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Re: My Girlfriend Is Beautiful But Not Intelligent. Should I Still Marry Her? by selfmade22: 12:29pm On Jan 21, 2018
dollyjoy:
What if I tell you there are flaws in you she is trying to put up with because she loves you? Every human has flaws,if you consider her intellectual shallowness as a deal breaker. Please take a walk. Thank you and God bless you. kiss
shut up! if guys tells u d truth body go dey pain una! love ndi muoo
Re: My Girlfriend Is Beautiful But Not Intelligent. Should I Still Marry Her? by Lumig: 12:30pm On Jan 21, 2018
KushyKush:
Give her books to read. Make sure she reads at least two books in a month.

You'll see changes.

Relationships are not just about sex and saying I love you. You should be able to bring positive changes to your partner.
... the guy bringing all those changes to the table, I wonder what the unintelligent girl is bringing to the table/relationship. Abi is it the guy that is meant to affect his partner positively? Otherwise it would be a PARASITIC RELATIONSHIP

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Beautiful But Not Intelligent. Should I Still Marry Her? by ade95: 12:30pm On Jan 21, 2018
ubunja:

there is a reason rich men marry dumb blondes with a pretty face.that type of woman makes you relax coz its never stressing to talk to her.her useless chatter and frivolous issues are hillarious to deal with.me love!!
i stay away from educated smart-mouthed women.i need a wife not a competitor.the smart ones i will do business with but not marry.
Waaaawu!!!! I hope you don't educate your daughter...or you don't empower her to go toe to toe with the her masculine counterparts in terms of intellectual discourse

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Beautiful But Not Intelligent. Should I Still Marry Her? by CountDooku(m): 12:31pm On Jan 21, 2018
clitlicker:
im not forming Einstein o, or Elon Musk.
But my girlfriend is below average when it comes to her reasoning.
she is studying a "useless" course in school, Local Govt Studies.
She lacks strategy when she addresses life matter.
If you discuss with her for 10 minutes youll notice her flaws.

she is very fine o and she has manners. i dont want to regret marrying her because of looks o.


I know her type, used to date one just like her. The truth is that they are late boomers and you have to teach them everything. They can't really do anything that comes with logic themselves they would have to ask you. In my own case I took it for an advantage and thought her alot of things about life and helped her develop as a person. There is nothing wrong with her you just have to invest time and patience, some people just need a strong person in their life. My question to you is ,are you strong enough to lead her? You have to have a very curious mind too to learn so you can teach her and don't ever make the mistake of bringing her down. I'd you can't do the work leave her alone.



Re: My Girlfriend Is Beautiful But Not Intelligent. Should I Still Marry Her? by Dafreeguy(m): 12:31pm On Jan 21, 2018
hibeekay007:

i guess you're still a student, studying a so called 'important course' no worry, u go soon know as e dey go for street..

I know as e dey go for street already, that's y am against that course.

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Beautiful But Not Intelligent. Should I Still Marry Her? by Fawklicant: 12:33pm On Jan 21, 2018
laydoh:
if she is nt willing 2 learn,y z she going 2 skul den.i dnt fink d guy even knws wat e wants self.

My dear, if all who went to school in Nigeria went there to learn, Nigeria would be in a better place. People here go to school for different reasons;
Some for status symbol
Some due to family and societal pressures
Some to look for husband or improve their chances of getting a choice husband
Some for adventurous lifestyle (sex,partying, drugs etc)
Some for learning and career advancement
Some for lack of anything better to do
Some to escape family or home pressures
Do I list more?

Why do you think some people just hang around campus environments without having any legal admission status? But back home, they'll tell everyone they do.

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Beautiful But Not Intelligent. Should I Still Marry Her? by Smutt360raven: 12:34pm On Jan 21, 2018
kimbraa:
You can't be intellectually sound and be dating a girl that isn't. Permit me to say you attract your likes. It's a rule of thumb.

chai... ya wicked ooo
Re: My Girlfriend Is Beautiful But Not Intelligent. Should I Still Marry Her? by selfmade22: 12:35pm On Jan 21, 2018
make her to fall in love with foreign movie, start with 'prison break' she will upgrade, thank me later 0-8-1-7-5-3-4-4-3-6-4
Re: My Girlfriend Is Beautiful But Not Intelligent. Should I Still Marry Her? by bossrillboss: 12:40pm On Jan 21, 2018
Uyi168:
..Which chinese man talk that one again?..
..na lee fan kaung talk am ooo.lol

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Beautiful But Not Intelligent. Should I Still Marry Her? by Dexter001(m): 12:43pm On Jan 21, 2018
Stevengerd:
Seems Ur bae na Abu zaria student.
Guy, ABU Zaria ladies will be coming for you soon.

