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Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by Nobody: 9:48am On Jun 06, 2017 |
Honestly, Against popular opinion. I will advise that your friend dumps his boyfriend and go with the toaster. You know why? Because this will happen eventually. Sooner or later. No need to beat around the bush. She wants money. He doesn't have. She moves on. Life goes on. 7 Likes |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by austinoeze(m): 9:48am On Jun 06, 2017 |
This is just a test life has for her... I'll advice she turn down the offer nicely and explain to the suitor if he demands an explanation. Better things are yet to come, someday she tell the story to her kids and it'll inspire them... For true loyalty is one virtue that shouldn't be exchanged for anything |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by awa(m): 9:48am On Jun 06, 2017 |
Come this Poster, you think we are small Children here abi? Stop this kind of thing now and collect the phone. You shouldn't use your friend as case study but just tell us what you are facing jareee 3 Likes |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by babapressy(m): 9:48am On Jun 06, 2017 |
Integrity |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by jonkay45(m): 9:48am On Jun 06, 2017 |
Daughter of eve....why you and you friend want to justify your action by seeking for our opinion...You are born to collect even your first great mother collect from the devil. Collect and shame the devil, our advice is irrelevant here. 1 Like |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by Nobody: 9:49am On Jun 06, 2017 |
This is a major reason why it's quite hard to fight HIV in this part of the world. #non contentment#. If you don't love the broke dude, leave him already. Don't go get infected with HIV and infect the poor dude too. |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by Ramos16(m): 9:49am On Jun 06, 2017 |
MrBrownJay1: You are truly wise sire, you are your fathers son, like some other commenter said, she is just looking for justification, I have seen situations like this a lot and in all of them the party involved ended up losing both lovers and got worse in some cases, not seen one that ended well. 2 Likes |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by Nobody: 9:50am On Jun 06, 2017 |
2dugged: Ahn ahn who told you. Remember what I promised you with no string attached . shebi I fulfilled my promise to you. |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by Infoay: 9:50am On Jun 06, 2017 |
The incoming guy has his plans working out successfully if 'your friend' accept that gift. If she is truly in love with the 'broke guy' she should act with caution. I understand that it may not be easy to turn down such gift esp when it is a necessity, but that is one of the true test of friendship. Tomorrow remain pregnant even to Prophet T.B. Joshua. Thanks! |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by DonCortino: 9:51am On Jun 06, 2017 |
funmisticqueen: What dafuck do you mean by. ' he is broke'? |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by egorov(m): 9:51am On Jun 06, 2017 |
I'll like to correct a point there, her bf isn't broke. He's just a.student who I think still depends on his parents. I always tell guys, its not a must for you to date when u know u are not ok enough to do certain things for this our generation girls, so as to avoid heartbreak, disappointments, insults, demeaning etc. If u must fukc, find ur way around it, maybe u get on a fling with someone and use ur dikc and not ur heart or emotions. This said bf will be heavily broken if this girl accepts the gift. He will feel cheated, betrayed, insulted. It might kill his ego and self esteem, and there's nothing the girl can say or do or use to prove that the rich dude hasn't eaten some cookies. Finally, its her choice, she can either accept d gift which she needs and be ready to face the effects on her relationship, or rather reject it, enjoy her relationship and wait till she, or her bf, or her parents can afford d gadgets for her. 1 Like |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by Melonny(m): 9:53am On Jun 06, 2017 |
funmisticqueen:This one weak me o.. the question that should be asked is: -Prior to this, does the boyfriend give her gifts or things; Would she consider him a stingy guy? Although, I wouldn't blame him for his failure to get his girlfriend a phone for 5 months because he was committed to getting a new apartment. My opinion, she should accept the phone and feel on top of the world with it! |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by Kebreal92(m): 9:54am On Jun 06, 2017 |
SINCE I WAS BORN AND PROBABLY TILL THE DAY I WOULD DIE... THERE HAS NEVA BEEN ANY SMOKE WITHOUT FIRE. WELL,THE NAMES OF THE ADVISORS WERE ALREADY MENTION,IF NOT I HAD ALOT OF EXPERIENCE TO SHARE ON THIS. OVER TO THE GUY BELLOW ME... |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by Doctorfitz: 9:55am On Jun 06, 2017 |
Not ur friend but u. Truth dey bitter. Wetin ur parents no fit buy u u dey ask bf to buy. Long throat kee u. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by Nobody: 9:55am On Jun 06, 2017 |
cruchenuti:let's all stop kidding ourselves, a guy telling you "no stings attached " is like making a chicken your pet, it will still end up in your stomach |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by Nobody: 9:55am On Jun 06, 2017 |
