Davindal:
Ok, noted. As an officer Cadet, I even tried. If it were to be my coursemates, she for don murd by now, because, you don't Bleep with soldiers.

No wonder that Air force officer shot his babe that cheated against her. I think it z time the FG should start arraigning force men for indiscriminate use of firearms.

Davindal:
Please guys, trust no girl wholeheartedly oo. Trust any girl at your own peril, if you fail to heed my warning.

A girl I have been keeping for almost 2 years - with the hope of marrying her once I pass out from here in NDA - just disappointed me, thereby shattering me to pieces. Right now, am in pains.

I was given 3 days pass to enable me attend an important event at home. Before the permission, my supposed babe have been disturbing on how badly she needed to be sexed, and how distance has been a barrier to that effect. I kept telling her to hold her chill, that am gonna be back soon. Although I had heard annoying stuffs about my babe - now an Ex, on how she was frolicking with different guys in my absence, but I was not deterred; simply because, I didn't believe in hearsays.

Yesterday, she called and sent me sweet text messages as she normally do. I asked her to come over to my house around 4PM which she reluctantly obliged. But the way she sounded over the phone made it clear that she never wished to see me any time soon, maybe due to her schedules with other stuffs.

However, I pondered how my babe who has been disturbing and informing me on how 'conjirized' she is suddenly feel not too excited coming to see me dispite being aware that I came home on Tuesday(17th) night.

Time ticked to 4pm yesterday, I didn't see her. I exercised patience till 5pm before I gave her call, but she didn't pick. I called for the second time but no picking again. I decided to hold dowm my anger and not to call her again for the day. Around 15mins to 6pm, she called back saying that her phone was on silent. I ask why, and she told me she would explain when she reached my home that she was running short of airtime.

Finally, she came and apologized after explanation of what led to her phone being on silent. I asked her never to worry that am not holding anything against her, that she should be free.

However, situation changed the moment I tried making love with her as she undressed. Down her private part, I perceived the 'SCENT of CONDOM', and that was it. I enquired why she smells of condom there, but she couldn't give me coherent and articulate answer.

Being furious, I slapped and pushed her out of my compound.

Today in the afternoon, I sent her final warning to stay clear from me or I will shoot her skull to pieces.

Finally, guys be weary of whom you date. Most ladies out there are evil.

Davindal my dear, let me talk to you and advice you like a brother.

You see, what chartere/drstroy relationship fast is misconception, assumption and sharing your relationship with social medialists!
She may have had s*x with some1 else before coming to your place but you should've still mentain your calmness and hear her out. This is not something you should take such drastic decision you took.
Let me tell you just two categories of human being on earth.

Category 1: There are some who are created highly sexually active. These type that belong to this category can't stay a week without doing it, the is aplicable to the married and if nothing is being done, this can lead them to extra marital affair(s). Its same with some singles who're in a relationship. This means, they will like to be around any partner that can satisfy them often.

Category 2: There are some who can stay for months, years without having it and nothing go wrong with them. This type are not sexually active! They don't usually feel the urge. They may be highly romantic, caring but when it comes to doing it is a no for them. They don't care whether they have it or not, they still live their normal life.

Davindal my dear, these two categories needs any partner that can understand, accommodate and accept them just the way they are.
But in your case, I will say this lady belong to category 1. She has a very high sexual urge and all she need is having it just as the need arrives. So now my dear, if you know you can't be giving it to her every time she's in need of it, then I'll advice you end the relationship in peace, not in voilence or by beating het up. No one knows tomorrow.
But to be honest with you, I will suggest you invite her over again, talk to her, let her know your annoyance, apologize and then listen to her own part.

Good luck darling!!

koife:
I refuse to find your write up offensive. Let me rather educate you on standard military civilian relationships. Do you know that at war or civil unrest that it is a standard military mode of engagement to shield and protect women( with exception to those in enemies armed forces), which the said cadet has been trained. Just few months ago a soldier shot a fellow soldier dead because of uncontrolled emotions and was court martialled. My little friend, the Said cadet also threaten to blow his girlfriends skull which he is not yet married open, which in any case even if he was married to her he would still face sanctions. I don't want to believe it's your likes that encourage men continue perpetuating domestic violence. He has no right to have assaulted her let alone threaten to gun her down!
Please try and learn!

