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Re: “I Found Out My He Has Slept With 3 Of My Bridesmaids Few Days To Our Wedding” by chybyke4ly(m): 6:59am On Dec 04, 2017
Bomb!!!
cruchenutii:
There is nothing shocking about this story Joro.

Because you are reflection of your friends who are all gold diggers that didn't mind as long as he gives them enough cash.

Both the bride & 2 ladies on bridal train are the same.

please go ahead & marry him. That's who you deserve.
Re: “I Found Out My He Has Slept With 3 Of My Bridesmaids Few Days To Our Wedding” by duduade: 7:01am On Dec 04, 2017
elmagnifico411:
those your bridesmaids ain't good friends st all! Dey want what is yours, or how else are we suppose to put it? How could Dey sleep with him knowing he was gonna get married to u? Isn't there NO in their dictionary? Not that he isn't wrong? But sis, at any slight opportunity, those your friends go collect your man. Please, try and forgive him. The relationship might look rocky now, but you're gonna smile in the end. Don't let those vultures get the better of u.

I am sure they just wanted a taste of the third leg... If you know how how to get the key to a girls heart you have gotten the key to her downtown.... If you look at it from another perspective
Re: “I Found Out My He Has Slept With 3 Of My Bridesmaids Few Days To Our Wedding” by ehbellsho(m): 7:01am On Dec 04, 2017
I will giv 2 advice:

1. If you knw you can't live up wit his act, you can cancel d weddin n move on (it wil only take a week or two for people to criticise you). Bt knw dat it takes a lot of courage n determination to do dis cos you hav 2 return bk their gifts.

2. You can go ahead wit d wedding BUT shine ur eyes, be watchful cos your sister even ur daughter might b next.

but wait o.... Don' lets rule out d fact that he might stil CHANGE
Re: “I Found Out My He Has Slept With 3 Of My Bridesmaids Few Days To Our Wedding” by Nobody: 7:03am On Dec 04, 2017
Priscy01:
Joro shared a yet shocking story of a bride-to-be who is currently in a dilemma and needs advise from matured minds.

She revealed her fiance is from a rich family, and she has gotten gifts from his family… But the problem is he has slept with 3 of her bridesmaids..

Read her story below:
“This is concise as I’m too distraught to type. I’m meant to get married soon. My fiancee is from a rich family. His fam bought me a car, land amongst other things for wedding gift.”

“As at today I have millions in my account from wedding money as gift. He was dreamy to me. My all. But I’m in a quandary now. I don’t know if I should go ahead with the wedding. My family thinks I should. I realize people change when they see money.”

“I realize people change when they see money. My family doesn’t care about the cheating because they know I’ll be financially secure. Cutting the story short.”

“I found out my fiancee has slept with 3 of my friends on my bridal train. I saw this in a text he was sending to his friends and bragging. I’m so ripped apart. I can’t eat or sleep.”

“I confronted him and I said I needed time to rethink. He has been crying. I love my girls but I’m not mad at them. Is it weird I’m mad at him alone. He sleep with them all while we were dating. Please public opinion matters.”


http://www.torimill.com/2017/12/found-out-my-he-has-slept-with-3-of-my.html

Lalasticlala Mynd44 Dominique
Just marry him, get babies, make more money and dump the silly dog. How can he sleep with your bridesmaid How does he expect them to look at you during the wedding. Please don't let him get away with this crime, punish him?!!!
Re: “I Found Out My He Has Slept With 3 Of My Bridesmaids Few Days To Our Wedding” by jimmynick: 7:05am On Dec 04, 2017
You are the money-type, so just pursue the money
Re: “I Found Out My He Has Slept With 3 Of My Bridesmaids Few Days To Our Wedding” by obowunmi(m): 7:07am On Dec 04, 2017
DjAndroid:


Yet you have said nothing on the topic

She knows she shouldn't marry him. What else is there to say.
Re: “I Found Out My He Has Slept With 3 Of My Bridesmaids Few Days To Our Wedding” by Nasirukry(m): 7:07am On Dec 04, 2017
It's not easy for u to find a man who is 100% free from those worldly issues,its d same thing with ladies too. U can go ahead with marriage knowing he can hurt u at anytime,otherwise u can keep praying for him because it can change anything.
Re: “I Found Out My He Has Slept With 3 Of My Bridesmaids Few Days To Our Wedding” by Nobody: 7:09am On Dec 04, 2017
Priscy01:
Joro shared a yet shocking story of a bride-to-be who is currently in a dilemma and needs advise from matured minds.