Re: My Girlfriend Is Beautiful But Not Intelligent. Should I Still Marry Her? by Walelavender(m): 12:43pm On Jan 21, 2018
OP I grew up with this quote sinking deep,daily, to my subconscious.

"When WEALTH is lost,nothing is lost
When HEALTH is lost,something is lost
When CHARACTER is lost, EVERYTHING is lost"

You don't want to throw away the baby(your Fiancee) with the bath-water(low IQ)- She's got character! You need to figure out how you would be a beneficial addition to her life. She needs to be "polished" intellectually.

Get to know her area of interest and make her develop new ones. Get materials(Inspirational and Motivational) for her to read. Ensure you get feedback and challenge her capacity for change.

I can bet it with you, you will be seeing a different person entirely in few of months from now.

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Beautiful But Not Intelligent. Should I Still Marry Her? by drealtruth(m): 12:46pm On Jan 21, 2018
dollyjoy:
What if I tell you there are flaws in you she is trying to put up with because she loves you? Every human has flaws,if you consider her intellectual shallowness as a deal breaker. Please take a walk. Thank you and God bless you. kiss
On point, I guess life is not fair may be she was at a disadvantage growing up for example,attending bad schools, illiterate parents, ghetto environment,unambitious friends,no mentor to look up to,etc. I know people that moved from a local village to urban areas and they started discovering themselves.. OP may be you're the person that will show her a strong side which she has not discovered yet, like someone said give her books,teach her scrabble,introduce her to new friends,thanks to internet let her learn something everyday that challenges her thinking you'll be amazed how she will improve and note it takes time also,exercise patience with her. God bless & Good luck.

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Beautiful But Not Intelligent. Should I Still Marry Her? by perousd: 12:47pm On Jan 21, 2018
KushyKush:
Give her books to read. Make sure she reads at least two books in a month.

You'll see changes.

Relationships are not just about sex and saying I love you. You should be able to bring positive changes to your partner.
Very funny. Hahaha. He must also be ready to force her to read, comprehend and apply. Books dont perform magic. Books gives knowledge but doesnt make one wise.

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Beautiful But Not Intelligent. Should I Still Marry Her? by laydoh(m): 12:47pm On Jan 21, 2018
Fawklicant:


My dear, if all who went to school in Nigeria went there to learn, Nigeria would be in a better place. People here go to school for different reasons;
Some for status symbol
Some due to family and societal pressures
Some to look for husband or improve their chances of getting a choice husband
Some for adventurous lifestyle (sex,partying, drugs etc)
Some for learning and career advancement
Some for lack of anything better to do
Some to escape family or home pressures
Do I list more?

Why do you think some people just hang around campus environments without having any legal admission status? But back home, they'll tell everyone they do.
well said

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Beautiful But Not Intelligent. Should I Still Marry Her? by doctorregular01(m): 12:50pm On Jan 21, 2018
Why do u think she is not intelligent ? Local govt. studies is not a useless course. Infact, i dont see any course as useless . She is beautiful with manners, datz cool enough. U can influence the way she addresses life matter in a lot of ways if u truly love her . U cant have all the qualities u desire in a gal. =clitlicker post=64375314]im not forming Einstein o, or Elon Musk.
But my girlfriend is below average when it comes to her reasoning.
she is studying a "useless" course in school, Local Govt Studies.
She lacks strategy when she addresses life matter.
If you discuss with her for 10 minutes youll notice her flaws.

she is very fine o and she has manners. i dont want to regret marrying her because of looks o.

can marring her be meaningful considering her intellectual laziness?

