Martin0:
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Iffa slap u eh why u dey point finger to ma face? u wan cry

My dear ladies don't know what they want in a relationship jor!
Some ladies are not ready to give it all too!
You don't expect me to be open to a lady who's not ready to give in..

See lemm tell u forget say u be woman ooo!
I know everything about women and there is nothing one can tell me.
I have seen ladies who have the right men at their tip and yet they loss them to another,such ladies what will u say of them?

Martin don't quote me wrongly I said one of the major key not all..... now you get where I'm coming from

You guys should stop using that words......that ladies don't know what they want in a relationship.......like I said earlier if you're not ready to give in don't expect miracles biko
Martin you just lie there....... for the fact that you know everything thing about your ex doesn't mean that you know everything about ladies........

Those type of ladies where not into the relationship in the first place so don't generalise


Ehmmmm wait I dey come nah me you talk say u go slap

biacan:
Martin don't quote me wrongly I said one of the major key not all..... now you get where I'm coming from

Yeah I got ur point!



You guys should stop using that words......that ladies don't know what they want in a relationship.......like I said earlier if you're not ready to give in don't expect miracles biko
Martin you just lie there....... for the fact that you know everything thing about your ex doesn't mean that you know everything about ladies........



See those words I did not start using it personally,I have seen it here on NL and in reality I ve seen also!


Did I mention anything about my Ex? Ur mind too dey go far!
How about most of ma female friends who went out of their relationship for no reason!
Forget Ex out of this please!
See one girl told me she doesn't wanna be in a relationship anymore and when I asked her why she said it coz she doesn't understand exactly wha she's doing in it!

Sometimes some ladies are carried away by the fun/pleasure in it that they loss their focuse!
I have a single mum as friend who was carried away,nd today she doesn't wanna go into relationship anymore coz according to her she might get carried away by the fun it it! Or don't u know these things happen!

Those type of ladies where not into the relationship in the first place so don't generalise

Which kinda ladies are u talking about?
U sef eh! Biacan abeg tell me how do u know they are not into relationship in the first place?


Ehmmmm wait I dey come nah me you talk say u go slap

Na wa for u ooo!pesin nor go play with you again? A whole ur fine face na I wan slap! I can't do that!

**holds her by the waist**

biacan:
Martin don't quote me wrongly I said one of the major key not all..... now you get where I'm coming from

You guys should stop using that words......that ladies don't know what they want in a relationship.......like I said earlier if you're not ready to give in don't expect miracles biko
Martin you just lie there....... for the fact that you know everything thing about your ex doesn't mean that you know everything about ladies........

Those type of ladies where not into the relationship in the first place so don't generalise


Ehmmmm wait I dey come nah me you talk say u go slap

See in my own way this is what I think about relationship and what one should expect either trust or being open.

Sometimes It gonna look like this it doesn't matter how open or trusted one would be!

Expect for them to treat you with respect, to be
patient with you, to understand that if you’re
being short with them, it’s probably just because
you’re having a bad day and has nothing to do
with them. That’s the thing: They have to know
that it’s not always about them. There are other
things happening in your life that don’t revolve
around the relationship and that’s okay. It’s not
an insult.

Expect trust. Without trust, you have nothing.

Your partner should trust you completely until
you give them a reason otherwise. If they don’t
trust you, if they’re already paranoid in the
beginning and try to control you, the
relationship is doomed. Because it’s not about
you. IT’S NEVER ABOUT YOU. You could be
the best significant other ever and it wouldn’t
matter because you’re with someone who’s
violently insecure and will always find
something wrong with you.

Expect to be made to feel good about yourself,
especially when you’re naked and vulnerable.

Sex should be a “NO JUDGMENT” zone.

Expect differences of opinion, expect fights,
expect it to not always feel right, expect to feel a
little bit bored sometimes, expect to feel a little
overwhelmed the other times, expect to question
things, expect to flirt with other people because
it reminds you that you’re still wanted by other
people who are not your partner, expect to be
with someone who loves you as is and doesn’t
want to change you. THIS IS A BIG ONE. It
seems like so many people get into relationships
just to transform someone into another person.

Why do we do this? Don’t date a fixer-upper.

What’s the point?

