Backdate to 2014 when I met her.Long story short,We both fell in love,she fell deeper though.
All the while we dated,we never made out all to the truth that she was a virgin.She had the usual sexual urge but she was bent on never letting me in_a quality I most admired.She was loyal..the type you want to take to mama.
Patience was one of the virtues she held me in high esteem for.Each time I demanded sex and she turned me down,I would kill the carnal desire and just cuddle.I loved her up in all ways!
Do you know that after so many years of willful patience and hoping that one day,It would pay off,she sent me a text message to tell me she was raped! At that instant,my nervous system shut down.Up until now,I am bewildered.
What do you guys think,should I forgive her and continue the relationship? I feel that what we share will take a drastic ,U-turn in the days to come.Help me guys,I don't know what to do,guys.Help me!

She might have not been what she claimed a very long time ago.. Its proper we do checks before we stamp some of our assumption as been truth.
Sorry bro.
The decision is still yours to make.

Lmaooooo! Ehya! So u waited for YEARS to pop the cherry n now some don helped u Munch d thing! I don't believe she was raped! She claimed DAT so as not to lose U in case u finally tasted d thing....
Am luminouz n trust me DAT shiiit happened to me....d geh claimed she be virgin..I kept telling her to tone down on d virgin issue DAT my love is not virginity based! Any small thing she be like I will curse u if u fvck me n leave me coz u know am a virgin!!
Then d day came!!! I put in d black mamba n come watch as d geh swallow am( n am on d thick side o).she was just saying 'eeesshhhh...ooooshhhhhh......eazzzzz' n I fully entered without blood coming out! Na so I put in some 'ishan' n banged her like 2mao no dey! I asked her afterwards why blood no come out....she was like one of her uncles wanted to rape her n couldn't but put in his finger .....just only his finger o.....maybe datz Y!
I banged her twice more DAT night...the next day I walked out n never looked BACK!!! I hate liars!!!

are the people who raped her strangers? doesn't she recognize anyone of the rapist to mention to you to confirm the story?

Sebi she told you?

Deal with it. You can stomach it and continue the relitionship or take a coward bow.


If she was not getting it elsewhere while you date, then it changed nothing

Menh different girls with same problem. SHE SAID SHE WAS RAPED Every none virgin girl say that. If "RAPE" were a person he would press charges.

Does she know the culprits? How did it happen and where did it happen, did she explain that to you ? Did she go to the police if yes does she have a case if not why didn't she go ? After she sent a text did you go to her straight away to make sure that she's okay ? Does she seem to be traumatised lately or she's normal as if nothing happened ?

But if it happened sha sorry you'll be fine , what does your conscious tell you, Do you trust her or believe her? But to be honest I think she's lying

banqalee:
Backdate to 2014 when I met her.Long story short,We both fell in love,she fell deeper though.
All the while we dated,we never made out all to the truth that she was a virgin.She had the usual sexual urge but she was bent on never letting me in_a quality I most admired.She was loyal..the type you want to take to mama.
Patience was one of the virtues she held me in high esteem for.Each time I demanded sex and she turned me down,I would kill the carnal desire and just cuddle.I loved her up in all ways!
Do you know that after so many years of willful patience and hoping that one day,It would pay off,she sent me a text message to tell me she was raped! At that instant,my nervous system shut down.Up until now,I am bewildered.
What do you guys think,should I forgive her and continue the relationship? I feel that what we share will take a drastic ,U-turn in the days to come.Help me guys,I don't know what to do,guys.Help me!

Do what is RIGHT first, and you guys should go to the nearest police station to report this crime, and hopefully catch the demon who did this. Let her tell her side of the story and, if possible, be there for her... As this is what a rape victim need at that moment (aka emotional support).

