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Re: My Nairaland Romance Story: Two Nairalanders Wed (Photos) by Martin0(m): 10:47am On Dec 09, 2017
MhisTahrah:
Hahahaha gringrin Blenze meds ko,bronze meds nii.We'll give you a plastic toy that you can stare at all day long.


Oh e nor go even work,as God gave human's it natural medicine u know,so I guess in my case such should be prescribed to megringrin
Re: My Nairaland Romance Story: Two Nairalanders Wed (Photos) by SmellingAnus(m): 10:51am On Dec 09, 2017
Congratulations to you guys... Have a fruitful union...

Make I go look for my nairaland wife... grin
Re: My Nairaland Romance Story: Two Nairalanders Wed (Photos) by shaybebaby(f): 10:51am On Dec 09, 2017
Martin0:
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Goody goody morning ooogringrin
Oya sammer this onegringrin
Your head dey there. kiss

Bag of rice ko, bag of sand ni.
Re: My Nairaland Romance Story: Two Nairalanders Wed (Photos) by Martin0(m): 10:54am On Dec 09, 2017
shaybebaby:

Your head dey there. kiss

U know say I nor dey peray peray nagringrin

Bag of rice ko, bag of sand ni.


Mugabe say our Em Em shouldn't be called sweets as it just jus some few pence,but rather called bag of rice,guccibags,gold chains,,,atleast with these I can share,but with you calling sweet,I woudnt sharegringrin
Re: My Nairaland Romance Story: Two Nairalanders Wed (Photos) by JeffreyJamez(m): 10:55am On Dec 09, 2017
Oyindidi:
Ladies, it's time to talk intelligently, who knows one bobo might be following you around watching all you do here.

This boys can be annoying sometimes but tolerate them cos your Mr right might still be a kiddogrin

Guys, try and behave mature tongue

NA here them dey see you grin
Re: My Nairaland Romance Story: Two Nairalanders Wed (Photos) by shaybebaby(f): 10:57am On Dec 09, 2017
Martin0:


Mugabe say our Em Em shouldn't be called sweets as it just jus some few pence,but rather called bag of rice,guccibags,gold chains,,,atleast with these I can share,but with you calling sweet,I woudnt sharegringrin
Sweets get levels o as well as many flavours. Rice na rice.
Re: My Nairaland Romance Story: Two Nairalanders Wed (Photos) by Martin0(m): 10:59am On Dec 09, 2017
shaybebaby:

Sweets get levels o as well as many flavours. Rice na rice.

Eh eh ok ooo...
Erm before I forget to say thisgringrin

Gawd hmmmmm waow I dey come make I go Zoom that ur pics to feed this my naked eye'sgringrin

Chai I don spoil no be smallgrin
Re: My Nairaland Romance Story: Two Nairalanders Wed (Photos) by Nobody: 11:01am On Dec 09, 2017
Wow wow wow wow wow wow...
I couldn't comment on the bridal shower pix but i must say congrats.
U both just proved that Not everyone here are bad there are few gud ones but my boo cant be from NL especially the romance section. What worked for A might not work for B.
I love the traditional attire and his happy smile. Congrats again.

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Re: My Nairaland Romance Story: Two Nairalanders Wed (Photos) by Henitan24(f): 11:04am On Dec 09, 2017
Olulinks:

Henitan24, una dey hear?

I no hear anything, only you want queen, Mimi, Helot, Dolapo and I. (don't want to mention their real moniker). Pls stick to one
embarassed

#amjealous
Re: My Nairaland Romance Story: Two Nairalanders Wed (Photos) by rossi5(f): 11:21am On Dec 09, 2017
bibijay123:
https://www.nairaland.com/3309489/twine-drama-series

It alll started on this thread grin

On the 2nd of December I walked down the aisle with my personal 'bully", bestie, lover, fellow movie maniac and team mate grin. He's not only my bestie, he is my ride or never cheesy


A year ago I said I would never marry because I had a phobia for marriage and I didn't want to put any kid through what I had gone through as a child. I lost my dad when I was only six so I partly grew up with family members and whenever I thought of what they called " marriage' I feel a shudder run through me. I had seen so much ugliness that I vowed not to put the shackles called marriage around my legs... but that was until I met this crazy, fun loving guy with a tongue that could blow your mind off.. grin literally. Jeez nothing fazes him and he's always in my corner, yea he's my number one fan cheesy I can't believe it started from here...Nairaland

My pastor so much love how we met that he shares the story during love or relationship seminar in the church and even on the wedding day!

