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Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by VajanahDischaj(f): 6:15pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
Nerdg:u dont even deserve her... Ahhhh don't be happy, u are a greedy 4k! So u want to be 4king her cos of relationship. If u really loved her u should ve adviced her to focus on sch first. Rather u went to even belefull another ortekpu. It is wah for u, u deserve to marry an ashi 1 Like |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by diamondstar90: 6:15pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
If u ask me the op has done a lot of bad things to the girl, how can u chase ur girl friend out of ur house because of sex. That girl likes u don't miss her And as for the sex I think she suspect u are a player and think if u get her body u will leave her. And for the tillbirth and abortion Na the same crime so una two na Sinner My suggestion please no insult Thanks 1 Like |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by Abbey2sam(m): 6:17pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
madridguy: smart very Good observation you could still be wrong though 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by pbs4real(m): 6:22pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
cococandy:sorry this doesn't make sense to me. 1 Like |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by Nobody: 6:25pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
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Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by okwyee(m): 6:34pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
Sterope: Are you a virgin? If not keep shut! and stop preaching against pre marital sex! 1 Like |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by okwyee(m): 6:38pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
VajanahDischaj: The thing is you girls thinks when you have sex with bf you're doing them a favour when it clearly isn't! what's the essence of insisting that she don't want sex when somebody have been giving her front and back? 3 Likes |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by Oyindidi(f): 6:40pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
rosalieene:Didn't mean to offend you |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by Stoicbaba(m): 6:57pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
obyrich: Hello sir...I really felt oblige to react to your line of thoughts. First, you should know that people actually do regret their past and they try to move on. Having said that, I would have wished that this info came out first before the proposal, so as Nerdg to really decide if he really loves the babe for real. I love sincere people and I bet you, this most often make people trust you, whether immediate or in the future. This is how I have planned to bring up my kids (to be truthful at all times, irrespective of the repercussions). Don't marry for pity but note for love sakes, forgiveness is divine. NO ONE IS PERFECT, so always try not to judge. Hope you won't be offended with me, quoting you... 1 Like |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by obiwigan21(m): 7:08pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
lovelygurl:[color=#006600][/color] You are daft... I mean very dumb. The girl doesn't love the op, that's why she has always denied him sex... When a sexually active lady meets a guy she loves, she can't wait to have sex with the guy... is that part very difficult for you to understand?? Ask your self this question... Are you going to deny your bf that you love sex and then come and have sex with me?? Really?? The op should not marry the girl not because of the stillbirth, but because she doesn't love him... 3 Likes |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by Praktikals(m): 7:26pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
Sterope:My sister, konji no get religion fa. For a man above 18years once the body requests for it, its a call of nature and must be obeyed. The biology is like this: it can be compared to a man who is pressed to urinate. There is a limit to how long you can hold it back. Once the cup is full, kongi go take over ni o. Whether you be sinner of saint. If i lie, ask pastor chris |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by tamquezee(m): 7:34pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
Before trying to crucify her, pls also check the meaning of 'secret'. And two, what is scary about her action? You knowingly abort your own while she was forced to abort hers by her family. Now listen, you abort and she abort that's draw. Go ahead and marry her if u truly love her as you claim. 1 Like |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by orjaha(m): 7:39pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
bro listen, I won't ask you to marry her or not you impregnated a lady, this lady too got pregnant, you abort your with your gf, she too had stillbirth, u didn't want your, she wanted hers but she lost it ,,I can sense FATE in this case you committed double sins ,, she committed only one if she is your younger sister that this is happening to, how will u manage this issue bro? this is what I have for bro ,,,, FOLLOW YOUR HEART SIR 1 Like |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by Praktikals(m): 7:42pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
Nerdg:My 1 cent: Continue the marriage plans if and only if you are capable of forgiving her wholeheartedly. Otherwise, pls let her find her bearing. You must also try to find out if there are other things she s keeping from u. And pls dont ever assume that a girl is decent simply cos she s playing hard to get for you. You deserve the best bro. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by Momot(f): 7:49pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
Right one.... ... cococandy: |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by obiwigan21(m): 7:50pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
