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Re: Awkward Ideology Of Nigerian Ladies Towards Feminism That Ruins Relationship by Nobody: 6:31pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
What's all this brouhaha about ladies and feminism, does your life or purpose revolve around women and their ideals? Leave them to do their life as they seem fit and face your own you are solely accountable for. It's repeated posts like this that makes these ladies feel all the more special than they really are. You need your type of woman, simply leave her to prove her worth and person abi them dey conscript woman to person ni? Focus on something that directly affects you abeg, after all, no be man you be? 7 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Awkward Ideology Of Nigerian Ladies Towards Feminism That Ruins Relationship by Blackhawk01: 6:31pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
pocohantas: Question fired! Don't learn yet, let us read his reply. 1 Like |
Re: Awkward Ideology Of Nigerian Ladies Towards Feminism That Ruins Relationship by pocohantas(f): 6:35pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
Blackhawk01: The topic is draining. They should leave it for peeps like that guy you quoted to handle. Which one is who will wash clothes and cook? Do two normal people, who love each other argue over such nonsense? 2 Likes |
Re: Awkward Ideology Of Nigerian Ladies Towards Feminism That Ruins Relationship by Blackhawk01: 6:36pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
Blackfyre: Please, tell your brothers. We've got gigolos, playboys, baby daddies, gayKings and so on but you don't see females creating threads non stop for these people. You want a submissive woman, a trophy wife, please go ahead and marry her. Feminists no dey stop you na. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Awkward Ideology Of Nigerian Ladies Towards Feminism That Ruins Relationship by henrylowe(m): 6:37pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
Blackfyre:Common don't be an ass licker. What's wrong this write-up? 1 Like |
Re: Awkward Ideology Of Nigerian Ladies Towards Feminism That Ruins Relationship by Nobody: 6:39pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
Even If Jesus Comes Down These Ladies Have Made Up Their Minds To Want To Rule Like/Over Men... |
Re: Awkward Ideology Of Nigerian Ladies Towards Feminism That Ruins Relationship by wristbangle: 6:40pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
Blackfyre: You got it wrong. The article did not anyway degrade the value of ladies. Read through it and stop acting like a "sisi". |
Re: Awkward Ideology Of Nigerian Ladies Towards Feminism That Ruins Relationship by Nobody: 6:42pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
pocohantas:Should Laundry Be An Issue? Washin Machines Are Affordable These Days... |
Re: Awkward Ideology Of Nigerian Ladies Towards Feminism That Ruins Relationship by Nobody: 6:45pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
Blackhawk01:where Do You Stand? |
Re: Awkward Ideology Of Nigerian Ladies Towards Feminism That Ruins Relationship by Nobody: 6:45pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
henrylowe: Young man, please do not be shallow in reasoning, I beg you in whatever you hold dear, how does the action of this women affects you directly? Think very well and answer. While you ponder, a woman who smokes shisha, has used different types of men dicks as chewing stick, has been pummeled by various men turning around shouting feminism bla bla, how does that concern you? In your right mind even if she wasn't, is that what you want to use to make a mother to your sons? Leave them for their type of men make them slug am out na. Or you no sabi better woman when you see one? Woman no dey finish for this world bros, so no fear and more importantly age is even on our side than them. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Awkward Ideology Of Nigerian Ladies Towards Feminism That Ruins Relationship by Amarabae(f): 6:45pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
Feminism has come to stay in Africa. So kiss the bitter truth. The era of programming women to feel like weaker vessels is coming to an end in Africa. Feminism is not out to fight men but to liberate women from misogynistic shackles. Yes, some dumbies are misunderstanding feminism by creating hash tag like #MENareTrash, thats stupidity and not feminism. Feminism does not stop a woman from loving and caring for the husband. OK? So go read up about it. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Awkward Ideology Of Nigerian Ladies Towards Feminism That Ruins Relationship by concupiscent: 6:47pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
Blackhawk01: "beach party? when? where?" -concupiscent |
Re: Awkward Ideology Of Nigerian Ladies Towards Feminism That Ruins Relationship by Nobody: 6:48pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
Blackfyre: Chai Chai Chai The tone of this comment is something ! What a comment While you ponder, a woman who smokes shisha, has used different types of men dicks as chewing stick, has been pummeled by various men turning around shouting feminism bla bla, how does that concern you? In your right mind even if she wasn't, is that what you want to use to make a mother to your sons? Woman no dey finish for this world bros, so no fear and more importantly age is even on our side than them. |
Re: Awkward Ideology Of Nigerian Ladies Towards Feminism That Ruins Relationship by Nobody: 6:48pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