She revealed her fiance is from a rich family, and she has gotten gifts from his family… But the problem is he has slept with 3 of her bridesmaids..

Read her story below:
“This is concise as I’m too distraught to type. I’m meant to get married soon. My fiancee is from a rich family. His fam bought me a car, land amongst other things for wedding gift.”

“As at today I have millions in my account from wedding money as gift. He was dreamy to me. My all. But I’m in a quandary now. I don’t know if I should go ahead with the wedding. My family thinks I should. I realize people change when they see money.”

“I realize people change when they see money. My family doesn’t care about the cheating because they know I’ll be financially secure. Cutting the story short.”

“I found out my fiancee has slept with 3 of my friends on my bridal train. I saw this in a text he was sending to his friends and bragging. I’m so ripped apart. I can’t eat or sleep.”

“I confronted him and I said I needed time to rethink. He has been crying. I love my girls but I’m not mad at them. Is it weird I’m mad at him alone. He sleep with them all while we were dating. Please public opinion matters.”


http://www.torimill.com/2017/12/found-out-my-he-has-slept-with-3-of-my.html

Lalasticlala Mynd44 Dominique
Re: “I Found Out My He Has Slept With 3 Of My Bridesmaids Few Days To Our Wedding” by Paperwhite(m): 7:10am On Dec 04, 2017
Daboomb:




There is ALWAYS A PRICE to pay!
You can chose what you value most but l suspect that you wont want to giveup on all those millions, lands, car, e.t.c grin grin

Sleeping with your friends does not mean he dont love you, men are not emotionally attached to who they phuck, to them, its just an act of "adventure and conquer".
You can leave him but the next poor guy you meet, wil also phuck two of your neighbour, so what is the difference? grin
I even suspect one of your bridesmaid (that you are not mad at), is secretly 'fasting and praying' that you will call off the marraige so she can just step-in and become the new, official wife.
undecided undecided
Thank you-your opinion is the one I personally share on this issue.
Re: “I Found Out My He Has Slept With 3 Of My Bridesmaids Few Days To Our Wedding” by Nobody: 7:11am On Dec 04, 2017
Priscy01:
Joro shared a yet shocking story of a bride-to-be who is currently in a dilemma and needs advise from matured minds.

She revealed her fiance is from a rich family, and she has gotten gifts from his family… But the problem is he has slept with 3 of her bridesmaids..

Read her story below:
“This is concise as I’m too distraught to type. I’m meant to get married soon. My fiancee is from a rich family. His fam bought me a car, land amongst other things for wedding gift.”

“As at today I have millions in my account from wedding money as gift. He was dreamy to me. My all. But I’m in a quandary now. I don’t know if I should go ahead with the wedding. My family thinks I should. I realize people change when they see money.”

“I realize people change when they see money. My family doesn’t care about the cheating because they know I’ll be financially secure. Cutting the story short.”

“I found out my fiancee has slept with 3 of my friends on my bridal train. I saw this in a text he was sending to his friends and bragging. I’m so ripped apart. I can’t eat or sleep.”

“I confronted him and I said I needed time to rethink. He has been crying. I love my girls but I’m not mad at them. Is it weird I’m mad at him alone. He sleep with them all while we were dating. Please public opinion matters.”


http://www.torimill.com/2017/12/found-out-my-he-has-slept-with-3-of-my.html

Lalasticlala Mynd44 Dominique

Go on with the marriage. He slept with them while you were dating. He was sampling, and he chose you as the best. You should be proud. H must have slept with loads of other girls. Those ones only just happen to be people you know.
Besides, his family knows that he can sleep with a gp tank if a hole is drilled on it; that's why you are getting so much gifts even before you two are finally married. They needed their son to settle down. They know that the restlessness of the pendulum in between his lower limbs would make that ordinarily become an illusion. It's a case of spraying the dollars before the rain comes pouring. Fact is: there's always a price to pay. They knew that sooner or later you are goin' to find out who the bobo really is. It was a well acted script. You just happen to be the unfortunate actress who was not informed.
I wish you a happy married life. Did i just said happy? Well, i'm really not sure about that. Just that i gotta wish you something and that's what my fingers could type.
Re: “I Found Out My He Has Slept With 3 Of My Bridesmaids Few Days To Our Wedding” by Afec1000givers: 7:11am On Dec 04, 2017
jaychubi:


Op n her family are gold diggers

She will never take ur advice, have u thought abt d car, land and millions of money in her account dt she will have to return.