" Do you know that if you are hard working and you are good at what you do, you will be singled out of a million? " My pastor said, his gaze flickering around the faces of everyone seated. Of course the question was rhetoric so he went on." Do you know that you can find love even on the internet? Do you know Nairaland? Brother Crazygod was reading sister Bibi's stories on NL and he fell in love with her... cheesy"

Well this is my love journey...

I took note of everyone on my thread in the literature section so I can give them a mention when I start a new story. I took note of him on the second thread I created, a story about a call girl. Somehow I knew that he was the one liking all my posts even when I type 'lol'. He was on every thread I made and he always gave constructive criticisms about my stories. It was like I had an automatic 'like' button wink

Back to this thread

https://www.nairaland.com/3309489/twine-drama-series

He said he was falling for me...

I replied him that I had a parachute to catch him if he did fall.

It was all joke and fun to me.

I couldn't post on the thread for weeks because the transformer in my area got bad. When I finally got back online I got several mentions from the readers on that thread. They were all worried about the story! They wanted to know why the story was stopped. Some even called me names without asking if I had a valid reason for not posting. I decided within me that I won't complete the story but not until I scrolled further and I saw what Crazygod (m) and Dominic (f) posted. Crazygod kept asking about the ' writer' and he wanted to know if she was okay. He said he was alarmed because I didn't post anything on Facebook either (unknown to me he sent me a friend request on there and I accepted without knowing who he was.) He also left me several messages on Facebook and I was touched by what he said, "Bibi just let us know if you are alright,"

Dominic was also worried about me and she kept asking if anyone heard from me. I had a personal rule not to meet anyone online or give out my number but I broke them for these two people. I went through all his posts, read his comments and he seemed so mature to me. I gave him my number when he asked for it, he was so calm and polite when he called me. cheesy I also broke my personal rule that I won't meet any from online and I went to see a movie with him grin He was really persistent and patient. He didn't talk much when we met, he was so quite and I began to wonder if he was pretending cheesy This guy could really talk over the phone so don't blame me for wondering cheesy

We agreed that the first meeting wasn't a date and we also agreed that we won't see each other again.


Here's the difficult part; to say yes to a relationship or nay?

After communicating over the phone for months, he started asking for another date and this scared me. He was acting all serious with the whole 'toasting thing'. He said I had the qualities he needed in a partner and so on. This guy is so persistent that saying "no" "no' became a chore. I also noticed that he was a goal getter and he is focused. My kinda guy!

He was sweet, still is and he has a madt sense of humour. Yea I was doing my own tripping too but afraid was catching me. I could wake up one day and find a really nasty thread about me if I wasn't careful.

Although he is a great listener and he's got a heart of gold I was scared because he might have been pretending and acting all nice just to get cookies tongue

But I had inner peace whenever I thought of him. My heart told me he was for real but this same heart has misled me before. cheesy I asked a few of my friends here what they think about dating a fellow Nairalander and I am afraid to say that the reviews were bad!!!! cry

I decided to grant the second date and it was awesome. Then the third, fourth and the rest becomes history....


This journey hasn't been easy but it has been worth it. I remember asking him if his family was aware that I wasn't a Nigerian and he said they were totally cool with it. I didn't believe him because my ex's family were not cool with me being a Togolese and whenever I visited the mom would say "Togo is too far.." cheesy anyway I got the message loud and clear. Then add a clingy ex into the mix and my phobia for marriage you will find that it hasn't been easy. But oh it's worth it! grin

My new mother loves everything about Togo, the language, people and she even insisted that a Togolese song should be played during the traditional wedding. cheesy I got three new siblings, a fantastic aunt, three cute nephews and a beautiful niece who was one of my flower girls grin How could I forget my new sister who is married to his brother, she is world best organiser and event planner cheesy She was my event planner and I got the wedding of my dreams smiley

PS. Our entrance song was Gweta by Toofan from Togo. Great song! grin
am happy for you.God bless your home.and i tap into the same testimony.

