Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / New
Stats: 3,158,832 members, 7,837,973 topics. Date: Thursday, 23 May 2024 at 01:16 PM

I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba - Romance (8) - Nairaland

Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Romance / I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba (68150 Views)

Lady Vows Never To Visit Her Potential Boyfriend's House Again After Seeing This / I Dumped My Bride On Wedding Day Because She's Been Cheating On Me- Groom Shouts / I Sympathise With A Guy Who Says He Used And Dumped A Girl (2) (3) (4)

(1) (2) (3) ... (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) (11) ... (18) (Reply) (Go Down)

Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by Newborn40(m): 3:12pm On May 11, 2017
For several occasions my bae reject cooking but she do cook well,if she went to oop should HV quite De dating ,men love food prepared in dey house
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by Sarhyd(m): 3:12pm On May 11, 2017
How many of you supporting the girl are in a serious relationship? undecided
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by Eluwilussit(m): 3:12pm On May 11, 2017
seguno2:






Only a mumu person who thinks that everyone is like him will call the principled lady a mumu.
Could that be your case?


Have u seen one of the posts below u? Same girl that claimed to have slept with almost 3000 men. So this whole thing is a big lie. cheesy
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by Nobody: 3:13pm On May 11, 2017
YelloweWest:

Look who's quoting Bible. I'm sure while u were cooking and cleaning on the first date you were also doing other this not permitted by the Bible.
Yes husband is the head and the superior to the wife. The question is, IS HE HER HUSBAND?

Lol. YelloweWest the way men and even some women reason is just scary. I feel sad for them because they will have children and bring them up with that mentality.

3 Likes 1 Share

Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by Nobody: 3:13pm On May 11, 2017
tukdi:
Oya clap for yourself! tongue

1 Like

Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by majorbravo: 3:13pm On May 11, 2017
lovethchioma:
Someone said the guy might be testing the girl and I ask what kind of stupid test is that?


If a guy test me with this kinda thing I'm going to happily fail the test again and again.

Imagine! sitting on the couch and asking her to go cook for you and your friends on a first date... because she is what? the woman?
and when does being a woman mean being stupid or your slave?

It cant be the first date, why d hell would any decent girl have a first date in the guy's crib? What did she expect? A french chef in a halloween costume serving them both cuisine? She chose to have a date in the guy's crib, which means spending quality time together and that involves anything that can be done at home, not at some restaurant. If you choose a date at an amusement park, do you wait till you get there and say uh uh, i'm scared of heights? I dont know what she expected when she accepted a date at her man's crib. BTW If it was an actual date why were his friends there? Dude probably didn't even see it as a date to begin with. And i bet he didn't call her after.
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by Omotayor123(f): 3:14pm On May 11, 2017
missomo:


Thank you Tayo. Its funny but sad too.

Ejo Tayo help me interpret this. My Yoruba is quite rusty.
DABI MOSE DA
Alai ni nkan se ton da ipari osu
Ole lasan lasan ikeji ole

Lol. I can't even deal with the people I meet on Nairaland.
Lol. don't mind the guys here that's how they are.

1. Commonly used to mean you want to destroy someone the way you have destroy yourself.
2. Mean you are not serious about doing something.
3. means As lazy as a thief.
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by obyno417(m): 3:15pm On May 11, 2017
seguno2:






Only a mumu person who thinks that everyone is like him will call the principled lady a mumu.
Could that be your case?
Well birds of d same feathers flock together spoiled and lazy woman always hide their laziness or weakness in d name of principle. U better learn how to cook like every African woman and stop acting wat u would never be.
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by toprealman: 3:15pm On May 11, 2017
For some strange reason you see yourself as God's gift to huMANity.......wake up girl. Most guys won't notice you on a good day....na based on logistics you take entre radar!
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by Nobody: 3:16pm On May 11, 2017
Omotayor123:

Lol. don't mind the guys here that's how they are.

1. Commonly used to mean you want to destroy someone the way you have destroy yourself.
2. Mean you are not serious about doing something.
3. means As lazy as a thief.

Whaaaat? LOL. I can't even deal. Maybe he is the guy in question that they refused to cook rice for. There is no other explanation for him being so emotional about it.

Thank you Tayo.
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by seguno2: 3:16pm On May 11, 2017
Eluwilussit:
Have u seen one of the posts below u? Same girl that claimed to have slept with almost 3000 men. So this whole thing is a big lie. cheesy

I have responded on the basis that this could have happened to anyone.
Cheers.
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by prince13: 3:16pm On May 11, 2017
slowpoke, you are a disappointment to womanhood
rumenase:



Source: http://crazyanne.com/dumped-my-boyfriend/
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by PDPGuy: 3:16pm On May 11, 2017
safarigirl:
Na she do mistake go the guy house sef, what am I doing in a man's house on a first date? What if he's a rapist?

