Men are men ... married or not married. Unmarried... we will chase after women openly. Married... we become selective and discreet...having to keep everything on the down low.... gossipers everywhere... the wife nor family members must never suspect much less have trace evidence. Bottom line... the wife must believe in all her heart that the husband is loyal.
Women...females..... a man ..married or unmarried. .. can go only as far as you let him. If he is hanging on your neck...it's because you let him. If your lazy neighbour who dropped out of primary school was after you.... would he be on your neck?...or kicked to the curb?

Nellychinma20:
here's another one
There was this friend of mine, the girl love me no be small.
She was too fond of me and wanted me to meet her family ,mind u they are very rich
After the day I visited ,her dad took interest in me and anytime he's coming to school to visit her he would but lots of gifts for me and the mum too took me as a daughter.
we all became free around each other and got to know my family too.
I was in school one day when her dad called and told me to come outside (I thought it was about our surprise birthday party for her cos that was prior to her birthday)
with my innocent mind I came out and entered his car, he drove to a hotel and we went to the bar to have a drink.
He started confessing his love, at first I thought it was a joke and I jokingly told him to stop.
I was speechless when he tried grabbing and kissing me.
stunned, I stood up and told him to take me home
I was visibly shaking ,I least expected that from him
now my friend complains I don't like visiting her family and I always give flimsy excuses ,I can't tell her.
she talks about her perfect dad a lot and most times am mute, she won't understand
And whenever I visit them, her mum will tell me how happy she is for having such a faithful and good husband and even teach me how to make my man faithful when I get married.
He is still unrelenting but I can't betray a family that loves me so much
And I don't want to break his home, they are so lovely

u are very wicked oooo....in dis situation, there are two uptions u have. it is either u tell d girl and den stop going to d house or u outrightly stop going to d house without telling...matters like dis are simple for me to deal with....I can switch from having d face of an angel to something else oooo

Adonis86:

Not only ladies, guys too.
Many married young guys are currently on my neck for sx. Some wit kids already,wen i ask why,they wil tell me their family forced them into marriage. They claim preference for fellow guys, these are handsome guys with cool cash here in Awka. Check 'Obinna ok' via fbk for some of those guys

thanks for sharing this
God bless u
at least I learnt something

kushme:
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Are you a male or a female?

I'm a male

PaperLace:
Ignore people saying it's your fault that married men chase you_it has nothing to do with you but the randy men. Yes, you share in the blame if you accept his proposal, but the bulk blame goes to the man.

thanks for the wisdom

[quote author=lovelygurl post=55619916]Op to be honest I don't know what your problem is.

Threaten to tell his wife

Make sure everybody knows he's married

Always give him disgusting looks because HE IS disgusting

Embarass him in public places. Especially in public places .


Again let me tell you something you dont know about me.. i only have a better and sweet dick erection for a thin/slim girl, clean, facially Okay. I can fvck you if you have these traits.

Younger girls in their late teens and early twenties prefer married men. I'm a married man and write from experience. Most ladies above 25 don't like married men except the man goes out of his way to woo her with promises and material things. The teens and early twenties ladies even give their limited money to married men for reasons I can't tell and once you sleep with one the friends will steal your contact and start disturbing your life with love letters.

[quote author=kushme post=55620951][/quote]

Op you shouldn't only avoid married men but stupid fools like this 1. Don't let your children be dumb o

She will have to learn the hard way.

Haniel18:
I have a female dat is dating a married man wit 3 kids,after warning her she still dated him.anyway i have warned her sha,d day her own husband cheat on her her eyes will open.

Divay22:
I have never done that and I'll never...

But some married men are so stubborn the more you tell them you ain't interested, the more they'll come closer.....
Don't want No wife crying on my head at midnight to God because i took her hubby..
I ain't worth her tears.

Sweet pix....wanna play basket ball?
But seriously is that you?

Mennalyne:
I go just waka pass like say I no see anything

good...dats another way of dealing with d idiots...meanwhile be prepared for some of d stupid goats because dey may result to rape...so u must watch ur back

PaperLace:
Ignore people saying it's your fault that married men chase you_it has nothing to do with you but the randy men. Yes, you share in the blame if you accept his proposal, but the bulk blame goes to the man.

i love your maturity
please can we be friends?

Are you indirectly trying to tell us that you're a victim?
Have you fallen into temptations?

Abagworo:
Younger girls in their late teens and early twenties prefer married men. I'm a married man and write from experience. Most ladies above 25 don't like married men except the man goes out of his way to woo her with promises and material things. The teens and early twenties ladies even give their limited money to married men for reasons I can't tell and once you sleep with one the friends will steal your contact and start disturbing your life with love letters.

lovelygurl:



Oooooh God, see the kind of stupidity I have to deal with this Easter Sunday

Your intelligence wannabe?

Becoming so miserable?

Id you don't change?

. * if you dont...

Alesandese:
If you don't rush into relationship, you will find out some things about your intending partner. Sorry I take relationships pretty serious so I investigate a lot.

miss investigator .. When both of you are investigating each oda... Haba... How u dey sha

Nellychinma20:
I really don't know how to start this.
I respect marriage the way I respect God. I don't like the idea of cheating and already vowed never to have a thing to with married men.
But married men won't let young girls be and the irony is, the society will always place the blame on us. once a married man want u ,he will go to any length to get it.
God be good to me, am so scared of marriage cos of the rate at which men cheat and I can't bear the thought of that happening to me.
I will go ahead and share my experience, ladies feel free to add urs

LOL, speak to yourself, not for others. You young girls are the problems of these married men.