My own take ! BREAK THE MOULD IN THE MIND. THE MOULD IN THE MIND, HEART AND EYES, IN IT LIES THE PROBLEM O ! Behind every action, a belief system ! Behind every fall, a faulty belief ! Behind a failure, a faulty logic ! Behind every grave error, an institutied and perpetuated lie left untamed for too long ! Behind every success, a truth ! Behind a procession of successes, truths ! Behind every failure, a seduction ! Behind every towering truth, a thorough test ! Behind every " new logic" should be careful interpretation of facts ! Behind every system, a designer and inventor that performs an overall review of working systems and how they fit interdependently upon each other before instuitied and enshrined as a law ! Behind every generational truth, a generational experience that has tested the rules - Proverbs 22 vs 28. If we lose good people, if we find good people, whether we keep or lose them, many of our actions that would affect or influence the outcome of issues are deeply rooted in whatever ideologies, dogmas and principles we uphold. Now, which is better, our image or our well being? The substance or the core? The product or the stricture,the strict rules that binds and makes its follower a slave? Oh my ! Help me ! Humans are meant to live in liberty without rules, with rules been enshirned by our principles, culture and values, if we live in rules, then we fall short of understanding than humans weren't created for rules, and rules are for apprentices growing into maturity in a system. So whenever i hear rules, laws and all such, i laff, let's define the systems that works for us, and live by them ! Pitchikom ! When our lives is reduced to actions, laws and rules, then are finished, we have become brooms in the hands of those crazy precepts ! ate one, date two, now it's number fifteen, we say thank God we came out of 15 dates alive and nothing is wrong. But we rub off terrible shyte,the mind is corrupted, we've picked up stuffs here and there and personality becomes cancerous, we lose ourselves in all this jumping upandan and can't remember who we once were. That pure pristine person who was once void of all the tedious beliefs we've heaped on ourselves, the aftermath is crazy beliefs, encapsulated in a fine brand identity. To make things right, the foundation, the core has to be re-visited, adjustments made, to avoid falling and falling out of systems, triggerred by " wrong settings " applied in stuffs we do ! Hope this makes sense 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Awkward Ideology Of Nigerian Ladies Towards Feminism That Ruins Relationship by Nobody: 6:51pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
wristbangle: Point out where I said it degraded the value of women? Please I am waiting. To make my post the more clear, read the other post I replied to Henry. It's a very simple something, let them go and look for men that they will be equal to, that they can shout on, and insult playfully. Is your destiny tied to theirs? Let them go and look for men they will be apportioning house chores to, and working the arithmetic of the bills splitting, let them go and look for men that their own voice is more important than the husband, e concern you? For all the noise they make on nairaland, women who don't share such views and are vehemently opposed to such exist. Leave them and face your own, abi person fit force woman enter your hand in? 3 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Awkward Ideology Of Nigerian Ladies Towards Feminism That Ruins Relationship by Nobody: 6:53pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
Blackfyre: LMFAO It's a very simple something, let them go and look for men that they will be equal to, that they can shout on, and insult playfully. Is your destiny tied to theirs? Let them go and look for men they will be apportioning house chores to, and working the arithmetic of the bills splitting, let them go and look for men that their own voice is more important than the husband, e concern you? |
Re: Awkward Ideology Of Nigerian Ladies Towards Feminism That Ruins Relationship by Blackhawk01: 6:53pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
Re: Awkward Ideology Of Nigerian Ladies Towards Feminism That Ruins Relationship by Nobody: 6:56pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
Amarabae: Can you see an example of such women I am talking about? Little wonder she is married. You are taking the words of the ones wey never see man to call their own not to talk of marry serious? A wise woman knows her place and she knows she is not a weak vessel, abi person wey weak fit dey born children? Madam, God bless you. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Awkward Ideology Of Nigerian Ladies Towards Feminism That Ruins Relationship by Blackhawk01: 6:56pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
DeadRat: How is that your business? |
Re: Awkward Ideology Of Nigerian Ladies Towards Feminism That Ruins Relationship by wristbangle: 6:56pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
Amarabae: The ideology of some African women towards feminism is nauseating and disgusting. In the western world, the women tend to be independent yet submissive to the final decision of the husband after they must have deliberated on issues which covers financial, moral and other aspect of marriage. Husbands respect wives and vice versa albeit the women performing their duties as a mother to the children and wife to the husband. African ladies mentality towards is seriously flawed and awkward. You want to control your husband, expect him to provide the necessary regiments and still want him to perform domestic duties. Very conflicting view I must say. You peeps don't even know what feminists is all about. |
