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Re: When Is It OK To Hit A Woman, what should I have done in this case of harassment by makydebbie(f): 9:43am On Nov 29, 2017
biacan:
Work away that is why you are a man work away
It's walk.
Re: When Is It OK To Hit A Woman, what should I have done in this case of harassment by biacan(f): 9:43am On Nov 29, 2017
aprilwise:
listen to ur self. if a woman attack ur brother with dangerous objects. Should he put his hands in his pocket and be watching her kills him. am an advocate of not beating a woman but there is a limits.
There is know limit dude no limit
Re: When Is It OK To Hit A Woman, what should I have done in this case of harassment by biacan(f): 9:44am On Nov 29, 2017
makydebbie:
It's walk.
Thank you was a mistake
Re: When Is It OK To Hit A Woman, what should I have done in this case of harassment by olac21(m): 9:46am On Nov 29, 2017
biacan:
Never should a man hit a woman........any man that hit a woman is a clown
See this one!

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Re: When Is It OK To Hit A Woman, what should I have done in this case of harassment by makydebbie(f): 9:46am On Nov 29, 2017
biacan:
Thank you was a mistake
You welcome.
Re: When Is It OK To Hit A Woman, what should I have done in this case of harassment by Adaumunocha(f): 9:47am On Nov 29, 2017
Say No to Violence
Re: When Is It OK To Hit A Woman, what should I have done in this case of harassment by biacan(f): 9:47am On Nov 29, 2017
olac21:
See this one!
Better don't hit your girlfriend
Re: When Is It OK To Hit A Woman, what should I have done in this case of harassment by dauntless15(m): 9:49am On Nov 29, 2017
biacan:
Future woman beater spotted
man beater spotted too, I'll beat the hell out of any woman before allowing her turn me to a vegetable its your type that will say feminist but play the gender card when they bring the heat

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Re: When Is It OK To Hit A Woman, what should I have done in this case of harassment by Daeylar(f): 9:50am On Nov 29, 2017
I wonder why some men love to act like women are the only ones who have a sharp mouth?

As if men can't finish you with their words? Why don't women hit men or slap men who talk to them rudely?

There was a case yesterday where the donjazzys bouncer was harassing a lady does it not show that men are reckless with their mouths also? Why always acting like it's a gender thing?

Op only in self defence,I.e if she's trying to kill you or maim you. Or if she hits you, or if she hits you and you try to walk away and she follows you,


or you arrest her if she hits you

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Re: When Is It OK To Hit A Woman, what should I have done in this case of harassment by Nobody: 9:53am On Nov 29, 2017
dauntless15:
I grew up listening to every word my principled dad pronounced and adhering to it, among those word is one that really stands out "NEVER HIT A WOMAN" now here comes my dilemma, I have always wondered if there's an exception to that simple statement. At what point are you allowed to disregard it or its a till death thing.
When she grabs your balls?
When she attacks you aggressively with a club, a knife, whatever she could find?
When you're in the ground in the pool of your own blood dying?

I thought feminism is all about equality or girls can't be violent and boys don't have feelings. You're not allowed to talk to her anyhow because she's a girl, don't hit her back she's a girl bla bla bla.

I'm not one to hit a girl as well but I was in a situation recently and I didn't know what to do, this jilted ill mannered lady grabbed me by my shirt so much i couldnt move a muscle and slapped me twice, even though i tower above her in an intimidating way she wasn't detered, she rained obsceneties on me and my friends were like calm down bro she's a goddamned lady, i dont think i'd have been the bad guy if i just toss her out of my way like a twig, what should i have done here?
Dude if someone hits you, push them away. If they come back to attack again, then that's your go ahead to defend yourself! I don't care if they're male or female
If you don't want to get hit don't hit someone else. Ladies don't pull the gender card when you know you're the aggressor.

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Re: When Is It OK To Hit A Woman, what should I have done in this case of harassment by Nobody: 9:55am On Nov 29, 2017
biacan:
Never should a man hit a woman........any man that hit a woman is a clown
So he should just stand there and take continuous hits from her because beinf female makes her untouchable?
Don't start something you can't finish. You hit someone stronger than you, you can't dictate how they should react. You're both humans. If you have no respect for them and you hit them, why should they have any respect for you?