Expect to be taught new things. Expect to have
your mind blown. Expect to want to be a better
person.

Expect your partner to be faithful, unless you’ve
clearly discussed otherwise.

Expect to be emotionally supported. DON’T
expect to be financially supported.

Expect passion. Expect love. Expect anger.
Never expect indifference.

Expect them to hate you when its over. Feel
relieved if it’s ever not the case.

Martin0:


Na wa for u ooo!pesin nor go play with you again? A whole ur fine face na I wan slap! I can't do that!

**holds her by the waist**

That means you let yourself to get influenced by what most broke guys say here...... listen Martin give in you all in a relationship and don't take advice from guys here cause they don't know where they are heading to some of them are frustrated who can't decide for themselves.......they are all over these forum

Sorry for bringing your ex into these...... but I must say that those ladies where been played by men........one thing about men is that when they see ladies put in their all in a relationship......they would just take advantage of them which is why it is hard for a lady to trust a guy talk more of loving him......


Martin you guys can act like fools just to get the honey pot...... but when angry all the beauty of the lady will fall on deaf ears after you've given her a factory resetting slap.......so men can do anything to hot the one they claim to love when angry



Leave me jor put a ring on it

Martin0:




See in my own way this is what I think about relationship and what one should expect either trust or being open.

Sometimes It gonna look like this it doesn't matter how open or trusted one would be!

Expect for them to treat you with respect, to be
patient with you, to understand that if you’re
being short with them, it’s probably just because
you’re having a bad day and has nothing to do
with them. That’s the thing: They have to know
that it’s not always about them. There are other
things happening in your life that don’t revolve
around the relationship and that’s okay. It’s not
an insult.

Expect trust. Without trust, you have nothing.

Your partner should trust you completely until
you give them a reason otherwise. If they don’t
trust you, if they’re already paranoid in the
beginning and try to control you, the
relationship is doomed. Because it’s not about
you. IT’S NEVER ABOUT YOU. You could be
the best significant other ever and it wouldn’t
matter because you’re with someone who’s
violently insecure and will always find
something wrong with you.

Expect to be made to feel good about yourself,
especially when you’re naked and vulnerable.

Sex should be a “NO JUDGMENT” zone.

Expect differences of opinion, expect fights,
expect it to not always feel right, expect to feel a
little bit bored sometimes, expect to feel a little
overwhelmed the other times, expect to question
things, expect to flirt with other people because
it reminds you that you’re still wanted by other
people who are not your partner, expect to be
with someone who loves you as is and doesn’t
want to change you. THIS IS A BIG ONE. It
seems like so many people get into relationships
just to transform someone into another person.

Why do we do this? Don’t date a fixer-upper.

What’s the point?

Expect to be taught new things. Expect to have
your mind blown. Expect to want to be a better
person.

Expect your partner to be faithful, unless you’ve
clearly discussed otherwise.

Expect to be emotionally supported. DON’T
expect to be financially supported.

Expect passion. Expect love. Expect anger.
Never expect indifference.

Expect them to hate you when its over. Feel
relieved if it’s ever not the case.

Some of the things you wrote are not meant to be there..... all those things are for men

biacan:
That means you let yourself to get influenced by what most broke guys say here...... listen Martin give in you all in a relationship and don't take advice from guys here cause they don't know where they are heading to some of them are frustrated who can't decide for themselves.......they are all over these forum

Sorry for bringing your ex into these...... but I must say that those ladies where been played by men........one thing about men is that when they see ladies put in their all in a relationship......they would just take advantage of them which is why it is hard for a lady to trust a guy talk more of loving him......


Martin you guys can act like fools just to get the honey pot...... but when angry all the beauty of the lady will fall on deaf ears after you've given her a factory resetting slap.......so men can do anything to hot the one they claim to love when angry



Leave me jor put a ring on it

Hmmmmm you made good point!
I never knew you re intelligent to this extent! So why did u jus choose to remain single coz I know say na u decide!

If what you are online is what reality looks like then guy's should be flocking around but then I believe you made a choice to be single! Why that choice?

biacan:
Some of the things you wrote are not meant to be there..... all those things are for men

For men na wa oooo!

Biacan biacan I hail u oo!

