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Re: Why Is My 'girlfriend' Asking For My Bank Statement? by Nobody: 10:38am On Aug 31, 2017 |
freepop:her mum is right, yoruba guys are uncaring and poor, and they tend to depend on women a lot, take it from a yoruba girl 1 Like |
Re: Why Is My 'girlfriend' Asking For My Bank Statement? by freepop: 3:28pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
You're right! Let me just leave you to your myopic and unfounded sweeping generalisation. funmisticqueen: |
Re: Why Is My 'girlfriend' Asking For My Bank Statement? by Nobody: 7:47pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
freepop:pls take notes and learn a thing or two from your Igbo, Hausa and Edo mates who are moving forward in life instead of posting their relationship issue s online thereby showing the world your insecurities and paranoia 1 Like |
Re: Why Is My 'girlfriend' Asking For My Bank Statement? by luminouz(m): 8:15pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
funmisticqueen:Well I don't depend on women for a living... U sure ur a Yoruba girl Coz u just abused ur own DAD |
Re: Why Is My 'girlfriend' Asking For My Bank Statement? by Nobody: 8:42pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
luminouz:please allow me to rephrase, yoruba men born later than the year 1990, besides my dad didnt have a typical yoruba upbringing, so he is exempted 1 Like |
Re: Why Is My 'girlfriend' Asking For My Bank Statement? by GreatChizzy: 8:48pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
DUMP THAT GOLD DIGGER OF A BITCH. TRUTH IS BITTER BUT THERE IT IS.... |
Re: Why Is My 'girlfriend' Asking For My Bank Statement? by luminouz(m): 9:37pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
funmisticqueen:I still stand on my word...... |
Re: Why Is My 'girlfriend' Asking For My Bank Statement? by freepop: 9:40pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
Bro, leave her to her world. Don't even what she's saying�. How can you generalise that all Yoruba men are uncaring and dishonest? If you call this objectivity, then it's a blind one. And obviously, this isn't a case of tribal allegiance. Oh! It's the Nigerian version of feminism, right? SMH luminouz: funmisticqueen: |
Re: Why Is My 'girlfriend' Asking For My Bank Statement? by Nobody: 9:42pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
I've dated someone and he showed me his savings account, I didn't even ask for it. So I think you should show her the one with smaller money to gain her trust. |
Re: Why Is My 'girlfriend' Asking For My Bank Statement? by raquel97: 9:45pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
She wants to know how she would tag you for the bride price |
Re: Why Is My 'girlfriend' Asking For My Bank Statement? by freepop: 9:47pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
Yeah! I once did though passively. She saw it and smiled and we both got on with the business at hand. Showing her the account details isn't my problem but for her to use it as a final benchmark for whether the relationship stands or falls is my worry. She I cannot go and borrow money and put in the account just to impress her. She's just a money freak, building her future on fantasies and I want this and that mentality. Rorachy: |
Re: Why Is My 'girlfriend' Asking For My Bank Statement? by raquel97: 9:48pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
funmisticqueen:
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Re: Why Is My 'girlfriend' Asking For My Bank Statement? by freepop: 9:50pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
Arriving at this conclusion and also bringing your father to this conversation speaks volume about you. funmisticqueen: |
Re: Why Is My 'girlfriend' Asking For My Bank Statement? by Nobody: 9:51pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
freepop:The fact that you are afonja and she is Igbo is making her to do that, she wants to know of you have enough money to convince her mum to marry you. |
Re: Why Is My 'girlfriend' Asking For My Bank Statement? by Integrator1: 9:51pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
funmisticqueen: Your family inclusive ba? Dad, brothers and relative I guess? If not, you wouldn't have generalise. This usually comes from ladies whose lives is dependent on Boyfriends. |
Re: Why Is My 'girlfriend' Asking For My Bank Statement? by freepop: 10:08pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
Gbam! That's the point. I've observed it, told her and she confirmed it. She even said left to her she's cool with what she's seen thus far, however, her mum feels otherwise, hence, she wants to dig deeper saying, she wouldn't want me to come disgrace myself and also mock her parents when the time comes. For me such thought from her parents (mum) could be hard to get off her own mind actually. She's the only child, the bond with her mum is premium. I bet it'll mean I'll have to do so much to please her mum, not even daughter or myself or our relationship. It's quite a dicey affair for a young blood like me. My other worry is that the family isn't even well to do with (schooling an only child is a bit of a burden for them), yet the mama is giving specifications of a choice man for her. I've told her that in the long run she'llbe the one to live her life and take responsibilities for what she makes out of it all. As with the regular Igbo culture, I presume they'll get her an old old man with loads of money to marry. That way she and her mama can have all the money they want, whilst sacrificing the girl's happiness. Rorachy: |