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Beautiful But Not Intelligent. Should I Still Marry Her? by talk2rotman(m): 12:50pm On Jan 21, 2018
Next2Bezee:


With that mediocre level of reasoning, you can't possibly possess any sort of intellect as well.

asin...dat ur response ehn....if u dey my area I swear u owe me one nice outing. inumi dun seriously....I'm api

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Beautiful But Not Intelligent. Should I Still Marry Her? by ezewealth(m): 12:51pm On Jan 21, 2018
It depends on the traits your looking for in a woman. Believe me that most intelligent dude don't like dating super intelligent ladies because of constant argument, and if your looking for an intelligent lady that will be very submissive you are on a long thing,

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Beautiful But Not Intelligent. Should I Still Marry Her? by oyinda1599(f): 12:51pm On Jan 21, 2018
Vicotex:
Guy free that girl and get yourself an android sexdoll
see u!
Re: My Girlfriend Is Beautiful But Not Intelligent. Should I Still Marry Her? by Molawole7(m): 12:53pm On Jan 21, 2018
Re: My Girlfriend Is Beautiful But Not Intelligent. Should I Still Marry Her? by Fawklicant: 12:56pm On Jan 21, 2018
There's a difference between brilliance and intelligence. The former mostly deals with academic excellence while the later deals with daily life mostly. An unintelligent person is not an ideal partner for an intelligent man. Two of you would be worlds apart and it is only a matter of time before she drags you down to her level. You think you can upgrade her? My brother think again!

Find your level bro otherwise you'll have to explain too often every of your words as they'd be constantly misconstrued. Insecurity of the highest order is what you'll notice in them.

Intelligence doesn't mean smart-mouthedness, find someone of average intelligence at least not a total dumbo. Pretty girls like that get everything though thier beauty and nothing else, so the incentive for self development is not there as they get favours from those who want the kitty. Despite every denial she may present, this saying still suffices; when there's beauty without brains, the private part suffers the most.

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Beautiful But Not Intelligent. Should I Still Marry Her? by ubunja(m): 12:59pm On Jan 21, 2018
ade95:

Waaaawu!!!! I hope you don't educate your daughter...or you don't empower her to go toe to toe with the her masculine counterparts in terms of intellectual discourse
dont be stupid.more educated women are single and lonely than uneducated women.look around you.which women are happiest in love? the smart or the not so smart??
havent you guys proved you value a woman's brains as zero by trending sex dolls as romantic partners??

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Beautiful But Not Intelligent. Should I Still Marry Her? by Nobody: 12:59pm On Jan 21, 2018
clitlicker:
im not forming Einstein o, or Elon Musk.
But my girlfriend is below average when it comes to her reasoning.
she is studying a "useless" course in school, Local Govt Studies.
She lacks strategy when she addresses life matter.
If you discuss with her for 10 minutes youll notice her flaws.

she is very fine o and she has manners. i dont want to regret marrying her because of looks o.

can marring her be meaningful considering her intellectual laziness?








Op you can still marry but try correct her mildly and jokingly whenever she commits a flaw. Every human being cannot be intelligent as you want them to be.
We all learn everyday. As long as she's willing to learn then uv got yourself a peaceful wife.
Some women are Intelligent bookwise but troublesome ,rude and arrogant. Do u prefer to choose any of such women for a wife?

I have married female friends who are intelligent and some who are not Intelligent. At the end they are living peacefully with their husbands.

Non intelligent ones sef are even more quiet and calm. Where u keep them, na there u go see them. Simply understand their pace and work with it.
And as time goes on, with mild and firm criticism ,they always adjust and change a little bit better.
For me, I don't see anything wrong with your bae, you can teach her with love and she will learn.

She even have manners and very beautiful, whatelse do u want?

A rude over sabi intelligent woman abi?

You don't know u are blessed. Let some married men describe their wives for u, u go hold your own tight.

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Beautiful But Not Intelligent. Should I Still Marry Her? by ken2baba(m): 12:59pm On Jan 21, 2018
kimbraa:
I'm not here to type too much grammar just to drive home a baseless point. grin What do you mean by "I'll be smart for the both of us?" isn't your spouse given a brain by nature to function with?. That I said "Likes attract" doesn't necessarily mean a guy will have to be attracted to another dude simply because they've got same body features. When it comes to relationships, we tend to get attracted to those with whom we share some common interest. Something about t person spark your interest. It may not be pronounced but that's exactly what makes one pick interest in the other. Op may think he's intellectually sound but going by that law; he must have had a few conversation with her in their wooing stage to tell her IQ level but that he was ok with what her brain could produce simply means he isn't far off her IQ level.