Re: Awkward Ideology Of Nigerian Ladies Towards Feminism That Ruins Relationship by MissWrite(f): 6:56pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
If, as a man, you feel threatened by a feminist, then just avoid them for your personal peace of mind (and also, for peace on NL). There's no need to get bent out of shape over the matter. You can stop your clock (even turn back the hands as far as you want) and build a bubble for yourself in your home, where you can rest your feet on your wife's head. There's no need to write so many words to match the urgency of feminism with your own desperation. Just find yourself a traditional girl. While the feminist women will find themselves husbands who are progressive. And if there are no progressive husbands anymore, and traditional men refuse to marry feminists, and women suddenly realize that they would die if they didn't marry, then young girls will see the massive grave harboring all the unmarried women and feminism in Nigeria will reverse itself for the survival of the Nigerian woman. So just stop interfering. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Awkward Ideology Of Nigerian Ladies Towards Feminism That Ruins Relationship by tosyne2much(m): 6:57pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
Blackfyre:Take it easy bro.. I no know why you come carry this thread for your head He clearly stated his opinion so I don't think there's need to rant if you don't subscribe or it 1 Like |
Re: Awkward Ideology Of Nigerian Ladies Towards Feminism That Ruins Relationship by wristbangle: 7:00pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
Blackfyre: Young man, do I look like I am forcing them to agree with me? In as much as you don't buy the idea, doesn't mean a lost soul would not embrace it. |
Re: Awkward Ideology Of Nigerian Ladies Towards Feminism That Ruins Relationship by Nobody: 7:00pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
henrylowe:Come on, this shiit is stupid. Whenever a guy seems to be on the side of the ladies, you label him an asslicker, but the guys who are on the side of the misogynists who won't give themselves a minute of rest, and keep churning out articles about feminism, re-writing the same thing over and over again, are not asslickers who have refused to tell these guys the truth? A fellow male must always agree with your opinions and always be on your side, because backing the ladies (even when they're right) makes one a "pussy"? No one is asking you guys to marry a feminist. 6 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Awkward Ideology Of Nigerian Ladies Towards Feminism That Ruins Relationship by Nobody: 7:02pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
tosyne2much: Pour cold water on those nerves of yours make your body come down. Person need tell una truth, how many threads you wey dey talk say I.carry matter for head don create on top this feminism matter? No vex oh, I sure say you never get mulah to.put woman for house yet you dey open thread here and there over woman matter? Bros leave trash for lawma.... 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Awkward Ideology Of Nigerian Ladies Towards Feminism That Ruins Relationship by concupiscent: 7:03pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
Blackhawk01: "You funny. i've never been to Lagos before, well let's see what the future holds" -concupiscent |
Re: Awkward Ideology Of Nigerian Ladies Towards Feminism That Ruins Relationship by Nobody: 7:05pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
Blackhawk01:Just Admit It... You Are A Diplomatic Feminist... BTW Blackhawk! Did You See Me In Your Dream With Cutlass? |
Re: Awkward Ideology Of Nigerian Ladies Towards Feminism That Ruins Relationship by Blackhawk01: 7:07pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
concupiscent: Wow! So where have you been all your life? Sambisa? About seeing what the future holds? I gat my glasses on, lemme see clearly. |
Re: Awkward Ideology Of Nigerian Ladies Towards Feminism That Ruins Relationship by Nobody: 7:07pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
wristbangle: See you, na you be their redeemer wey want bring back lost soul? Are you their creator? Abi na God give you the job do? Bros, it says all man for himself and God for us all. You funny sha, person wey lost under the watch of her/his parents na him you from God knows where want redeem? How you take sure say no be so them raise them.up from cradle wey you want take ordinary article change their man? Bros, stop giving undue relevance to ladies who constitute a minor percentage of a larger pool of women. But if you insist on towing this path and not tending to your own kwanta, I wish you good luck... 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Awkward Ideology Of Nigerian Ladies Towards Feminism That Ruins Relationship by Nobody: 7:09pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
Blackfyre:they Say I De Carry Woman Matter For Head but Here Is A Guy Who Has Sewed agbada with It |
Re: Awkward Ideology Of Nigerian Ladies Towards Feminism That Ruins Relationship by henrylowe(m): 7:10pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
ZandhaZaraZ:Pussy guy, and you had to type all this bullshit just to air your grievance? Your head no correct I swear 1 Like |
Re: Awkward Ideology Of Nigerian Ladies Towards Feminism That Ruins Relationship by Nobody: 7:12pm On Nov 15, 2017 |
Blackfyre: I had to read this post again. Na wa o. So much anger in this comment. Bros, cool down nau. Na wetin happen ? Who offend you like this ? Chai ! So much emotion in it 2 Likes |
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