Re: Why Is My 'girlfriend' Asking For My Bank Statement? by Nobody: 10:16pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
freepop:I'm always right . |
Re: Why Is My 'girlfriend' Asking For My Bank Statement? by freepop: 10:23pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
Re: Why Is My 'girlfriend' Asking For My Bank Statement? by Nobody: 7:11am On Sep 01, 2017 |
freepop:i am not the only one out there who has such a mentality, i am just blunt enough to say it out. instead of comforting yourselves with empty words, the whole lot of you should change the impression you give to nigerian ladies in general whether it be a yoruba demon or a gigolo with ‘H’ factor. Goodday. 1 Like |
Re: Why Is My 'girlfriend' Asking For My Bank Statement? by Nobody: 7:13am On Sep 01, 2017 |
luminouz:your words amount to nothing, they cant change the price of beans inthe market |
Re: Why Is My 'girlfriend' Asking For My Bank Statement? by Nobody: 7:21am On Sep 01, 2017 |
freepop:You cannot compare the way a yoruba guy takes care of a woman to the way an igbo or south south guy takes care of their women. this is the reason why of all the tribes in nigeria, yoruba women are the most financially independent, because most of them them had to wake up and smell the coffee due to the ineptitude of their men. if you listen to women discussing about their husbands or tribes, women married to yoruba men complain the most. last of all there is a saying among we ladies, yoruba men make good fathers but terrible husbands. 1 Like |
Re: Why Is My 'girlfriend' Asking For My Bank Statement? by Nobody: 7:23am On Sep 01, 2017 |
Integrator1:i do not have your time |
Re: Why Is My 'girlfriend' Asking For My Bank Statement? by Nobody: 7:49am On Sep 01, 2017 |
funmisticqueen:don't you think you are being ridiculous dragging a whole tribe into your issue Sis there is no crime marrying from another tribe if you don't like men from your own tribe Your claims are ill informed and misguided. You claim your father is an exemption to prove your dad is caring. What about your cousins, uncle and siblings( if you have male brothers) are they exemptions too. So you think I can't be an exemption or those yoruba you haven't interacted with can't be all exceptions. I honestly felt you were more open minded than this |
Re: Why Is My 'girlfriend' Asking For My Bank Statement? by Nobody: 8:02am On Sep 01, 2017 |
sunshineG:this is notvabout being openminded but abou what experience has taught me, all my male xousins older than me are abroad and not yoruba, the ones that r yoruba are little children and also abroad, most of my aunties did not marry yoruba men, the one that did are either divorced or the breadwinners, growing up, all the men who sat at home while their wives went to hussle for daily bread were yoruba, in uni, girls who dated yoruba man were more likely to be pampered and cared for less, than those dating other tribes, i have many more examples, i nearly turned into a sugar mummy from dating yoruba men becos money is not an issue, i am comfortable, so i have turned a new leaf, i wont bring a yoruba man home to my parents and they have no issues. i am still waiting for that yoruba man who is the execption to the rule |
Re: Why Is My 'girlfriend' Asking For My Bank Statement? by Nobody: 8:15am On Sep 01, 2017 |
funmisticqueen: My sis its your life and you make your decisions, so marry who ever you like I am just against the way you generalized I also have two elder sisters that are married to yoruba men and are quite happy, I think it about the circle you find yourself I will advice you change your circle and move with men who dont see relationship as poverty elevation scheme. Change your thinking and manner of approach to the opposite sex to have attract better prospects. After all you are who you attract. Changing tribe may not bring better prospects Then again it is your choice. Just know those type of men you are talking about are all over the world 1 Like |
Re: Why Is My 'girlfriend' Asking For My Bank Statement? by FemiEddy(m): 8:21am On Sep 01, 2017 |
funmisticqueen:U really don't know what you are saying, cos all ur post on this thread ain't cool, Yoruba this, Yoruba that, please go and marry Fulani Na, leave us alone, if u were my lady, u wouldn't even have time to post all dat stuff u posted. Don't worry, the right Yoruba guy will come ur way, but he won't with this ur mentality |
Re: Why Is My 'girlfriend' Asking For My Bank Statement? by Nobody: 8:23am On Sep 01, 2017 |
FemiEddy:plenty of fish in the sea, from other tribes of course, no yoruba man is MAN ENOUGH to change my menrality yet |
Re: Why Is My 'girlfriend' Asking For My Bank Statement? by FemiEddy(m): 8:26am On Sep 01, 2017 |
funmisticqueen:Please are you single at the moment? Just asking |
Re: Why Is My 'girlfriend' Asking For My Bank Statement? by Nobody: 8:26am On Sep 01, 2017 |
sunshineG:i am not saying they dont exist all over the world, they are just more concetrated in the yoruba tribe. i did improve my circles by fishing in non yoruba waters and i am doing well so far |
Re: Why Is My 'girlfriend' Asking For My Bank Statement? by Nobody: 8:28am On Sep 01, 2017 |
FemiEddy:yes, in a relationship |
Re: Why Is My 'girlfriend' Asking For My Bank Statement? by FemiEddy(m): 8:29am On Sep 01, 2017 |
funmisticqueen:What tribe is ur boo? |
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