Godforbid I encourage domestic violence..No I don't I'm not justifying the op for hitting her but I'm a realist and I know how painful it can be to be cheated on..we all know that her v wouldn't have the smell of a condom if she wasn't guilty so I can understand his pain but he could have handled it better. But you also could have spoken to him in a better more mature way that everyone will read and respect and admire you rather than belittling him in the eyes of everyone cos you are his superior,it just makes u look like a bully..some times we should put ourselves in people's shoes when we do things..I'm sorry tho I didn't intend to sound rude or offensive.

MhizzAJ:


Okay

I guess you dont see sacarsm right there

Its juss funny you dont know condom scent
You proly never touched one


Last time i saw that kinda girl
I was in high school

izaray:
Seconded, he should have tried penetrating first, before concluding issues.

See this one... penetrate when he was already turned off by what he has perceived and has resulted to anger?

This is not an Experiment .... It is a Discovery

Coloradvantage:
some of these yeye fellows... Mr rule followers anger controllers! pack well!

kids everywhere.

@Davindal call her and apologise for slapping her, please. It might probably not what you think.

I am not saying u should go back to her but the question remains 'how sure are you that those ladies outside there are better off'?

Face the reality and move on

luminouz:

Jail Hahahahhaha.....
Ehya......do u have d balls to tell him this? Fave to face? Eh?? Chukwudi....

It shows how fearful you are it is illiterate that fear men in uniform which you belong, what if the girl father is a senior man in the military. mr cadet what you did was very bad for your girlfriend not wife be very careful the way you handle women please for God sake.

Welcome to the club nigga. A dog is either a bitch or a son of a bitch

UfuomaUN:


There is an urgent overwhelming need to overhaul our entire military and police institution. Can you imagine what this one who isn't yet an officer is saying

If dem see malnourished boko boys now,dem go do tactical maneuver,run enter Cameroon.

Ehya!
But why the slap? Just end it.
A typical #NeverAgainBro confession trending on Twitter.

DeadRat:
Please What Does Condom smell Like

Indeed you are a deadrat for this kind of question?,
U no get 100naira to buy condom smell am?.... Mtcheeww

Mightyraw:

I guess you dont see sacarsm right there

Its juss funny you know condom scent
You proly never touched one


Last time i saw that kinda girl
I was in high school

Oh I get it now

I have once pulled out a broken condom pieces while fingering from one of my girl friend and you know what? she was speechless as ghost knowing fully well she has just lost me. I actually missed her sex, she is dame good but not a wife. NGOZI BABE not loyal at all.

I have no problem with my woman cheating. I don't own her till I marry her.
If I catch you, just return every single thing of mine in your possession and fucck off.
Failure to do that will generate a negative response from me that could be physical.
I rather break up with no ill feelings, than have my woman cheat on me. I could get really vengeful.

My brother i feel your pain too. Because anybody or any guy that calls himself a TRUE PLAYER & haven't been bleeped up by a host of babes before doesn't deserve that degree. Wel, i only wanted to point out to you that ladies aren't EVIL, as you postulated. They're simply complying with the demands of their desires. And this is obviously a product of what some men hve put them into. Guy, dont strangle me for saying this plain truth.

1) We guys beat our chest & even sex talk about how many girls we r frolicking with to our Gees. We don't feel any qualms about it when we are hailed as Macho men, u know.

2) When our musicians sing about girls leaving their guys to go after these musicians, u think it will not give them sweet Ideas about TASTING OTHER BANANAS that should fall on them?!

3) When we see a very pretty, sexy & all that lady, we go asking for her number. Please arw u assuming she may not have a current guy? But u still insist to collect her number to get to know WHAT about her? Ofcourse, our simple intention is to have our own taste of her sweet puna. And this leads to our pressuring her, treating her like a Queen, something we dont do anymore to our current bae. So, we deceive them to thinking their own current guy too isn't LOVING, & unfortunately they give in.

