Lalas247:

lol don't need their coins Biko

But kolewerk dear ..
Pot gini
We hit the gym ... 90 days of intense cardio, tummy.. weights he won't know wt hit him by the time I'm through

like its easy that way, gym reduces nothing.


I think someones diet has more role to play than food, I got potbelly when I was growing up, I was satisfied foodie, I could eat at odd hours regardless of how many square meal it's.


I got trolled by friends then in school, I became skeptical about time and the kind of food I eat, with a bit of press up and lite gym.


hitting gym daily without good food and time to take them will reduce nothing. most of my friends are potbellied, I enjoy hanging around with them cause they ain't self-centered, that what I admire about few I know.

Simple and short...

WrathOfHadez:
Babe, girls (a good number) seem to be wired to crave what they can't have.

What single guys will see in ladies and scream , they just overlook it and move on since they know that the relationship is symbiosis and does not lead to anywhere.[/quote]

Doesn't this call for concern? wasting your time with someone you have plan for!

chaii guys dey suffer ooooo....na wetin married men don chop finish some people wan go keep for house

God EPP me

Adultery

TheTrueApostle:
Please I need honest response.

All my friends that are married have women running after them, while the single men like us have less women coming to us. So I really want to Know.
And they(my married friends) confirmed this, that girls are more attracted to married men, they believe they take care of women better, please how true is this?

Ladies only..

Op, I just remembered now...amongst the many reasons stated above some of which seem true at least to the best of my knowledge... those ladies say married men demand for sex less than single guys...I heard it from a lady in my neighbourhood, according to her she can be with married men all night and all they do is kissing and touching but you can't try that with a single guy...you get soured down there

Money, Greediness and Laziness.


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cedeki:
It was a pool party with naked girls.

And they were there.

Men who have achieved.

Money, power and fame.

Men in their prime who tell time to hold still since they have refused to age and it grudgingly obeys in detente and in temporaneous.

They dress young, they dance young, they act young.

They are current on all fronts.

Most of them married with children but mentally and emotionally single.

At this party they threw in a high brow residence in an exclusive neighbourhood in Ikoyi there was an abundance of food, drinks, drugs and real youth.

The youth came exclusively from the girls that were in attendance.

Girls in their late teens and early twenties.

Well spoken and extensively travelled.

Daughters of the materially blessed.

All of them students.

All of them naked.

Some were in the swimming pool, some at the bar, some danced under the cabana, others were hobnobing with the swimming trunks clad men at various places in the specially lit pool area that stood under the starry night sky.

And I sat with one of them.

She was caramel smooth, finely contoured, delicately featured and doe like.

She was twenty going on twenty one.

And a sophomore at Babcock university.

To every question I asked, she took a drag from the reefer in her hand, blow out the smoke through her mouth and nostrils, took a sip from her glass of Hennessey and coke on ice before she responded.

Her voice was sweet.

And her smile was rapturous.

"I heard students need permission to leave your school. How could you get out this late and stay overnight?"

"We have our ways."

"We?"

"Yeah all of us."

"From Babcock?"

"Not all. Some from Covenant, Redeemers, Madonna, ABUAD, Pan African and stuff."

"No unilag or UI?"

"They ain't boujee."

"Boujee?"

"Yeah. They are crass. Men like you guys don't want to roll with local cats like those right?"

I looked at her silently as she took a drag from her reef.

The aroma assailed it. It was caustic yet not aggravating.

"What's that?"

"Comorado."

"What's that?"

She laughed.

"It's good stuff. Hits you slowly and then makes you soar like superman."

I looked around and saw the girls doing one thing or another in their nudity.

She was staring at me.

"Is this your first party?"

I nodded.

"No wonder you are asking all these hang questions."

"Why do you do this?"

"I'm young. I need to live life before it becomes too serious and I have to be all grown up."

"But why the drugs?"

"Because."

"Because what?"

"Because this is how we roll. Everyone has their poison. If you are not on reef, you do codeine or cocaine or heroin or speed or AZT or ecstasy or royfenol or fentanyl or meth or oxy or worst case you inhale glue and get your high."

I stared at her as she inhaled and exhaled languidly.

"Why the parties?"

"You get your hit for free here. You have fun. You make good money."

"But for you to attend those schools you must be rich."

"My parents are not me."

"But they give you money."

