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Re: "Dear Nice Guy, I Wasn’t Ready For You Before, But I Am Now" by Henitan24(f): 12:18pm On Nov 20, 2017
Stevengerd:
Shoro niyen
Oya mi lenu oo

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Re: "Dear Nice Guy, I Wasn’t Ready For You Before, But I Am Now" by Nobody: 12:18pm On Nov 20, 2017
Hmmm
Re: "Dear Nice Guy, I Wasn’t Ready For You Before, But I Am Now" by victorazyvictor(m): 12:19pm On Nov 20, 2017
embarassed sorry I don't date left over.

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Re: "Dear Nice Guy, I Wasn’t Ready For You Before, But I Am Now" by 9japrof(m): 12:20pm On Nov 20, 2017
grin
Re: "Dear Nice Guy, I Wasn’t Ready For You Before, But I Am Now" by d33types: 12:20pm On Nov 20, 2017
NeeKlaus:
Lol... this writeup has a coded message for the supposed Nice guys. Only if you can read in between the lines.

Can you help me decode?I read through and found nothing of such.
Re: "Dear Nice Guy, I Wasn’t Ready For You Before, But I Am Now" by markode777: 12:20pm On Nov 20, 2017
One more thing: State the number of abortions you have done....5, 6 or 8? lets know, so that you won't put this "mumu" nice guy that will come for you hopes of having kids in jeopardy.

I know a girl who has aborted up to 4 times and she is 21.

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Re: "Dear Nice Guy, I Wasn’t Ready For You Before, But I Am Now" by adeblow(m): 12:20pm On Nov 20, 2017
We are also not ready to take the left over of those bad guys u wanted.
You can keep lusting after them since that what u have always wanted.
How many abortions u did, we don't care.
Those bad boys are what u deserve, so gerrarahere

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Re: "Dear Nice Guy, I Wasn’t Ready For You Before, But I Am Now" by oluwadamilare23: 12:21pm On Nov 20, 2017
hmmmm all the best smiley
Re: "Dear Nice Guy, I Wasn’t Ready For You Before, But I Am Now" by Adekamkpe23: 12:22pm On Nov 20, 2017
Mtscheeew
Re: "Dear Nice Guy, I Wasn’t Ready For You Before, But I Am Now" by NeeKlaus: 12:22pm On Nov 20, 2017
Tapout:


Bro help me out with the coded message na pls... I no get strength to read between any line cry
Oga mi, ah nor geh strength to dey summarize right now o. Ah don dey carry cement for head since morning. cry

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Re: "Dear Nice Guy, I Wasn’t Ready For You Before, But I Am Now" by Adaumunocha(f): 12:22pm On Nov 20, 2017
What's with the epistle There's hope as long as there's life.
Re: "Dear Nice Guy, I Wasn’t Ready For You Before, But I Am Now" by johnstar(m): 12:24pm On Nov 20, 2017
grin
We nor ready

Dm don dig ur hole finish

Weytn remain

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Re: "Dear Nice Guy, I Wasn’t Ready For You Before, But I Am Now" by Hephzibahmusic: 12:26pm On Nov 20, 2017
I laugh
Re: "Dear Nice Guy, I Wasn’t Ready For You Before, But I Am Now" by girlhaley(f): 12:27pm On Nov 20, 2017
ubunja:
naah. guys here are nice guys and simps. they worship pvssy too much

Nice you say?
grin grin
Well, It's true they are pussy mongers
Re: "Dear Nice Guy, I Wasn’t Ready For You Before, But I Am Now" by johncallidon(m): 12:27pm On Nov 20, 2017
I came to read comments.

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Re: "Dear Nice Guy, I Wasn’t Ready For You Before, But I Am Now" by lunacol(m): 12:28pm On Nov 20, 2017
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked

This is the type of wife every wise man should pray for;

A lady with a contrite spirit,
One who has gone astray like the prodigal son and has decided to come back home.
An experienced woman who knows what she wants.

I love this.
After all the formings and now she's used and dumped and clocking above 27,she is looking for nice guys.Nice guys that accepts such is a weakling.

