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Re: Finding The Right Woman When You Are Broke Is A Romantic Scam by northvietnam(m): 4:04pm On Nov 11, 2017 |
RuthDaniels: God BLESS You 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Finding The Right Woman When You Are Broke Is A Romantic Scam by amokeme(f): 4:05pm On Nov 11, 2017 |
Benita27:Either rich or poor, a MAN will know a woman who loves him for who he is or for his money or status (expect he deliberately ignores the sign). But they don't tell us in the open. I go with the financial compatibility school of thought. Imagine a woman who has manage to build herself alone.. that's a good wife material because she will manage everything that has to do with her life, including the husband and children (family ) well. And another thing people should know is that, faithfulness is a virtue of personality and not a materialistic function. Little things about a person matters. I for instance, if I'm being faithful to my man, I'm not doing it because of him, rather I'm doing it because of ME, MY self respect and dignity. Don't get me wrong, I appreciate grass to grace stories (and the definition or grass to grace is relative) but that shouldn't be a perfect marriage criteria. Like the OP stated, we hear of broken marriages from celebrities because they are in the show business or public eye. You should visit a local court and hear the amount of divorce cases. The fact you started dating someone when he wasn't financially stable isn't a yardstick to a long lasting marriage. the sustainability of a marriage depends on the two personalities involved, compatibility which is key and above all, God's grace which is sufficient for all. And by the way mark's wife isn't ordinary.. go and read about her.. They were very compatible. If he was dating a striper then, you think he is going to marry her despite being with him when he had nothing? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Finding The Right Woman When You Are Broke Is A Romantic Scam by Zuluhead(m): 4:06pm On Nov 11, 2017 |
Not only being bored but she have lost her joy and happiness. Even in the abundant of wealth alot of people get bored because of the normal daily routine. This life is two side to a coin. She is absolutely normal. |
Re: Finding The Right Woman When You Are Broke Is A Romantic Scam by kenex4ever(m): 4:06pm On Nov 11, 2017 |
RuthDaniels:if you rich then look for a rich girl simple |
Re: Finding The Right Woman When You Are Broke Is A Romantic Scam by freshvine(f): 4:06pm On Nov 11, 2017 |
A struggling man stand a better chance to land a woman who loves him than a rich or comfortable dude. Yes, no doubt a rich man can "marry" any category of women base on what appeals to them but a struggling man "finds" love in his prevailing circumstance. Smart comfortable guys nowadays play "struggling lifestyle" to attract love and not marriage and that'd be what i'll advice rich guys to do. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Finding The Right Woman When You Are Broke Is A Romantic Scam by musa234(m): 4:08pm On Nov 11, 2017 |
OP shut up and keep you opinion to yourself.. It goes both ways.. Everyone now think they have an opinion ...rubbish 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Finding The Right Woman When You Are Broke Is A Romantic Scam by shaybebaby(f): 4:08pm On Nov 11, 2017 |
Daeylar:You wicked o, just emboldened my grammatical error. Let me correct myself sharply.- standalone @being attacked, na today. It is a valid question. Don't worry, I'll mention you if my craze reach that side. Hope your Saturday is going great. |
Re: Finding The Right Woman When You Are Broke Is A Romantic Scam by babakb: 4:14pm On Nov 11, 2017 |
This is not the 80s or 90s, these days our actions brings quick consequences, if you get genuine love while you're broke and you eventually marry her, be ready for this because she is human and all or some of these must happen: If you finally blow after marriage she will have a great sense of entitlement and ownership over your wealth. She will tell everyone that cares to listen that she was there for you when you had nothing. You must inform her before you make a major investment decision in fact in most cases you must operate a joint account with her. Your in laws will never respect you. Getting genuine love when you are broke may seem like a soft landing but that was in the past, you have a lot to loose in the long run. Everyone has a reason to fall in love so if you are comfortable looking for love just be moderate in appearance, dont look poor or extravagant, have brains, look good, have sense of humour, genuine love will come crawling and begging you. Advice: if you are rich or comfortable you must have a plan B, a secret investment in case she leaves you then you will have something to fall back on. I no fit shout. 3 Likes |
Re: Finding The Right Woman When You Are Broke Is A Romantic Scam by Zuluhead(m): 4:17pm On Nov 11, 2017 |
not only being bored but she have lost her joy and happiness. Even in the abundant of wealth alot of people get bored, life just becomes a daily boring routine. This life is two side to a coin JamesReacher: |
Re: Finding The Right Woman When You Are Broke Is A Romantic Scam by JamesReacher(m): 4:21pm On Nov 11, 2017 |
Zuluhead:She needs her head checked , so she would find happiness in penury? I don't know about people getting bored in abundance of wealth |
Re: Finding The Right Woman When You Are Broke Is A Romantic Scam by doyinbaby(f): 4:23pm On Nov 11, 2017 |
