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Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by Nobody: 10:10am On Jun 06, 2017 |
Why have girls become so cheap these days? Ordinary phone that can fall down now and become .... Even an exotic breed of bingo is becoming more expensive than girls these days. What a world. 4 Likes |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by Nobody: 10:10am On Jun 06, 2017 |
funmisticqueen:love is blind-yes, but I don't think it wise for an enterprising young dude to enter into a relationship when he can't handle the financial aspect (make no mistake, no matter how good that babe is,money must be spent). the igbos have a saying that, "a man who wants to have sex, should first of all buy a mat". Be that as it may, I think our sis is trying to have her cake and eat it. Most guys see a babe accepting gifts from them as an acceptance to their suit , which at the minimum would result to a lay. 1 Like |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by loteliz(f): 10:10am On Jun 06, 2017 |
If the 'broke guy' truly loves your friend , she has to cut him some slack. Understanding, love and respect is all that her boyfriend needs now. If she accepts the gift, she is reminding her boyfriend how broke he is and it'll make him feel insecure. As for the buoyant suitor, she should tell him that she didn't come to school to do whatsapp. The reason he gave for buying her the phone doesn't make it a necessity. The problem with most humans is myopia. |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by mykel25(m): 10:11am On Jun 06, 2017 |
2dugged: Word! I'm guilty of this Tho I never promised anyone marriage or nothing serious always careful of that.... Now I only want independent ladies |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by tosyne2much(m): 10:11am On Jun 06, 2017 |
TheLordIsGr8:Hahaha |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by Nobody: 10:11am On Jun 06, 2017 |
jonkay45: where this one from come out.? 2 Likes |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by Pray(m): 10:11am On Jun 06, 2017 |
Give to Caesar what belongs to Caesar......... 1 Like |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by toastedbread: 10:12am On Jun 06, 2017 |
i'm a guy and if a guy gifts you (a girl) anything while toasting you, know that it's just the foundation of his building with you. soon he'll take you out and before you know it, he's penetrated you. if she loves her bf like you say, let her flee. |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by Davidbanky(m): 10:12am On Jun 06, 2017 |
Trouble sleep, yanga dey wake am ... hmmm, whatever we say won't stop you from collecting it now, cos you already thought of it. 2 Likes |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by Sike(m): 10:12am On Jun 06, 2017 |
ladies tho... I'm out of here |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by Nobody: 10:13am On Jun 06, 2017 |
Infoay: It is not a necessity jare. She can get nokia for 5k, but she is looking for undred or eyefone |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by Nobody: 10:13am On Jun 06, 2017 |
2dugged: OK, since no one is sure if he is worth it she needs a phone & other things. Another guy is willing to give her everything she wants. she should dump the guy and follow the rich guy since its money and phone she wants. Simple and short. 1 Like |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by IBBG(m): 10:14am On Jun 06, 2017 |
na so wahala dey take start. after dem go say d broke dude get insecurity problem. |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by Dgreatestt: 10:15am On Jun 06, 2017 |
Listen op, don't be deceive by all dis fake saints. If u check well, most of the guys are d ones having two gf nd still keeps side chicks, they are here forming saints. Same to d girls also. To the topic, ask ur friend, dos she see a future in dat relationship?, is the bf she loves also loyal?(cos broke guys actually cheat more). If not, let's her move on Biko. No gain in being with a broke guy who u dnt see a future with. For d gift, collect it, den sell it. Let her Simply tell her guy dat her parent jst sent money for the fone, nd she will lik d guy to accompany her to get. Go with him nd get anoda fone. She doesn't have to give in to the toaster demand cos he's getting her gift, when d toaster tire, em go move on. I have always advise girls never to be 100% in love. Always reserve some % for common sense. 5 Likes |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by Ijaya123: 10:15am On Jun 06, 2017 |
