hoebamaa:


We haven't started talking on phone...we don't chat always.... I don't understand / know is method "Push and pull". I was thinking of going physical first before the phone talking.

after one on one convo
Calls comes second
With calls you can't hide under "lol or lmao"
Start acting like her boyfriend.. You can call her during bed hours 8-9 it depends tho


Push and pull method is like when you are watching a movie... In the beginning everything might sound Beautiful then suddenly something bad start happening
Then everything become normal again

That why women are glued to all doss soap opera

Because the producers have studied the pull and push technique

E. G
She post something like banky w can sing for africa
You: I don't like him jare... His head is too big
She: lol... But he can sing ...
You: all I see his head ...can u even sing
She : LMAO... Me i can't oo but i can dance
You: hmm... At least somebody will teach me how to dance...


Just don't make yourself boring...

2dice01:
after one on one convo
Calls comes second
With calls you can't hide under "lol or lmao"
Start acting like her boyfriend.. You can call her during bed hours 8-9 it depends tho


Push and pull method is like when you are watching a movie... In the beginning everything might sound Beautiful then suddenly something bad start happening
Then everything become normal again

That why women are glued to all doss soap opera

Because the producers have studied the pull and push technique

E. G
She post something like banky w can sing for africa
You: I don't like him jare... His head is too big
She: lol... But he can sing ...
You: all I see his head ...can u even sing
She : LMAO... Me i can't oo but i can dance
You: hmm... At least somebody will teach me how to dance...


Just don't make yourself boring...

Thanks

on my girl birth day, one of her school female friend (them dey thesem univesty) call her, her partner on oneconer dance . Some of things she post on her wall with their pix together is this {My 'one corner' dance
partner..
My last biggi!
I celebrate you!
more grace,
more nyash to dance
'one corner' } pls, i want to know what she mean ,

M2dX:
on my girl birth day, one of her school female friend (them dey thesem univesty) call her, her partner on oneconer dance . Some of things she post on her wall with their pix together is this {My 'one corner' dance
partner..
My last biggi!
I celebrate you!
more grace,
more nyash to dance
'one corner' } pls, i want to know what she mean ,

No put mouth for things wey no concern you. So far the girl is cool with you and you are getting your dividends at when needed. Leave matter for matthias

Obere4u:


No put mouth for things wey no concern you. So far the girl is cool with you and you are getting your dividends at when needed. Leave matter for matthias

,i want to marry her{i dont want a used product, and she is doing holy holy.} she havn't even kiss me(that is not my probrem) the earlier i know the better for me.

M2dX:
,i want to marry her{i dont want a used product, and she is doing holy holy.} she havn't even kiss me(that is not my probrem) the earlier i know the better for me.

Haha. You want to marry person wey never kiss u.
It's obvious she's into a game. You are also doing holy holy

Obere4u:

Haha. You want to marry person wey never kiss u. It's obvious she's into a game. You are also doing holy holy

game?

Somebody shud pls answer me o....Was chatting with a girl I know nd tried using dis trick on her and she got angry asking me who d hell am using d f word on me and even sent an audio even threatened to block me ...I jus replied her dat she shud keep it up nd she might jus ave a chance with me

PenGriffey:
so, whats your question?

Where am doing it d right way if not guide me

PenGriffey:
i can't really get a grasp of the whole senerio. Kindly send screenshots of your conversation with her so we'd know exactly what happened and where you went wrong!

Dis is it...she jus replied mai message now and I quote "I guess u are dumb nd daft" Wah will I use to respond

PenGriffey:
Ok, I'd do a quick analysis on your chat.
To an extent it was good, you were leading the conversation well, as it ought to be. But at a point you Just sold your balls to her in pennies (if thats how its spelt). You started selling it when you told her you don't date fat girls, it would even be better if you added " only if you impress me and got lucky, I'd give you a chance" and that would be it, don't say anything else concerning her picture again, what ever she said in response would be non of your business, just divert the conversation to something else as you wish. This is because getting em' ladies hook is a process, if you tend to rush everything you'd end up ruining everything. The idea of stressing the issue was a very very bad move, you could see for yourself from the replies she gave you afterwards.


The part you got sarcastic with the "mean" word was cool but it was a wrong timing, you got it at the wrong moment.

"if you get the opportunity to date me u will jump on it" - wrong move!
Your reply to her voice note - wrong!

