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How Should Parents Handle A Kid That Watches Pornography? by jejemanito: 6:13pm On Jul 16, 2017
My 14 year old cousin stays with me and I just found out he has an assembly line of X videos dot com clips hidden in his phone.

Going by the way I was raised will mean the melodrama of confrontation which will only lead to him - after deleting the current ones - finding out better ways to hide the next batch he will download.

I know because I've been there

So I need a smarter way mostly bordering on a "psychological" approach

Any suggestions please

Cc: onegai ifyalways

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Re: How Should Parents Handle A Kid That Watches Pornography? by Yeligray(m): 6:15pm On Jul 16, 2017
Spare the rod and spoil the child

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Re: How Should Parents Handle A Kid That Watches Pornography? by jejemanito: 6:17pm On Jul 16, 2017
Yeligray:
Spare the rod and spoil the child
Didn't you read? It no longer works

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Re: How Should Parents Handle A Kid That Watches Pornography? by Yeligray(m): 6:19pm On Jul 16, 2017
jejemanito:
Didn't you read? It no longer works
and who told you

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Re: How Should Parents Handle A Kid That Watches Pornography? by Nobody: 6:20pm On Jul 16, 2017
I think you should collect the gadgets with him, like phones, laptops, etc and monitors the kind of movies he watches.

Give a rule on the type of TV station, programme or channels he can tune to.

I hope this works.

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Re: How Should Parents Handle A Kid That Watches Pornography? by NobleAngell(f): 6:22pm On Jul 16, 2017
It's a terrible addiction. A spiritually-inclined addiction, you gotta pray him/her out of it. There are also effective physical approaches too, like bringing the child in the midst of people more cos they tend to keep to themselves a lot and they want to always be alone. Socializing with the right company can help them a lot.



If the above tips don't work, drag him to the nearest olumba olumba church for correct flogging.

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Re: How Should Parents Handle A Kid That Watches Pornography? by jejemanito: 6:22pm On Jul 16, 2017
Yeligray:
and who told you
Experience. I was once a p*rn addict.

I need a psychologically smarter way to reconfigure his focus.

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Re: How Should Parents Handle A Kid That Watches Pornography? by Papiikush: 6:25pm On Jul 16, 2017
sexybbstar:
I think you should collect the gadgets with him, like phones, laptops, etc and monitors the kind of movies he watches.

Give a rule on the type of TV station, programme or channels he can tune to.

I hope this works.

It doesn't work. It didn't work during our time when our parents will collect all magazines then punish us.

We will see these things in movies (pirates) or go collect from friends and hide somewhere far away.

I think once you catch your child watching porn just let him be.

Call him later, sit him down and have a father/son discussion. It is time he gets trained on sex education.

You can't cheat nature Cuz he is becoming a man

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Re: How Should Parents Handle A Kid That Watches Pornography? by jejemanito: 6:27pm On Jul 16, 2017
sexybbstar:
I think you should collect the gadgets with him, like phones, laptops, etc and monitors the kind of movies he watches.

Give a rule on the type of TV station, programme or channels he can tune to.

I hope this works.
I collected the phone - an android phone - and told him it is for less distraction purposes. But he needed a means to communicate with his parents so I gave him an old Techno java phone plagued with memory card issues

Guess what? He figured out a way to still use it to download UCbrowser then a batch of P*rn

Na for there I weak.

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Re: How Should Parents Handle A Kid That Watches Pornography? by jejemanito: 6:28pm On Jul 16, 2017
Papiikush:


It doesn't work. It didn't work during our time when our parents will collect all magazines then punish us.

We will see these things in movies (pirates) or go collect from friends.

I think once you catch you child watching porn just let him be.

Call him later, sit him down and have a father/son discussion. It is time he gets trained on sex education
Now this is someone that knows exactly how I feel about using our "parents" style

It doesn't work!

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Re: How Should Parents Handle A Kid That Watches Pornography? by Nobody: 6:29pm On Jul 16, 2017
jejemanito:
I collected the phone - an android phone - and told him it is for less distraction purposes. But he needed a means to communicate with his parents so I gave him an old Techno java phone plagued with memory card issues

Guess what? He figured out a way to still use it to download UCbrowser first then a batch of P*rn

Na for there I weak.

Give him a "torchlight" head phone that has no SD card slot. Since it's just for him to make calls.

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Re: How Should Parents Handle A Kid That Watches Pornography? by Nobody: 6:30pm On Jul 16, 2017
Papiikush:


It doesn't work. It didn't work during our time when our parents will collect all magazines then punish us.

We will see these things in movies (pirates) or go collect from friends.

I think once you catch you child watching porn just let him be.

Call him later, sit him down and have a father/son discussion. It is time he gets trained on sex education

I trust you on this issue wink

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Re: How Should Parents Handle A Kid That Watches Pornography? by jejemanito: 6:32pm On Jul 16, 2017
sexybbstar:


Give him a "torchlight" head phone that has no SD card slot. Since it's just for him to make calls.
Yeah that's my final stop. Only sad thing he will resume when he gets back home cause his parents will never have any clue.

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Re: How Should Parents Handle A Kid That Watches Pornography? by Nobody: 6:37pm On Jul 16, 2017
jejemanito:
Yeah that's my final stop. Only sad thing he will resume when he gets back home cause his parents will never have any clue.

Explain to them in a subtle manner and tell them the tactics you used,but warn them not to be harsh in any way to him or give him a bad attitude at home.

