ikp120:
Na only broke girls wey dey look my car o. All these slay queens broke as fvck, just looking for the dude wey go pick up their bills.

Babe abeg just work on your attitude. I guess you must be part of those wey dey give broke guys attitude like "You should be thankful that I am dating you".

If I be broke guy and I date a girl wey dey give me that kinda attitude, when I make it eh, I go use for rituals.

your comment doesn't make sense..how can you just conclude that she's giving them attitude when she said that after helping them to stand on their feet all she gets is disappointment. .honestly some men are scum

Blackhawk03:


Didi Maami, how you doing?


Sekxy of laive

I'm fine dear, you?

Oyindidi:
I'm fine dear, you?

Very fine too but I wanto run away from home.

Blackhawk03:

Didi Maami, how you doing?

Sekxy of laive

blackhawko3 how you doing

Blackhawk03:


Very fine too but I wanto run away from home.

why didn't you reply my pm? Don't even think of that. All will be well.

Oyindidi:
I'm good sweetheart. Brokeys are after me on this thread

na lie

Oyindidi:
Thanks dear

Welcome, ma'am.

sekxy:

your comment doesn't make sense..how can you just conclude that she's giving them attitude when she said that after helping them to stand on their feet all she gets is disappointment. .honestly some men are scum

Loud it, babez! Have always said most of these guys are bloody hypocrites. See them trying so hard to pin the blame on the poor girl. If this happened to a guy, the thread would be on the 100th page with their anthem.

sekxy:

your comment doesn't make sense..how can you just conclude that she's giving them attitude when she said that after helping them to stand on their feet all she gets is disappointment. .honestly some men are scum

That's how you girls behave.

Because dude no get money, the girlfriend go make life miserable for him. You go fear nagging (even when una never marry o.) Only her very close and sincere friends wey go tell you what really happened in the relationship.

You don't have to agree because you're a girl.

Most broke guys know what I am talking about.

robosky02:
na lie

oya call mama. My voice be like I swallow frog.

Blackhawk03:


Loud it, babez! Have always said most of these guys are bloody hypocrites. See them trying so hard to pin the blame on the poor girl. If this happened to a guy, the thread would be on the 100th page with their anthem.

honestly,if the it were to be a guy,,you will see them wailing on how she's a good digger. ..but in this one now,,they kept quiet..they are bunch of hypocrites

Oyindidi:
why didn't you reply my pm? Don't even think of that. All will be well.

Amen to your prayer, Maami but chill first na.

I told you I "stole" this moniker from sumbori na. I don't have access to the PMs. I'll give you a mention.

I'm sorry, you know I'll never ignore your message.

ikp120:
That's how you girls behave.

Because dude no get money, the girlfriend go make life miserable for him. You go fear nagging (even when una never marry o.) Only her very close and sincere friends wey go tell you what really happened in the relationship.

You don't have to agree because you're a girl.

Most broke guys know what I am talking about.

stupidity is when you have to believe that a girl is a gold digger without believing the same for a guy..

you actually contributed nothing in that your meaningless comments...you were busy bragging about your car and how you will deal with a girl that bla bla bla your life...who even know the kind of car you drive, that is if you have any at all...
don't quote me again ,,you such a hypocrite! !

Blackhawk03:


Loud it, babez! Have always said most of these guys are bloody hypocrites. See them trying so hard to pin the blame on the poor girl. If this happened to a guy, the thread would be on the 100th page with their anthem.

Reason am bros. For the first person to leave, then the second person left, and (probably) the third person left, says a lot.

It couldn't be the guy. Oyindidi just shared her own story.

Trust me bro, it's from the girl. She needs to look at the way she see any broke guy who she's dating. Most girls feel like "What are even offering me in these relationship?" bla bla bla bla. Any small thing, she will be threatening to pull out.

adabenji:
I don't want to believe I'm under bondage cos only guys who are still struggling to make it come to me for serious relationship. When i accept and join them in hustling and praying something good eventually comes and they break up with me.
What do I do?

Hmmm deep

sekxy:

honestly,if the it were to be a guy,,you will see them wailing on how she's a good digger. ..but in this one now,,they kept quiet..they are bunch of hypocrites

Spineless hypocrites

Later, they will open mouth and say girls should stop saying they were "used and dumped". Isn't this a clear case of being used?

ikp120:
Reason am bros. For the first person to leave, then the second person left, and (probably) the third person left, says a lot.

It couldn't be the guy. Oyindidi just shared her own story.

Trust me bro, it's from the girl. She needs to look at the way she see any broke guy who she's dating. Most girls feel like "What are even offering me in these relationship?" bla bla bla bla. Any small thing, she will be threatening to pull out.

She may not be like oyin cos I'm down to earth. Even when I wanted to pay my house rent back then and was somehow broke. I was too shy to ask him for money. Reason is, I don't want him to feel spited cos he is broke. God made provision for me in a surprising way. So the young lady(op) should make sure she respect her man's financial status.

sekxy:

stupidity is when you have to believe that a girl is a gold digger without believing the same for a guy..

you actually contributed nothing in that your meaningless comments...you were busy bragging about your car and how you will deal with a girl that bla bla bla your life...who even know the kind of car you drive, that is if you have any at all...
don't quote me again ,,you such a hypocrite! !

Stupidity is actually when you miss my contribution (as you called) in my comment and start attacking me.

Let me help you with my contribution to the post, which you missed because your emotions no allow you to comprehend my comment. Hehehehehe

Babe abeg just work on your attitude.