Now, i want you to get something straight, in your above conversation after you almost had everything under your control, you just fell in splits cos you wanted to try impress her, forcing your humor and trying to be cocky at the same time.

Listen, you don't have to try to hard on a girl. It's suppose to be the other way round, she's the who's suppose to try her best to impress you. Why? Simply because you the boss at that moment and you don't give a Bleep about her, you have other ladies around you that you choose from, if they lucky. So I'd want you, as an alpha male who's balls are not like those girls mess around with to careless and relax and let everything else work for its self. Relax, take your time to dissolve every piece of the drills that has been posted here on this thread and watch how everything changes.

Thank me later and have a good one!
Stay safe!

Thanks boss I also knew I made mistakes and abt moving on I already did...Thanks so much for making me see mai mistakes and even giving me extra boost with d one I already ave

Pokiyo007:
Dis is it...she jus replied mai message now and I quote "I guess u are dumb nd daft" Wah will I use to respond

bro, you tried.. but if feel you're over doing things there and she knows that.. Your sarcasm was on point but bad timing..

. You're trying to hard to look too COOL for her. Have read so many guys chats from different girls(I.e my sisters, cousin, friend, girlfriends )phone. I read their chats with different guys, I always see some guys chats (in a try hard way) like the way you're chatting. That kind tactics/game will eventually back fire.
And from the chats, its seems the girl has already friend zone you. You're so focus on your sarcasm and trying to look cool that you missed so many clue she was giving you on how to quickly seduce her.

It just seem like you're almost arguing with the girl. Never arguing with a girl you're interested in fucking..Never.


One more thing, anytime a girl you're trying to game/woo say "you're are just my friend" or any thing similar to that "friend line", quickly let her know (in your words and style) that you're not interested being just her friend. And be confident about it. She might start playing little hard to get. That's where your " I don't care altitudes " should come in.
Don't give bleep about what she thinks, just stick to your GUNS.



Bro, when it comes to dating and women.. I have seen and done every thing, there's nothing new to me..

My advice for you is to just BE REAL.

Take care..

putit:


bro, you tried.. but if feel you're over doing things there and she knows that.. Your sarcasm was on point but bad timing..

. You're trying to hard to look too COOL for her. Have read so many guys chats from different girls(I.e my sisters, cousin, friend, girlfriends )phone. I read their chats with different guys, I always see some guys chats (in a try hard way) like the way you're chatting. That kind tactics/game will eventually back fire.
And from the chats, its seems the girl has already friend zone you. You're so focus on your sarcasm and trying to look cool that you missed so many clue she was giving you on how to quickly seduce her.

One more thing, anytime a girl you're trying to game/woo say "you're are just my friend" or any thing similar to that "friend line", quickly let her know (in your words and style) that you're not interested being just her friend. And be confident about it. She might start playing little hard to get. That's where your " I don't care altitudes " should come in.
Don't give bleep about what she thinks, just stick to your GUNS.



Bro, when it comes to dating and women.. I have seen and done every thing, there's nothing new to me..

My advice for you is to just BE REAL.

Take care..

Very true esp d part abt sarcasm buh am new in d game and am not going to allow dis one hold me down...thanks man

To my bosses in the house PenGriffey 2dice01 pls I need your advice on my current dilemma, there is this girl in my fellowship I asked her out last year she said she isn't ready for any relationship, I kept sending (not love messages tho) her messages, she kept saying she's not ready, I stopped sending her messages for like 5 weeks up till now, I really like her and she always views my status. so I'm confused should her send her msg now or I should forget her??....... I really like her ooo

PenGriffey:
The problem here is you, not her! So what I'd advic3 you to do which is the best thing to do is to work on yourself! By working on yourself you need to take the pain, and relax to digest errthing on this thread. Trust me, it won't be a waste of time, it's worth it! At yhe end of the day you'd be surprised of who you've finally become.

So concerning her, just forget about her FOR NOW. Then strike back when you know you ready and confident enough and lead like an alpha! You'd even attract other female folks than you expected and you'll be left to make choices!
Thank us later!

