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Re: My Girlfriend Is Beautiful But Not Intelligent. Should I Still Marry Her? by IamaNigerianGuy(m): 10:37am On Jan 21, 2018
No.
Re: My Girlfriend Is Beautiful But Not Intelligent. Should I Still Marry Her? by MrrPee: 10:38am On Jan 21, 2018
Kastonkastroll:
use her for rituals undecided

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Beautiful But Not Intelligent. Should I Still Marry Her? by Azam101: 10:38am On Jan 21, 2018
KushyKush:
Give her books to read. Make sure she reads at least two books in a month.

You'll see changes.

Relationships are not just about sex and saying I love you. You should be able to bring positive changes to your partner.
You are too .much Gbosa for u!
Re: My Girlfriend Is Beautiful But Not Intelligent. Should I Still Marry Her? by whycee001(m): 10:39am On Jan 21, 2018
donstan18:


Rule of which thumb ma'am, how do you mean?

-You can be intelligent but dates someone who isn't.
-You can be rich but dates a poor person.
-You can be Godly but dates someone who isn't.
-You can be neat but dates someone who isn't .
-You can be ugly but dates a handsome/beautiful fellow.

Are the above listed instances not unlikely attraction?

If "Like" attracts “Like", why then do men marry women instead of their fellow gender?

To the OP, build your woman into whatever you wishes her to be, so long as you love and cherish her.
Manners matter most forget intelligent, if she is too intelligent na problem for you because two king can not stay in a place and to raise a good family u need a woman with manners
The most important thing is that she has manners, it's very necessary in a woman and important to any man.
Re: My Girlfriend Is Beautiful But Not Intelligent. Should I Still Marry Her? by clitlicker: 10:40am On Jan 21, 2018
Banter1:
If you dont want her abeg clitlicker give her to me, and watch me marry her. U call Local Govt Studies useless? You wey read better course you don find better job?
its not by monkier.iv got a good job am not willing to be a sole bread winner.
Re: My Girlfriend Is Beautiful But Not Intelligent. Should I Still Marry Her? by clitlicker: 10:40am On Jan 21, 2018
Banter1:
If you dont want her abeg clitlicker give her to me, and watch me marry her. U call Local Govt Studies useless? You wey read better course you don find better job?
its not by monkier.iv got a good job im not willing to be a sole bread winner.

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Beautiful But Not Intelligent. Should I Still Marry Her? by tealaw(m): 10:40am On Jan 21, 2018
KushyKush:
Give her books to read. Make sure she reads at least two books in a month.

You'll see changes.

Relationships are not just about sex and saying I love you. You should be able to bring positive changes to your partner.

Gbayi! Word!

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Beautiful But Not Intelligent. Should I Still Marry Her? by Bishops10(m): 10:40am On Jan 21, 2018
Chikita66:
Intelligence is one thing that attracts me to a person not cuteness, well I don't know about you.
Same thing here though sometimes beauty does.
Re: My Girlfriend Is Beautiful But Not Intelligent. Should I Still Marry Her? by Azam101: 10:40am On Jan 21, 2018
kimbraa:
You can't be intellectually sound and be dating a girl that isn't. Permit me to say you attract your likes. It's a rule of thumb.
Haba babe u wicked ooo
Re: My Girlfriend Is Beautiful But Not Intelligent. Should I Still Marry Her? by tunesoft(m): 10:40am On Jan 21, 2018
I believe every woman has a strong area....she might just be a genius in business management or some trade or act or something....check it some millionaire cateterers, event planners, make up artistes are not genuises but just good in what they do...but if all she knows is fashion...being fine and crazily dumb well u can manage her as house wife.... She might just be a good home maker. Find something you like or just free her

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Beautiful But Not Intelligent. Should I Still Marry Her? by paulynpen(m): 10:41am On Jan 21, 2018
clitlicker:
im not forming Einstein o, or Elon Musk.
But my girlfriend is below average when it comes to her reasoning.
she is studying a "useless" course in school, Local Govt Studies.
She lacks strategy when she addresses life matter.
If you discuss with her for 10 minutes youll notice her flaws.

she is very fine o and she has manners. i dont want to regret marrying her because of looks o.

can marring her be meaningful considering her intellectual laziness?

I just want to talk to you as a brother in sincerity. Please check my signature. I am a man married with a child.
1. No matter who you marry today with what I read from you, is bound to fail. Why?
Because you have pride and superiority complex, even when you try to hide it. Her level of reasoning is below standard because she does not reason like you? That's totally a wrong mind set for marriage. I had that same problem. I was complaining that my wife is too weak and slow and my friend told me she is not weak just that I am rating her from my own point of view and marriage does not work like that. You try and understand her language and her point view marry it with yours and find a balance. The way I see you from your submission here. If you get a woman that fit your requirement bet you, your house will be a battle field.
2. Her course of study is a useless course! Can you imagine that? That is what she invested her sweat and life in, and you can not appreciate her effirt , you believe because you read rocket science you are better and if you carry this to marriage you will demoralize her and the ones that can't take it will turn your house to war zone. This similar case happened to a friend. The wife manage to study one "useless course" and she was despised not knowing that the course is a rare course after service from no where Fed Govt picked her and she is even the one feeding the family. Mr man learn humility. Come down for your wife. Let me tell you one secret, if you want to cheat your wife just submit yourself no matter what you do or what people tell her she will not believe
Let me stop here
For the superior men who will come here to fight me, if you like quote me I will not reply. The world will be better if the men realise that they are becoming monsters