Martin0:




Hmmmmm you made good point!
I never knew you re intelligent to this extent! So why did u jus choose to remain single coz I know say na u decide!

If what you are online is what reality looks like then guy's should be flocking around but then I believe you made a choice to be single! Why that choice?

My first relationship was my last for now...... I have never loved anyone so bad like my previous relationship I gave in my all and at the end of the day what did I get in return..... Cheating,humiliated,broken,betray.....etc I have never been heat broken like then..... I felt like dying it took the grace of the creator and my family members for me to get back to my feet...... though I was still at 17/18 then I just zip up and vow never to love again........

Ambition.

Martin0:


For men na wa oooo!
Biacan biacan I hail u oo!

Yes nah you just wrote in your favour

biacan:
My first relationship was my last for now...... I have never loved anyone so bad like my previous relationship I gave in my all and at the end of the day what did I get in return..... Cheating,humiliated,broken,betray.....etc I have never been heat broken like then..... I felt like dying it took the grace of the creator and my family members for me to get back to my feet...... though I was still at 17/18 then I just zip up and vow never to love again........

Na wa oo!
Sorry about that!

I like your courage as you moved on.

Don't worry you will get a better nice and caring man that will be far better than the first,and please don't say u won't love again oo abeg!
Love will come for you again and if it come don't let it go,just try!

biacan:
My first relationship was my last for now...... I have never loved anyone so bad like my previous relationship I gave in my all and at the end of the day what did I get in return..... Cheating,humiliated,broken,betray.....etc I have never been heat broken like then..... I felt like dying it took the grace of the creator and my family members for me to get back to my feet...... though I was still at 17/18 then I just zip up and vow never to love again........

@ 17/18 u are already banging!
Na wa ooo this life don spoil finish ooo!

Chai biacan I hail u ooo! Abeg how old was ur bf then? Nor lie coz I go run leav u

mhisbliss:
how old do you think I am? And who told you that marriage is a do or die affair or a milestone to judge how successful a woman is?

This is it,I agree with you a 100%

biacan:
Yes nah you just wrote in your favour

Hian! In my favour kwa
Na wa for u ooo

Ladyhippolyta88:
This is it,I agree with you a 100%

U wan know wetin I wan talk abi!

Nor worry when u return we shall see

biacan:
Martin understanding men are hard to come by these days....... no woman wants to waste her time on a man who will treat her like a trash

GBAM.

biacan:
Oga if you no get money hide your face

EWO see d way dis girl dey yanu mi okay oo hw much Dd u wat

Martin0:




@ 17/18 u are already banging!
Na wa ooo this life don spoil finish ooo!

Chai biacan I hail u ooo! Abeg how old was ur bf then? Nor lie coz I go run leav u

Mind you I have never had sex all my life so don't say what you don't know about me......... he was I think 25

biacan:
Mind you I have never had sex all my life so don't say what you don't know about me......... he was I think 25

Ok oo! Good decision!

25 na wa ooo!

Martin0:


Ok oo! Good decision!
25 na wa ooo!

I bet you're in your late 20s

biacan:
I bet you're in your late 20s

Me know say u be Prophetess na!

Martin0:

Me know say u be Prophetess na!

No nah at least I like your openness

Ladyhippolyta88:
GBAM.

I dey see u oo

1min man,no lady wanna deal with that

biacan:
No nah at least I like your openness

U see say I follow u argue?

Madam u go work today

Martin0:

U see say I follow u argue?
Madam u go work today

I dey work so Oga sir

octopusfreaky:
Bf is 10 yrs older Dan me and I had to break up with him Still waiting for Mr right

let's wait together dear like

biacan:
I dey work so Oga sir

Eh eh ok oo! I don tell u nor dey call me "oga sir" again oo

Martin0:


Eh eh ok oo!
I don tell u nor dey call me "oga sir" again oo

But you know you men love respect nah..... OK sir

Martin0:

I dey see u oo

Wetin I do?

biacan:
But you know you men love respect nah..... OK sir

biacan:
But you know you men love respect nah..... OK sir

Everybody likes to be respected!

U don still mention say again! anyway na ur mouth sha,but I know say u nor go talk am for reality coz I nor go even answer u!

Ladyhippolyta88:
Wetin I do?

Ask me again?