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Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by Omotayor123(f): 11:05am On Jun 06, 2017 |
funmisticqueen:I advice she shouldn't collect the phone on the pretence that she's going to think about his proposal. she should tell the guy she's already in a serious relationship and not ready to let go. If he doesn't mind then, let her collect the phone it's his choice. And she shouldn't hesitate to tell her boyfriend how the phone came to be, if there's trust, he wouldn't mind much. |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by VanBommel(m): 11:06am On Jun 06, 2017 |
repogirl:your brain is working jare |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by AuroraB(f): 11:07am On Jun 06, 2017 |
TheLordIsGr8:The man isn't demanding anything in return for the gift, is he? The fact she is tithering on to accept or not says a lot 'bout how she respects her relationship. |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by YelloweWest: 11:08am On Jun 06, 2017 |
awonwerey:Plain and simple. |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by fqudus(m): 11:09am On Jun 06, 2017 |
Ya'll talking like you don't know what's really going on, she's considering the gifts and all from the so called suitor cos she's probably thinking what if she doesn't end up with her bf, what if eventually he leaves her then she'd have lost the opportunity owning quite a big phone and a laptop from a suitor. The question is it worth loosing the suitors advances cos she loves her bf not her fiance or husband, her BF?! I'd just tell you to talk to him your bf first before you do anything, communication is key in a relationship 1 Like |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by mykel25(m): 11:09am On Jun 06, 2017 |
2dugged: most broke guys only see their current gfs as making do with what is available, when they blow that is when they will know they prefer light skinned When I was a student I dated girls I know I can't marry cuz I haven't built d value I needed to get d ones I ll want to take to mama.... Now that I have built d needed value... D standard is high... First she must be financially independent, an asset to my future not a liability and beautiful 1 Like |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by GeoOla25(m): 11:10am On Jun 06, 2017 |
I hope that my mumu so called girlfriend read this thread...may she go wise up through people comment, I have been in similar situation, but I later doubled my hustle and glory be to God my Case is different today, I didn't respect her an inch but we still dey manage the relationship. |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by piagetskinner(m): 11:14am On Jun 06, 2017 |
a phone is a necessity...and I don't see how a parent will not want to get his kid a phone how will they communicate? i think this girl in question is greedy and loves flashy things....the boyfriend in question should break up my with her to avoid stories that melt the heart |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by Nobody: 11:18am On Jun 06, 2017 |
guys if u dont have money, your girlfriend will leave u for a money man. these girls aren't financially ok and will jump at any opportunity to be assisted financially. this leaves a room for ur gf to be hijacked so to speak by another man |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by Nobody: 11:18am On Jun 06, 2017 |
mykel25:you see,this is why I will not blame her if she accepts the phone, I had a nasty experience, so it will be better she knows where she stands with her bf before turning the toaster down,else it might turn out her bf was not even worth it in the first place, this I can boldly say from experience. Infact she might end up turning good men down and waste a good time of her prime and that her bf ends up messing her up,such school relationships have the tendency to end at "main gate" like uniben students will say 1 Like |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by darlenese(f): 11:20am On Jun 06, 2017 |
mapet:of course not. she thinks she is smart. 2 Likes |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by Ayobami93(m): 11:21am On Jun 06, 2017 |
dominique: These are the kind of ladies we want in Nigeria. 2 Likes |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by nwoye72: 11:22am On Jun 06, 2017 |
i can't just understand nigerian girls,they all want to depend on there man.how many gift has she given to the guy.on val she can still buy gift for the guy.nawao |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by mykel25(m): 11:29am On Jun 06, 2017 |
2dugged:. So far no ring on that finger yet.... My dear he has not decided deeply within himself to marry you Yes ure right... I guess d lady has so much years b4 marriage... She ll c things and her taste ll surely change.... It a normal thing.... Citing experience.... At Diz point of my life I don't even ask a girl I know she's not desperate for a serious relationship out.... Only at that point that she knows what she want... And if she say yes that's means she wants u... Ure okay to be a husband.... I don't date school gehs either cuz I know when she's ready.... She myt want higher taste.... So OP friend shd look keenly into d matter and go for what makes her happy.... Buh one thing is certain both guys can't marry her..... Enjoy your emotional excapades yl it last buh don't become a hoe for every Divk that's d most important thing |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by sekem: 11:30am On Jun 06, 2017 |
dominique: It's in you Keep it up Unfortunately, most girls have this sheep/herd mentality which makes them want to conform just to be like others girls. So if a girl has a clique of friends who believe men should pay for every one of their needs, she'll just go with the flow It only takes experience to reset her brain 1 Like |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by Nobody: 11:31am On Jun 06, 2017 |