4) Finally, do you think WOMEN DONT HAVE SEXUAL FANTASIES LIKE MEN?!!!!!!
See, they also want tp taste multiple guys the same time, Orgy, Lesbian experience, different exotic styles wuth a drugged mind, etc.

So, abeg u, just pick her back & turn her to your Bleep mate, not enemy.

FOR WE ARE ALL MORTALS/FLESH WITH SINFUL SIDES.

PEACE BRO

Davindal:
Please guys, trust no girl wholeheartedly oo. Trust any girl at your own peril, if you fail to heed my warning.

A girl I have been keeping for almost 2 years - with the hope of marrying her once I pass out from here in NDA - just disappointed me, thereby shattering me to pieces. Right now, am in pains.

I was given 3 days pass to enable me attend an important event at home. Before the permission, my supposed babe have been disturbing on how badly she needed to be sexed, and how distance has been a barrier to that effect. I kept telling her to hold her chill, that am gonna be back soon. Although I had heard annoying stuffs about my babe - now an Ex, on how she was frolicking with different guys in my absence, but I was not deterred; simply because, I didn't believe in hearsays.

Yesterday, she called and sent me sweet text messages as she normally do. I asked her to come over to my house around 4PM which she reluctantly obliged. But the way she sounded over the phone made it clear that she never wished to see me any time soon, maybe due to her schedules with other stuffs.

However, I pondered how my babe who has been disturbing and informing me on how 'conjirized' she is suddenly feel not too excited coming to see me dispite being aware that I came home on Tuesday(17th) night.

Time ticked to 4pm yesterday, I didn't see her. I exercised patience till 5pm before I gave her call, but she didn't pick. I called for the second time but no picking again. I decided to hold dowm my anger and not to call her again for the day. Around 15mins to 6pm, she called back saying that her phone was on silent. I ask why, and she told me she would explain when she reached my home that she was running short of airtime.

Finally, she came and apologized after explanation of what led to her phone being on silent. I asked her never to worry that am not holding anything against her, that she should be free.

However, situation changed the moment I tried making love with her as she undressed. Down her private part, I perceived the 'SCENT of CONDOM', and that was it. I enquired why she smells of condom there, but she couldn't give me coherent and articulate answer.

Being furious, I slapped and pushed her out of my compound.

Today in the afternoon, I sent her final warning to stay clear from me or I will shoot her skull to pieces.

Finally, guys be weary of whom you date. Most ladies out there are evil.

Davindal:
Limaoscarlima.

charliealphalimamike.

modelmike7:
Silence means consent, she's guilty as charged!

Sure condoms do have this rubber smell all over them, even we that are Virgin knows that!!

The girl sef no get swag. How she go go Bleep without washing her body even though no shower knowing too well say she still get one more master to serve for the day.

MhizzAJ:


Oh I get it now

So , if i may ask again

Are you the same girl from my school

.[/quote]

You really tried by leaving the phone you bought for her. Some guys wont.

Davindal:
Please guys, trust no girl wholeheartedly oo. Trust any girl at your own peril, if you fail to heed my warning.

A girl I have been keeping for almost 2 years - with the hope of marrying her once I pass out from here in NDA - just disappointed me, thereby shattering me to pieces. Right now, am in pains.

I was given 3 days pass to enable me attend an important event at home. Before the permission, my supposed babe have been disturbing on how badly she needed to be sexed, and how distance has been a barrier to that effect. I kept telling her to hold her chill, that am gonna be back soon. Although I had heard annoying stuffs about my babe - now an Ex, on how she was frolicking with different guys in my absence, but I was not deterred; simply because, I didn't believe in hearsays.

Yesterday, she called and sent me sweet text messages as she normally do. I asked her to come over to my house around 4PM which she reluctantly obliged. But the way she sounded over the phone made it clear that she never wished to see me any time soon, maybe due to her schedules with other stuffs.

However, I pondered how my babe who has been disturbing and informing me on how 'conjirized' she is suddenly feel not too excited coming to see me dispite being aware that I came home on Tuesday(17th) night.

