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Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by saasala(m): 3:08pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
lovelygurl: He only went on a revenge mission,though I am not in support of that. He went shopping for her relative after she turned him down. |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by Josephamstrong1(m): 3:10pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
Adighi ahapụ otele nyụrụ ahụ, avụọ isi ọkpọ...mbanu! You don't leave the anus that farted and then the head receives the knock...no naa! You ain't the right person to judge her. You ain't the right person for her. You are yet to kw her. Marriage isn't birthday meet. Let her find love elsewhere and you too. I fear you'll later in life or marriage use it against her. Posting it alone here shows how disturbed you've been. Can't stop till find love elsewhere. You ain't good either. What if tmrw there is an ish of fruitlessness. Can both of you handle it? Yours might be spiritual, hers might be your torment and ego on her. Adighi acho ewu ojii n'abali. People do not hunt black goats at night Make hay while the sun shines. 2 Likes |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by itsinfochris(m): 3:10pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
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Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by itsinfochris(m): 3:11pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
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Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by realabraham: 3:15pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
[quote author=Nerdg post=58707491] Did you read the part I said all our break-ups were because she refused sex with me. Why do she do this? My problem is why we had issues because of sex and she's getting it somewhere else?[/quote Guy your problem is just sex. Get it elsewhere, you do not love her. If she gives you without marriage, your kind of person will dump her, with all manner of lame excuses. You have aborted a baby. Only God knows how many. Free the girl joor. 1 Like |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by Kaybaba5(m): 3:17pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
madridguy: Seconded |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by fortunechy(m): 3:20pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
congrats......slay queen weds slay king |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by mrjojo: 3:23pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
freshvine:1 billion likes, you smart girl 4 Likes |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by Nwabundo38(f): 3:25pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
Nerdg:This is the reason girls hide things from men.. Imagine what this guy is asking |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by toogbasky(m): 3:25pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
Nerdg: Any gurl who tells you her secret in dis generation full of liers and cheat,,,, marry her |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by jrusky(m): 3:26pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
Young man you are very funny you told her your own story and she told you her own story why do you now felt stunned? Since she can bear your dark story so also bear her ans I presumed she want to see how you will react too so be man having such dark side si not a crime its one of those in life and don't be selfish go ahead with her if truly love I expect you to thank God she did not tells you she has infected you with HIV or Syphilis and she can't conceive again or for her to tell you she was a prostitute what will you do? I will suggest you go ahead with her everyone in life has one dark side one way or the other and that is the end of the world and that does not make her a bad girl in as far she no longer do such again or sleep around again. |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by Badgers14: 3:30pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
Nwabundo38: Women sef... It's quite interesting the sharp criticism abiet defense from women in this topic. Abeg ooo, this is not women league. Back to the point, please try to read in between the lines and understand Op's concern. He clearly stated his point of contention was the lady was sexually active but denied him sex. Why did she do that? Was it because he wasn't attractive? Was it because she didn't see any future in him?? Was is because she didn't love him? I agree with Op 1000% , every reasonable person should ask him or herself that question. Recall, both of them messed up in their different ways but the question here is not who's mistake was greater and i am not campaigning for premarital sex either. I can understand if the girl was waiting until marriage but the fact that she closed her legs for the op amd opened her legs to other guys is a very big concern and I am still perplexed by that action. 3 Likes |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by Kenontop: 3:32pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
guy for her to tell u the truth mean she dont want to hide anything. transparency in a marriage is very important and if u two can trust yourselves to open up, is a good thing. go ahead n marry her |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by creepsyme(f): 3:33pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
Nerdg:Why would she reveal so much? Some ladies shaaaa.... Tinking the guy will love her for her sincerity. Olodo rapata... |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by Badgers14: 3:34pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
Nwabundo38: The guy is asking a reasonable question. How would you feel if your guy says no to sex but goes about ynashing other babes? How would you feel if you ask him of money and he said no money but gives freely to other babes I am pretty sure if you find yourself in these situations ( I hope you don't), you will definitely ask questions and show concern. Let's understand where the guy is coming from 3 Likes |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by achieversbizpro(m): 3:43pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
