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Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by Samuel8604: 9:47pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
Nerdg: she loves u to see u stay healthy ...run for ur life ,she might hav contacted a deadly sexually Transmitted Infection 1 Like |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by poseidon12: 9:48pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
Lexusgs430: Good point there about needing counseling and therapy. That is another way to look at the situation. Maybe she was refusing to have sex with OP because of her sad experience with the stillbirth. If that is the case, and she was not having sex with someone else while refusing to have with OP, then I will suggest the OP should go ahead and marry since he loves her. |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by poseidon12: 9:51pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
AntiWailer: And you call her "a wonderful sister of God"? Wonderful. 1 Like |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by Lexusgs430: 9:53pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
poseidon12: True, and only on that ground. |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by poseidon12: 9:54pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
Rosarie: The first lady that made sense here. 1 Like |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by poseidon12: 9:59pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
darlenese: That is the issue. You got it right, unlike these other ladies that were criticizing the OP. |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by Sterope(f): 10:10pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
I will forward you a list of mental institutions. Happy recovery okwyee: |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by Geeflow(m): 10:12pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
Sterope:what are you saying? she denied op sex hence leading to their initial breakup and later she got pregnant even though she didn't abort it still through this same sex issue that firstly led to there breakup.I think the op is just the best suitor amongst those wobbling around her with seriousness. |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by Teegelop(f): 10:40pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
Sterope:You have just said the truth |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by abimbawealth(f): 10:43pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
Some guys sef... What about you that aborted for someone... Chai |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by AntiWailer: 10:56pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
poseidon12: They there. No go investigate ur boo. |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by Nobody: 12:05am On Jul 23, 2017 |
cococandy:You are being hash him my sister. I'm not supporting him but this is someohow betrayal of trust from the Lady in question. Like the Op, i will expect the laxy to be someone that have been calibate for long time since she have be denying me of sex not someone who has been giving it to other two diffrent guyz to the extent of getting pregnant while denying me the apple all the time we have known each other. What a pretender. I just want to believe she testing the ops faith otherwise she cant be trusted. |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by stpat1(m): 12:55am On Jul 23, 2017 |
I only doubt if she loves you enough. When you are in love with someone, your defenses break down. She didn't find you worthy enough to give in to your sexual request then while she was giving it to others. If they didn't fail her would she had ever even considered you? Lastly, are you kidding me? So she wouldn't have opened up if you didn't tell her yours? It's your call. |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by afonjadie: 1:11am On Jul 23, 2017 |
Op most of the post you have received so far, or maybe the most I have seen are from novice or just those Holier than thou brethrens who want to judge you for one mistake that you regret till this day, now they ignorantly want to use that to place you side by side with a runs girl, guy this is the simple truth in as much as it is a bitter one I think I should let you know; 1. That girl does not love you, she does not even have feeling for you 2. She only accepted your proposal because you are comfortable now 3. She did not reveal that secret to you because she loves you 4. She revealed it to you because you are about to get the biggest shock of ur life 5. When you drink from the bucket you presumed a cup chaff will fall from your eyes, then she will claim it is because of the still birth 6. She was sexing everyone but did not want to sex you, from friend zone to marriage 7. Get ready to be a wife beater or live with a cheating wife, you think yours will be different 8. From your post you are not into girls and don't know their ways, thats why you loved one girl 3 times in one life time 9. She knows this about you and decides to play you not as a fool but a pun to get a bigger bait maybe your colleagues or boss 10. I hope you realize this girl has not yet served and you are going through all this, don't let her meet your posh friends 11. When she goes to camp you will father another mans child, because you were afraid to be a man, when you ought to 12. I could go on and on but Let me stop here cause I might just be hurting you, let her go, you deserve better you are a good man with a good heart, bad girls always find a way to end up with the good guys that's what is happening to you right now, leggo so you don't get arrested for man slaughter or wife battery in future. And Nerdg why would you want to marry a girl you have not slept with don't you know sex is key to any successful marriage, this rule does not apply to virgins. If she is not a virgin no excuses, just hit it or skip it. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by Goldienana(f): 1:17am On Jul 23, 2017 |
You will go far in life with the kind of Brain u have. You are matured I respect. madridguy: |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by poseidon12: 1:59am On Jul 23, 2017 |
afonjadie: Very blunt. Straight to the point. |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by Amberon11: 3:41am On Jul 23, 2017 |