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Re: "Dear Nice Guy, I Wasn’t Ready For You Before, But I Am Now" by just2endowed: 12:28pm On Nov 20, 2017
ok we have heard u tongue
Re: "Dear Nice Guy, I Wasn’t Ready For You Before, But I Am Now" by obiajulusam(m): 12:31pm On Nov 20, 2017
johnime:
am a pretty girl with welcoming attributes, a 19 years old 300 level student. But I think something is wrong with me, at times I think and end up tearing so bad.
Ever since my last relationship by last year November, it's been difficult getting another date, at first I didn't consider it an issue cos I know am pretty and young too but right now I can't help but panic.. Have been single for a whole year, no sex, no fling, no boyfriend. Is something wrong with meOr did my ex bf curse me?? I don't know.

Apart from my parents, I don't have any guy at all that could dash me even 5k, not even subscription. Nlers please is something wrong with me?? The funny and annoying thing is that most people don't even believe I don't have a boyfriend, they are always like "fine girl like you?? Na lie jor".

Am just confused and worried. Isn't this something I should be worried about Am not disabled ooo, am not ugly at all, I don't have bad personality. Am even a seamstress ooo plus my academic excellence. So please what's the problem I know a lot of bad girls with bf that would die for them, ugly girls too. And I wonder if I have an issue I can't see. Have always wished to marry immediately after my N.Y.S.C, but is this how I will marry when I can't even get myself a boyfriend??
P.S. that my ex is the only guy have dated and it took me months to get over him. Now I believe am fully over him but I can't get another date..
nlers followers something is wrong with me right Please my identity should be hidden

Nothing absolutely is wrong with you. Maybe u should check how nice you have been to the few guys that needs your attention... Perhaps you're not seeing them as a potential boyfriend, or person that have something to offer...

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Re: "Dear Nice Guy, I Wasn’t Ready For You Before, But I Am Now" by Nobody: 12:33pm On Nov 20, 2017
hahahaha ahaahaha it always comes down to old-age and maturity and as the world would have it.. it only comes from Experiencing (since mumu's never want to learn from Elders) it yourself. Sadly 50% of it is by Choice and the other 50% by Circumstance.

Choice because every decision we make comes as a matter of choice. if it is a hard-choice then make a sacrifice to make the right choice and not just give in to circumstances.

Circumstances because we do not choose the circumstances under which we are conceived. could be in a Club trying to be babymamas to 2face and wizkid or davido or worse some broke-ass fcukboy forming swagger with codeine and SK.. viola! you came about grin grin or could be your parents were not privileged and had to make do with what they could spare making you hustle the rest in the midst of sexual vultures in Lagos. Your parents could still be well-to-do but you just love badt guyz.. welcome to Karma biiitch!

Nice Guys.. stay focused and hustle smart and hard.. there is a priceless virtue in being nice.. it kills the ignorant stereotype the girls love Alpha-males. It is not a virtue but a trait needed to survive in the age of dinosaurs.. not today

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Re: "Dear Nice Guy, I Wasn’t Ready For You Before, But I Am Now" by abdeiz(m): 12:35pm On Nov 20, 2017
Dear lady looking to settle down with a nice guys, kindly go bleep yourself.
Yours sincerely
All nice guys

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Re: "Dear Nice Guy, I Wasn’t Ready For You Before, But I Am Now" by yemmie(m): 12:35pm On Nov 20, 2017
You have to be a very bad sharp guy who fear God to navigate a marriage / relationship with a woman.

Guy : Busy brainstorming on how to make Money and spend Money.

Babe: Busy brainstorming to get a guy with prosperous future by extrapolating his current networth (cash wise / intelligence) to visualise where he will be in 10 years to give a life she want.

Note: A woman can keep a secret for 50 years and still call you darling. The woman game is far ahead of a man game.

Women are special creature that a man with sense must handle with care.

My 2 cents

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Re: "Dear Nice Guy, I Wasn’t Ready For You Before, But I Am Now" by YoungDaNaval(m): 12:35pm On Nov 20, 2017
johnime:
am a pretty girl with welcoming attributes, a 19 years old 300 level student. But I think something is wrong with me, at times I think and end up tearing so bad.
Ever since my last relationship by last year November, it's been difficult getting another date, at first I didn't consider it an issue cos I know am pretty and young too but right now I can't help but panic.. Have been single for a whole year, no sex, no fling, no boyfriend. Is something wrong with meOr did my ex bf curse me?? I don't know.

Apart from my parents, I don't have any guy at all that could dash me even 5k, not even subscription. Nlers please is something wrong with me?? The funny and annoying thing is that most people don't even believe I don't have a boyfriend, they are always like "fine girl like you?? Na lie jor".