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Beautiful But Not Intelligent. Should I Still Marry Her? by clitlicker: 10:42am On Jan 21, 2018
Neoteny:

You don't sound like the sharpest knife in the drawer yourself.
u are butressing my point in case u r not aware
Re: My Girlfriend Is Beautiful But Not Intelligent. Should I Still Marry Her? by blueivy8: 10:42am On Jan 21, 2018
I don't understand your language of intelligent...do u mean she doesn't know anything concerning her studies or she can't reason b4 she speaks?like she says things out of point
Re: My Girlfriend Is Beautiful But Not Intelligent. Should I Still Marry Her? by Marvis4real(f): 10:43am On Jan 21, 2018
Please if you really love her and your mind is always at peace with her, coach her. Encourage her to read books, newspapers etc
Re: My Girlfriend Is Beautiful But Not Intelligent. Should I Still Marry Her? by introvertme: 10:43am On Jan 21, 2018
clitlicker:
there is supposed to be a comma after say.
Capital letters are used to begin a sentence grin .

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Beautiful But Not Intelligent. Should I Still Marry Her? by UjuJoan2: 10:43am On Jan 21, 2018
clitlicker:


manners is not enough,

our conversations are usually shallow.

every stupid thing she reads on whatsapp she believes

i hope they dont scam of all her fortunes one day.

with her course, of which she is not coming out with a reasonable grade, it means she will have to do business as no one will employ her.

You have a very low opinion of this lady. . . Please do her favour and move on. Don't marry her and make her feel less of herself by treating her like she's dumb.

I know your type, you can't even be with someone with above average intelligence because you'll feel threatened by her. Because for the life of me I don't understand why you're even dating her talk more of considering marriage.

Serious minded men can't be with ladies line her because nothing would bring them together in the first place.

I'm beginning to agree with Kimbra when she said like attracts like! undecided

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Beautiful But Not Intelligent. Should I Still Marry Her? by sexdoll: 10:44am On Jan 21, 2018
why not?

you can make a beautiful but dull someone to become intelligent.

but you can never make an ugly but intelligent someone to become beautiful.

at least for the sake of your kids... marry a beautiful someone.

for the sake of humanity too.

I am tired of seeing ugly people everywhere you turn.

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Beautiful But Not Intelligent. Should I Still Marry Her? by DeRay98(m): 10:44am On Jan 21, 2018
KushyKush:
Give her books to read. Make sure she reads at least two books in a month.

You'll see changes.

Relationships are not just about sex and saying I love you. You should be able to bring positive changes to your partner.

You made a valid point but on the assumption, that she is willing to grow or improve in her intellectual capacity.
For many unmarried folks this is the assumption that make but married folks will tell you from experience that it's a fallacy.
Usually girls who are conscious of their "good looks" tend to believe that good looks is all that matters. Any attempts show them their flaws is usually misconstrued as attack hence they resist fiercely.
As for Op, if your girl is humble and shows (emphasis on show not say I 'll learn)willingness to improve her capacity then start to build her in preparation for the union.

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Beautiful But Not Intelligent. Should I Still Marry Her? by fedorahat: 10:46am On Jan 21, 2018
clitlicker:

its not by monkier.iv got a good job im not willing to be a sole bread winner.

I hope you know intelligence is not everything,not everyone wants to be a socialite,

If you want a happy home, be prepared to sacrifice








And keep your personal life away from the public, faceless forum or not
Re: My Girlfriend Is Beautiful But Not Intelligent. Should I Still Marry Her? by clitlicker: 10:47am On Jan 21, 2018
introvertme:

Capital letters are used to begin a sentence grin .
unilag olodo!
*used to begin sentences*
Re: My Girlfriend Is Beautiful But Not Intelligent. Should I Still Marry Her? by whycee001(m): 10:48am On Jan 21, 2018
Manners matter most forget intelligent, if she is too intelligent na problem for you because two king can not stay in a place and to raise a good family u need a woman with manners

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Beautiful But Not Intelligent. Should I Still Marry Her? by Dafreeguy(m): 10:49am On Jan 21, 2018
ubunja:
give her to me. thats how i love them...hot and dumb.
i love a gal who doesnt even know what an enzyme is.she is the one i can enjoy.im smart so i dont look for smartness.i look for a pretty face.no matter how dumb a gal is she is my type.

one man's food is really another man poison
Re: My Girlfriend Is Beautiful But Not Intelligent. Should I Still Marry Her? by eliadekx(m): 10:50am On Jan 21, 2018
clitlicker:
im not forming Einstein o, or Elon Musk.
But my girlfriend is below average when it comes to her reasoning.
she is studying a "useless" course in school, Local Govt Studies.
She lacks strategy when she addresses life matter.
If you discuss with her for 10 minutes youll notice her flaws.

she is very fine o and she has manners. i dont want to regret marrying her because of looks o.

can marring her be meaningful considering her intellectual laziness?