We are just wasting our time talking too much. We know our naija babes. The babe has already received the phone and the Rich guy has already smashed the kpekus |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by benjaminiyke(m): 11:33am On Jun 06, 2017 |
What is offered for free comes with a psychological price tag — complicated feelings of obligation. There is an old trick of "giving when you are about to take. " By giving the appropriate gift, you put the recipient under obligation. Generosity softens people up— to be deceived. Free things are dangerous — it usually comes with a hidden obligation. If you take that gift you will definitely cheat on your boyfriend. It is certain. |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by bsideboii(m): 11:37am On Jun 06, 2017 |
Raine80:Sabrina ? |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by Cmanforall: 11:38am On Jun 06, 2017 |
funmisticqueen: Talk if this na you BTW, which phone did she call you with? 1 Like |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by Coolgent(m): 11:39am On Jun 06, 2017 |
Na this kind Gal dey persuade her husband Frnds/Ogas to buy her Laptop, phone etc. In she wil pay in kind |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by akusum: 11:39am On Jun 06, 2017 |
Dont forget to finally tell us when she collects the gift. |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by chi4ik(m): 11:45am On Jun 06, 2017 |
Nonsense, is your Boyfriend your husband or parents? is it a must to buy u a phone? your parents cannot buy u a phone but it's now a crime that your guy couldn't buy u a phone. I only pity guys who fools around in d name of love. No woman loves a man sef. it's all about what she will gain from him. anyway, u can do whatever you wanna do with your phone simply because only u knows what you actually want... 1 Like |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by Duru009(m): 11:47am On Jun 06, 2017 |
Stop telling lies. U are the broke boyfriend..... |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by praise1705(f): 11:48am On Jun 06, 2017 |
the way the op is tagging a guy as "broke" ain't cool at all, truth be told the girl is broke even her parents are broke. is it compulsory for a guy to buy gifts on valentines day? Ok he didn't buy for her so what did she give him? relationship is all about sharing and sacrifices a parent or guardian knows the value of a pc when it comes to studies and appreciate any other thing that would make their ward less vulnerable to vices, what's is the point of dating a fellow student when you know you ve big eyes for other stuff, am still saying it, maybe her parents are broke and can't afford the luxury of purchasing another pc and phone. later we will hear that all the guy want is s*x. accept the gift and when the new one is broke please move on to the next available buoyant guy 1 Like |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by arctodus(m): 11:49am On Jun 06, 2017 |
This is why Girls will end up with broken homes and marriages the boyfriend is not broke he's a work in progress, if u knew the rich guy when he was a work in progress I'm sure you wouldn't date him. Try to be committed in everything you do. In the university you dont say because your friend's course is easier than yours so you leave yours. People are not commited at all and commitment is one of the strong foundations of a good long lasting relationship. Forget gifts and all other material things you might be longing for, those things fade away. Be committed. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by lereinter(m): 11:50am On Jun 06, 2017 |
hope this is not u, that you saying your frienf |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by Nobody: 11:52am On Jun 06, 2017 |
Advice your friend to leave the broke guy, he is nice now cos he is broke, once he has money now, he will either turn her into a punching bag or marry another person. She should go for a guy that is already established. Nigerian men are not keepers I tell you. They are all cheats and abusers. |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by LalaSnakeLala(m): 11:52am On Jun 06, 2017 |
It's always My girlfriend's boyfriend, not My boyfriend. Girls always finding a convenient way to put their life stories on the internet and avoid bashing and shaming 1 Like |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by amokeme(f): 12:02pm On Jun 06, 2017 |
DeRay98:lol, trust me, you have no idea... 1 Like |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by Marshalxv(m): 12:03pm On Jun 06, 2017 |
in my own language"agam abu ogbenye buru amunsu" if I can't get phone for you as .y girlfriend and a bross is offering to help,my dear,grab it with two hands.it's a test of love,if you decide to follow bross because he got you phone,then you're not mine.bye bye |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by Nobody: 12:06pm On Jun 06, 2017 |
Girls are wayward by default,the one when dey form faithful never jam wetin go make her off piant yet,me I don already swear for my life say I no go marry when time reach me na to get baby mama ...Gbam 1 Like |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by LalaSnakeLala(m): 12:08pm On Jun 06, 2017 |
Izen:Before you belch, read his statement again: Or did she now decided that her financial problems are "solely" bf issues?and take note of the highlighted word "solely". If you, as a girl, believe that all your problems should become your boyfriend's responsibility then you're nothing but broke ass gold-digging loser! |
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