lovelygurl:[color=#006600][/color] You are really dumb girl.. . Please go back to the kitchen.. 1 Like |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by obyrich(m): 7:51pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
Stoicbaba:No offence taken. You are entitled to your opinion. So am I. |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by saintandsinnerz: 8:00pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
Psalm45:And now she is desperately want to fall victim of his sexcapades? Women sef |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by CaesarDon(m): 8:00pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
it beats my imagination to see guys in no sex relationships when their partner gives d pudding 2 a sharper guy, my honest opinion is dat she's a hypocrite and there nothing like starting afresh if she could beguile u when u haven't proposed there's a 95% chance she'd do d same when ure are married, pls pls and please leave her don't mind d gals and guys saying u did d same thing,u c u were ready 2 commit and have sex with her probably only her, and she hoodwinked you if dat sharp guy still comes calling even after marriage , oga her pudding is a goner |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by Olakunlae: 8:06pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
YelloweWest: Nedg ... This man is kinda right about this. I'm agreeing to this because my friend's current girlfriend gave away her virginity to him because she feels it's gonna keep the relationship as "no sex" ended her previous relationship not because she didn't love the previous guy —mind you she also made no sex relationship before marriage vow. But if she still insist no sex till marriage after convincing and assuring her that you will marry her, then there is more to it o. Try ask her why she denies you sex but could give others. May God help you in your quest |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by MrCork: 8:07pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
rosalieene: .. Oyindidi is a known trouble maker on nairaland who refuses to change her color to lightskin....she suffffarrrin from inferrrrity complex ....she been on nairaland for 12 years(true story) |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by CaesarDon(m): 8:09pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
Blood of Elijah!!! and I just read d part dat u still haven't had sex with her and u foot her bills I swear I wanna beat some sense into u, u think she dosent get honey, who do u think oils her engine I reject every slowpoke spirit in ur life IJN 1 Like |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by MrCork: 8:09pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
Oyindidi: ..stop harrrrrasisment...stop harrrrrsin. Rosalieene...she prettier..she's lightskin an she not on yorrr level!!(no oofeense) |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by Phut(f): 8:11pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
DICKtator:A lot of Nigerians are used to saying: 'don't paint me black.' Most of the black-related entries in the English dictionary, have a negative connotation. Blackballed, blacklisted, blackhearted, black knight, to name just a few. On the other hand you have white knight used for a savior, white lie to describe a lie that is not serious and white to describe the very creators of that language 2 Likes |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by sweetkech: 8:17pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
If I may ask, what about the other girl that had an abortion, the one you impregnate? why don't you marry that one?or you feel she's a spoilt brat, because she had an abortion, you want to go for a decent girl, lol! now you have seen how "decent" she is. she refused you sex because she never loved you, marry her, more secrets will unfold. mind you,you have not made love to her oooo, make love to her and see if you still feel thesame.i just dislike gals that form holy holy, whereas na dem bad pass |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by GreatChizzy: 8:31pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
SosBuss17: WHAT IS THIS ONE SAYING 1 Like |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by jay2smart19(m): 8:35pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
madridguy:my ex told me she has a baby out of wed luck on our second date. I lost not just appetite dat evening. turns out to b a lie. but for a girl dat denies me booming n doesn't check me always cos she can't go out like dat telling me she would have married som1 else if not for her parent; bro dat one pass expensive joke. Na rough play. I no be Romeo na. I didn't conclude ooooo. I can except a child out of wed luck but not a girl dat deny me booming and getting prego for not the schl bf oo BT anada man termed wrong by her family. I think I have now oo. |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by poseidon12: 9:13pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
You have to find out when this her pregnancy happened. Was it when she was telling you about no sex before marriage? If yes, I would not go on with marrying her. Most girls who play this no sex game still go on to be having sex with someone else. |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by poseidon12: 9:28pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
snowlord: I agree with you. She was just keeping the guy as backup. In her other relationships, she was sexually active. But with the OP, it's no sex before marriage. 2 Likes |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by poseidon12: 9:35pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
teresafaith: So you don't see any thing wrong with the fact that she was having sex in her other relationships but with the OP, it's no sex before marriage? That would not be acceptable to me unless I'm convinced she became seriously born again (Deeper Life type) when we started dating. |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by okwyee(m): 9:47pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
Sterope:It's clear you're the lunatic here is dear. My little advice for you, stop bitching around! peace! 1 Like |
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