If you're making excuses for him, then do same for her too. 15 years old and insisting on sex in a relationship? Really ? CoCoLav: |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by sucre: 3:54am On Jul 23, 2017 |
I HAVE TOLD YOU BEFORE. MY BROTHER RUN RUN RUN RUN RUN RUN RUN RUN RUN RUN RUN RUN. no say I no warn you o. |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by lereinter(m): 4:31am On Jul 23, 2017 |
all the. gals here. are and. some guys are supporting your gf me i cant marry such gal reason all those times she was with u, u were just her side man, she thought she had better option so she could not give u her ultimate i.e sex now she has no option, but she fear if she give u sex you might go she told her story cos you told yours and she thought yours was darker... my reason though |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by Dicksonnet: 4:45am On Jul 23, 2017 |
Nerdg:MAY YOU NOT BE A FOOL FOREVER. Think deep!!!! Think well. You are the last available option. From all INDICATIONS. |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by ikevictor: 6:30am On Jul 23, 2017 |
Op, Marry a woman who you love, and who loves and trust you enough to discuss everything with you. And since she trusted you enough to tell you, that's a good sign to build on...cos that's how they will raise your kids around you. I tell you this cos virtually every woman you meet has a dark side...and they will never tell you but paint a picture they want you to see especially if they smell marriage proposal. Try not be caught in marriage with with people, cos the trauma comes in different shades and never end. |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by megafone: 6:45am On Jul 23, 2017 |
She is second hand still presenting herself as new. Leave her or live in cage! |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by egbostan(m): 6:46am On Jul 23, 2017 |
Everyone has a dark side of life. Me, u everyone she is a darling to even tell u that shows that she really loves you |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by cococandy(f): 7:00am On Jul 23, 2017 |
oshaosha2014:Well you guys should do yourselves a favor and stick to the demented puccis you destroyed . The other lady that he made to have an abortion for him, who will marry that one? He's here looking for angel Mary but meanwhile he's caused another girl somewhere pain like that. If he had married one of the demented puccies he destroyed, we won't be here having this silly conversation. Serves him right. Serves all of you right. I hope one of you dimwits on this thread will end up with the other lady that had an abortion for the OP. That way you will all reap the rewards of uncontrolled male promiscuity that you refuse to condemn. 3 Likes |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by Maduawuchukwu(m): 8:03am On Jul 23, 2017 |
cococandy: This one Is suffering from mental illness called man-hating. Better take care o! The guys issue Is that why was she having sex with others but not with him even till today? Does it mean she doesn't find him sexually appealing? Is it that she does not see him as worth it? These are questions which should determine any marriage not that he goes into the marriage and then the girl starts looking out because she doesn't like him 2 Likes |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by Ejomax77(m): 11:20am On Jul 23, 2017 |
if I decide to slap the guy wey post this staff now ehn... he go say I no get respect. Using yourself as a reference frame, can you tell me what she did wrong that you didn't do? infact you have no moral jurisdiction to judge her. pls give me her number let me tell her not to marry you that you're a bad person! |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by Oyindidi(f): 12:43pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
MrCork:You are a troublemaker |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by Oyindidi(f): 12:46pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
MrCork:Troll |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by NoToPile: 2:55pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
Maduawuchukwu: Where did he say he was footing her bills. What benefits has she gotten from him from the oops narration Why do you think she must give him sex How are you sure she didn't regret sex she had with other guys far later and then decided no sex policy was what was best for her Bros understand one thing she reserves the right to say no to anyman she is not married to concerning the issue of sex at any given time whether virgin or not. This case is peculiar she was not cheating on him with other guys, there was a time frame of years in in this story so he has got no case. Sex is the origin of the downfall of most guys so I am not surprised the way everybody is hammering on sex sex sex. 1 Like |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by Maduawuchukwu(m): 4:41pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
NoToPile: Go back and read his write-up. He said clearly there that he foots her bills. She does not owe her Fiance sex but that same sex she was giving to guys who have not yet proposed to her; Guy come on, if a girl likes you most especially if she is not a vrgin, she will give in for you. That is the way the real life works. Lastly, saying that maybe she decided not to have sex again as the reason she refuses to give him sex is a very weak assumption. He dated her thrice but it is only when they are together that she has principles as regards sex? Wow! You can believe anything you want to believe in life but always go for the side that is more plausible. 2 Likes |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by VajanahDischaj(f): 4:47pm On Jul 24, 2017 |
okwyee:dont mind her. she is not even clear towards him, she should simply tell him she doesnt like him for some reasons/ the guy too,he is the one taking sex to be important in a relationship . see how many times he stressed on it. Naija girls think sex is all a guy needs, this girl na mumu sef. |
Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by joewinson: 9:55pm On Jul 24, 2017 |
Nma27:I know you're out here to support a fellow sister! Calling me hypocrite won't drive home your point! If really you want to make a correction, you're welcome, however desist from doing that from the place of anger. |
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