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Re: Only Struggling Guys Come To Me For Serious Relationship by Oyindidi(f): 7:27am On Jul 12, 2017
FTrebirth:
some nairaland girls and their stupid comments.

a girl said she has had a series of unsuccessful relationships with boys and you failed to question her attitude first before attacking the so-called broke exes who are not here to tell their own side of the story.

once a girl comes online and posts any rubbish about guys, you team up to support her without investigating to know why she's grieving. reason is because y'all have been severely used and dumped by the same broke boys you despise. at least, op is resourceful but y'all are a bunch of leeches with smelly panties! stop venting your paranoia on innocent guys and stop using nairaland as your wailing arena.


big cucumber fall on you!
Make trouble no fall on you this morninggrin
Good morning baba FT
Re: Only Struggling Guys Come To Me For Serious Relationship by jjjjj2017: 7:29am On Jul 12, 2017
Oyindidi:
There's nothing wrong with that. I met my man when he was earning less than 30k about 11 years ago. Then I'll buy stuffs for him when he's broke cos I was doing business. I gave him money to buy his laptop when he was doing a professional course. Guess whatgrin he earns far more than that and I'm glad to start when he had nothing.

Sister me, you're not in bondage. Pray God to open your eyes to the right man.
11yrs ago? dat means I no be ya mate sef & u go dey call me kid? next time u call me a kid walai I go give u internet knock for head grin grin grin
Re: Only Struggling Guys Come To Me For Serious Relationship by Oyindidi(f): 7:30am On Jul 12, 2017
jjjjj2017:
11yrs ago? dat means I no be ya mate sef & u go dey call me kid? next time u call me a kid walai I go give u internet knock for head grin grin grin
Kiddy, good morning
Re: Only Struggling Guys Come To Me For Serious Relationship by gfreymom302: 7:30am On Jul 12, 2017
My sister forget about men forever and ever. Don't ever do men again, stay single until you die and get yourself a hubby in heaven.

Re: Only Struggling Guys Come To Me For Serious Relationship by kennykendo(m): 7:32am On Jul 12, 2017
gfreymom302:
My sister forget about men forever and ever. Don't ever do men again, stay single until you die and get yourself a hubby in heaven.

Re: Only Struggling Guys Come To Me For Serious Relationship by deebsman1(m): 7:32am On Jul 12, 2017
OP is a Gold digger.
Re: Only Struggling Guys Come To Me For Serious Relationship by jjjjj2017: 7:33am On Jul 12, 2017
Oyindidi:
Kiddy, good morning
again? expect my internet knock soonest. I'm good, what about you? wishing you a blessed day.
Re: Only Struggling Guys Come To Me For Serious Relationship by Nobody: 7:34am On Jul 12, 2017
adabenji:
I don't want to believe I'm under bondage cos only guys who are still struggling to make it come to me for serious relationship. When i accept and join them in hustling and praying something good eventually comes and they break up with me.
What do I do?
what do you mean only struggling guys come to you for relationship

We are in Nigeria sister, where the economy is bad and very few people are employed or rich
So only struggling guys go to most ladies for a serious relationship

But your case prove that money or lack of money should not be a yardstick for entering into relationship with a guy, like I have always noted a lady need to observe who she is dealing with carefully because too much money or false love could cloud most ladies judgment
First see how he treats his family and friends listen his plans about his future from his comments
Listen to what he says about others

Cause all these things will probably tell you how he may treat you too in the future

Stay blessed sis cool

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Re: Only Struggling Guys Come To Me For Serious Relationship by techmyles: 7:36am On Jul 12, 2017
Re: Only Struggling Guys Come To Me For Serious Relationship by FTrebirth(m): 7:37am On Jul 12, 2017
Piiko:
I went through ur profile all I notice is someone desperate for attention I know a thread where you can get all that and more sad

she's been living with her aunt in lagos since she was 6...and now she's 20+.

the aunt is not treating her well. she can't go back to her village and rely on the parents who are expecting from her.

she has business ideas but nobody to fund them.

she's thinking of leaving the aunt and start her own life. she will stay anywhere in lagos apart from ojota and ikorodu. and she doesn't have money to pay rent (obviously, she's looking for a bachelor to run into).

and now to this thread...she's been getting only broke niggas as boyfriends and her relationships don't last.

can't you see she has bigger problems to sort out than keeping boyfriends? and these smelly panties just dey yarn anyhow.

