tosyne2much:
Haha.. I don cancel our appointment be that oooo

biacan:
Never should a man hit a woman........any man that hit a woman is a clown

dauntless15:
lol on the contrary it only takes a man to restrain yourself from hitting such a lady

dauntless15:
then you haven't been out of your father's house, some violence you cannot avoid no matter how peaceful you are

So where have I been staying ooooo?

biacan:
No you can't do these to me you're my all I can't afford to lose you do come lagos

tosyne2much:
So where have I been staying ooooo?

tosyne2much:
Hehe funny u

dauntless15:
have her arrested? Lawsuit? I'm a struggling student I don't have access to such resources and even though I do the police will milk me dry untop settlement before taking me serious they'll say its a domestic matter I should settle it at home, it's like you're forgetting we're in nigeria.

dauntless15:
I grew up listening to every word my principled dad pronounced and adhering to it, among those word is one that really stands out "NEVER HIT A WOMAN" now here comes my dilemma, I have always wondered if there's an exception to that simple statement. At what point are you allowed to disregard it or its a till death thing.
When she grabs your balls?
When she attacks you aggressively with a club, a knife, whatever she could find?
When you're in the ground in the pool of your own blood dying?

I thought feminism is all about equality or girls can't be violent and boys don't have feelings. You're not allowed to talk to her anyhow because she's a girl, don't hit her back she's a girl bla bla bla.

I'm not one to hit a girl as well but I was in a situation recently and I didn't know what to do, this jilted ill mannered lady grabbed me by my shirt so much i couldnt move a muscle and slapped me twice, even though i tower above her in an intimidating way she wasn't detered, she rained obsceneties on me and my friends were like calm down bro she's a goddamned lady, i dont think i'd have been the bad guy if i just toss her out of my way like a twig, what should i have done here?

biacan:
Never you in your life try that with a woman

MissWrite:



"This is Nigeria" should not be an excuse to keep doing things the wrong way. It does not justify burning an armed robber in the street without a trial and it does not excuse your retaliation either. The fact that these things happen every day does not make them right. These are all elements of lawlessness. I sympathize with your situation. It's the same sympathy I reserve for the girl who cannot get the system to respond by bringing her rapist to justice because she doesn't have the means to give them the necessary incentive. All this just shows how much work we have to do in repairing our structures.

NaeChris:
So whats the way forward in the circumstance? Indeed this is Nigeria! It is a let down for me to call the police for A WOMAN because she assaulted me. Even the police will ridicle me. The judge will be like 'who be this'? Thats if the police is merciful enough to forward my case o. I will be disregarded by my fellow me, other women will see me as a weakling, my social reputation will forever be undone, women can now 'ginger' me at will, i will lose my respect. Abeg think of another solution, not this one..

biacan:
Get ready to go to jail if you beat me guys like you are not ready for relationships or marriage better go for therapy before you allow your anger issues consume you

MissWrite:


Okay.

biacan:
hehehe what nah I can't profess my love for you in peace again lol

biacan:
hehehe what nah I can't profess my love for you in peace again lol

biacan:
Then what is your worth as a man if you hit a woman

monex:

what is her worth as a woman if she can assault a man?

dicefrost:


I don't know if you are familiar with legal proceedings. If you slap a guy, or even as much as grab hold of his shirt by the collar, he ll rain slaps on you till your cheeks turn red. No judge ll have mercy on you since you are the aggressor. You cannot initiate a physical confrontation and still claim to be the victim. no one ll go to jail

biacan:
Men are meant to ignore the shortcomings of women........ they are meant to be mature be patient when dealing women

Lightening:


Men are meant to ignore ........ by who? Why can't women work on their shortcomings rather than expecting men to continually ignore them? You reason like someone that will not be able to keep her man and enjoy a healthy relationship.

dauntless15:
pray they don't bro your hands will be tied and you'll just take the humiliation like a dummy then pray she doesn't grab your balls aswell some go that far

monex:


you are the one who needs to watch your reasoning.

she lost the right when she held his shirt and slapped him. The law will take her as first aggressor.

The man only needs to show that his response was not disproportionate.

there is a difference between a woman provoking a man and a woman physically assaulting a man.

MissWrite:



"This is Nigeria" should not be an excuse to keep doing things the wrong way. It does not justify burning an armed robber in the street without a trial and it does not excuse your retaliation either. The fact that these things happen every day does not make them right. These are all elements of lawlessness. I sympathize with your situation. It's the same sympathy I reserve for the girl who cannot get the system to respond by bringing her rapist to justice because she doesn't have the means to give them the necessary incentive. All this just shows how much work we have to do in repairing our structures.

IwantToShashe:



What rubbish Grab her braids/weavon and pull every fucking strand off with your hands. Or better still smash her head on the closest wall or equipment to make her leave your balls quicker.

chuckdee4:


I have sisters and I'm a gentleman but at the bolded point, I would have crashed her skull in because I know there is nothing I would do to a woman to deserve this sort of treatment

dauntless15:
well like I said I had no access to such at that moment and it was the last thing on my mind, i was thinking of shoving her into whatever I could find but my friends were like chill bro be a man