Time ticked to 4pm yesterday, I didn't see her. I exercised patience till 5pm before I gave her call, but she didn't pick. I called for the second time but no picking again. I decided to hold dowm my anger and not to call her again for the day. Around 15mins to 6pm, she called back saying that her phone was on silent. I ask why, and she told me she would explain when she reached my home that she was running short of airtime.

Finally, she came and apologized after explanation of what led to her phone being on silent. I asked her never to worry that am not holding anything against her, that she should be free.

However, situation changed the moment I tried making love with her as she undressed. Down her private part, I perceived the 'SCENT of CONDOM', and that was it. I enquired why she smells of condom there, but she couldn't give me coherent and articulate answer.

Being furious, I slapped and pushed her out of my compound.

Today in the afternoon, I sent her final warning to stay clear from me or I will shoot her skull to pieces.

Finally, guys be weary of whom you date. Most ladies out there are evil.

lets say the reverse was the case..u wont come here amd say this..i very much know she will give u listening hears and forgive u even if she does not want to continue with the relationship..u slapped her and threaten to burst her brain..what right do u have to hit a woman..u should hear her out and end it if u want to.

modelmike7:
Silence means consent, she's guilty as charged!

Sure condoms do have this rubber smell all over them, even we that are Virgin knows that!!

Just look at US!

Davindal:



Being furious, I slapped and pushed her out of my compound.

Today in the afternoon, I sent her final warning to stay clear from me or I will shoot her skull to pieces.

Finally, guys be weary of whom you date. Most ladies out there are evil.

You are a coward for slapping her. You have no right to slap her even if she was your wife. How barbaric.

FreeSpirited:
what was her explanation

he didnt give her chance to explain

Davindal:
She couldn't alter a coherent speech. She could not say something meaningful enough. I just got infuriated and slapped her mercilessly, and bundled her out of my compound.

Hehehe, bros e be like say na medical line u dey for that NDA. I de imagine how soldier slap go be. Anyway, mayb she pass near chemist, condom come fall on her.

Davindal:
Shut you gutter, man.

with this your mindset,U go fit die quick ooo.
Remember say no be only soldier sabi shoot gun.
In d early 2000s,among my classmates in med school who were deep in cultism,some don shoot shoot so tey d whole world sabi say dem no de miss from 30-50 metres even with pistol,and I'm talking about medical students oo.
Most guys will endure if U cripple them,but touch their sister dem go declare jihad for U.
My cousins wey dey stubborn de beat army, sars, etc everyday.If dem gauge U well U no carry gun,dem go beat U well escape from d scene b4 ur colleagues go come to ur rescue.
Even if u have paid her bride price,U still don't have any right to beat someone's sister/daughter.

mehn can't stop laughing.. probably she even suck the guy d1ck before coming to see you..There was no point beating her lol because you kissed that lips before you went down there..

FreeSpirited:
Smelling a condom is not a confirmatory proof. Your sense of smell could have misled u. You were too hasty to jump into conclusion

Na this your free spirit go make your wife carry another man's pregnancy come for you.... kontinueee u hia

itsmeurLady:


Wow my dear, e be like say u dey like make men slap women oo, Cs I don't understand u and to think that u are a female... Everyone is bashing the OP and u are here saying someone is trying to bully the OP. He is not bullying him , he is commanding him, der is a difference. If anybody was bullied here, it was the OP's girlfriend which makes the OP a bully, a woman beater and a proud person Cs he's not even ashamed to say it. So whose side are u on The OP's side, girl u need to have a rethink. I don't care if this guy loses his job to teach other persons in The NDA never to abuse power and trample on ppl's right just because u are opportuned to be in Power. Lastly, I'm attracted to what he did, if every Nigerian acts civil like him, the world will be a better place. The OP is trying to Promote rubbish on the account of NDA and koife is trying to protect it, I'm amazed that u are not seeing it that way. Anywayz everyone is entitled to their opinion, one man's meat I guess is another man's poison