She will eternally regret if she leaves this rich n generous Dude nt even herself or her family will forgive her.

For me she shld pay dt price which is massive infidelity ahead n enjoy her rich dude, d money will wipe her tears besides I believe her bride price must ve been paid by nw which means they r married.
i"m suspecting they are trying to bribe her into the marriage because they know the kind of son they have...if not why all those gift before the wedding or is the president daughter?
Re: “I Found Out My He Has Slept With 3 Of My Bridesmaids Few Days To Our Wedding” by emeralddayo(f): 7:13am On Dec 04, 2017
jaychubi:


Gifts for a wedding dt never held n u think she can keep it and there won't be consequence. This beats conscience and morality.

Anyway ur advice is off d mark BC they are probably married and awaiting church blessing BC her bride price must have been paid by nw
so her happiness forever should be ignored because some people gave her gifts already? Conscience and morality the groom didn't think about before sleeping around? she should go whatever suits her, all our decisions has consequences, we just have to go for the ones we can bear.
Re: “I Found Out My He Has Slept With 3 Of My Bridesmaids Few Days To Our Wedding” by IkweP(m): 7:14am On Dec 04, 2017
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whatever that is reveal is for a Purpose.
Person wey u for Nigeria go fail u for America to oo.
It has happened & might still happen becus thesame devil that makes him do that is still alive.
Just listen to ur inner voice & be decisive

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Re: “I Found Out My He Has Slept With 3 Of My Bridesmaids Few Days To Our Wedding” by Nobody: 7:16am On Dec 04, 2017
emeralddayo:
so her happiness forever should be ignored because some people bought gifts already? Anyways she should go whatever suits her, all our decisions has consequences, we just have to go for the ones we can bear.

She can divorce , if they have already done the registry

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Re: “I Found Out My He Has Slept With 3 Of My Bridesmaids Few Days To Our Wedding” by Nobody: 7:18am On Dec 04, 2017
missyadorable:
That's not strange.

Most Men sleep with their fiancee's or wives' friends
That's the reason smart women don't let their friends get famzy with their men.
Same reason, reasonable women don't advertise their men on social media.

In this case,you are just 1 of the few ladies to find out.
The guy is not remorseful,he will continue to fvck ur friends after the marriage.He is rich and women don't care as long as a man has the money,they will fall for him.


The choice is yours.

Meanwhile,whats the function/duty of bride maids?
I didn't have them during my wedding

So how did you do yours then? I thought its suppose to be mandatory. The bridal train, the best man etc Those things are suppose to go hand in hand i guess.
Re: “I Found Out My He Has Slept With 3 Of My Bridesmaids Few Days To Our Wedding” by jaychubi: 7:19am On Dec 04, 2017
emeralddayo:
so her happiness forever should be ignored because some people bought gifts already? Anyways she should go whatever suits her, all our decisions has consequences, we just have to go for the ones we can bear.

Happiness is a relative word, what makes everyone happy is different. For some ppl having millions in their account makes them happy, for others seeing their family happy makes them happy n for others they need love n care to be happy.

So everyone's definition of happiness is different.
Re: “I Found Out My He Has Slept With 3 Of My Bridesmaids Few Days To Our Wedding” by shugamummy: 7:20am On Dec 04, 2017
Bottom line is PRIVACY ISSUES. Access to unprotected messages on a free mobile app or SMS can ruin an entire lifetime.
Re: “I Found Out My He Has Slept With 3 Of My Bridesmaids Few Days To Our Wedding” by Nobody: 7:21am On Dec 04, 2017
Luukasz:
Sex sometimes doesn't know class

Abi o, my issue this Kiss & Tell thing. he could have just Shut his mouth & everything would be fine & they live happily ever after !
Re: “I Found Out My He Has Slept With 3 Of My Bridesmaids Few Days To Our Wedding” by jaychubi: 7:27am On Dec 04, 2017
Afec1000givers:
i"m suspecting they are trying to bribe her into the marriage because they know the kind of son they have...if not why all those gift before the wedding or is the president daughter?