I can't visit a guy when I have not been on at least three dates and you will have to wait till the third month of our relationship before I will cook for you. I simply don't know you well enough for any of that

and as for those BOYS insulting her, I no blame Una, I hope you all married the girls that cooked for you the first time they came to your house or all the ones that have been cooing for you
One of the sensible comments here.

What was she thinking when she decided to go to a man's house for a first date? That's absolutely wrong. And she even ate the rice he bought with his money - another mistake she made. She should have paid for her own plate of rice.

Besides, the man came on too strong. You don't ask someone, whom you just met, to cook for you two AND his friends. It's totally bad manners

1 Like

Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by Smeago007(m): 3:16pm On May 11, 2017
I see you asking series of men in the future
Can I cook?
Are you hungry? I can cook
They will all be like "no thanks" grin

Real men takes few tricks to identify a wife prospect
Too bad you just turned yet another slay queen

Him going out to buy the food shows you he weren't after your food nor was he hungry
He proved to you he can get the food anyway

That shows you a failed mission which you are


Think fast,think wise
Stop this worth trash.

Real men imploys Lotta tactics to know real women

Love stories dont always have an happy beginning

To me . you already called him decent from your own perspective

So you lost a decent homely man

"The heartbreak from fuckboys continues"

1 Like

Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by mypassions(m): 3:18pm On May 11, 2017
|
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by Omotayor123(f): 3:18pm On May 11, 2017
missomo:


Whaaaat? LOL. I can't even deal. Maybe he is the guy in question that they refused to cook rice for. There is no other explanation for him being so emotional about it.

Thank you Tayo.
grin grin Lol

you're welcome dearie.

1 Like

Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by pocohantas(f): 3:19pm On May 11, 2017
Vorpal:


But its the era of gender equality and sexual liberality era na?

Do you women genuinely want to go back to how our parents did it back then?

That will be splendid in my opinion. smiley
It's okay that things are changing, but no one should go about expecting to get same results.

That'll be asking for too much in my opinion. grin
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by Nobody: 3:19pm On May 11, 2017
Kakamorufu:
see her mouf like ur are one of them. FYI.. no lady has cooked for me when they come to my abode. I hardly cook, only when the ginger is in me that I enter kitchen and make either rice or spaghetti. if I hold u in high esteem, I make u a fresh catfish pepper soup.
most time I only entertain them with snacks and any assorted junks I can get.


No be my real mouth be dat, na Nairaland emoji. Why did you allow my post pain you, na, if you're not one if them? You coulda just chilled.....
Anyway, I'm sorry I presumed wrongly about you. You're not a masculinist.
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by SonOfJames: 3:19pm On May 11, 2017
Heavance:
Hmmm, you seem to see the guy as an okay person, probably the way he sounded about you cooking turned you off entirely, at times guys can be authoritative without knowing they are, mostly when around their friends.
Should have just gone on more dates, he could turn out nicer than you thought.
Are u saying the guy should have gone on his knees for asking her to cook for him so as not to sound authoritative like u asserted.
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by omaigala12(m): 3:20pm On May 11, 2017
pocohantas:
Okay, seems it's time to be testing each other husband/wife material. How about the girl tells him to give her N50,000...she is just testing him you know?

That way she can know if he can provide for her as a husband.

Nonsense!
Una test for kitchen, test for room... test everywhere...

You be Quality Controller? grin


Considering the fact that most Nigerian men don't have money...what do ya all have aside manhood? grin
So u no d test product before you buy am?
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by seguno2: 3:20pm On May 11, 2017
obyno417:
Well birds of d same feathers flock together spoiled and lazy woman always hide their laziness or weakness in d name of principle. U better learn how to cook like every African woman and stop acting wat u would never be.

You should read my post again.
I guess my assessment was correct. How did you determine that I am a woman?

1 Like

Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by Nobody: 3:20pm On May 11, 2017
missomo:


Please resend this message when you learn how to express yourself intelligently. I can't be bothered to read such gibberish. It's painful to the eyes.

Dunce with a smart phone.

yu dare talk of intelligence,,wats d difference btw ur head nd pvssy by d way .... #bleeped
come cook fr my dogs grin leo,,lexzy,,princess
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by pocohantas(f): 3:20pm On May 11, 2017
omaigala12:
So u no d test product before you buy am?
No, I don't do that. smiley
How many will I test?