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Re: How Should Parents Handle A Kid That Watches Pornography? by jejemanito: 6:39pm On Jul 16, 2017
sexybbstar:


Explain to them in a subtle manner and tell them the tactics you used,but warn them not to be harsh in any way to him or give him a bad attitude at home.
okay
Re: How Should Parents Handle A Kid That Watches Pornography? by Papiikush: 6:40pm On Jul 16, 2017
jejemanito:
Now this is someone that knows exactly how I feel about using our "parents" style

It doesn't work!
The world is evolving. We should move away from the old method of handing kids.

I don't even believe in beating kids cuz my voice is enough to put the fear of God in em.

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Re: How Should Parents Handle A Kid That Watches Pornography? by Narldon: 6:43pm On Jul 16, 2017
Okay
Re: How Should Parents Handle A Kid That Watches Pornography? by Ying78(f): 6:44pm On Jul 16, 2017
Interesting case
Re: How Should Parents Handle A Kid That Watches Pornography? by NLProblemChild(m): 6:44pm On Jul 16, 2017
Space for sale for
Re: How Should Parents Handle A Kid That Watches Pornography? by victorazy(m): 6:44pm On Jul 16, 2017
buy him condomm

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Re: How Should Parents Handle A Kid That Watches Pornography? by Nobody: 6:44pm On Jul 16, 2017
jejemanito:
Didn't you read? It no longer works

my BIBLE still works!

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Re: How Should Parents Handle A Kid That Watches Pornography? by Lexusgs430: 6:45pm On Jul 16, 2017
Do you watch porn? On a serious note, seize all his gadgets and buy him a Nokia 3510i........

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Re: How Should Parents Handle A Kid That Watches Pornography? by samx4real(m): 6:45pm On Jul 16, 2017
Seize the stupid phone from him for a year plus
Re: How Should Parents Handle A Kid That Watches Pornography? by CROWNWEALTH019(m): 6:45pm On Jul 16, 2017
Chai! Idle mind and peer group they cause am grin
Re: How Should Parents Handle A Kid That Watches Pornography? by DAntivirus: 6:45pm On Jul 16, 2017
hmmmm... I hope he's able to break free from it! its a wide spreading menace

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Re: How Should Parents Handle A Kid That Watches Pornography? by DWJOBScom(m): 6:45pm On Jul 16, 2017
don't scream and scold him!
sit and go thru it with him and don't be judgmental. Let him or her understand that you identify with his curiosity(which could be a lie on both sides) and tell him the stories of the actors and the actress in those movies and watch it sink in.

if you can pray go ahead

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Re: How Should Parents Handle A Kid That Watches Pornography? by LookAtMe0000: 6:45pm On Jul 16, 2017
Your boy needs therapy trust me.
Re: How Should Parents Handle A Kid That Watches Pornography? by Elparaiso(m): 6:45pm On Jul 16, 2017
How does watching porn affect anyone?

Na question I ask abeg

misano:

While pornography use may result in a short term high, it eventually results in feelings of emptiness, low self-esteem an deep loneliness. It ultimately creates emotional distance in relationships. Because the world of pornography is artificial and cannot satisfy the need for emotional intimacy, this basic need remains unmet, creating an appetite for more and more.

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Is this how you truly feel it affects you, or how you were told it affects? I'm going to go out on a limb here and say you are religious (Christian or Muslim), you were probably brought up with the doctrine that pornography is bad. Most of the "facts" you pasted are untrue, in fact, a lot of couples have used porn to spice up their relationship and made it healthier. It's just like weed and alcohol. Everyone has an opinion about it. But I say, as long as it done in moderation and not allowed to interfere with other aspects of life, then there are no ramifications. It's just to get a feeling.


If you are a Christian, then I will beg you to keep the Lord's Commandments and stay away from pornography as it is a form of fornication. Likewise for Muslims. Porn isn't for religious and spiritual people.

That's all, no true scientific reasons, just religious ones.

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Re: How Should Parents Handle A Kid That Watches Pornography? by Ups01(m): 6:46pm On Jul 16, 2017
sexybbstar:
I think you should collect the gadgets with him, like phones, laptops, etc and monitors the kind of movies he watches.

Give a rule on the type of TV station, programme or channels he can tune to.

I hope this works.

It doesn't work. TEENS ARE VERY CREATIVE!

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Re: How Should Parents Handle A Kid That Watches Pornography? by deepwater(f): 6:46pm On Jul 16, 2017
OP the first thing you have to do is to sit down and watch those videos completely yourself, you have to be very sure of the type of problem your cuz has got and donot generalize.

Please check if the videos are MILFs series, GAY (bisi things), transgendered, Lingo, CamelToe, Interracial, Biracial, Lolicon, Spanking nad whipping, facesitting, snuff, Japanese bondage, Gore, Scat, Preggo, Extreme fetishism, Fisting , Anal, Tentacle erotica, Funtanari, etc

OP You see, there exist a cluster analysis on porn viewers, this is divided into three:
1. Recreational Users : averaged about 24 minutes of viewing time per week
2. Highly Distressed, but Non-Compulsive Users: actually watched the least porn, averaging about 17 minutes per week
3. Compulsive Porn Users:This group reported watching the most porn, averaging close to two hours per week, and they were the most likely to say they go out of their way to make time for porn, such as by rearranging their schedules to do so.

You have to really take your time to study your cuz and come back, this issue is a very sensitive one, deleting those assembly files of MOJO has helped nobody.

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Re: How Should Parents Handle A Kid That Watches Pornography? by QuietHammer(m): 6:46pm On Jul 16, 2017
you can't cheat nature

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