"They pay the tuition and all. Not like they can give me a million in cash."

"Do you get a million here?"

"Well two or three parties can make me that."

"Aren't you afraid of running into your Dad at places like this?"

"Naaaa... my dad is too square and busy but even if he is not then it is his problem after all he came here for what I came here for so he can't tell me nothing."

I fell silent and watched her inhale and exhale smoke.

"But you know, your folks put you in schools like that to protect you?"

"Too protect me?"

"Yes."

"They are too busy to even bother."

"No they are not."

"Yes they are. They think the school will be both my teachers and my parents."

"I think they are just worried about you getting corrupted."

"I was balling like this under their nose and they didn't even notice. Funny thing is that even the innocent Jane get influenced in school, so what was the use of all the headache of keeping us locked up in all these secondary schools that front as universities."

"They did it out of love and with the belief that those schools are way better than the public ones."

"Well they bleeped up."

"bleeped up?"

"Is this an interview or what?"

"No I am just intrigued."

"And I am Hot."

I fell silent.

She dragged, exhaled, took a drink from her glass, sucked on one of the ice cubes in her mouth and asked in a whisper.

"Are you going to do anything about it?"

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The best time to do core parenting is between ages 0-12. You simply cannot afford to be too busy at this stage. Schools, nannies, extra murals cannot replace core parenting at this point. If you are absent in your child's life at this stage, be sure someone else is shaping your child's worldview .

At 12 a child's curiosities are set. And they spend their teenage years exploring those curiosities and fantasies and experimenting with their identities.

If you attempt core parenting in teenage years, you will meet a brick wall and you might end up with a fractious relationship with your teen.

Your best mode as a parent of a teenager is to "befriend" them. At this stage you can't take anything for granted you will have to earn their trust. Seek to influence them not control at this point. They will resist control but will respond wonderfully to influence: yours or the streets.

Every Nigerian parent needs to read this. So share it and continue sharing it. Its very important.

Quote me anywhere

If this were a book I will buy it , read it, keep it,read it, pass it on, take it back , read it ...again and again...I have a 12 year old girl...we have regular conversations..i deliberately pay attention to her, her homework, her gists and all even when I am overseas. Thanks for sharing..wonderful writing skills too. If you don't write big time already..I think you should consider starting to print , package and put some in people's book shelfs or e-library and make some cash along the line.

Baba I still dey... Just on the low key things...

Maxi112:
so you still they active for here?

nextstep:
Pre-selection. I'm going to get scientific here.

Pre-selection is a theory that states that females are attracted to males who other females are already attracted to. You see it in birds, lions, humans.

The evolutionary advantage is that: men can fake success, but the presence of other women in a man's life means the chances of the success being real, is, well, more real. Success means the man has access to material wealth and social capital, which increase her chances of survival (particularly if she was to get pregnant; also ensures her ability to pass on those same strong genes into her offspring). She's got nothing to gain by being with a man other women don't want (which strongly correlates with being poor, unhealthy, unfit).

This is why only the strongest, fittest, healthiest males in the animal kingdom get all the girls, and the others are left to steal p*ssy here and there.

Even in this modern society, certain boxes get checked in a woman's subconscious mind when she sees married men with children. He has enough to take care of his loved ones, and some of that can extend to her. It's not her fault, you see, but her genes.

It's also quite practical... how many struggling men can give her what she needs? The only advantage of a young man today is he has energy and free time. Otherwise he is not as mature, wise, calm, gentle, experienced, resourceful, wealthy, or well connected as the older man he will become. As time goes on, the young man will transition into an older man, and acquire these traits through hard work, intelligence, and persistence.

As an aside, an older, poor unmarried man probably has less drive, ambition, or even luck, and would thus be much less attractive.

there's some sense here

tayo60:
Married men do and handle things more maturely than single men and spend more on ladies. What single guys will see in ladies and scream , they just overlook it and move on since they know that the relationship is symbiosis and does not lead to anywhere.

So.... If I understand you correctly... What you're saying is. .. such females won't have a problem with single guys who swallow their bullshit so long as they (guys) are bleeping them(girls)....with no intention of commitment??

That what you're saying??

Angelcute:
hahahahahaha and a you think you are responsible? i laugh in chinese....behave matured....op asked a question and i shared my opinion....didn't you see others why me?