If her story/action makes little sense, you don't believe her or else, then you have all the rights to walk away.

if u want to catch her, report the case to police.... then tell her to come and give her report and also if u do not want o use police there are several human rights organisations for ladies and abuse or rape... so report to them and if she says SHE HAS FORGIVEN THEM.... then break up with her right there and then. let her know.

banqalee:
Backdate to 2014 when I met her.Long story short,We both fell in love,she fell deeper though.
All the while we dated,we never made out all to the truth that she was a virgin.She had the usual sexual urge but she was bent on never letting me in_a quality I most admired.She was loyal..the type you want to take to mama.
Patience was one of the virtues she held me in high esteem for.Each time I demanded sex and she turned me down,I would kill the carnal desire and just cuddle.I loved her up in all ways!
Do you know that after so many years of willful patience and hoping that one day,It would pay off,she sent me a text message to tell me she was raped! At that instant,my nervous system shut down.Up until now,I am bewildered.
What do you guys think,should I forgive her and continue the relationship? I feel that what we share will take a drastic ,U-turn in the days to come.Help me guys,I don't know what to do,guys.Help me!

greatnaija01:
if u want to catch her, report the case to police.... then tell her to come and give her report and also if u do not want o use police there are several human rights organisations for ladies and abuse or rape... so report to them and if she says SHE HAS FORGIVEN THEM.... then break up with her right there and then. let her know.

.This man just spoke my mind.do exactly as he said.she may be saying the truth and it may also be a lie.don't let your emotional side take over, use your brain my brother,ladies are wise.All the best

greatnaija01:
if u want to catch her, report the case to police.... then tell her to come and give her report and also if u do not want o use police there are several human rights organisations for ladies and abuse or rape... so report to them and if she says SHE HAS FORGIVEN THEM.... then break up with her right there and then. let her know.

I dey feel u.

It was her sister's boyfriend who raped,as she allegedly put it.

uo1ac1301:
are the people who raped her strangers? doesn't she recognize anyone of the rapist to mention to you to confirm the story?

After two text messages from her saying she was sorry and she wanted me to forgive her,I raised eyebrows(I mean if she was truly raped,why should.she.be sorry? )..Then when I called her,she wasn't even sounding like someone who's traumatized.It was when she realized I was very pissed that she called back with a sadder tone of voice.

Yes,she knew d culprit,she told me how it happened,at a hotel room where she went wit d sister to see her man,(her man being d culprit),she didn't go to the police,i don't know y,n I can't say for for sure if she's traumatized or not..having answered some of diz questions,are u still of d opinion that she's lying?

lashorrt:
Does she know the culprits? How did it happen and where did it happen, did she explain that to you ? Did she go to the police if yes does she have a case if not why didn't she go ? After she sent a text did you go to her straight away to make sure that she's okay ? Does she seem to be traumatised lately or she's normal as if nothing happened ?

But if it happened sha sorry you'll be fine , what does your conscious tell you, Do you trust her or believe her? But to be honest I think she's lying

I've never been at a police station to report a rape case or any case at all.Please,what r d procedures? Do we need to pay money to be heard?

MrBrownJay1:


Do what is RIGHT first, and you guys should go to the nearest police station to report this crime, and hopefully catch the demon who did this. Let her tell her side of the story and, if possible, be there for her... As this is what a rape victim need at that moment (aka emotional support).

If her story/action makes little sense, you don't believe her or else, then you have all the rights to walk away.

I want to take her with me this morning to report this matter but a brother is short on a few naira..that's why I asked if there are any charges. However,I must get to the root of this!

No.. there are no charges.

Lmao.... Ditch her

ladies.. Is it all of you that one big uncle raped ni? Cos I'm not understanding at all.

luminouz:
Lmaooooo! Ehya! So u waited for YEARS to pop the cherry n now some don helped u Munch d thing! I don't believe she was raped! She claimed DAT so as not to lose U in case u finally tasted d thing....
Am luminouz n trust me DAT shiiit happened to me....d geh claimed she be virgin..I kept telling her to tone down on d virgin issue DAT my love is not virginity based! Any small thing she be like I will curse u if u fvck me n leave me coz u know am a virgin!!
Then d day came!!! I put in d black mamba n come watch as d geh swallow am( n am on d thick side o).she was just saying 'eeesshhhh...ooooshhhhhh......eazzzzz' n I fully entered without blood coming out! Na so I put in some 'ishan' n banged her like 2mao no dey! I asked her afterwards why blood no come out....she was like one of her uncles wanted to rape her n couldn't but put in his finger .....just only his finger o.....maybe datz Y!
I banged her twice more DAT night...the next day I walked out n never looked BACK!!! I hate liars!!!

bro pls tell her to change tactics cos the one she just used is very old and outdated, no one still believes in this " I'm a virgin but got raped shit" anymore...u of all people should know by now.