So how will Anthony Joshua find a wife......impoverish himself? |
Re: Finding The Right Woman When You Are Broke Is A Romantic Scam by MichaelUweh(m): 4:24pm On Nov 11, 2017 |
Perfect writeup @rapmoney... 1 Like |
Re: Finding The Right Woman When You Are Broke Is A Romantic Scam by Nobody: 4:28pm On Nov 11, 2017 |
Rapmoney:Oga it is easier to find the right woman when you broke than when you are rich. The lady you quoted totally destroyed your opinion. |
Re: Finding The Right Woman When You Are Broke Is A Romantic Scam by ezelous: 4:38pm On Nov 11, 2017 |
Na so una finish op abi |
Re: Finding The Right Woman When You Are Broke Is A Romantic Scam by Anusiemgood(m): 4:40pm On Nov 11, 2017 |
Humanistme:get your choice first and leave the rest for God. |
Re: Finding The Right Woman When You Are Broke Is A Romantic Scam by doyinisaac(m): 4:41pm On Nov 11, 2017 |
whether you are rich or not you can find true love easily but u just have to be careful and smart when making your decisions.....so many lazy leeches out there.....and and yes somehow to an extent it is harder to find "true love" when you are wealthy and u still surround yourself with broke girls..your wealth attracts so many people with a lot of bad eggs among them.....date someone That is making her own money already,someone that will not give a f*uck about your money....someone that will love you for "who you are "and not "what you have"....the major rule "be careful when dating a broke girl"because there is lower chance of finding true love when the wealth is staring at her face already..that does not mean a broke girl cannot love a rich guy sincerely but it is very rare especially with the power that money posseses,money can turn a sincere girl to a parasite ...there is a man for every woman and there is a woman for every man.... 2 Likes |
Re: Finding The Right Woman When You Are Broke Is A Romantic Scam by Daeylar(f): 4:42pm On Nov 11, 2017 |
shaybebaby: I didn't even notice that, corrected mine Lol, you will barely get a valid response, wear your armour before you do All right. What section though? Family or here? Going great, yours? |
Re: Finding The Right Woman When You Are Broke Is A Romantic Scam by PETUK(m): 4:45pm On Nov 11, 2017 |
AlmiqhteeAllah:you nearly made sense but you decided to throw insults and name calling that was unnecessary 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Finding The Right Woman When You Are Broke Is A Romantic Scam by Nobody: 4:51pm On Nov 11, 2017 |
PETUK:I had no idea calling nonsense nonsense, and rubbish rubbish is an insult. I'm sorry about that. |
Re: Finding The Right Woman When You Are Broke Is A Romantic Scam by Daeylar(f): 4:53pm On Nov 11, 2017 |
AlmiqhteeAllah: This your apology no pure at all |
Re: Finding The Right Woman When You Are Broke Is A Romantic Scam by Nobody: 4:57pm On Nov 11, 2017 |
Daeylar:Lol. There was nothing else I could have done. |
Re: Finding The Right Woman When You Are Broke Is A Romantic Scam by Daeylar(f): 5:08pm On Nov 11, 2017 |
AlmiqhteeAllah: I've told you to change you can't make heaven like this forget this moniker that is deceiving you |
Re: Finding The Right Woman When You Are Broke Is A Romantic Scam by Ogaonos: 5:15pm On Nov 11, 2017 |
Rapmoney:ur post shws u b wen u get moni woman go follow u gang.brother hav seen hustling guys wer babes dey give dem moni nd sex.dt wen i knw d moni mata na half true.let me tell u sumthin wen u broke dt wen u knw d luv game.if i ask hw do u knw a lady luv u.c wen u broke is den u knw hw 2 spend little moni 2 get a woman investment in u.guy 4get y lady eye big 4 moni is due 2 yahoo boys.most guys who hype dis moni dey attract women.sleep wit ashawo alot.dt y ashawo dey high 4 yrs b4 buhari govt.bro tell me which female nairalander wil nt marry dangote or ibb or alakija son.dt y celebrities dnt last.because is moni dt attract d female celebrity.esp d actress |
Re: Finding The Right Woman When You Are Broke Is A Romantic Scam by Nobody: 5:19pm On Nov 11, 2017 |
Daeylar:No one can deny my entrance to a place I own. How's your day been? |
Re: Finding The Right Woman When You Are Broke Is A Romantic Scam by Toks2008(m): 5:25pm On Nov 11, 2017 |
majekdom2: Kilagbe kileju? |
Re: Finding The Right Woman When You Are Broke Is A Romantic Scam by Nobody: 5:39pm On Nov 11, 2017 |
Toks2008:Point is this comparison between Naija girls and ïn NL language "other climes" girls is a very unintelligent thing to do! compare humans as a whole not gender! |
Re: Finding The Right Woman When You Are Broke Is A Romantic Scam by enonche85(m): 5:43pm On Nov 11, 2017 |
pocohantas: Bless u sister! |
Re: Finding The Right Woman When You Are Broke Is A Romantic Scam by DJperdurabo: 5:47pm On Nov 11, 2017 |
Benita27: Thanks for speaking 'sense'. OPs post lacked a 360 degree consideration of the variables involved in the issue. |
Re: Finding The Right Woman When You Are Broke Is A Romantic Scam by SlayQueenSlayer(m): 5:49pm On Nov 11, 2017 |
Cuteamigo1: And how many rich suitors was she getting and turning down just to stick with you? |
Re: Finding The Right Woman When You Are Broke Is A Romantic Scam by DJperdurabo: 5:49pm On Nov 11, 2017 |
RuthDaniels: Opari! |
Re: Finding The Right Woman When You Are Broke Is A Romantic Scam by thowbie7ven(m): 5:56pm On Nov 11, 2017 |
Rapmoney:You're 100% correct on this Rapmoney...Let them give us names of Married couple(s) from the 2000s till date...They should stop mentioning marriages of 30+ years and above... |
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