Licking or leaking?

Explains in clear terms the man JORO, who is a relationship expert anyway

Wonder if men that stays faithful av 2 heads.

when you haven't combed for ages
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OGl947y9XqE

Sabrina18:
I rather be single than stay with a cheating partner. .

Udonminit

it baffles me how some men think�

Immatex:
Infidelity is a sin not a sport

Proverbs 10:23 says: To the stupid one the carrying on of loose conduct is like sport, but wisdom is for the man of discernment.

There's no wisdom in cheating against a spouse and it's not funny remaining in an unfaithful relationship.

LOL. So you people still believe in relationships at this modern age? If only you know what both partners does behind the scene. I'm a witness. It took me nothing to get down with some girls I knew were in a relationship. I wondered the essence of the so called relationship.

AlexCk:
That's a very wrong logic,

It is wrong to cheat!!!,
Please and please, it shouldn't be thought 'a natural thing' as some gullible females think( no offense Ese).

If u wanna fool around, then fool around, but if u in a relationship, ffs, respect the relationship and the person. U weren't forced to be in one!!.

Priorities right biko

LOL. So you people still believe in relationships at this modern age? If only you know what both partners does behind the scene. I'm a witness. It took me nothing to get down with some girls I knew were in a relationship. I wondered the essence of the so called relationship.

Jman06:
Such warped mentality can only be found among lazy women who have no life of their own but depend on men for everything. Real ladies don't take sh1t from men.

LOL. So you people still believe in relationships at this modern age? If only you know what both partners does behind the scene. I'm a witness. It took me nothing to get down with some girls I knew were in a relationship. I wondered the essence of the so called relationship.

So sad

This is all shades wrong. There are a lot of things a serious minded man can do with just one woman. For some of us, there is just one fish in our river. Just one fish is good enough for us.

Lol, trying to console yourself right?

iamJ:
I hope my ex reads this and hates herself more


Impatient fowl

Amberon11:
Lol, you call someone who doesn't know the meaning of Bsc wise? You're obviously as dumb as she is and it is evident in your grammar.

You know nothing about life. You talk like a kid. I gues you are. If you indeed have life experience you will understand what she means by that statement.

useless olosho.
her breast don fall sef.
ee no get seed again.

Sabrina18:
I rather be single than stay with a cheating partner. .

are you saying you cannot date a young alhaji like me? so u kan be my first mata deyaa

iamJ:
I hope my ex reads this and hates herself more


Impatient fowl

You are the one who seems pained.

Toks2008:


Coming from.a lady...cc:cococandy over to you.

Products of your sexism and that of men like you

iamJ:
changed now, was going to change eventually but today my current girl enjoys my faithfulness, so her impatience is her own doing and b4 u start singing ur songs of wailing, my ex has begged multiple times to come back, ese is correct the main thing is a good man, if he is faithful ur luck

Good men don't cheat.
Good partners don't cheat!

You are lying about the so called change because to your logic u still see nothing wrong with cheating. So why would u change?

Hope ur gf dumps u again.

Jman06:
Such warped mentality can only be found among lazy women who have no life of their own but depend on men for everything. Real ladies don't take sh1t from men.

@toks2008

This is coming from your fellow man. Maybe you can borrow some sense from him instead of using an obviously foolish girl as an example for me.

Lack of common sense

Shelloween:
By their posts you shall know them. This is a certified Olosho. Like most prostitutes, She has no problem sharing a man with other women. But..... Nice b()()bs though.

Exactly

That's what they say to make themselves feel better about sleeping with other people's husbands

ozilo1chance:
One cheatspotted

yes, [s]that guy was being too insensitive there, i neva insultd any of my exs for parting ways with me, i only respect and i dnt resent, cuz she did me a favour and i got d closure i needed in order to move on, and that is life![/s]. i guess jst bcuz one havent met his match, doesnt mean one shuld be blaming d available mismatchs on his way to a long search for a true match. if it fits, it blends smoothly lyk white milk in a coffee mix, yes an inseparable milkshakes i guess

She said licking.

Someone changed it to leaking.

My people, who do we believe now?

Peterosky:
All this guys talking trash against the lady are just forming nice guys for Nairaland babes. Let's tell ourselves the truth, cheating is really wrong, but that doesn't extinguish the fact that almost every man cheats.My simple advice, don't dump your man cuz he cheated on you. You can dump him when he cheats to your face without remorse.You will end up dumping all the men on earth including a husband.

The lady did have a point, but she put across in bad way that could girls should just take any shit in the name of relationship or marriage, because there are different levels of cheating.

You have put in the right way. Kudos.

iamJ:
I hope my ex reads this and hates herself more


Impatient fowl

A decent, principled lady kicked your stupid broke ass off her life cos ur a disgusting born cheat and you call her an "impatient fowl"? Such nerve

Can you wear a soiled pant that's being passed around

You are a #%@×%&$@!*&=/%#%^&( no words small enough to quantify you).

And I'm sure you were both an emotional nd financial drain on her. She had to let you go cos you were & still useless to her.

Move on; your ex doesn't give a Bleep about you..

& listen Son!!!! don't quote me cos I've run out of bleeps to give to u.

Stinking piece of

Is she selling boobs?

cococandy:

@toks2008

This is coming from your fellow man. Maybe you can borrow some sense from him instead of using an obviously foolish girl as an example for me.

Lack of common sense

Hmmmm! apparently I can see that you keep getting something wrong.