she might want to see what u will do |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by Maduawuchukwu(m): 3:44pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
Nerdg: Bro I had to mention you so that you could read this. It is very likely that she has no iota of sexual attraction towards you. If she held back in the past because she was not sure of your feelings towards her your proposal to her and your financial commitment should show her that you are serious abt her but she still holds back. I think she takes you for granted, has no iota of respect for you and is not attracted to you but sees you as being useful. My good friend went through the same thing so I know how it is. 5 Likes |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by babadee1(m): 3:50pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
Nerdg: From your story it seems all this happened before you guys started dating officially. Most likely she wanted to change her lifestyle and turn over a new leaf after all the trauma. |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by mapist(m): 3:57pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
delishpot: Yes, she dint but, he or she who cheats at any point lacks dignity. It's sth i never tolerate and i try to stay free of same. |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by crownbayo(m): 4:00pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
just go deeper to her family and take heed and take patient, forget about marriage or love for now, u ll know whether she's pretending or testing u. even u ll know were u are going |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by drnoel: 4:02pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
Nerdg: What's dark about that? |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by amakadihot87(f): 4:05pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
Nerdg:.......a bad experience will be the case |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by diva90: 4:06pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
I would not judge her based on that. After all, these things happened prior to your current relationship with her. Would you rather have a lady who has done worse and never opened up to you? A stillbirth can happen to anyone. It's not an abortion. Getting pregnant was a mistake I'm sure. Let bygone be bygone. If you love her, nothing should distract your plans to want to consummate your union. |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by seguno2: 4:12pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
zed7: Why was she denying him something that she was giving yanfunyanfun to every Tom.Dick&Harry? Can you please explain. Thanks |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by oshaosha2014(m): 4:14pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
man, its unfair. imustsaymymindo: 2 Likes |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by Softhands(m): 4:16pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
What you should prioritize is PEACE OF MIND... If the girl gives you peace of mind and is supportive, she is not lazy nor lack good manners and good personality, My guy You have a Wife in your hand o... Don't judge her by her past... She has struggled to finally tell you her past... Don't disappoint her and make her regret it... In fact she will love you more and can do anything for you knowing that you did not judge her past and are still willing to stick with her and marry her. Let me even shock you, Do you know that the Great Great Great grand Mother of our Lord Jesus Christ, Rehab who married Boaz was a Harlot? as in Ashawo!!! But God Did not look at that Yet honored her by drafting her into the royal bloodline and by extension, the Mother of Jesus... So You see, it goes beyond marrying a lady becos of a tight Pvvsy or physical appearance... I'm not saying any lady who has had a rough past is a good wife material o (Na Oju kokoro dey worry some)...What I am simply telling you is that If she has forgotten the past and forgiven herself and lives a clean life, don't make the mistake of not marrying her ... cos another man that values her will marry her. Peace Nerdg: 1 Like |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by DazzlingAngel: 4:17pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
Nerdg:i think she refused u sex becos she is scared well according to u, u new her from Ur teenage age, and probably after gaining admission she felt she can try a relationship it happen u were not close to her, mind u a still birth not an abortion (TOP), she was courageous enough to keep the pregnancy . If u truly love her that shouldn't be a problem . |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by delishpot: 4:18pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
mapist: Yeah one man's meat bro. You have a right to your opinion. |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by delishpot: 4:19pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
Nerdg: Having sex once could lead to pregnancy. Pregnancy doesn't dictate how exposed one is se.xually. You that is talking, have you not given a woman bele? Are you judging her by your own experience? |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by moneyhungry(m): 4:22pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
I deeply suspect that the lady's womb is not even intact lol.
more 'secrets' to come... |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by Dcholeric: 4:22pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
I swear so many women here are dullards ... 2 Likes |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by moneyhungry(m): 4:24pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
Softhands:absolute hogwash. |
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