Am just confused and worried. Isn't this something I should be worried about Am not disabled ooo, am not ugly at all, I don't have bad personality. Am even a seamstress ooo plus my academic excellence. So please what's the problem I know a lot of bad girls with bf that would die for them, ugly girls too. And I wonder if I have an issue I can't see. Have always wished to marry immediately after my N.Y.S.C, but is this how I will marry when I can't even get myself a boyfriend??
P.S. that my ex is the only guy have dated and it took me months to get over him. Now I believe am fully over him but I can't get another date..
nlers followers something is wrong with me right Please my identity should be hidden
Ify is that you? Cry no more and come over to Whatsapp let's talk

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Re: "Dear Nice Guy, I Wasn’t Ready For You Before, But I Am Now" by tobaseye: 12:36pm On Nov 20, 2017
Thank be to God that you are now a graduate of the school of heartbreaking from bad guys as you said. Anyway, I don't know if you are the one. I have actually been waiting for my own missing bone too. But to qualify, aside from the other qualities, you have mentioned. You have to have at least five million naira in your account. The reason is that I have got a property of N19m to buy and I can only raise N16m. The balance after purchasing the property will be used for our traditional marriage. Note the property will be in your name while I use my name as the next of kin.

So if you think you qualify do not hesitate to contact me asap.
Re: "Dear Nice Guy, I Wasn’t Ready For You Before, But I Am Now" by Nobody: 12:37pm On Nov 20, 2017
Nice guy for Nice girl

Bad girl for Bad Guy

Male LovePeddler for female whoee

etc.

God is always fair in everything, How can you expect me to marry an unpure lady llke you after I have being a virgin my whole life.

abeg

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Re: "Dear Nice Guy, I Wasn’t Ready For You Before, But I Am Now" by lereinter(m): 12:41pm On Nov 20, 2017
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Re: "Dear Nice Guy, I Wasn’t Ready For You Before, But I Am Now" by dingbang(m): 12:42pm On Nov 20, 2017
Alright. Let's walk together
Re: "Dear Nice Guy, I Wasn’t Ready For You Before, But I Am Now" by walepackage(m): 12:44pm On Nov 20, 2017
I think this"nice guy" issue is an overated topic.There's nothing like nice guy or bad guy,its a subjective interpretation.What makes someone niceguy in your dictionary may be a badguy in another person's dictionary.You think u can not stil be dump by the so called 'nice guy'.Well,its an eye opener for some girls who think relationship only revolves around 'sex and money',without other factors taking into consideration.

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Re: "Dear Nice Guy, I Wasn’t Ready For You Before, But I Am Now" by TSOM(m): 12:45pm On Nov 20, 2017
Chivalry is a means to an end.
Be vague, be smooth ( super smooth), be curt when you should be but never let any woman take you for granted.

Talk that talk, walk that walk but never be predictable or do what every other guy does.

Once you master words and its power, you could become a nice guy with a 'bad boy' persona.

Women never take Misters Nice Guy seriously, ever.

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Re: "Dear Nice Guy, I Wasn’t Ready For You Before, But I Am Now" by YoungDaNaval(m): 12:45pm On Nov 20, 2017
LaEvilIMiss:
hahahaha ahaahaha it always comes down to old-age and maturity and as the world would have it.. it only comes from Experiencing (since mumu's never want to learn from Elders) it yourself. Sadly 50% of it is by Choice and the other 50% by Circumstance.

Choice because every decision we make comes as a matter of choice. if it is a hard-choice then make a sacrifice to make the right choice and not just give in to circumstances.

Circumstances because we do not choose the circumstances under which we are conceived. could be in a Club trying to be babymamas to 2face and wizkid or davido or worse some broke-ass fcukboy forming swagger with codeine and SK.. viola! you came about grin grin or could be your parents were not privileged and had to make do with what they could spare making you hustle the rest in the midst of sexual vultures in Lagos. Your parents could still be well-to-do but you just love badt guyz.. welcome to Karma biiitch!

Nice Guys.. stay focused and hustle smart and hard.. there is a priceless virtue in being nice.. it kills the ignorant stereotype the girls love Alpha-males. It is not a virtue but a trait needed to survive in the age of dinosaurs.. not today
I'm surprised this is coming from a lady. God bless you

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