funmisticqueen: Your friend or you? stop the lie jare. Collect the gift since you stated here that the guy said 'No String Attached'. Good luck. 3 Likes |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by AuroraB(f): 9:56am On Jun 06, 2017 |
Everyone has become a saint on this? She needs a phone, someone got her one. Do you all know how it feels without a phone? If she accepts it doesn't mean she will date who bought it . Haha! That person may not be the 'I must get her' kinda man 1 Like |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by Nobody: 9:59am On Jun 06, 2017 |
2dugged: Hahaha. Lmao you are right By the way, We are all just wasting our time commenting. I am pretty sure she has collected the phone already. No time oh. Na who no like better thing 1 Like |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by Nicepoker(m): 9:59am On Jun 06, 2017 |
op u are the victim. not your friend. 3 Likes |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by Nobody: 10:00am On Jun 06, 2017 |
AuroraB: Hahaha madam. I like you jare. You are chop and clean mouth type. In fact I have a phone for you. 2 Likes |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by Nobody: 10:00am On Jun 06, 2017 |
firstking01: Really? Even her parents refuse to get one for her. So it now falls on the boyfriend. For what reason exactly? Tomorrow now you hear this girl complaining that the guy only just wanted s*x from her. What do you expect when you expect him to take you as his responsibility? So you think he will go through all this headache, thinking of how to please you only for you to tell him you love him so much. It is a known fact that tomorrow that feeling you think you have for him may die and everyone go bear him father name. So you expect him to lose out just like that abi. No problem. |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by thunderbabs: 10:01am On Jun 06, 2017 |
[quote author=awonwerey post=57232129]Anybody who boils hot water should be ready to do EBA Once she don collect the gadget, she should be ready to drop pant or get married to the dude Over and out [/quote U fit use d hot water make tea na, nobb only EBA 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by Nobody: 10:01am On Jun 06, 2017 |
funmisticqueen: Is the boyfriend her father?what is it with you girls and transactional relationships? If you want some man who will make you a kept woman, then get a sugar daddy. You women have no self respect. Does the boyfriend have a job? He is on the same fiscal level as the girl.your friend should get off her ass and work for the phone. 4 Likes |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by Doctorfitz: 10:02am On Jun 06, 2017 |
dominique: Better pikin. Nigerian girls just tire me I swear.. She's calling her bf broke and she can't get herself a phone who's more broke? 2 Likes |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by Nobody: 10:02am On Jun 06, 2017 |
AuroraB: Better to worry her parents and not some man who is hustling to make it in life. She could be gone in a minute if a man with means comes around. Unless of course she's ready to go the whole 9 yards and give s*x for phone. nuf said. |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by Doctorfitz: 10:04am On Jun 06, 2017 |
That's y guys will keep fvcking y'all and breaking ur hearts cos U're plain stupid and lazy. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by Nobody: 10:04am On Jun 06, 2017 |
cruchenuti:but the truth is , we are not even sure if her bf is even worth the sacrifice in the first place. Most guys are only humble because they are broke ,so they make do with what is available, let him hammer now,that is when he will know she is not his spec and that he prefers light skinned ladies that use 20k body cream. What ever decision she makes ,its a two way thing . |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by Nobody: 10:05am On Jun 06, 2017 |
tosyne2much: His responsibility as in?? Ayam not understanding. Shebi d girl still be her parents property or ...? 2 Likes |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by loswhite(m): 10:08am On Jun 06, 2017 |
funmisticqueen:Why cant her parents buy her phone? Nigeria the only country where you ask a girl out and u are already owing her money...smh 3 Likes |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by spill(m): 10:09am On Jun 06, 2017 |
amokeme: I sincerely applaud your sense of judgement. There are still good ladies here. Kudos... A guy is broke today doesn't determine his income tomorrow. 1 Like |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by richard870(m): 10:09am On Jun 06, 2017 |
funmisticqueen: Disclaimer: my comment on this topic is more of a reality check rather than an insult So you are willing to give yourself away because of a mobile phone....you had better think about your worth rather than the phone. Let me tell you this... what impression do you think the guy giving you the phone would have of you leaving a guy all because of common phone? If you can answer the above question with a clear conscience then no wahala, carry go, else your mind is no difference from that of a gold-digger! 1 Like |
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