You've collected the phone already. Is it not the phone you're using now to browse nairaland? Second base jare! 2 Likes |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by menxer: 10:15am On Jun 06, 2017 |
funmisticqueen: Story! So at this your level of education you don't know the difference between a "suitor" and a "toaster?" SMH |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by mayoor15(m): 10:16am On Jun 06, 2017 |
Brokenness is a state of mind, a man is as broke or poor as his ideas, if the bf is a man with potential and great ideas only looking for a chance to blow, then it's better she stays with him and help him grow, but if his ideas is as poor as his pocket then I pity your friend, he promised for 5 months that's too long, why promiss in the first place when you know you can't fulfil your promise, your friend should better talk to her parents and ignore both guys, the broke and the rich. 1 Like |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by sekem: 10:17am On Jun 06, 2017 |
Olanrefront3355: Hahaha Of course, her friend is also viewing it Because.... She and "her friend" are one and the same person 2 Likes |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by Nobody: 10:19am On Jun 06, 2017 |
funmisticqueen: Men don't do disinterested kindness or any act of generosity without a huge rope attached. If your friend or you collects the indomie, you must pay in kind. If you or your friend isn't ready to submit punny when nature calls, reject the phone. |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by Nobody: 10:20am On Jun 06, 2017 |
cruchenuti:that is why the final decision ends with her, personally i have had a nasty experience with a broke dude , so I am only suggesting she be careful, so in the end it doesn't turn out that all those sacrifices were not worth it |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by Nobody: 10:23am On Jun 06, 2017 |
My phone was stolen and at that time my boyfriend was also going through financial stress i had no problem asking parents and that's how I got it...once you accept gifts you open the possibility of distrust in your union 2 Likes |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by Lloydfather(m): 10:24am On Jun 06, 2017 |
My dear if u would take my advice, leave ur so called boyfriend he's just feasting on ur ignorance, how could he move to new apartment yet couldn't provide ur need. He's just a selfish lover if what u just said here is true, furthermore he doesn't deserve u. Run before he broke ur heart. Real lovers don't give excuses. As for ur rich lover, do ur research about him found out who he is, his background and let him tell u why he want u. If u found him wealthy take the gift. People should stop this foolish mindset that karma will catch up with u when u are dating a poor guy and latter leave him for rich guy. Rich guys can also be romantic. Pls if that ur rich admirer is romantic submit ur self to him now before it is too late. Who poor guy EEP |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by Originalsly: 10:25am On Jun 06, 2017 |
funmisticqueen:I get it concerning the laptop...guess she is just unlucky when t comes to that. The bf promised her a phone... did he say when? Since he is poor....wouldn't it be when he can afford it? As a friend sooo concerned about her why didn't you buy her one instead of allowing the toaster to? 1 Like |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by adanny01(m): 10:26am On Jun 06, 2017 |
funmisticqueen: My sister in law married a man she disliked. This man was fat and this girl is a very thin lepacious girl. At first sight you will think they are father and daughter. She didnt like him because it is a worst case scenerio of me and her sis. This guy is fatter than me and she more lepa than my wife. He is easily more than twice her weight. All his advances were seen as an embarassment to her until he connived with her roomates and best friends to throw her the best birthday surprise she has ever had in her life. On top of that, he furnished her off-campus room with electronics and generator with a handsome amount as pocket money. The cuddly pictures she took was her approval and they got married soon after. When a girl or woman starts recieving gifts from other men out of her relationship, there is no going back. |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by Nobody: 10:27am On Jun 06, 2017 |