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Re: My Nairaland Romance Story: Two Nairalanders Wed (Photos) by Olulinks(m): 11:32am On Dec 09, 2017
Henitan24:


I no hear anything, only you want queen, Mimi, Helot, Dolapo and I. (don't want to mention their real moniker). Pls stick to one
embarassed

#amjealous
Lol. Awww and I know you'll see those messages o. No bad motive intended though. Happy weekend to you dear.
Re: My Nairaland Romance Story: Two Nairalanders Wed (Photos) by Blackhawk01: 11:39am On Dec 09, 2017
MhisTahrah:
Congrats Bibijay and crazygod(crazy moniker grin).

Daeylar I'm awaiting yours too.lipsrsealed
Blackhawk01/blackhawk03
Makydebbie
Queensekxy
Gucciqueen38
Mariinee
I wantu buy aso-ebi before this year runs out.cheesy

Hahahaha cheesy grin

Find me man first na grin
Re: My Nairaland Romance Story: Two Nairalanders Wed (Photos) by Nobody: 11:43am On Dec 09, 2017
shaybebaby:

Yup, I am a feminist and do everything equally or equitably.

But Martin0, why you want to share me like sweet? angry
When I want something, I go for it including a fella.

No time, YOLO cool

Una good morning o my brothers.
haba a feminist!shocked u too fine to be a feminist nashocked.d feminist i know here are always built like men and they are fond of beating up their husbands or boyfriendscheesy.hope u don't beat up men oocheesy.
Re: My Nairaland Romance Story: Two Nairalanders Wed (Photos) by Blackhawk01: 11:45am On Dec 09, 2017
pocohantas:


The girl attached is a cutie o.
Me iyam "unmarriageable" angry angry

Wetin concern you with the guys culinary skills? Are you a feminist? Why are you looking for a man that will cook for you. You this child of the world.

Unmarriageable? shocked You don't say! angry

Bia, you can't keep your fine face to yourself alone nii, I'll find you a man tongue tongue

Hahahaha cheesy grin cheesy. Can't a lady wish again? cry
Re: My Nairaland Romance Story: Two Nairalanders Wed (Photos) by Nobody: 11:47am On Dec 09, 2017
biacan:
cheesy cheesy cheesy Hope you're recovering fast after what my ukwu did to you cheesy
i just learnt quite a new styles from apostle sule sule to tame dat ur ukwu to submissioncheesy.
Re: My Nairaland Romance Story: Two Nairalanders Wed (Photos) by Nobody: 11:53am On Dec 09, 2017
Martin0:


I nor know about feminist...gringrin

But I know say she go make sence for ugringrin

Oh now u knowgringrin she's classically sexy,haven't u seen her current pics,with well purky fine babe right beside hergringrin

Damm!!! Dat babe is muuaaahhhgringrin
yea she's sexy.i don see some of her pix.like d one wey she hold fone snap for front of mirror and d other one wey she snap for beachcheesy.dem make sense.she jus come carry figure like those ballerina dancers.u know those girls wey dey stand on their toes dey swing bodycheesy.
Re: My Nairaland Romance Story: Two Nairalanders Wed (Photos) by ATK4Joy(f): 11:54am On Dec 09, 2017
I'm happy for you babe's! Your marriage shall be a blessing,your children surround your table and you shall see your children's children in Jesus name

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Re: My Nairaland Romance Story: Two Nairalanders Wed (Photos) by Raxxye(m): 11:56am On Dec 09, 2017
Congratulations, Bibijay. God bless and keep your union!

