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Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by babapressy(m): 7:46pm On Apr 27, 2017
He has the potential, ability and capacity to save money to build a house for the family. Call me if am wrong.
Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by sekem: 7:47pm On Apr 27, 2017
queencalipso:
This over flogged issue undecided being in a r/ship is not compulsory, broke or not, stingy or not, maintain the friendship level and everyone will take care of his/her needs. You owe each other nothing...

Succinct.

I'm really impressed.

Keep it up.
Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by Emac34: 7:50pm On Apr 27, 2017
Moneyfem:
Ladies should study or learn good hand work to earn a living too instead of all this ''sex slave mentality''. Your man will give you but you shdn't base all ur burden or latest designs on him. There should be reciprocity of gifts/presents in friendship, courtship and marriage. If all you want in a relationship is only the guy giving and you not wanting to give him even if he is broke sometimes, why won't he want to have his main goal also to be treating you anyhow on the bed? Initiating and practising new skills on you will be his mind too.

Abeg, even God created Eve as a helper for Adam. Can't you just learn lessons from the ''oyinbos''?
learn what the are all bunch of liability, putting their burden on any guy that comes their way at the end the will be shouting gender equality



gender equality my asz

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Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by Fourwinds: 7:54pm On Apr 27, 2017
TinaAnita:

Painment....
lazy as..s

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Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by Kondomatic(m): 8:01pm On Apr 27, 2017
quivah:
oh finally cheesy I like this better sha
Kondo?
Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by Fourwinds: 8:03pm On Apr 27, 2017
Dominicah:
the guy who went out to ask her out should know what he wants from her undecided
so if d guy now start demanding for sex because he spends and buy gifts for her., how many girls can stand dat? see u need tp be careful when u are eating with d devil....u don't use ur teeth to cut what u can not eat
Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by aribisala0(m): 8:06pm On Apr 27, 2017
Emac34:
learn what the are all bunch of liability, putting their burden on any guy that comes their way at the end the will be shouting gender equality



gender equality my asz
Not all, only those who grew up cooking with firewood,karosin .. They think differently
That is the first background check guy Must do.
Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by Raalsalghul: 8:06pm On Apr 27, 2017
Adanne9110:
Unemployment can lead to a lot of things..my opinion pls,correct me if am wrong. If a lady is employed at least to meet her needs,I dnt see any reason why she should xpect much from a partner...the interest should be how often does he give u full attention to really know who he is? Wot piss me off in a man is one who doesnt invest. Dnt spend on me but give me the confidence that oure unborn babies are secured,start somewhere so that when the woman comes in she will see where to key in. I dnt want to see a man that rides xpensive car but has been living in a rented apartment for years... I want to see at least quarter plot of land...so if a man wants let him be stingy,so long as I can make ends meet,his money his bizness for now but his investment,my business in future...reminder,,#itsmyopinionooooooo
Christ! Do we still have ladies who reasons like you? Hope you don't mind a p.m?

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Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by Rilwayne001: 8:08pm On Apr 27, 2017
Chief chief! You go just dey appear and disappear anyhow, you be Jesus undecided

sukkot:
my bros, i salute you field marshall. wetin you chop remain for awon boys na ? grin
Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by aribisala0(m): 8:08pm On Apr 27, 2017
aribisala0:

Not all, only those who grew up cooking with firewood,karosin .. They think differently
That is the first background check guy Must do.
People may call me snobbish I don't care but my relationship with such people is what you may call Distance Learning. You know them na those face me I face you people wey somehow struggle go unifasiti
Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by Raalsalghul: 8:10pm On Apr 27, 2017
Dominicah:
Love is important in a relationship, however, availability of finance makes the love wax stronger. A man should be able to buy gifts constantly for his girl friend, take her out on dates, send her cash once in a while, transfer airtime to her phone even when she does not ask, these acts keeps the love alive. Take it or leave it, women are moved by such acts, that's why you see a woman say a man is caring once he can meet her needs.

This thread isn't about broke men, when you are broke as a man, its not your fault, but try to share the little you have with your girl, if you don't you are stingy and a stingy man does not deserve a woman. He should go for prostitutes and call girls, leave decent girls alone.

Some mumu boys will call a girl who requires financial support a gold digger, that is wrong. The man is the giver in a relationship, while the woman is the receiver. guys, use your heads and start meeting up with your responsibilities.

For the ladies, its not wise spending on a guy, he will just finish your money and move on, don't be desperate.

A word is enough for the wise.
You are just plain dumb!
Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by Fourwinds: 8:11pm On Apr 27, 2017
Dominicah:
nope.
She can give little gifts once in a while, it will make him feel loved too.
now I understand d mentality
Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by sukkot: 8:12pm On Apr 27, 2017
Rilwayne001:
Chief chief! You go just dey appear and disappear anyhow, you be Jesus undecided

grin grin grin bros i dey around all the time. just not been moved to type as much lol. but I be around browsing and tings bruv. wagwan mi breda ? eku ishe uncle Rili. ile ishe yin oni jona Sir cheesy
Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by quivah(f): 8:13pm On Apr 27, 2017
Kondomatic:
Kondo?

matic cool

tal*** is depressing to my condition angry
Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by Rilwayne001: 8:14pm On Apr 27, 2017
sukkot:
grin grin grin bros i dey around all the time. just not been moved to type as much lol. but I be around browsing and tings bruv. wagwan mi breda ? eku ishe uncle Rili. ile ishe yin oni jona Sir cheesy

Lol, you this chief ehn grin grin
Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by Kondomatic(m): 8:18pm On Apr 27, 2017
quivah:
matic cool
tal*** is depressing to my condition angry
Jesu


How nah.