Lol may be u r right, but I suspect d guy loves the bride dts y he cried when caught an average rich dude would ve nt shown any remorse.
NB: a man cheating does nt mean he doesn't love his wife or care for his family, most times it's jst a bad habit or weakness which is difficult to drop. Girls do not care once a guy is rich, they will do anything to get their share of the money.
Re: “I Found Out My He Has Slept With 3 Of My Bridesmaids Few Days To Our Wedding” by chronique(m): 7:28am On Dec 04, 2017
Mehn, I never knew Alan Shearer was a Nigerian until I opened this thread... The husband to be, is a very good striker.
Re: “I Found Out My He Has Slept With 3 Of My Bridesmaids Few Days To Our Wedding” by mapet: 7:28am On Dec 04, 2017
Priscy01:
Joro shared a yet shocking story of a bride-to-be who is currently in a dilemma and needs advise from matured minds.

She revealed her fiance is from a rich family, and she has gotten gifts from his family… But the problem is he has slept with 3 of her bridesmaids..

Read her story below:
“This is concise as I’m too distraught to type. I’m meant to get married soon. My fiancee is from a rich family. His fam bought me a car, land amongst other things for wedding gift.”

“As at today I have millions in my account from wedding money as gift. He was dreamy to me. My all. But I’m in a quandary now. I don’t know if I should go ahead with the wedding. My family thinks I should. I realize people change when they see money.”

“I realize people change when they see money. My family doesn’t care about the cheating because they know I’ll be financially secure. Cutting the story short.”

“I found out my fiancee has slept with 3 of my friends on my bridal train. I saw this in a text he was sending to his friends and bragging. I’m so ripped apart. I can’t eat or sleep.”

“I confronted him and I said I needed time to rethink. He has been crying. I love my girls but I’m not mad at them. Is it weird I’m mad at him alone. He sleep with them all while we were dating. Please public opinion matters.”


http://www.torimill.com/2017/12/found-out-my-he-has-slept-with-3-of-my.html


My first reaction without thinking too far........ baby girl, cancel your bridal train. If this is true, you obviously have SHARKS not friends
Re: “I Found Out My He Has Slept With 3 Of My Bridesmaids Few Days To Our Wedding” by MightySparrow: 7:31am On Dec 04, 2017
Priscy01:
Joro shared a yet shocking story of a bride-to-be who is currently in a dilemma and needs advise from matured minds.

She revealed her fiance is from a rich family, and she has gotten gifts from his family… But the problem is he has slept with 3 of her bridesmaids..

Read her story below:
“This is concise as I’m too distraught to type. I’m meant to get married soon. My fiancee is from a rich family. His fam bought me a car, land amongst other things for wedding gift.”

“As at today I have millions in my account from wedding money as gift. He was dreamy to me. My all. But I’m in a quandary now. I don’t know if I should go ahead with the wedding. My family thinks I should. I realize people change when they see money.”

“I realize people change when they see money. My family doesn’t care about the cheating because they know I’ll be financially secure. Cutting the story short.”

“I found out my fiancee has slept with 3 of my friends on my bridal train. I saw this in a text he was sending to his friends and bragging. I’m so ripped apart. I can’t eat or sleep.”

“I confronted him and I said I needed time to rethink. He has been crying. I love my girls but I’m not mad at them. Is it weird I’m mad at him alone. He sleep with them all while we were dating. Please public opinion matters.”


http://www.torimill.com/2017/12/found-out-my-he-has-slept-with-3-of-my.html


Big deal, Sleep with three of his groom's men. 1:1 goalless draw. Happy married life.
Re: “I Found Out My He Has Slept With 3 Of My Bridesmaids Few Days To Our Wedding” by pawesome(m): 7:31am On Dec 04, 2017
Mehn fear gals... Una slip wit una frnd husband to b and unq stil de d bridal train....fear gals joh
Re: “I Found Out My He Has Slept With 3 Of My Bridesmaids Few Days To Our Wedding” by Luukasz(m): 7:32am On Dec 04, 2017
cruchenutii:

Abi o, my issue this Kiss & Tell thing. he could have just Shut his mouth & everything would be fine & they live happily ever after !