LOL I'm not in support of violence at all Godforbid and don't get me wrong I'm not on the ops side neither am I against him,I don't agree to him hitting her for 1 second that's not it,but I can understand the pain when u give ur all but get hurt in return,just some days ago a girl killed her guy cos of mere call he received but the thread didn't have this much traffic because it was a woman who did the crime,but here everyone is stunning the op when he has real evidence that she cheated on him,again let me emphasise he is not justified hitting her but my point is koife could have made his point without sounding intimidating..if it were two men would he have given that order?yes soldiers protect women first that is understood but he could have simply said cadet please take down this thread so you don't get in trouble I know you and this is wrong,, don't want to come back and find this thread 2moro..or he could send a pm to and everyone will respect him..even you would respect him more..that's my point

Mightyraw:

So , if i may ask again

Are you the same girl from my school

yes

Faithscharms2:


Godforbid I encourage domestic violence..No I don't I'm not justifying the op for hitting her but I'm a realist and I know how painful it can be to be cheated on..we all know that her v wouldn't have the smell of a condom if she wasn't guilty so I can understand his pain but he could have handled it better. But you also could have spoken to him in a better more mature way that everyone will read and respect and admire you rather than belittling him in the eyes of everyone cos you are his superior,it just makes u look like a bully..some times we should put ourselves in people's shoes when we do things..I'm sorry tho I didn't intend to sound rude or offensive.

I brought it to the open and Infact with an order to serve as deterrent to other lose end cadet officers or officers who would consider threading that path. In military you nip the bud, and it must be done early!
I still recommend you learn the diff bw bullying and a call to order. I'm going to make sure I reach authorities in NDA right now to make sure his identity is ascertained. What he did is a smack to NDA and his profession

Davindal:
Please guys, trust no girl wholeheartedly oo. Trust any girl at your own peril, if you fail to heed my warning.

A girl I have been keeping for almost 2 years - with the hope of marrying her once I pass out from here in NDA - just disappointed me, thereby shattering me to pieces. Right now, am in pains.

I was given 3 days pass to enable me attend an important event at home. Before the permission, my supposed babe have been disturbing on how badly she needed to be sexed, and how distance has been a barrier to that effect. I kept telling her to hold her chill, that am gonna be back soon. Although I had heard annoying stuffs about my babe - now an Ex, on how she was frolicking with different guys in my absence, but I was not deterred; simply because, I didn't believe in hearsays.

Yesterday, she called and sent me sweet text messages as she normally do. I asked her to come over to my house around 4PM which she reluctantly obliged. But the way she sounded over the phone made it clear that she never wished to see me any time soon, maybe due to her schedules with other stuffs.

However, I pondered how my babe who has been disturbing and informing me on how 'conjirized' she is suddenly feel not too excited coming to see me dispite being aware that I came home on Tuesday(17th) night.

Time ticked to 4pm yesterday, I didn't see her. I exercised patience till 5pm before I gave her call, but she didn't pick. I called for the second time but no picking again. I decided to hold dowm my anger and not to call her again for the day. Around 15mins to 6pm, she called back saying that her phone was on silent. I ask why, and she told me she would explain when she reached my home that she was running short of airtime.

Finally, she came and apologized after explanation of what led to her phone being on silent. I asked her never to worry that am not holding anything against her, that she should be free.

However, situation changed the moment I tried making love with her as she undressed. Down her private part, I perceived the 'SCENT of CONDOM', and that was it. I enquired why she smells of condom there, but she couldn't give me coherent and articulate answer.

Being furious, I slapped and pushed her out of my compound.

Today in the afternoon, I sent her final warning to stay clear from me or I will shoot her skull to pieces.

Finally, guys be weary of whom you date. Most ladies out there are evil.

Your problem is quite simple, you have not acted as an intelligent officer, ur action and perception is based on suspicion, at first it was wrong u slapped her due to smell, if I do that to your sister how would u feel. U r not legally married to her, you r sexing her, a crime punishable by law, u r the first offender, stones is to thrown at you. U have acted foolishly. U use condom a lot that's why r used to the smell. Op no just get sense, using your power to molest, ordinary civilian, u sent her away because u feel u r hotter now and she is no more your type. Stupid flirting OP.