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Re: When Is It OK To Hit A Woman, what should I have done in this case of harassment by dauntless15(m): 9:56am On Nov 29, 2017
trustyshoess:

Dude if someone hits you, push them away. If they come back to attack again, then that's your go ahead to defend yourself! I don't care if they're male or female
If you don't want to get hit don't hit someone else. Don't pull the gender card when you know you're the aggressor.
how the hell did you deduce the fact that I'm the aggressor from my narrative? The aggressive lady grabbed my shirt like a cop and slapped me twice, my mum wouldnt do that, i almost cried

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Re: When Is It OK To Hit A Woman, what should I have done in this case of harassment by biacan(f): 9:59am On Nov 29, 2017
dauntless15:
man beater spotted too, I'll beat the hell out of any woman before allowing her turn me to a vegetable its your type that will say feminist but play the gender card when they bring the heat
Get ready to go to jail if you beat me guys like you are not ready for relationships or marriage better go for therapy before you allow your anger issues consume you
Re: When Is It OK To Hit A Woman, what should I have done in this case of harassment by uk10(m): 9:59am On Nov 29, 2017
Double standard, woman hits a man its all right ,man hits a woman he is a monster and you expect me to take feminism or that rubbish talk of equality serious, I'm waiting for the day a bitch will try that with me,women always want to eat their cake and have it

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Re: When Is It OK To Hit A Woman, what should I have done in this case of harassment by Nobody: 10:00am On Nov 29, 2017
dauntless15:
how the hell did you deduce the fact that I'm the aggressor from my narrative? The aggressive lady grabbed my shirt like a cop and slapped me twice, my mum wouldnt do that, i almost cried
I wasn't referring to you when I said that though. I was referring to ladies in general
Re: When Is It OK To Hit A Woman, what should I have done in this case of harassment by dauntless15(m): 10:04am On Nov 29, 2017
biacan:
Get ready to go to jail if you beat me guys like you are not ready for relationships or marriage better go for therapy before you allow your anger issues consume you
now why would a sane guy date a lady who's crazy enough to hit a guy? I'd rather die celibate, and ma'am I don't think you know anything about law

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Re: When Is It OK To Hit A Woman, what should I have done in this case of harassment by biacan(f): 10:04am On Nov 29, 2017
trustyshoess:

So he should just stand there and take continuous hits from her because beinf female makes her untouchable?
Don't start something you can't finish. You hit someone stronger than you, you can't dictate how they should react. You're both humans. If you have no respect for them and you hit them, why should they have any respect for you?
They should walk away that's why they are men
Re: When Is It OK To Hit A Woman, what should I have done in this case of harassment by dauntless15(m): 10:05am On Nov 29, 2017
trustyshoess:

I wasn't referring to you when I said that though. I was referring to ladies in general
thank you finally a lady with brains

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Re: When Is It OK To Hit A Woman, what should I have done in this case of harassment by Daeylar(f): 10:07am On Nov 29, 2017
dauntless15:
how the hell did you deduce the fact that I'm the aggressor from my narrative? The aggressive lady grabbed my shirt like a cop and slapped me twice, my mum wouldnt do that, i almost cried

She put her hands on you first? shocked
Sorry dear,.
That's so annoying. angry

You should have slapped her once. Factory resetting slap.
Sorry

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Re: When Is It OK To Hit A Woman, what should I have done in this case of harassment by Nobody: 10:08am On Nov 29, 2017
biacan:
They should walk away that's why they are men
And being a woman stops you from keeping your hands to yourself? If you hit another woman, I'm sure you expect her to hit you back right? This is 2017, Not 1854. You can't hit a man, all the while EXPECTING him to walk away. Accept the consequences of your actions. Men were not born to take beatings from women and vice versa

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Re: When Is It OK To Hit A Woman, what should I have done in this case of harassment by dauntless15(m): 10:09am On Nov 29, 2017
Daeylar:


She put her hands on you first? shocked
Sorry dear,.
That's so annoying. angry

You should have slapped her once. Factory resetting slap.
Sorry
in campus, people were watching, it was so embarrassing I'm telling you, and she was like, not so tough ehn, say something else and I'll slap you a third time
Re: When Is It OK To Hit A Woman, what should I have done in this case of harassment by biacan(f): 10:11am On Nov 29, 2017
dauntless15:
now why would a sane guy date a lady who's crazy enough to hit a guy? I'd rather die celibate, and ma'am I don't think you know anything about law
Why won't they date me especially all these spices that are all over me........ FYI am the perfect lady every guy would love to marry......... Tell me what I don't know about the law
Re: When Is It OK To Hit A Woman, what should I have done in this case of harassment by biacan(f): 10:13am On Nov 29, 2017
trustyshoess:

And being a woman stops you from keeping your hands to yourself? If you hit another woman, I'm sure you expect her to hit you back right? This is 2017, Not 1854. You can't hit a man, all the while EXPECTING him to walk away. Accept the consequences of your actions. Men were not born to take beatings from women and vice versa
Just hope when your spouse beat you up you won't come here and cry......better speak up now
Re: When Is It OK To Hit A Woman, what should I have done in this case of harassment by MrBrownJay1(m): 10:14am On Nov 29, 2017
dauntless15:
man beater spotted too, I'll beat the hell out of any woman before allowing her turn me to a vegetable its your type that will say feminist but play the gender card when they bring the heat

bro, leave these women who are quick to want to raise their hands on a man, then "think" that bringing the police will solve anything. WHERE?! in WHAT DELUDED WORLD?! you slap a man and he slaps you back, thats self defense, no proper court will ever do anything to this man....and actually the woman who gave the 1st slap can be punished for assault... some woman really dont know how close they are to get their asses royally kicked (or end up in trouble with the law).

how dare she thinks its ok to raise herr hand on a man, but wrong if she get the same treatment?!?!?

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Re: When Is It OK To Hit A Woman, what should I have done in this case of harassment by uk10(m): 10:15am On Nov 29, 2017
biacan:
Why won't they date me especially all these spices that are all over me........ FYI am the perfect lady every guy would love to marry......... Tell me what I don't know about the law
sorry no one will want to date a feminzi like you but don't worry the Sissy's will date u and u can slap them anytime u have an argument or anytime u feel like and u can control their life as u please wink

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Re: When Is It OK To Hit A Woman, what should I have done in this case of harassment by Nobody: 10:17am On Nov 29, 2017
biacan:
Just hope when your spouse beat you up you won't come here and cry......better speak up now
Violence is not the answer no matter your gender. If ever got married, I would have enough respect for my partner, to not hit him, regardless of the situation. And I expect the same from him. Simple
If I hit him, and he doesn't hit me then that's me being lucky cos I can't blame him if he hits be back

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Re: When Is It OK To Hit A Woman, what should I have done in this case of harassment by theGigolo: 10:18am On Nov 29, 2017
Some girls replying this thread are drramers and they are living in a fools paradise.

You can only get away with one slap as a woman, if you make attempt to try that shii with me again there's gonna be so many broken bones in her body. Intact just expect to be forever disabled.

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Re: When Is It OK To Hit A Woman, what should I have done in this case of harassment by AlexCk: 10:20am On Nov 29, 2017
I've never been slapped by a female tho, except for those normal playful slaps (well, they ain't really slaps sha).

I make sure when we have some serious heated arguments, I just cut it short and walk away, cuz i no want wahala, cuz if she give me hot slap, oga, i go turn snub sharply o, until she over apologize give me. Lol.

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Re: When Is It OK To Hit A Woman, what should I have done in this case of harassment by uk10(m): 10:20am On Nov 29, 2017
trustyshoess:

Violence is not the answer no matter your gender. If ever got married, I would have enough respect for my partner, to not hit him, regardless of the situation. And I expect the same from him. Simple
If I hit him, and he doesn't hit me then that's me being lucky cos I can't blame him if he hits be back
u are an angel who understands true meaning of equality

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Re: When Is It OK To Hit A Woman, what should I have done in this case of harassment by biacan(f): 10:20am On Nov 29, 2017
trustyshoess:

Violence is not the answer no matter your gender. If ever got married, I would have enough respect for my partner, to not hit him, regardless of the situation. And I expect the same from him. Simple
If I hit him, and he doesn't hit me then that's me being lucky cos I can't blame him if he hits be back
If he doesn't hit you back that Show's he's been respectful
Re: When Is It OK To Hit A Woman, what should I have done in this case of harassment by dauntless15(m): 10:22am On Nov 29, 2017
MrBrownJay1:


bro, leave these women who are quick to want to raise their hands on a man, then "think" that bringing the police will solve anything. WHERE?! in WHAT DELUDED WORLD?! you slap a man and he slaps you back, thats self defense, no proper court will ever do anything to this man....and actually the woman who gave the 1st slap can be punished for assault... some woman really dont know how close they are to get their asses royally kicked (or end up in trouble with the law).

how dare she thinks its ok to raise herr hand on a man, but wrong if she get the same treatment?!?!?
bro i am still wondering who told these ladies that guys are piƱatas and its unlawful to defend yourself from an aggressive woman

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Re: When Is It OK To Hit A Woman, what should I have done in this case of harassment by kodded(m): 10:22am On Nov 29, 2017
trustyshoess:

And being a woman stops you from keeping your hands to yourself? If you hit another woman, I'm sure you expect her to hit you back right? This is 2017, Not 1854. You can't hit a man, all the while EXPECTING him to walk away. Accept the consequences of your actions. Men were not born to take beatings from women and vice versa
now you see how stupid feminist sound in Nigeria undecided

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