awonwerey: There is nothing wrong in getting !married to the rich guy or even dating or collecting his gifts , as long as u like him. One thing about struggling or poor guys , the present and future is uncertain . Last last , because they are poor, their families have the final say if should marry or not . I repeat a poor guy has no say in his life or love life , especially when the gf might be ready to settle down . Babe, op don't place all your eggs in his basket . At the end , their families have the final say. Am telling u thru experience before u reach above 30 like me ,due to having pity for poor guys. A word is enough for the wise . 1 Like |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by Nobody: 10:28am On Jun 06, 2017 |
mykel25:I don't get,which one are you guilty of?, the broke dude or the rich guy using money to collect people's gfs? |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by Nobody: 10:28am On Jun 06, 2017 |
EVERYONE HAS COMMENTED MY ADVICE.....I HOPE U VE HEARD.....OH I MEAN UR FRIEND HAVE HEARD.....GUYS STOP GOING TO SCHOOL WITH GIRLS......WHAT THEY TEACH U IN SCHOOL TRUST ME WILL NOT BE HELPFUL TO U COMPARE TO WHAT THE THE REAL LIFE IS ALL ABOUT......THEY TEACH U STUDY GET GRADUATED GET A JOB PRACTISE WHAT U LEARNED IN SCHOOL GET PROMOTION UA RICH......HELL NO U AINT GETTING ANY JOB REGARDING WHAT U STUDIED THATS A WHITE LIE.....WHEN IN SECONDRY SCHOOL DAYS WHEN I WAS STILL BACK HOME IN NIGERIA I FELL IN LOVE WITH MY GF I COULDN'T CONTINUE UP TO UNI COX I HAVE SEEN MOST GUYS FROM UNI CAME OUT JOBLESS FOR YEARS. SO I TOLD HER I WON'T CONTINUE I STARTED WORKING IN MAIN MARKET WHILE MY GIRL IS IN UNI JUST IN HER 1st YEAR STILL A VIRGIN. SHE SAID I WONT TOUCH HER UNTIL HER SECOND YEAR.....I AGREED A DO SEND HER LITTLE MONEY THROUGH BANK BUT A RICH GUY THAT CAME WITH HIS FRNDS TO VISIT ONE OF HER FRNDS SAW HER AND THERE IT BEGUN.....THE GUY IS RICH AND HAS A CAR JUST FEW WEEKS SHE GAVE IN THE GUY HAD HIS WAY......AFTER SHE HAS DONE IT SHE CAME BACK BEGGING THAT ALL THIS WHILE SHES IGNORING ME WAS BECAUSE SHE WAS DATING HIM AND HAS ALSO LOST HER VIRGINITY....I JUST LEFT HER....WITH THE MONEY I HAVE BEEN SAVING TO START SMALL BUSINESSES I LEFT NIGERIA.....MY PARENTS WAS SURPRISE WHEN I CALLED THEM WITH A FOREIGN NUMBER.....COX I ONLY TOLD THEM AM GOING TO LAGOS TO BUY SOME GOODS....I EVEN TURN OFF MY PHONE AFTER SENDING THEM MESSAGE THAT I MET A LONG TIME FRND THAT I WILL STAY BIT LONGER COX AM THE ONLY CHILD IF I TELL THEM AM TRAVELING OUTSIDE IT WILL BE DIFFICULT...TODAY SHE'S THERE NOT YET MARRIED BY THE RICH GUY......THIS ADVICE IS NOT FOR EVERY ONE.....GUYS UR SECONDARY SCHOOL EDUCATION IS ENOUGH. WHAT PREPARES U FOR THE WORLD OUTSIDE SCHOOL IS NOT WHAT U READ IN SCHOOL BUT THE THINKING AND DECISIONS U MAD UR SELF.....U CAN START READING BOOKS BY GOOD FOREIGN AUTORS AND ENLIGHTEN U SELF ON UR WAY TO SUCCESS AND U WILL SURELY BE SMARTER THAN THOSE WHO WENT TO UNIVERSITY BACK HOME..... 2 Likes |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by slap1(m): 10:30am On Jun 06, 2017 |
Hehe. That's why I decided no girlfriend till I attain some form of financial stability. They always say your money is not what they're after, but that's bullshit. Money makes the love thingy better. |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by DoubleDray(m): 10:30am On Jun 06, 2017 |
What advice can i give ooooo......#ThinkingBy Dont think about the present,think about your future with your boyfriend. If you notice a nice Future together dont collect the gift, but if you're not sure of a bright future together, my dear its better you collect the phone so you dont loose in two places. But think it this way, devil will never give you a gift and tell you he wil collect something in return. [color=#000099][/color] 2 Likes |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by Sterope(f): 10:31am On Jun 06, 2017 |
Still searching for the question, aeon liabilities. |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by mapet: 10:32am On Jun 06, 2017 |
darlenese: Are you sure that even the phantom friend exist? 1 Like |
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