The above was the starting sentence in a paragraph in my first comment. But you missed it. LMAO

Next time, don't take things here personal. LWKMD

Blackhawk03:


Amen to your prayer, Maami but chill first na.

I told you I "stole" this moniker from sumbori na. I don't have access to the PMs. I'll give you a mention.

I'm sorry, you know I'll never ignore your message.

Okay, you wouldn't want to hear my voice now will message you later

Op please no offence is meant but the simple truth is that you are broke or you don't carry yourself well cos one only attracts his or her kind. Change the kind of folks you mingle with both the male and female gender. And please look for something lucrative to engage yourself with
Good luck dear

Oyindidi:
She may not be like oyin cos I'm down to earth. Even when I wanted to pay my house rent back then and was somehow broke. I was too shy to ask him for money. Reason is, I don't want him to feel spited cos he is broke. God made provision for me in a surprising way. So the young lady(op) should make sure she respect her man's financial status.

Sekxy abeg here is your fellow woman's comment. That's how a wife material should be reasoning.

She just said everything I ever wanted to say. Oyindidi you be better wife material jare.

If I am a broke guy, and my girlfriend put me under trauma because say I broke eh, when I get money eh, my first plan go be to get rid of her. That one no be wife material.

ikp120:
Sekxy abeg here is your fellow woman's comment. That's how a wife material should be reasoning.

She just said everything I ever wanted to say. Oyi. ndidi you be better wife material jare.

If I am a broke guy, and my girlfriend put me under trauma because say I broke eh, when I get money eh, my first plan go be to get rid of her. That one no be wife material.

Lol, till this day, I av never ask him for money. Sometimes he give me out of pity cos my shyness no be here. That's doesn't make me the best though cos I can be a ass sometimes

I seriously don't know where some peeps keep their reasoning.
You think the op will b their through thick and thin with a struggling guy and moping without doing anything?
I doubt she's jobless and unresourceful.. Her problem might b spiritual husband sef or curse from evil relations... Who knows. Op you have to b prayerful and b positive.. Have a positive outlook towards relationships and you'll attract ur dream guy.

ikp120:
Reason am bros. For the first person to leave, then the second person left, and (probably) the third person left, says a lot.

It couldn't be the guy. Oyindidi just shared her own story.

Trust me bro, it's from the girl. She needs to look at the way she see any broke guy who she's dating. Most girls feel like "What are even offering me in these relationship?" bla bla bla bla. Any small thing, she will be threatening to pull out.

And the guys that only remembered to leave when they were done extorting her mentally, financially, physically, emotionally, physically, etc. Should be applauded?

Guess you picked your last paragraph from another thread. I don't recall her "threatening to pull out" from her post.

Oyindidi:
Lol, till this day, I av never ask him for money. Sometimes he give me out of pity cos my shyness no be here. That's doesn't make me the best though cos I can be a ass sometimes

My dear you are Lucky. I'm sure many ladies tried your kinda commitment and was left hanging in d cold.

Nma27:
My dear you are Lucky. I'm sure many ladies tried your kinda commitment and was left hanging in d cold.

I had my own share of that. Feed the dude but he later date a lady that rejected him when he was broke

Oyindidi:
I had my own share of that. Feed the dude but he later date a lady that rejected him when he was broke

Imagine! Well, I believe everyone got their special someone. True love sweet sha

ikp120:
Stupidity is actually when you miss my contribution (as you called) in my comment and start attacking me.

Let me help you with my contribution to the post, which you missed because your emotions no allow you to comprehend my comment. Hehehehehe



The above was the starting sentence in a paragraph in my first comment. But you missed it. LMAO

Next time, don't take things here personal. LWKMD

you are trying to console yourself.atleast you got my message...

ikp120:
Sekxy abeg here is your fellow woman's comment. That's how a wife material should be reasoning.

She just said everything I ever wanted to say. Oyindidi you be better wife material jare.

If I am a broke guy, and my girlfriend put me under trauma because say I broke eh, when I get money eh, my first plan go be to get rid of her. That one no be wife material.

don't act like a lunactic...did you mention such comment ??I quoted your arrogance and ignorance...wanna correct your impressions. ..all you did was to jump into a hasty conclusions and started boosting..go and have a seat..your comment doesn't add water to the dried leaf

Rukkydelta:
Op please no offence is meant but the simple truth is that you are broke or you don't carry yourself well cos one only attracts his or her kind. Change the kind of folks you mingle with both the male and female gender. And please look for something lucrative to engage yourself with
Good luck dear

I disagree. I know someone that is going through this right now and she ain't even anywhere close to being "broke" or "classless". She is rich, rich not just okay ooo. The guys either come as broke, struggling, average or just okay but months into the relationship, boom boom! They are rolling in money, things change for good but na then, them dey remember say she no dey good enough oooo.

Blackhawk03:


And the guys that only remembered to leave when they were done extorting her mentally, financially, physically, emotionally, physically, etc. Should be applauded?

Guess you picked your last paragraph from another thread. I don't recall her "threatening to pull out" from her post.

The last paragraph was a part of my description of what most ladies do in such relationships because they believe the guy doesn't really offer them anything unlike other guys do. Even here on Nairaland, you see them displaying it.

This thread is actually about a lady, not a guy. The reference point is a lady, not a guy. So your first paragraph is out of context. They guys shouldn't be applauded, buy that's not the context of this thread bro.

It's not really hard to see the problem when we look at the issue carefully. The lady's attitude (I hope you know what attitude really means sha) is the issue here.