Abagworo:
Younger girls in their late teens and early twenties prefer married men. I'm a married man and write from experience. Most ladies above 25 don't like married men except the man goes out of his way to woo her with promises and material things. The teens and early twenties ladies even give their limited money to married men for reasons I can't tell and once you sleep with one the friends will steal your contact and start disturbing your life with love letters.

It's a normal thing. Even as a married woman and mother, I get those advances steady. If I am looking for man to chop his money, it won't take me more than a week, but I dare not blame the man.
So why do men blame the ladies?
Men have to start taking responsibility for their actions.

As to why they prefer the married man; this is Nigeria...where guys go about devouring babes then still call same babes hoe. Babes have decided to give to the person that can pay pass. Nothing spoil...

Nellychinma20:
i love your maturity
please can we be friends?

Lols... which kinda friends na? Physical or?

Safiaa:
Can you imagine the nonsense

'Stupid single girls', yet you can't keep your dick in your pants? What does that make you? Who is the smart one and who is the one stupid here?

Useless excuse of a human being. Shameless herpes infected dog.

Hmmm I can't even swallow water wey dey my mouth

porozhniy:
Lol at comments on this thread, it seems a lot of young men don't understand the rules of the game yet.

Women will always use their YOUTH & BEAUTY to seek out & mate with men of high resources. They only settle for 'men with highest potential' when their primary targets eludes them. This is why women rarely marry below their social status.

The problem with women's sexual strategy is; beauty & youth is tranacient, without personal development, you are nothing once you're past your sexual peak.

The second problem is; men's sexual value increases with age, women's sexual value decreases with age.
This is why men with resources tend to bang as many chicks as they can afford irrespective of their marital status.

Even society recognises this fact, that's why we subconsciously defend love, marriage & morality.
For those are the only tools to hold a man with resources back.

In our society where alimony & divorce settlements are virtually non-existent, the woman who relies solely on YOUTH & BEAUTY to get by is likely to lose at the end.

MONEYYY IS POWER!

This was my post on a thread yesterday.
Men will always ask, women will accept or reject.
Considering the poverty rate in the country, the man with a disposable income is gold in the dating market since that's what makes him attractive to women.

It's the way of the world, it ain't going away!

Adeevah:
Girls!

If you don't want him to keep coming, do thz
1. Add-up his wife on social media i.e facebook
2. Always tag his wife in every post of yours
3. Threaten him, tell him you will report to his wife or report his harassment on social media
4. Release his pictures and evidence of him



#But dating them pays sometime coz
1. The unmarried ones out there are unemployed and unemployable...
2. Some exist with the help of their parents
3. Most will date you, still have a chick and some side chickens
4. Hmmmn, remember gigoloz too

#Mypoint
1. Just open, not only your eye but your brain
2. Learn and earn
3. Date any of the two(married or not) that will respect you, make you happy
4. Pray for the best and expect the best in life


#happyeaster

This has got to be the most realistic post on this thread.the fact that a "married man" makes a pass at u doesn't make him less of a person. Many families today live on the largesse and benevolence of these "monsters" called "married men".Its a survival option for many ladies and many date 'em but with wisdom, many have found joy and respite frm such relationships. Marrying a single man isnt a lifetime guarantee for marital bliss.Be with whoever chimes ur bells right and not out of propriety.

Fourwinds:
I'm a male

....

Now i know... Another simp.. with time you'll understand...

Safiaa:
Are you indirectly trying to tell us that you're a victim?
Have you fallen into temptations?

His a benefactor you don't need to ask him

Here are we all blaming married men going after other girls even those who fondly engage in the act.

Before u draw ur conclusion, I want to ask these questions to those girls
1. Whats ur body language when married men flash u money? Does ur mouth say No when ur body mean Yes?
2. How do u dress before these married men? Or do u think they are angels? Seductive dressing can make any body to fall. That is why on the side of men, if u are position of authority, correct it immediately or u shun it.
3. Do u have fun of staying alone with married men thinking after all he is married? This is dangerous. If u work in an office, discharge ur duties responsively. Be respectful but not the point of servitude like helping him to remove his shoes

Nellychinma20:
There was this married man that wouldn't let me be.
mind u he's married with 3 wonderful kids, I snubbed him all through till the day I became pissed off.
so I told him I love him too but all I need is for him to kill his wife, children and mother that way no one will disturb us lol
that was the last time he called.

now u are talking...so don't tell me d power to do away with them does not rest in u...I called such people greedy folks

Icecream4U:
what about exposing him? I mean, let his wife know with proof.

that will destroy the marriage

kimbra:
You have time to abuse them.

The abuse fit end him career

Bumbae1:

His a benefactor you don't need to ask him

Safiaa:
Can you imagine the nonsense

'Stupid single girls', yet you can't keep your dick in your pants? What does that make you? Who is the smart one and who is the one stupid here?

Useless excuse of a human being. Shameless herpes infected dog.

please don't let him upset u
it's not worth it sweetie

Bumbae1:

The abuse fit end him career

Lol, it's obvious he has twisted idea of things, so why make it tougher for him?. He should find his square root joor!.

Venom247:
All the ladies claiming never to have done that. Who are those dating those married men then? hypocrite!!

I wonder

Nellychinma20:
There was this married man that wouldn't let me be.
mind u he's married with 3 wonderful kids, I snubbed him all through till the day I became pissed off.
so I told him I love him too but all I need is for him to kill his wife, children and mother that way no one will disturb us lol
that was the last time he called.

I am that married man that's not what u said stop lying..

Nellychinma20:
There was this married man that wouldn't let me be.
mind u he's married with 3 wonderful kids, I snubbed him all through till the day I became pissed off.
so I told him I love him too but all I need is for him to kill his wife, children and mother that way no one will disturb us lol
that was the last time he called.

If he takes heed to your advice and do so, he will also see another lady tomorrow and kill you too...