Lalas247:
All women who do not cheat do

I I think u deserve me

Toks2008:



Ladies have used this line to defend their sexual recklessness and i am so done trying to make them reason otherwise so to your question..NO a man is not expected to fck about as you put it due to many other factors but compared to the woman, A MAN CAN SLEEP WITH AS MANY LADIES AS POSSIBLE AND WILL NEVER BE SEEN AS INSANE WHILE A LADY CAN NOT DO SAME WITHOUT BE LABELED A LovePeddler.

Indeed it is a cruel world of men we live in and any lady who still argues with this fact is myopic,foolish and unrealistic..My opinion.

Its very easy to judge women when you are a guy and not look into what guys do, some guys will even tell you they prefer sexually experienced women, its not as if some women dont want to keep themselves, some guys make it difficult for them to do so,for example a girl keeping herself for marriage can be in a relationship and the guy will say ,since we are getting married lets have sex,they have sex and he dumps her like a waste bin and dats how her sexual conquest starts, or do you even want to talk about the amount of women getting raped.Being faithful to your partner is a personal discipline,and some people are lucky to have such partners, but karma doesnt work the way you stated it, when it comes to relationships there is no calculation.ANYTHING CAN HAPPEN. MY OPINION

2funkyy:

Its very easy to judge women when you are a guy and not look into what guys do, some guys will even tell you they prefer sexually experienced women, its not as if some women dont want to keep themselves, some guys make it difficult for them to do so,for example a girl keeping herself for marriage can be in a relationship and the guy will say ,since we are getting married lets have sex,they have sex and he dumps her like a waste bin and dats how her sexual conquest starts, or do you even want to talk about the amount of women getting raped.Being faithful to your partner is a personal discipline,and some people are lucky to have such partners, but karma doesnt work the way you stated it, when it comes to relationships there is no calculation.ANYTHING CAN HAPPEN. MY OPINION

You spoke well

2funkyy:

Its very easy to judge women when you are a guy and not look into what guys do, some guys will even tell you they prefer sexually experienced women, its not as if some women dont want to keep themselves, some guys make it difficult for them to do so,for example a girl keeping herself for marriage can be in a relationship and the guy will say ,since we are getting married lets have sex,they have sex and he dumps her like a waste bin and dats how her sexual conquest starts, or do you even want to talk about the amount of women getting raped.Being faithful to your partner is a personal discipline,and some people are lucky to have such partners, but karma doesnt work the way you stated it, when it comes to relationships there is no calculation.ANYTHING CAN HAPPEN. MY OPINION

You spoke well ma

Every woman deserve a faithful man, the same way every man deserve a faithful woman.......

Lets stop these mentality of all men are cheat and keep training our children with these crap........

There are wonderful and virtuous women whom the husbands are still chronic cheat because they have been trained with the mentality that are men are cheat.

Married Men don't even control themselves these dayz gush and to even think they don't even last for long on bed with their old blood........

Tajbol4splend:




It's applicable to some women too

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Hmmm, I've Noticed Something On Nairaland, A Huge Diversity Of Thoughts And A Plethora Of Thinking Patterns...Some Think The Op Is Sexist. The Op Is Quite Right, Albeit, There Is No Universal One-way Answer To This. Yes, Talking About Comparism In Sexual Prowess, Manliness And Etc Of Her Current Husband With Exes May Hamper Her Love Life And Sexual Satisfaction(this May Cause Her To Satisfy Her Urges Outside) And Cause Devastating Ruin In Marriage, I Believe However The Above Description Potrays A Woman Who's Not Done With Her Previous Life...Im My Own Opinion, The Op Should Av Put It This Way, A Woman Who's Had Numerous Sexual Partners In The Past And Seeking Retribution Must Be Willing To Face The Ramifications Her Past May Bring In Marriage And Settle For That Nilly-willy...She Must Understand That Her Man May not Measure Up To Her Vast Past Partners And Must Be Willing To Live With Such... However Most Women Jump The Boat Not Willing To Be 'dissatisfied' In Marriage, So Much To Say, So Little Time.

mhizsuzzy:
Every woman deserve a faithful man, the same way every man deserve a faithful woman.......

Lets stop these mentality of all men are cheat and keep training our children with these crap........

There are wonderful and virtuous women whom the husbands are still chronic cheat because they have been trained with the mentality that are men are cheat.

Married Men don't even control themselves these dayz gush and to even think they don't even last for long on bed with their old blood........

Excellent delivery

deanmartins:
I I think u deserve me

Why

Windflower:

That's the irony of life,I have noticed that runs girl gets the best husband. I have two aunties,the one who is a runs girl is happily married and the other who was very submissive to her husband is now divorced and left bankrupt by the husband

Maybe the man doesn't want a submissive wife . The runs babe may have unravelled her husbands craziest sexual kinks and capitalized on them to hold the man spellbound while the "good" wife is boring her own man with too much submissiveness.