That's my offline nik o
Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by sukkot: 8:18pm On Apr 27, 2017
Rilwayne001:


Lol, you this chief ehn grin grin
grin grin egbon Rili grin grin
Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by Emac34: 8:19pm On Apr 27, 2017
aribisala0:

Not all, only those who grew up cooking with firewood,karosin .. They think differently
That is the first background check guy Must do.
I quite agree with your point bt even the richie ones are nothing to write home about
Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by Fourwinds: 8:21pm On Apr 27, 2017
Dominicah:
why should she contribute when she wasn't the one that asked him out? undecided
what a pity.!! I can read ur IQ level....
Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by Fourwinds: 8:23pm On Apr 27, 2017
Dominicah:
nothing like broke girl, that word applies to guys only.
I can read d mind of a teen or early twenties....well time shall tell
Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by Mkolayinka(m): 8:24pm On Apr 27, 2017
Poverty mentality, typical of Nigeria girls. Is your boyfriend your father. Must your boyfriend takes the role of your parents while they are alive.
So because he's dating you, you should be a liability to the man.
Man wants to value the reciprocity of the relationship.
A beggarly attitude that scares away potential suitiors.
Just because he wants to get between your legs, is the thing made of gold that the man must go bankrupt.
If you value yourself by contributing a little of your money, the guy will appreciate you by not being a leech to him
Ladies do not get me wrong, men are not supposed to be stingy. If you value her, you should be able to share your resources.
Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by quivah(f): 8:29pm On Apr 27, 2017
Kondomatic:
Jesu



How nah.


That's my offline nik o
I'm quite your opposite na, so each time I come across it. I get this heart beat. grin grin
Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by FRANKOSKI(m): 8:30pm On Apr 27, 2017
Is he good in bed? Waiting for answer..... cool
Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by aribisala0(m): 8:31pm On Apr 27, 2017
Emac34:
I quite agree with your point bt even the richie ones are nothing to write home about
At least if a rich one has your child and you die she won't feed him karosin cooked food.that is the poison that damages their brains
There's no need for bullshite call the guy your client and not your boyfriend, negotiate terms and proceed.no problem then the issue of stinginess does not arise. That kind of arrangement is fine by me but stop pretending you are boyfriend and girlfriend
Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by Emac34: 8:33pm On Apr 27, 2017
aribisala0:

At least if a rich one has your child and you die she won't feed him karosin cooked food.that is the poison that damages their brains
lol...

dude your badst coolcoolcool
Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by Dominicah(f): 8:36pm On Apr 27, 2017
Raalsalghul:
You are just plain dumb!
you are just stupid becos of poverty. Poverty has made this one a fool, chai.
Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by Dominicah(f): 8:40pm On Apr 27, 2017
aribisala0:

At least if a rich one has your child and you die she won't feed him karosin cooked food.that is the poison that damages their brains
There's no need for bullshite call the guy your client and not your boyfriend, negotiate terms and proceed.no problem then the issue of stinginess does not arise. That kind of arrangement is fine by me but stop pretending you are boyfriend and girlfriend
clap for yourself. These are the indomie generation broke leaching boys, good diggers, guys with no self value, no sense of decency no responsibility. You are the type of boys that want to feed on women when nature made the reverse the case. Shame on you nigga. Broke stingy thing.
Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by mctowel01: 8:40pm On Apr 27, 2017
kambee:
No value 0-0=0.... And the most annoying thing is that they simply want all the attention and they even ''won do pass'' guys wey they give wella.....their rate is NOTHING.
Yeah...I know... Your love is for sale to the higher bidder. #Team Corporate prostitute
Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by user6164: 8:41pm On Apr 27, 2017
xynerise:

Sex undecided

Are you saying the lady don't enjoy the sex? If you will agree both parties enjoy the sex then why is it the duty of man to pay for the sex.
Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by Dominicah(f): 8:41pm On Apr 27, 2017
mctowel01:

Yeah...I know... Your love is for sale to the higher bidder. #Corporate prostitute
broke ass, male good digger looking for women to feed him, indomie boys, Shame.
Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by aribisala0(m): 8:43pm On Apr 27, 2017
Emac34:
lol...

dude your badst coolcoolcool
I am sure even Davidos dogs dislike karosin cooked food. .
That is a clear marker of social divide in Nigeria. Call it the karosin divide.
Even when they get money and start cooking with gas the damage is already done.They will make random ejaculations like,, Chai! Umbrella, for no reason without provocation. The only kind of outing they know must involve food .
Re: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by xynerise: 8:43pm On Apr 27, 2017
user6164:


Are you saying the lady don't enjoy the sex? If you will agree both parties enjoy the sex then why is it the duty of man to pay for the sex.

Those that understand sarcasm understand my comment grin

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