metiette:
your brain needs to b returned to factory setting. you are a disgrace to womanhood.. In short, your life is finished

RuggedArab:


Hey, Im not comparing the civilization or economy but the mentality of the women. If you carry out sampled opinion you would found out that most Nigerian women are VERY (note the Very)lazy to work. If you enter some offices too they will heap work for you.

Let me not talk about students now (I have seen people who work and go to school at the same time but mostly guys) but the graduates. Some of the women graduates don't use their certificates and I keep asking what's the whole essence of going to school if I can't utilize the knowledge gained to put food on my table. They might even get low paying jobs and refuse to work because they know they can easily get some stuffs from guys and all but a guy will manage just to make sure he has little change in his pocket and that's laziness from them. What happens to building it ground up huh?

They go as far as saying "make I do marry better rich guy so that my husband can take care of me" and that's the end of working or looking for something to do. Our economy and environment can not be an excuse. Die hard ladies still make it here.

I still repeat, 96% of Nigerian women areally VERY lazy!..... kudos to the very few women out there hustling lIke a real G. I respect you!

ElDadd:


Oya how much for your punaní?
I will pay you well o. *evil laugh*
Send you card sef, shebi 100naira card.

But I won't marry you.

Oyind18:
Funny thread

aribisala0:

I can tel,l your background reading this.You grew up eating food cooked with kerosene which tends to shape outlook in lifeThose kids who grew up on gas cooked food reason very differently and my take is make kerosene people dey date kerosene people and make firewood people dey date diasef to avoid quarrel

Dominicah:

Realhommie:
Which kind reasoning be dis Lol

cruchenuti:


Lmao, so all your praise and kudos is going to only 4%

Dominicah:
Love is important in a relationship, however, availability of finance makes the love wax stronger. A man should be able to buy gifts constantly for his girl friend, take her out on dates, send her cash once in a while, transfer airtime to her phone even when she does not ask, these acts keeps the love alive. Take it or leave it, women are moved by such acts, that's why you see a woman say a man is caring once he can meet her needs.

This thread isn't about broke men, when you are broke as a man, its not your fault, but try to share the little you have with your girl, if you don't you are stingy and a stingy man does not deserve a woman. He should go for prostitutes and call girls, leave decent girls alone.

Some mumu boys will call a girl who requires financial support a gold digger, that is wrong. The man is the giver in a relationship, while the woman is the receiver. guys, use your heads and start meeting up with your responsibilities.

For the ladies, its not wise spending on a guy, he will just finish your money and move on, don't be desperate.

A word is enough for the wise.

gurunlocker:
I feel like crying reading this, and I don't have choice than to ask if the op really has a functioning brain? You expect a man to spend but woman shouldn't do the same.

Lemme ask you, what does the woman has to offer then?

Oyind18:
The value he can add to the relationship is his digging tool.

Op, you no try

sukkot:
OP is trolling yall, she has to be, surely she is, or is she not ? is she being serious ? like for real ? ggadayummmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

LoJ:

Chief marshall Sukkot in the building! How far bruhh?

Dominicah:
Love is important in a relationship, however, availability of finance makes the love wax stronger. A man should be able to buy gifts constantly for his girl friend, take her out on dates, send her cash once in a while, transfer airtime to her phone even when she does not ask, these acts keeps the love alive. Take it or leave it, women are moved by such acts, that's why you see a woman say a man is caring once he can meet her needs.

This thread isn't about broke men, when you are broke as a man, its not your fault, but try to share the little you have with your girl, if you don't you are stingy and a stingy man does not deserve a woman. He should go for prostitutes and call girls, leave decent girls alone.

Some mumu boys will call a girl who requires financial support a gold digger, that is wrong. The man is the giver in a relationship, while the woman is the receiver. guys, use your heads and start meeting up with your responsibilities.

For the ladies, its not wise spending on a guy, he will just finish your money and move on, don't be desperate.

A word is enough for the wise.

wiloy2k8:



its funny u have got nothing upstairs

Dominicah:
Love is important in a relationship, however, availability of finance makes the love wax stronger. A man should be able to buy gifts constantly for his girl friend, take her out on dates, send her cash once in a while, transfer airtime to her phone even when she does not ask, these acts keeps the love alive. Take it or leave it, women are moved by such acts, that's why you see a woman say a man is caring once he can meet her needs.

This thread isn't about broke men, when you are broke as a man, its not your fault, but try to share the little you have with your girl, if you don't you are stingy and a stingy man does not deserve a woman. He should go for prostitutes and call girls, leave decent girls alone.

Some mumu boys will call a girl who requires financial support a gold digger, that is wrong. The man is the giver in a relationship, while the woman is the receiver. guys, use your heads and start meeting up with your responsibilities.

For the ladies, its not wise spending on a guy, he will just finish your money and move on, don't be desperate.

A word is enough for the wise.

tobianthony:
Let me be straight with you guys .

@ OP, You see I think it's about time we introduce a dislike button in Nairaland .

I don't know you personally but you see you kind of made a little bit of sense but then you kind of spoilt it .

But you are entitled to the way you feel right or wrong .

Sometimes I feel like loosing hope in us as a people ...cause it just seems like bottom line relationships all just come down to a social contract ...man bring money , provide shelter and food : woman bear children , clean the house , prepare the food man brought home .

We can all talk from now till tomorrow but nothing will change . 20 years from now let's revisit this post and sincerely see how we are all doing in our relationships .

It feels like a never ending cycle of pain and mistrust ..because one person hurt me I gotta hurt the next person by not giving nothing . But who dey give go always get to give one way or the other .

God is not a fool ... He knew what he was doing when he invented love ...we humans just misbehave with it .

EmekaBlue:
You were making 50% sense until you wrote this...

For the ladies, its not wise spending on a guy, he will just finish your money and move on, don't be desperate.

A word is enough for the wise.



Typical nigerian girl poor mentality

quivah:

wait o ..no vex, I thought you meant she sets up a small business for him or help him start a blog.
I for fear! I guess you meant, if she's jobless too, she can start a small business FOR HERSELF or a blog, to support herself so she wouldn't need to ask him for financial helps..
right?
if so, thumb up!
but if you meant, she set up a small business for him then my picture was appropriate.. even worse if she helps him start a blog, then that dude must be either lame, blind or outrightly crazy.

Fourwinds:
very myopic view.....just imagine....guys are givers girls are receivers.... even if I have I cannt just give it to u..u must worth d gift...

sukkot:
walahi this your obsession with prick lets me know you have not seen prick in 10 years. go and find husband joor

the other thread too you were angry they did not show the mans prick. walahi you need holy ghost fire and koboko and exorcism

tosyne2much:
Hmmmm.. What a thread!!

OP, in as much as you tried make sense, your write-up became flawed when you said that ladies are only meant to be at the receiving end.. This notion is very wrong and will only put women in trouble

I just hope you don't take this notion into your marriage

Kondomatic:
This is me

kimbra:
Hello!, babe how fa?. Would like to discuss something with you. Please do reply if you're interested.

uk10:
yea i meant for herself so that she won't depend solely on the man