Lemme shock you...YOU WILL GO ON YOUR KNEELS TO THANK GOD EVERYDAY IF YOU ARE EVER FORTUNATE TO HAVE A MAN LIKE ME.

You seem to get carried away by the deceit or make believe comments many guys post online...wolves in sheep's clothing posing to be decent men online but are worse than demons in real life...Kontinue

The toks online is a down to earth, non hypocritical,unbiased realist who presents issues realistically and not from the way i believe things should be. .

All my life I have only really being with one lady who I loved faithfully until we parted and till date she still respects me and she came running back after she realized her mistakes but it was rather too complicated for me to reconcile. For me,I don't even know how to double date let alone cheat on my lady and that is why I will never settle for a lady that is not my taste cos if I do, I will most likely cheat on her.

But of what good will it be if I come online to start preaching about moral chastity when I know for a fact that the world has gone crazy and all the sermons forced down the throat of randy guys have had no effect.

So rather than continue to lead ladies on preaching the idea of sexual faithfulness, I believe it makes more sense to prepare them for a possible negative outcome so that they won't be caught off guard.

You ladies have called me names here and even nairaland guys who are hopeless philanderers will also come online to act saintly but day by day,threads such as this makes the front page vindicating my non hypocritical stand view.

If you like continue to curse and rant..your headache..one fact you can never run away from isthat a randy guy will be a randy guy and any lady who is not prepared for "THE POSSSIBILITY(not certainty)" of sharing her husband with another lady should not bother getting married.

One man one woman is a facade,a chase after the wind. As a lady,if you are fortunate to see a faithful guy,kudos but if not,carry your cross because as the OP said,leaving a guy that cheats on you is the dumbest thing any lady can do but if the guy rubs it on your face,take a walk cos such a guy does not respect you hence not worthy of you...

Magnifik18:


A decent, principled lady kicked your stupid broke ass off her life cos ur a disgusting born cheat and you call her an "impatient fowl"? Such nerve

Can you wear a soiled pant that's being passed around

You are a #%@×%&$@!*&=/%#%^&( no words small enough to quantify you).

And I'm sure you were both an emotional nd financial drain on her. She had to let you go cos you were & still useless to her.

Move on; your ex doesn't give a Bleep about you..

& listen Son!!!! don't quote me cos I've run out of bleeps to give to u.

Stinking piece of

Cheating is bad and I don't encourage it but then do you really think it is easy getting a faithful man out there?

Oh yes it just might be easy to see a smarter guy who is so skillfull in perfectly his philandering acts so well that you can never catch him....

Oh please don't get the wrong message,most guys will claim they are faithful but just a little tilt in the emotional balance,you will find these same guys in the arms of another lady and they just put the blame on the lady.

And ironically, 8 out of every 10 ladies who leave their husbands or boyfriends because he cheated(not with impunity) usually ends up being used as intimate y gadget by Bleep boys or worse still starts sleeping with another woman's husband and at the end,they are forced to accept the bitter truth that men will forever be men but at that point,the other woman who knew her man was with her but still had the affair with him just to displace her,would have become the madam of the house and she will be left in regrets.

I don't know how this will sound by I keep telling ladies...NEVER EVER LEAVE YOUR HUSBAND OR THE MAN THAT LOVES YOU because another lady wants you out.

That side chic knows your man is with you and her main mission is to unseat you from your matrimonial home...please to let her.

For the unmarried lady,if that guy truly loves you,he will never cheat on you with impunity and if you ever catch him despite his smartness,understand that leaving him is no guaranty that your next man won't be worse.

What matters is a guy that truly wants you...stop looking for a faithful man upandan. ...use your head.

For the randy guys,if you must please respect that lady and carry your silly acts far away and PLEASE USE PROTECTION TO SAVE YOUR MORTAL LIFE AND THAT OF YOUR WIFE AND UNBORN CHILDREN.

I will stop here.

Toks2008:


What if he decides to marry another lady?

Matthew 19:4-6,9 answers: In reply he said: “Have you not read that the one who created them from the beginning made them male and female and said: ‘For this reason a man will leave his father and his mother and will stick to his wife, and the two will be one flesh’? So that they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore, what God has yoked together, let no man put apart.”
I say to you that whoever divorces his wife, except on the grounds of sexual immorality, and marries another commits adultery.”

Kolababe:
Ese Eriata who is known to be an "i-don't-care" personality has chastised fellow women who complain about men cheating nature and use that as an excuse to walk out of relationship. According to Eriata who became more famous when she was brought in as a fake housemate during the recently concluded Big Brother Naija reality show,believes that it is ok for men to cheat on their women as long as they don't rub it on their spouses face.


http://m.af1234.com/Af1234/details/if-you-dump-a-man-because-he-cheats-your-brain-is-leaking-bbnaijas-ese-eriata

"Leaking", not "licking". Smh.

Immatex:


Matthew 19:4-6,9 answers: In reply he said: “Have you not read that the one who created them from the beginning made them male and female and said: ‘For this reason a man will leave his father and his mother and will stick to his wife, and the two will be one flesh’? So that they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore, what God has yoked together, let no man put apart.”
I say to you that whoever divorces his wife, except on the grounds of sexual immorality, and marries another commits adultery.”

You sure need some theological lecture but that will be another day.

Polygamy is not a sin in anyway and that verse you quoted does not make polygamy a sin.

What's this one saying?!
Licking ko, lacking ni.