Madam you are completely wrong.

Most intelligent guys can know dat a girl is not smart but because of her curves and cute face, they will want to sleep with her first and use her for show off.
Re: My Girlfriend Is Beautiful But Not Intelligent. Should I Still Marry Her? by DonX001: 1:07pm On Jan 21, 2018
clitlicker:


chisos! its good to see that there is someone that knows what he is saying, she wont read any book. she is mentally lazy, the mental laziness is palpable, she lied about something last week and i was disturbed by the lack of effort she put to the deception.


i cant cope.
im now oblivious of all other attributes.

i cant cope!!!

Lol, Bros, you talk like you're describing that my ex exactly. Been there, done that.
No long story, no too think am.
Free the babe.

I can't cope with that in marriage myself, for the reasons I mentioned earlier.
Since you can't cope like me too, simply free the babe and let her find someone that doesn't mind that degree of mental laziness.

Don't mind what all these guys shouting "keep her and train her" are saying.
They don't really know what they're saying, they've never really worn the shoe and felt where it hurts.
Or mental laziness is not an important issue to them.

And they won't be with you in the marriage when her dumbness keeps frustrating you.
They'll only stay from a distance and be advising you to "train your wife and pray harder".
Lol.

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Beautiful But Not Intelligent. Should I Still Marry Her? by Mirallas: 1:10pm On Jan 21, 2018
hibeekay007:
The fact that you would call a particular course useless is enough for me to know your level of reasoning nd intelligence is depths below that of your girlfriend's
I think he is referring to,the relative context, not that it is totally useless.
Re: My Girlfriend Is Beautiful But Not Intelligent. Should I Still Marry Her? by kalu61(m): 1:10pm On Jan 21, 2018
Chikita66:
Intelligence is one thing that attracts me to a person not cuteness, well I don't know about you.
Gbam
Re: My Girlfriend Is Beautiful But Not Intelligent. Should I Still Marry Her? by Dexter001(m): 1:11pm On Jan 21, 2018
Uyi168:
..Which chinese man talk that one again?..
Make I help you find the Chinese man.

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Beautiful But Not Intelligent. Should I Still Marry Her? by anizy(f): 1:15pm On Jan 21, 2018
KushyKush:
Give her books to read. Make sure she reads at least two books in a month.

You'll see changes.

Relationships are not just about sex and saying I love you. You should be able to bring positive changes to your partner.


Correct
Re: My Girlfriend Is Beautiful But Not Intelligent. Should I Still Marry Her? by GentleYoung(m): 1:15pm On Jan 21, 2018
kimbraa:
You can't be intellectually sound and be dating a girl that isn't. Permit me to say you attract your likes. It's a rule of thumb.

You're very wrong my sister. It's something that is very possible.
Re: My Girlfriend Is Beautiful But Not Intelligent. Should I Still Marry Her? by ade95: 1:15pm On Jan 21, 2018
ubunja:

dont be stupid.more educated women are single and lonely than uneducated women.look around you.which women are happiest in love? the smart or the not so smart??
havent you guys proved you value a woman's brains as zero by trending sex dolls as romantic partners??
That is why I said don't educate your daughter.....SmArt man undecided
Re: My Girlfriend Is Beautiful But Not Intelligent. Should I Still Marry Her? by DemonMonkey7(m): 1:15pm On Jan 21, 2018
kimbraa:
You can't be intellectually sound and be dating a girl that isn't. Permit me to say you attract your likes. It's a rule of thumb.
shaytap your mumu mouth thia... rule of index na.. s
Re: My Girlfriend Is Beautiful But Not Intelligent. Should I Still Marry Her? by millionboi2: 1:15pm On Jan 21, 2018
kimbraa:
You can't be intellectually sound and be dating a girl that isn't. Permit me to say you attract your likes. It's a rule of thumb.
you sound unintelligent.

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