As if you read my mind, the stupid bloke with no nous at all still went on bragging to his friends. Thats childish tho even his friends too, as for the bride she should just do away with those 3 friends.
Such friends can kill and even rub it on your face without remorse. That why I hate keeping friends especially more than 1 or 2, to much friends is a no-no

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Re: “I Found Out My He Has Slept With 3 Of My Bridesmaids Few Days To Our Wedding” by chalsixtus(m): 7:35am On Dec 04, 2017
Your man and three of your friends cheated on you and all you saying is "you love your girls and ain't mad at them " it clearly shows you valued your friends much more than the relationship , and you've known them to be "loosed pvssiez" you ain't mad , apparently that's the bond that ties you ladies together.
the man must have sensed this and played a fast check mate on you ,,,,, but you want to be the first to cry and raise the roof because you are a woman.

madam that's your husband marry him and stay married , if you don't one of your beloved friends will do that at a lower cost


#reason why I detest dating any lady with trailer load of friends

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Re: “I Found Out My He Has Slept With 3 Of My Bridesmaids Few Days To Our Wedding” by Diso60090(m): 7:36am On Dec 04, 2017
If you leaving no problem but make sure you return the money land everything you don get as gift from the family


Then you can now go with your tight P******
Re: “I Found Out My He Has Slept With 3 Of My Bridesmaids Few Days To Our Wedding” by Nobody: 7:41am On Dec 04, 2017
Luukasz:

As if you read my mind, the stupid bloke with no nous at all still went on bragging to his friends. Thats childish tho even his friends too, as for the bride she should just do away with those 3 friends.
Such friends can kill and even rub it on your face without remorse. That why I hate keeping friends especially more than 1 or 2, to much friends is a no-no

But thats the problem. She says she isn't even angry with her friends. Thats is probably the lives they lived, jumping from one Rich guy to the other, How can 3 of your friends sleep with your man. Habba?

It has to be that they are all RUNS girls honestly, If its only 1 friend. It would have been understandable. But 3 friends means thats her whole Crew. To be truthful, she is a Retired RUNS girl when she met him.
Re: “I Found Out My He Has Slept With 3 Of My Bridesmaids Few Days To Our Wedding” by GraGra247(m): 7:42am On Dec 04, 2017
Problem is that you might decide to call off the wedding and choose to marry a man that is not wealthy just cos you think he's honest. He'll likely still cheat.
Re: “I Found Out My He Has Slept With 3 Of My Bridesmaids Few Days To Our Wedding” by Nobody: 7:42am On Dec 04, 2017
chalsixtus:
Your man and three of your friends cheated on you and all you saying is "you love your girls and ain't mad at them " it clearly shows you valued your friends much more than the relationship , and you've known them to be "loosed pvssiez" you ain't mad , apparently that's the bond that ties you ladies together.
the man must have sensed this and played a fast check mate on you ,,,,, but you want to be the first to cry and raise the roof because you are a woman.

madam that's your husband marry him and stay married , if you don't one of your beloved friends will do that at a lower cost


#reason why I detest dating any lady with trailer load of friends

Thank you jare, this was the same thing I'm was thinking.

She says she isn't even angry with her friends. Thats is probably the lives they lived, jumping from one Rich guy to the other, How can 3 of your friends sleep with your man. Habba?

It has to be that they are all RUNS girls honestly, If its only 1 friend. It would have been understandable. But 3 friends means thats her whole Crew. To be truthful, she is a Retired RUNS girl when she met him.
Re: “I Found Out My He Has Slept With 3 Of My Bridesmaids Few Days To Our Wedding” by stevups(m): 7:42am On Dec 04, 2017
Hope you have not sighted another dude! Return all he has given you, then stop the wedding.
Re: “I Found Out My He Has Slept With 3 Of My Bridesmaids Few Days To Our Wedding” by sweetcocoa(f): 7:45am On Dec 04, 2017
Rubbish useless nonsense lie of a story, mschew.

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Re: “I Found Out My He Has Slept With 3 Of My Bridesmaids Few Days To Our Wedding” by Duru009(m): 7:46am On Dec 04, 2017
You people keep blaming men all the time.

Did thy force these ladies who are your bridesmaids to open their legs.

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