2 Likes

Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by Ralphdan(m): 3:21pm On May 11, 2017
MsRoe:


See one of them. angry

Na dem full 9ija o so u better go find white man wey go marry u. undecided
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by omaigala12(m): 3:21pm On May 11, 2017
.
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by Nobody: 3:21pm On May 11, 2017
mypassions:
You really suffering from mental slavery, your brain has been westernized. I have a friend that got married to a white woman, she cook and wash with happiness. She even went as far as learning Africa dishes. One thing I believe and that I have observe is that is only %15 out of %100 Nigerian women share all these stupid feminist ideology. I'm very sure %10 out of the %15 will likely change when they later fell in love or when they finally get tired after they realize the damages such ideology has done to them. One thing I notice about this feminist game is that many lazy and untrained ladies now see this Feminism as an umbrella to hide under. Any woman that have such ideology should never go into any marriage, just be a lesbian forever or get married to your career.


Typical lecture of an insecure man. It's only an untrained man that will order a woman to cook for him and his friends on the first date.

I have set my standards and so far so good. My life. My prerogative.

4 Likes

Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by Omotayor123(f): 3:22pm On May 11, 2017
Smeago007:
I see you asking series of men in the future
Can I cook?
Are you hungry? I can cook
They will all be like "no thanks" grin

Real men takes few tricks to identify a wife prospect
Too bad you just turned yet another slay queen

Him going out to buy the food shows you he weren't after your food nor was he hungry
He proved to you he can get the food anyway

That shows you a failed mission which you are


Think fast,think wise
Stop this worth trash.

Real men imploys Lotta tactics to know real women

Love stories dont always have an happy beginning

To me . you already called him decent from your own perspective

So you lost a decent homely man

"The heartbreak from fuckboys continues"
What kind of "Real Man" is that? on first date

He should have packed his cloth join for her to wash so he had know how "womanly" she is undecided

only a desperate woman would do all that on a first date and she will end up showing the man "pepper"!

3 Likes

Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by NicoBaba(m): 3:23pm On May 11, 2017
girl.
u r right!
d man lacks etiquette
I mean on a first date n he is already showing u d way to d kitchen I bet d 2nd date u gon b doing his laundry.
don't devalue ur sef cos of love.
yh call it pride or whatever. Neva let a nigga rubbish ur personality

3 Likes

Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by Nobody: 3:24pm On May 11, 2017
ericsmith:


yu dare talk of intelligence,,wats d difference btw ur head nd pvssy by d way .... #bleeped
come cook fr my dogs grin leo,,lexzy,,princess

I'm sure your dogs individually have more grey matter than you do. Dunce with a smart phone.

1 Like

Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by mrphysics(m): 3:25pm On May 11, 2017
pocohantas:

Fu<k wetin?
Me no dey carry me vagina commot house on such a day sef.

I agree with the rest...
The rest is not completely right.
Relationship is a minor model of marriage, where the lady performs the role of the wife and the guy that of the husband. In a relationship that there exist mutual understanding, cooking on a first date isn't wrong and should not be seen as one.

Most time, ladies move into new relationship with one leg in and another out, the reason behind it is quite understandable, but for her to accent to the guys request, then cooking for him should be something she should be happy doing.

Sex on first date is wrong, irrespective of who have done it and succeeded. Also, some guys are mad, they sometimes go into relationship for sex and nothing, all their moves and pretence is towards such goal. We are not also unaware that sex is a tool for sustaining relationship, it's much evident in marriage, and just like I have said above, what is obtainable in marriage should be seen in relationship because they are just the same.

That being said, I want to finally submit that cooking/food is very important to men just like being romantic is to ladies. And as such it is needed at every point in any relationship. When men eat sweet food outside, they wish that their wife/bae can cook such and if she refuses, then he is already losing in that relationship.

Maybe I did make some sense
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by PrickGetSize(m): 3:25pm On May 11, 2017
It's a shame 70% of the girls here saying 'I can't do that!' are going to be fvcked doggiestyle by some fuckboys tonight.

2 Likes

Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by LottaNames: 3:26pm On May 11, 2017
.

1 Like

(1) (2) (3) ... (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) (11) ... (18) (Reply)

Nigerians Blast Thegirltalker For Calling God's Name While Sexualizing Cucumber / Meet Willie XO: His Girlfriend Left Him When He Was Broke, Eloped With Rich Man / Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person?

(Go Up)

Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health
religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket

Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10)

Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 85
Disclaimer: Every Nairaland member is solely responsible for anything that he/she posts or uploads on Nairaland.