Angelcute you clearly spoke like someone that has dated a married man that was why he single you out and responded.Are you clear !!!

ahamonyeka:
why will she monitor her don't he want her to marry again?that one na greedy man be that.

greedy or not the lady na im own as per na im dey spend d money.there was one i witnessed with my two eyes some years back.the oldman come with a team of mopol police eject the girl comot frm the flat wey he rent for her.na so d oldman come dey provoke dey warn the babe dat if he ever see the girl near the property he go cut off her two legs.na so the girl kneel down dey beg but her sugar daddy lover no hear oo.na the mopol just push the girl comot for d property..dem no even let her carry her clothes.na d small bumshort wey she wear plus red top na im she carry.na so we just stand dey look film dat day

It is because the lack focus and the go for someone else man. They all need our sincere prayers.

lefulefu:
haha u totally not correct.there are single men who are very well off and there are married men who are broke.the reason some single ladies in Nigeria prefer married men is because married men are very generous.a married man even if he's not that rich but he womanises he will spend a lot to keep his mistress or mistresses.some even borrow money from money lenders to take care of their mistresses .a single male even if he's rich hardly waste his money on random women .when he spends he knows what he's spending it on.married men who womanise are heavy spenders.this is what attracts single ladies to them.

Gbagam!!!

i sincerely find matured and married women more attractive.

I don't do find them attractive. I've always wondered how it would feel like to know my husband has found girls outside our marriage that he take care of. So I don't get close to them that I won't see it has pay back if my future husband does the same. So that if I want to ask God for help that time, he will ask boldly because I never did it to someone's husband.

lefulefu:
so dont u feel jealous when ur married lover uploads his pic of both him and his wife with cute kids on Facebook and talks about how he loves his family and all while he only visits u in secret?

makydebbie:
Let Tonto Dike lecture you.

Tonto dike is just a pretender. Empty drama queen, who sees being called born again is yet another drama opportunity

See question


MONEY

Funkybabee:



Bible said any sinner cannot go without purnishment



Na real fact no be moinmoin......if you are doing it, stop it now now because as you are doing it as your cup dey full i swear

Do I look like a woman to you?

If a woman is in Christ Jesus she is a new creature. Old things are passed away.... .

makydebbie:
I didn't look at anybody's own so no one should look at mine. BTW I no understand Yoruba.

Lol
Are you married?

Beware ! marine spiritts (Ogbanjees) are most interested in ruining homes of foolish married men.

ststyreal:

that's one of the backdrops single ladies who date married men experience.the married man can never flaunt her as his woman. He only goes in secret to have sex with her.i would not wish my sister to tie herself to a married man for life o.omo d dimerits far outweighs the merits.what's Iphone and a car compared to ur future.

Maniche44:
i sincerely find matured and married women more attractive.

Abuja gigolo sighted

I enjoy dating married lady it's real fun..
I just had one last nite it was cool.. Different styles she does not do at home, and she gives it to me well any how I want it.
She comes anytime I need her and went I don't call for her she calls me at times on her way back from church she passes through my side for 1quick round on her way home.. Her boob's are so lovely to suck.....

nairanaira12:


Do I look like a woman to you?

If a woman is in Christ Jesus she is a new creature. Old things are passed away.... .

Yes everything might have pass away but bible says there is time for everything mean she will reap what she sow stop supporting bitch again


No quote ps

Funkybabee:


Yes everything might have pass away but bible says there is time for everything mean she will reap what she sow stop supporting bitch again


No quote ps

I'm not supporting her; I'm just facing hard realities. God's mercy is inestimable

lefulefu:
so dont u feel jealous when ur married lover uploads his pic of both him and his wife with cute kids on Facebook and talks about how he loves his family and all while he only visits u in secret?

I can't remember telling u I was dating a married man,Mrman and whatever he does should be left to whoever is involved to decide how to handle it...more so matured men don't spread their family on social media like Facebook..

Karishika Ladies

Maxi112:
Some girls find men with potbelly attractive.

Why?

Ifakiland:
If ure single and girls ain't flocking around u....u need prayers, whether broke or not, handsome or not...u need prayers

Okorobo fall on you o o..... I can see you are using our name almost solely in the romance section!

vingeophysicist:
Angelcute you clearly spoke like someone that has dated a married man that was why he single you out and responded.Are you clear !!!

lol.....okay am clear