SorftWerk:
bro pls tell her to change tactics cos the one she just used is very old and outdated, no one still believes in this " I'm a virgin but got raped shit" anymore...u of all people should know by now.

Like she said she was raped as a child or teen is believable
To me any girl that has reach 18 that is/was rape is just not that wise unless in case of roberry or kidnap

Rukkydelta:

Like she said she was raped as a child or teen is believable
To me any girl that has reach 18 that is/was rape is just not that wise unless in case of roberry o kidnap

can I ask u something? I just wanna hear ur sincere opinion on it.

luminouz:
Lmaooooo! Ehya! So u waited for YEARS to pop the cherry n now some don helped u Munch d thing! I don't believe she was raped! She claimed DAT so as not to lose U in case u finally tasted d thing....
Am luminouz n trust me DAT shiiit happened to me....d geh claimed she be virgin..I kept telling her to tone down on d virgin issue DAT my love is not virginity based! Any small thing she be like I will curse u if u fvck me n leave me coz u know am a virgin!!
Then d day came!!! I put in d black mamba n come watch as d geh swallow am( n am on d thick side o).she was just saying 'eeesshhhh...ooooshhhhhh......eazzzzz' n I fully entered without blood coming out! Na so I put in some 'ishan' n banged her like 2mao no dey! I asked her afterwards why blood no come out....she was like one of her uncles wanted to rape her n couldn't but put in his finger .....just only his finger o.....maybe datz Y!
I banged her twice more DAT night...the next day I walked out n never looked BACK!!! I hate liars!!!

and she will go back and start telling anoda guy DT she is a virgin ...lmao..ho's everywia

SorftWerk:
can I ask u something? I just wanna hear ur sincere opinion on it.

Go on

Rukkydelta:

Go on

a girl who met an old friend and decided to go know his house, although she trusts the guy, but they ended up playing the truth or dare game in which the guy asked her for sex but she declined adding that she has a boyfriend whom she loves but the guy was forcing himself on her then she promised to make him cum 2wice but won't furk him...should one forgive such a girl?

banqalee:
Yes,she knew d culprit,she told me how it happened,at a hotel room where she went wit d sister to see her man,(her man being d culprit),she didn't go to the police,i don't know y,n I can't say for for sure if she's traumatized or not..having answered some of diz questions,are u still of d opinion that she's lying?

Op,You're a very big fool to believe such story.Lol so she went to a hotel with her "sister" to see her sisters "man" and the man raped her.
Where was her sister when this alleged rape was happeningWho goes to a hotel with her sister to see the bf,is it a three.some?and even if she was raped why didn't she tell her so called sister or report to the police??Nothing of that sort happened op,you got played big time I doubt if she was even a virgin in the first place.

SorftWerk:
a girl who met an old friend and decided to go know his house, although she trusts the guy, but they ended up playing the truth or dare game in which the guy asked her for sex but she declined adding that she has a boyfriend whom she loves but the guy was forcing himself on her then she promised to make him cum 2wice but won't furk him...should one forgive such a girl?

Why did she go to a male friend house in the first place? Since the deed has happened. If her man can forgive her sincerely he should but if he can't he should just let her go cos he won't only be torturing her but also himself.
Though it's not entirely her fault since she was just avoiding the guy(rapist) to penetrate her
But if I am the guy in question I will forgive if she is sincere and I love her

Rukkydelta:

Why did she go to a male friend house in the first place? Since the deed has happened. If her man can forgive her sincerely he should but if he can't he should just let her go cos he won't only be torturing her but also himself.
Though it's not entirely her fault since she was just avoiding the guy(rapist) to penetrate her
But if I am the guy in question I will forgive if she is sincere and I love her

thank you rukkydelta...I appreciate u whole heartily.

SorftWerk:
bro pls tell her to change tactics cos the one she just used is very old and outdated, no one still believes in this " I'm a virgin but got raped shit" anymore...u of all people should know by now.

Lmaoooo! Tell her ke? I dumped her ass like 4 years ago a day after discovering she lied to me!

vladhillz:
and she will go back and start telling anoda guy DT she is a virgin ...lmao..ho's everywia

Ayam telling U! Maybe d next guy will believe DAT shiiit n marry her! Not me dou!!!

SorftWerk:
thank you rukkydelta...I appreciate u whole heartily.

Welcome and a happy sunday