No no,,,pls just sent her no to me
Re: My Girlfriend Is Beautiful But Not Intelligent. Should I Still Marry Her? by onlyme07(m): 10:50am On Jan 21, 2018
Let her join nairaland,in six months,you will see the intelligence in her. Let her mingle with great and intelligent ladies on this faceless forum.

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Beautiful But Not Intelligent. Should I Still Marry Her? by edudguy(m): 10:50am On Jan 21, 2018
Nasarawaboy:

Op, as the person above me stated, get her books to read, it could work you know! As for me ooo, I can't and will never marry an ugly girl simply because she's intelligent. A dull pretty lady can be worked upon, but an ugly intelligent lady? Well..... Take her to heaven and bring her back, if she ain't pretty she ain't pretty. I just hate ugly girls. Op pity your children, give them a pretty mum they can be able to flaunt. Am not saying she should be miss Nigeria, am saying let her be presentable, let her be someone you can confidently introduce to someone.
But wetin I sabi sef
Chai you wicked o. If you marry the beautiful ones, who will marry the ugly ones

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Beautiful But Not Intelligent. Should I Still Marry Her? by eliadekx(m): 10:50am On Jan 21, 2018
clitlicker:
im not forming Einstein o, or Elon Musk.
But my girlfriend is below average when it comes to her reasoning.
she is studying a "useless" course in school, Local Govt Studies.
She lacks strategy when she addresses life matter.
If you discuss with her for 10 minutes youll notice her flaws.

she is very fine o and she has manners. i dont want to regret marrying her because of looks o.

can marring her be meaningful considering her intellectual laziness?




No no,,,pls just sent her no to me[b][/b]
Re: My Girlfriend Is Beautiful But Not Intelligent. Should I Still Marry Her? by smudge2079(m): 10:51am On Jan 21, 2018
It's your choice Sire.
Re: My Girlfriend Is Beautiful But Not Intelligent. Should I Still Marry Her? by introvertme: 10:51am On Jan 21, 2018
clitlicker:

unilag olodo!
*used to begin sentences*
OAU olodo
*Unilag*
Re: My Girlfriend Is Beautiful But Not Intelligent. Should I Still Marry Her? by fedorahat: 10:51am On Jan 21, 2018
paulynpen:

I just want to talk to you as a brother in sincerity. Please check my signature. I am a man married with a child.
1. No matter who you marry today with what I read from you, is bound to fail. Why?
Because you have pride and superiority complex, even when you try to hide it. Her level of reasoning is below standard because she does not reason like you? That's totally a wrong mind set for marriage. I had that same problem. I was complaining that my wife is too weak and slow and my friend told me she is not weak just that I am rating her from my own point of view and marriage does not work like that. You try and understand her language and her point view marry it with yours and find a balance. The way I see you from your submission here. If you get a woman that fit your requirement bet you, your house will be a battle field.
2. Her course of study is a useless course! Can you imagine that? That is what she invested her sweat and life in, and you can not appreciate her effirt , you believe because you read rocket science you are better and if you carry this to marriage you will demoralize her and the ones that can't take it will turn your house to war zone. This similar case happened to a friend. The wife manage to study one "useless course" and she was despised not knowing that the course is a rare course after service from no where Fed Govt picked her and she is even the one feeding the family. Mr man learn humility. Come down for your wife. Let me tell you one secret, if you want to cheat your wife just submit yourself no matter what you do or what people tell her she will not believe
Let me stop here
For the superior men who will come here to fight me, if you like quote me I will not reply. The world will be better if the men realise that they are becoming monsters

You are correct in your analysis, but men are not becoming monsters,
The society is changing the perception of relationships, and men have to change with it. Of course we all know change is opposed.

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Beautiful But Not Intelligent. Should I Still Marry Her? by Only1mi(f): 10:51am On Jan 21, 2018
ubunja:

if Like must date Like then you should be a lesbian and pair pvssy with pvssy.
relationships are about complimenting each other NOT duplicating whats already there.whats the point of two intelligent people dating? to discuss photosynthesis?
i'll be smart enough for the both of us and bae will be sexy enough for the both of us.

Conversations will be difficult though.
Re: My Girlfriend Is Beautiful But Not Intelligent. Should I Still Marry Her? by Dafreeguy(m): 10:52am On Jan 21, 2018
hibeekay007:
The fact that you would call a particular course useless is enough for me to know your level of reasoning nd intelligence is depths below that of your girlfriend's

That course is really useless as far as Nigeria is concern
Re: My Girlfriend Is Beautiful But Not Intelligent. Should I Still Marry Her? by fedorahat: 10:53am On Jan 21, 2018
onlyme07:
Let her join nairaland,in six months,you will see the intelligence in her. Let her mingle with great and intelligent ladies on this faceless forum.

Bros there is no intelligence in 80 percent of nairaland posts, except you want her to learn bigotry

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