*which thread you know BTW? shocked
Re: Only Struggling Guys Come To Me For Serious Relationship by FTrebirth(m): 7:39am On Jul 12, 2017
Oyindidi:
Make trouble no fall on you this morninggrin
Good morning baba FT
good morning, beautiful oyindidi.

na only you make correct statement on this thread. those your friends no sabi reason with their brain at all. damn!
Re: Only Struggling Guys Come To Me For Serious Relationship by aamstih: 7:41am On Jul 12, 2017
Hi dear, This could be a surface thing and can as well be something deeper than the ordinary.

Could we be friends?


adabenji:
I don't want to believe I'm under bondage cos only guys who are still struggling to make it come to me for serious relationship. When i accept and join them in hustling and praying something good eventually comes and they break up with me.
What do I do?
Re: Only Struggling Guys Come To Me For Serious Relationship by alizma: 7:42am On Jul 12, 2017
adabenji:
I don't want to believe I'm under bondage cos only guys who are still struggling to make it come to me for serious relationship. When i accept and join them in hustling and praying something good eventually comes and they break up with me.
What do I do?
don't be negative about yourself, from your July 07 post, I think you were already looking at the right things to do to get yourself on track. in addition to your focus on that post, look for other things that you think you should correct, then do the needful and move on, great future ahead. success
Re: Only Struggling Guys Come To Me For Serious Relationship by Oyindidi(f): 7:44am On Jul 12, 2017
FTrebirth:
good morning, beautiful oyindidi.

na only you make correct statement on this thread. those your friends no sabi reason with their brain at all. damn!
Na young girls na, mabinugrin

Had to share my experience to encourage the young lady. You know my story na. E good to encourage people once a yeargrin
Re: Only Struggling Guys Come To Me For Serious Relationship by bigcil2(m): 7:48am On Jul 12, 2017
adabenji:
I don't want to believe I'm under bondage cos only guys who are still struggling to make it come to me for serious relationship. When i accept and join them in hustling and praying something good eventually comes and they break up with me.
What do I do?
Hmmmm maybe it's your environment. Change your location or where you always visit. But it's not a bad thing meeting a struggling guy. The main thing is if that struggling guy has a vision and I working towards it.
Re: Only Struggling Guys Come To Me For Serious Relationship by 2undeajigs: 7:49am On Jul 12, 2017
Fadiga24:
What happened to your own struggle ni?

You are on point bro.
Re: Only Struggling Guys Come To Me For Serious Relationship by studM(m): 7:49am On Jul 12, 2017
[quote author=adabenji post=58348870]I don't want to believe I'm under bondage cos only guys who are still struggling to make it come to me for serious relationship. When i accept and join them in hustling and praying something good eventually comes and they break up with me.
What do I do?[/quote


If this becomes a regular occurrence in ur life then it's a demonic pattern that needs to b broken by the power of d Holy Ghost!!
Re: Only Struggling Guys Come To Me For Serious Relationship by DavidEsq(m): 7:49am On Jul 12, 2017
Oyindidi:
That is just me being the funny me. Those close me here know what I say off Nl
Unfortunately, u are judged by wat u say and not wat u really are cos wats in ur heart is wat comes out ur mouth cool
Re: Only Struggling Guys Come To Me For Serious Relationship by Oyindidi(f): 7:51am On Jul 12, 2017
DavidEsq:

Unfortunately, u are judged by wat u say and not wat u really are cos wats in ur heart is wat comes out ur mouth cool
I care less, I'll rather give than receive so if you all judge people by their post, that's your headache not mine. I don't give a Fûçk about what you think about me online.
Re: Only Struggling Guys Come To Me For Serious Relationship by FTrebirth(m): 7:52am On Jul 12, 2017
Oyindidi:
Na young girls na, mabinugrin

Had to share my experience to encourage the young lady. You know my story na. E good to encourage people once a yeargrin
only once a year? chim o! grin

but, honestly, that op get issues. see her former threads and you'll find out.

and with this level of her desperation, i'm afraid she'll keep running into broke guys.
Re: Only Struggling Guys Come To Me For Serious Relationship by Oyindidi(f): 7:53am On Jul 12, 2017
FTrebirth:
only once a year? chim o! grin

but, honestly, that op get issues. see her former threads and you'll find out.

and with this level of her desperation, i'm afraid she'll keep running into broke guys.
Yes o, once a year, I was in a good mood so I decided to encourage her. Let me check her thread
Re: Only Struggling Guys Come To Me For Serious Relationship by Nobody: 7:56am On Jul 12, 2017
Thirsty boys full our thread like them Vorpal so if she come display she will get all the attention she needs cheesy
FTrebirth:


she's been living with her aunt in lagos since she was 6...and now she's 20+.

the aunt is not treating her well. she can't go back to her village and rely on the parents who are expecting from her.

she has business ideas but nobody to fund them.

she's thinking of leaving the aunt and start her own life. she will stay anywhere in lagos apart from ojota and ikorodu. and she doesn't have money to pay rent (obviously, she's looking for a bachelor to run into).

and now to this thread...she's been getting only broke niggas as boyfriends and her relationships don't last.

can't you see she has bigger problems to sort out than keeping boyfriends? and these smelly panties just dey yarn anyhow.