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tosyne2much:
Unfortunately, only a handful of ladies deserve faithful men like us

I always say it...any lady that sees nothing wrong in sleeping wit married men...does not deserve a faithful husband....
it is the fact ... one who make another fellow woman cry should also prepare for her own tears...

octopusfreaky:
@Toks2008. Life is all about second chances, God in His infinite mercies is indeed merciful , He winks at our ignorance and forgets about it totally. You cannot judge someone by his or her past. Are you God How will you say an unfaithful woman deserves an unfaithful man. An unfaithful woman who decides to turn a new leaf deserves a wonderful man. Yes she deserves it a million times.
In the bible the adulterous woman was only asked to sin no more and desist from such acts. Jesus did not condemn her.
If you check out campuses now, sexual immorality is the order of the day and most of these teenagers are ignorant and lost and so the devil uses it as an advantage.
Many girls go into a relationship for many funny reasons( love( due to negligence of their parents), peer pressure, material things, food,inferiority complex and lastly ignorance.
At the end the guys who are not self-disciplined would want to take advantage of them and demonstrate their sexual prowess.
Stop the bashing, men and women should learn to be self-contained.
Happy weekend dearie.

Amazingly all you wrote is totally different from my thread.

That a woman has slept with 2 or 3 guys before marriage is considerably ok but what explanation can you give for a lady that has slept with far more?

See let's say it as it is..except in cases of rape,no man puts a gun on the head of any lady to open her legs...you can't just start sleeping around just to latter claim ignorance..let's be real here.

2funkyy:

Its very easy to judge women when you are a guy and not look into what guys do, some guys will even tell you they prefer sexually experienced women, its not as if some women dont want to keep themselves, some guys make it difficult for them to do so,for example a girl keeping herself for marriage can be in a relationship and the guy will say ,since we are getting married lets have sex,they have sex and he dumps her like a waste bin and dats how her sexual conquest starts, or do you even want to talk about the amount of women getting raped.Being faithful to your partner is a personal discipline,and some people are lucky to have such partners, but karma doesnt work the way you stated it, when it comes to relationships there is no calculation.ANYTHING CAN HAPPEN. MY OPINION

Rape apart,will your boyfriend kill you if you say no to premarital sex? what's all these flimsy points you are raising.

Toks2008:


Rape apart,will your boyfriend kill you if you say no to premarital sex? what's all these flimsy points you are raising.

Legit question @ Rape apart,will your boyfriend kill you if you say no to premarital sex?

Jman06:
Maybe the man doesn't want a submissive wife . The runs babe may have unravelled her husbands craziest sexual kinks and capitalized on them to hold the man spellbound while the "good" wife is boring herf own man with too much submissiveness.

If he doesn't want a submissive wife,then what exactly do men want. Even if sexual compatibility is the issue here,the man is the problem here,he saw my aunt as an ATM machine,refused to work after they got married.He was even the one handling her atm, my aunt would only receive alert on her phone despite this he brought his girlfriend into the home and introduced her as his sister,he stocked up her shop with my aunts hard earned money.Even at the point of divorce,he carted away all the valuables from TV to gen,he wasn't even the one that owns the property. He left my aunt with a loan she collected for him from her place of work. The truth is life is just unfair to her. Its the reality,runs girl are very lucky when its comes to settling down.

Most prostitutes end up getting the best husbands

Na ashawo when I carry from the place for lekki phrase 1 nai I dey date like this oh. But the kpekuus na express sha and she is a single mother. She dey materialistic too.

i dont knw where to start my talk... let me dakee!!some girls hen... they don deserve a faith ful husband atalll... smell pussy... bitches..

Toks2008:
This thread is not about women bashing but the need to let our ladies know that they can not afford to live a sexually reckless life and expect the man in their life to respect them when they eventual settle down in marriage cos men juxtapose respect for a woman with her sexual decency and expecting faithfulness from a man goes beyond the fact that the lady in question is faithful but it has a lot to do with her past sexual life style...little wonder why it is extremely difficult for man to divorce a virgin bride or a woman who has a very decent sexual past.

I find it amusing that there are ladies who have lived their lives in total sexual recklessness but when they eventually decide to hang their boots,they will also be looking for a man that will be 100% faithful to them.

I know many people will be quick to compare sexual chastity of a man and woman and expect equal measure but this is very unrealistic and a school of thought only for the ignorant.

My point is that a lady who has slept with John,chidi,James,Richard,Muhammed,Okon,Johnson,Davido,Wizkid, ..... should never be in the league of ladies clamoring for faithful men because in most cases,their past usually haunts their present and this might make the man in their life feel insecure and eventually stray even when he never wished to philander. Their past will also prevent them from accepting the man as he is as they cant help but compare the size of his manliness,his sexual prowess,his persona,his... with other men they have been with thereby creating some resentment towards the innocent man.

Ladies must understand that today is tomorrow's past and should prevent any ugly past by maintaining proper decorum today.You can't just sleep around recklessly today just to wake up tomorrow and say "everybody has a past"Ladies should be determined to live a sexually decent lifestyle so that the man who eventually marries them will be proud of them and they will be at a vantage position to demand for faithfulness from the man cos most men place little or no marital value on a woman with numerous body count.