Boss am here again buh dis tym it abt a girl dah I already tried dis drill on she still didn't bulge nd I already told her she wud lose me to other babes disturbing me she said okay nd since I did not iniate any chat with her only for her to start sending me hi message like four times now and jus today she sent dis message "answer na... wat ur problem sef den later she sent anoda message " hi love am missing you"as I saw d message I Jus laff scatter.Well as for me am not ready to ansa her yet buh I Jus want to seek my Ogas at d top opinion to make sure I don't over do it

Okay guys welldone

How do I take up a chat when a girl u do not know starts a chat.... would like to take over

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OK...dere is dis girl dat we live in d same hall so I gave her d sendless attitude and I guess it worked cos wen she couldn't take it any longer she asked for mai name and other questions like dat.To cut d long story short I know she is attracted to me buh d issue is we ave not really talked dat much and me am d kind of guy dat prefers to stay indoor 24/7.So dis lack of communication is wah am concerned abt.Wah can I do or shud I collect her number or give her mine

How i wish i saw this thread 5 years ago!!!

I have this lady i met in a taxi on my way to the bank. Cute and Ok. We got talking with Charly Boy's Wuse market attack as the subject...

Incidentally, we were going to the same bank, so we went together did transactions and then strolled of the bank and walked on for a while before entering taxi back. We exchanged numbers and all i did thereafter were skeletal chats. I was not really moved to start up something. Time went on and then an opening came in my office and i helped her in. Then, we started going home together daily to HER HOUSE. She has never been to mine. Relationship emotions started building up within me(Dont know about her though) but noticed when i take calls with females she tends to jokingly complain.

I asked her out, she refused,mentioned we should date she declined but wouldnt just let me go home without her. Once i told her she cant be blocking spaces for other ladies by wanting me around always even during weekends. She got very upset and decided to stay away. I started missing her and had to go plead with her. Before you say jack, we were doing everything again. She Calls to say i abandoned her whenever i stay long without calling, chats, hangout etc. This left me very confused but i decided to stay strong and play along. One day , i heard her calling a guy baby bla bla bla. Without asking, she started to explain that the guy is based abroad and she is just playing along to collect his money. One day she walked up to my desk and saw me posting on nairaland that i need a professional lady for a serious relationship. She got very upset, went home without me and didnt pick my calls all through that evening. Same thing she did all through the weekend. When eventually we met, she said she thought i was a responsible guy and didnt know i do internet dating(she doesnt do nairaland). I tried to convince her it is not what she is thinking but then the damage was done. One thing she has kept doing after this incidence is to go home without me. I also caught her on phone chatting someone she calls "my love".

This weekend i decided to just let her be and then she sent a chat saying "so you decided to bullshit me abi, there is God o!

What can i do with this kinda lady sef

I like her..

Hiploko:
How i wish i saw this thread 5 years ago!!!

I have this lady i met in a taxi on my way to the bank. Cute and Ok. We got talking with Charly Boy's Wuse market attack as the subject...

Incidentally, we were going to the same bank, so we went together did transactions and then strolled of the bank and walked on for a while before entering taxi back. We exchanged numbers and all i did thereafter were skeletal chats. I was not really moved to start up something. Time went on and then an opening came in my office and i helped her in. Then, we started going home together daily to HER HOUSE. She has never been to mine. Relationship emotions started building up within me(Dont know about her though) but noticed when i take calls with females she tends to jokingly complain.

I asked her out, she refused,mentioned we should date she declined but wouldnt just let me go home without her. Once i told her she cant be blocking spaces for other ladies by wanting me around always even during weekends. She got very upset and decided to stay away. I started missing her and had to go plead with her. Before you say jack, we were doing everything again. She Calls to say i abandoned her whenever i stay long without calling, chats, hangout etc. This left me very confused but i decided to stay strong and play along. One day , i heard her calling a guy baby bla bla bla. Without asking, she started to explain that the guy is based abroad and she is just playing along to collect his money. One day she walked up to my desk and saw me posting on nairaland that i need a professional lady for a serious relationship. She got very upset, went home without me and didnt pick my calls all through that evening. Same thing she did all through the weekend. When eventually we met, she said she thought i was a responsible guy and didnt know i do internet dating(she doesnt do nairaland). I tried to convince her it is not what she is thinking but then the damage was done. One thing she has kept doing after this incidence is to go home without me. I also caught her on phone chatting someone she calls "my love".

This weekend i decided to just let her be and then she sent a chat saying "so you decided to bullshit me abi, there is God o!

What can i do with this kinda lady sef

I like her..

Bros,

First things first.. Office runs is not the best.

I think you should let her be and leave her to continue her drama.

Just act as her bobo, and take charge and put your emotions aside..

She is just trying to play with your head and emotions and you allowing her have her way.