities atimes. I think companionship & friendship outweighs Love in a relationship. Sex tends to diminish on the longrun as eating the same soup becomes nauseating. A good companionship is exciting & intriguing especially when your companion is not with you at the moment. It makes u wanna have a daily communication with the other persons cos he or she, spark u up . |
Re: Why Do Things Change After Marriage? by addictiv(m): 9:42pm On Mar 26, 2017 |
For me personally there are only two constants in a successful relationship/marriage and it's loyalty and friendship. Love is a choice, it's important but friendship and loyalty will get u through any difficulty. Marriage requires maturity and lots of tolerance. Your spouse could be having a rough day at the office and takes it out on you. You have to be able to understand them and find out the reason WHY they re acting out before taking any action. Most issues in marriages are mostly little issues that could be worked out but one partner refuses to forgive or wants to teach the other spouse a lesson and in so doing starts a chain of events that lead to irreconcilable differences. Forgiveness and understanding in marriage go hand in hand... Most times ur spouse could point out a behaviour you have that he or she doesn't like, it's very easy to over look this and say "that's how I am" the partner begins to resent you and gradually pull away. Communication is key for any marriage to work. People should learn to actually talk about issues. If your wife is angry with you, most times its not because you went out with the boys on Friday, It could be that you didn't pick up the kids early and the school called her which makes her look like a bad mother who forgets her kids, but the guy ll interpret it as she is nagging, and policing me, doesn't want me to hang out with my guys on Fridays. Little issues like this could be resolved easily if both partners can see things from the other person's point of view. Lastly there are several things I can tolerate in marriage but a partner who lies is totally unacceptable. 4 Likes |
Re: Why Do Things Change After Marriage? by zanga420: 9:48pm On Mar 26, 2017 |
ReneeNuttall:as per our subject matter, it can help. At least some percentage of the deceit. |
Re: Why Do Things Change After Marriage? by ReneeNuttall(f): 9:52pm On Mar 26, 2017 |
zanga420: Maybe,just maybe. |
Re: Why Do Things Change After Marriage? by Nobody: 9:52pm On Mar 26, 2017 |
Galacious1: You are on point...this is exactly the reason some ladies would insist on no sex before marriage cuz there are some traits in them they don't want you to discover marriage with such people is deceit upon deceit which would eventually leeds to divorce . |
Re: Why Do Things Change After Marriage? by gabicon: 9:59pm On Mar 26, 2017 |
Tajbol4splend: Sorry typo can't |
Re: Why Do Things Change After Marriage? by zanga420: 10:20pm On Mar 26, 2017 |
ReneeNuttall:Yeah maybe cos not seen any better idea to it so far |
Re: Why Do Things Change After Marriage? by tosyne2much(m): 10:31pm On Mar 26, 2017 |
Lilyqueeny:hmmmm |
Re: Why Do Things Change After Marriage? by Samadict(f): 10:38pm On Mar 26, 2017 |
The lady you dated/courted isn't the same person you married and vice versa. Adapting to the change is usually not easy but when you look at those before you that stayed married, then you'll find strength knowing that nothing is impossible. |
Re: Why Do Things Change After Marriage? by tosyne2much(m): 10:47pm On Mar 26, 2017 |
5Kay:I like your diction bro |
Re: Why Do Things Change After Marriage? by tosyne2much(m): 11:00pm On Mar 26, 2017 |
dabrightt:Thanks brother |
Re: Why Do Things Change After Marriage? by Nobody: 11:25pm On Mar 26, 2017 |
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