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Re: My Nairaland Romance Story: Two Nairalanders Wed (Photos) by fatymore(f): 11:58am On Dec 09, 2017
Interesting... Love this...
Re: My Nairaland Romance Story: Two Nairalanders Wed (Photos) by fatymore(f): 11:58am On Dec 09, 2017
Interesting... Love this... Congrats ma
Re: My Nairaland Romance Story: Two Nairalanders Wed (Photos) by Nobody: 12:01pm On Dec 09, 2017
Kimcutie:
Me? want your phone dead? Called ONCE Miss.
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Re: My Nairaland Romance Story: Two Nairalanders Wed (Photos) by Henitan24(f): 12:10pm On Dec 09, 2017
Olulinks:

Lol. Awww and I know you'll see those messages o. No bad motive intended though. Happy weekend to you dear.
Same to you as well
Re: My Nairaland Romance Story: Two Nairalanders Wed (Photos) by shaybebaby(f): 12:13pm On Dec 09, 2017
lefulefu:
haba a feminist!shocked u too fine to be a feminist nashocked.d feminist i know here are always built like men and they are fond of beating up their husbands or boyfriendscheesy.hope u don't beat up men oocheesy.
Those ones are not feminists, they are female thugs. angry

A real feminists holds herself accountable and feels she has the capacity contribute to the society in ways not defined by gender roles but individual strengths.

So she does not hold men either to gender stereotypes and believes in a societal construct that enables both sees to flourish in whatever aspect individuals deem fit personally.

So in relationships, our roles are quite fluid, evolving to best support the overall union according to our capabilities and interests. For instance, I hate cooking and will never be fulfilled in the prescribed role of homemaker. But I am financially savvy, would rather wield a power drill than chop onions. So I'm more useful in those ways than the cooking of meals and the whole point of feminism is to allow me choose what I am good at and excel at it.
My man loves to cook and again, Feminism says that's okay for man as well. He shouldn't be treated any differently because it is not a stereotypical role considered for a man.

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Re: My Nairaland Romance Story: Two Nairalanders Wed (Photos) by Nobody: 12:16pm On Dec 09, 2017
MhisTahrah:
Tell me.
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Re: My Nairaland Romance Story: Two Nairalanders Wed (Photos) by oluangelkay(f): 12:20pm On Dec 09, 2017
Happy married life Bibiiiiiiiiii, may Happiness never cease from,your familyyyyyy Okay now that we proved that yhere are still good girls in Nairaland, who will marry me? Am single and seriously searching
Re: My Nairaland Romance Story: Two Nairalanders Wed (Photos) by zicoraads: 12:23pm On Dec 09, 2017
Laveda:


What have you been telling me? I can't see nothing. tongue
SMH! We all know how long you've been ignoring me embarassed

Be like Bibi, who knows wink
Re: My Nairaland Romance Story: Two Nairalanders Wed (Photos) by Oyindidi(f): 12:26pm On Dec 09, 2017
JeffreyJamez:


NA here them dey see you grin
Runaway brothergrin how you dey?
Re: My Nairaland Romance Story: Two Nairalanders Wed (Photos) by Nobody: 12:29pm On Dec 09, 2017
greiboy:
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Who told you?I know it's not me.They may be wrong.tongue
Re: My Nairaland Romance Story: Two Nairalanders Wed (Photos) by Nobody: 12:33pm On Dec 09, 2017
MhisTahrah:
I have my sources, call me egbon henceforth grin
Re: My Nairaland Romance Story: Two Nairalanders Wed (Photos) by Nobody: 12:33pm On Dec 09, 2017
Martin0:



Oh e nor go even work,as God gave human's it natural medicine u know,so I guess in my case such should be prescribed to megringrin
You don bad finish.I wee transfer you to my oga at the top.tongue
Re: My Nairaland Romance Story: Two Nairalanders Wed (Photos) by Nobody: 12:37pm On Dec 09, 2017
greiboy:
I have my sources, call me egbon henceforth grin
Who?Tell me joor.
Re: My Nairaland Romance Story: Two Nairalanders Wed (Photos) by Durhleepee(f): 12:40pm On Dec 09, 2017
Olulinks:

Honestly!
Btw, you're beautiful, Dolapo.

Thanks

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