*which thread you know BTW? shocked
Re: Only Struggling Guys Come To Me For Serious Relationship by DavidEsq(m): 7:56am On Jul 12, 2017
Oyindidi:
I care less, I'll rather give than receive so if you all judge people by their post, that's your headache not mine. I don't give a Fûçk about what you think about me online.
I wee nor say poo fall on u. I wee jus bear it tongue
Re: Only Struggling Guys Come To Me For Serious Relationship by Nobody: 7:56am On Jul 12, 2017
franksam2009:
Op you are a liar, they never dump you after they made it, you are only after the rich guys

You have said it all, a gold digger weeping.
Re: Only Struggling Guys Come To Me For Serious Relationship by arnold123: 7:56am On Jul 12, 2017
Noel1:
If you don't mind, you can email me and I will share some of my own life experiences with you. #Don'tletanyoneletyoudown
you want to share ur dick with her and add to her problems, na wa oooooo men have various ways of fooling themselves and others
Re: Only Struggling Guys Come To Me For Serious Relationship by Oyindidi(f): 7:58am On Jul 12, 2017
DavidEsq:

I wee nor say poo fall on u. I wee jus bear it tongue
Go joor
Re: Only Struggling Guys Come To Me For Serious Relationship by orlahtohbadt(m): 7:58am On Jul 12, 2017
adabenji:
I don't want to believe I'm under bondage cos only guys who are still struggling to make it come to me for serious relationship. When i accept and join them in hustling and praying something good eventually comes and they break up with me.
What do I do?
why not try me... I don't know if i am struggling tho, it depends on your standard
Re: Only Struggling Guys Come To Me For Serious Relationship by FTrebirth(m): 7:59am On Jul 12, 2017
Piiko:
Thirsty boys full our thread like them Vorpal so if she come display she will get all the attention she needs cheesy
we dey try to curb female derailers you dey suggest new ones. you no try at all.

vorpal belongs with the romance section. na there him market go sell. grin
Re: Only Struggling Guys Come To Me For Serious Relationship by Oyindidi(f): 8:01am On Jul 12, 2017
FTrebirth:


she's been living with her aunt in lagos since she was 6...and now she's 20+.

the aunt is not treating her well. she can't go back to her village and rely on the parents who are expecting from her.

she has business ideas but nobody to fund them.

she's thinking of leaving the aunt and start her own life. she will stay anywhere in lagos apart from ojota and ikorodu. and she doesn't have money to pay rent (obviously, she's looking for a bachelor to run into).

and now to this thread...she's been getting only broke niggas as boyfriends and her relationships don't last.

can't you see she has bigger problems to sort out than keeping boyfriends? and these smelly panties just dey yarn anyhow.

*which thread you know BTW? shocked
She is still young, from my calculation she's 21. I feel pity for her right now, she has being trying all her life to be accepted. Now cos of how she's being treated she feel inferior. God, help this little girl cry
Re: Only Struggling Guys Come To Me For Serious Relationship by Nobody: 8:02am On Jul 12, 2017
FTrebirth:
we dey try to curb female derailers you dey suggest new ones. you no try at all.

vorpal belongs with the romance section. na there him market go sell. grin
from experience if female come derail na market she wan sell a sharp man fit corner her codedly cheesy
Re: Only Struggling Guys Come To Me For Serious Relationship by repogirl(f): 8:03am On Jul 12, 2017
adabenji:
I don't want to believe I'm under bondage cos only guys who are still struggling to make it come to me for serious relationship. When i accept and join them in hustling and praying something good eventually comes and they break up with me.
What do I do?
Maybe its time you began hustling for yourself and not hustling for guys anymore?

Work on yourself and a man worthy of your attention will come along.
Re: Only Struggling Guys Come To Me For Serious Relationship by adedavids(m): 8:05am On Jul 12, 2017
oilcity:
Open, it's nt a problem. At times some things are jost coincidental. And as for d breakup after d making it thing, I believe it's one of d very unpredictable and selfish nature of man.
Can u pm me so we can share more light. On dis? Got a friend who was in d same position before. Rockeepeterson@gmail.com



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