In my opinion,i believe every faithful woman regardless of her past deserves faithfulness from her man but only a lady with a decent sexual lifestyle truly deserves and should demand 100% faithfulness from her man but that remains my opinion.

So Nairalanders what do you think?

Windflower:

If he doesn't want a submissive wife,then what exactly do men want. Even if sexual compatibility is the issue here,the man is the problem here,he saw my aunt as an ATM machine,refused to work after they got married.He was even the one handling her atm, my aunt would only receive alert on her phone despite this he brought his girlfriend into the home and introduced her as his sister,he stocked up her shop with my aunts hard earned money.Even at the point of divorce,he carted away all the valuables from TV to gen,he wasn't even the one that owns the property. He left my aunt with a loan she collected for him from her place of work. The truth is life is just unfair to her. Its the reality,runs girl are very lucky when its comes to settling down.

If I may ask, did the man actually come for your aunt or your aunt was the one who threw herself to him in the name of love? Because the man is exhibiting the attitude of a man who was begged or cajoled into marrying a woman he never had interest in. If you dig deep you would discover that the man might not have an iota of love for your aunt.

They marriage doesn't last !

If you know you know.

Toks.. you're very much right. But ladies will always feign ignorant of this. On average, a man's respect for the wife has "something" to do with her past sexual encounters. There are things I do for my wife or even endure if I remember she lived a very "decent" life before we got married.

Humility017:

I always say it...any lady that sees nothing wrong in sleeping wit married men...does not deserve a faithful husband....
it is the fact ... one who make another fellow woman cry should also prepare for her own tears...

That's very right bro

Angy55:

Smiles

I can't even see your teeth

Angy55:

Smiles

I can't even see your teeth

Woman wrapper toks! I have never seen anyone so consumed by women and their issues like Oga toks! ���

some gals r like ur dick is small... they too have wide pussy... bcus d virgins doesn't no d differences btw big and small penis...

Another crap thread!

He has come with his illogical threads again. According to OP, men are free to sleep with many ladies and still expect a faithful wife. Yet women cannot do same, even when the men who have slept recklessly didn't sleep with men but women.

What about women who were virgins before marriage, yet the husband goes about cheating? Does the woman deserve a cheat? What will OP suggest as the solution? I'm sure he'll advise her to pray for the husband. Even when prayer has never stopped a cheating husband!

Toks2008:
This thread is not about women bashing but the need to let our ladies know that they can not afford to live a sexually reckless life and expect the man in their life to respect them when they eventual settle down in marriage cos men juxtapose respect for a woman with her sexual decency and expecting faithfulness from a man goes beyond the fact that the lady in question is faithful but it has a lot to do with her past sexual life style...little wonder why it is extremely difficult for man to divorce a virgin bride or a woman who has a very decent sexual past.

I find it amusing that there are ladies who have lived their lives in total sexual recklessness but when they eventually decide to hang their boots,they will also be looking for a man that will be 100% faithful to them.

I know many people will be quick to compare sexual chastity of a man and woman and expect equal measure but this is very unrealistic and a school of thought only for the ignorant.

My point is that a lady who has slept with John,chidi,James,Richard,Muhammed,Okon,Johnson,Davido,Wizkid, ..... should never be in the league of ladies clamoring for faithful men because in most cases,their past usually haunts their present and this might make the man in their life feel insecure and eventually stray even when he never wished to philander. Their past will also prevent them from accepting the man as he is as they cant help but compare the size of his manliness,his sexual prowess,his persona,his... with other men they have been with thereby creating some resentment towards the innocent man.

Ladies must understand that today is tomorrow's past and should prevent any ugly past by maintaining proper decorum today.You can't just sleep around recklessly today just to wake up tomorrow and say "everybody has a past"Ladies should be determined to live a sexually decent lifestyle so that the man who eventually marries them will be proud of them and they will be at a vantage position to demand for faithfulness from the man cos most men place little or no marital value on a woman with numerous body count.

In my opinion,i believe every faithful woman regardless of her past deserves faithfulness from her man but only a lady with a decent sexual lifestyle truly deserves and should demand 100% faithfulness from her man but that remains my opinion.

So Nairalanders what do you think?

But a man who has slept with chidimma, Jane, Agnes, amina, Shirley, Kelly, kemi etc should be given loud ovation for all the ladies he has slept with. He shouldn't have a past abi. Pls if u don't know what to post, take a chill pill. U'll be making it look like all ladies are bad or evil. Quote me and get a rich snub from me.

Gerrard59:
He has come with his illogical threads again. According to OP, men are free to sleep with many ladies and still expect a faithful wife. Yet women cannot do same, even when the men who have slept recklessly didn't sleep with men but women.

What about women who were virgins before marriage, yet the husband goes about cheating? Does the woman deserve a cheat? What will OP suggest as the solution? I'm sure he'll advise her to pray for the husband. Even when prayer has never stopped a cheating husband!

Tushe. So true with all you said.

I like this


Even when prayer has never stopped a cheating husband!

Tajbol4splend:




I can't even see your teeth

Angy55:

The teeth sef no fine